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Hello all, I'm a 32 yo never married AA female and I have been dating a 29yo Igbo guy here in the USA for a few months . I work in medical field and he came here two years ago to finish his master in engineering and is now working for a big IT company. They are filing his green card. He is really interested as am I but I'm a bit scared of all these rumors of common green card or visa scams. He seems to do well for himself as he just started working after graduating . He loves to spend time with me and he is now speaking of being ready for marriage and wants me.

What can I do to ensure he isn't using me as a fast track to residency? He stated he doesn't want to have a ceremony in Nigeria which was a red flag for me . But he will pay everything here and he wants me to meet his family . He is also eager to start having children.

I just want to make a good decision and not have my life ruined. He seems too good to be true and I question why he didn't marry before or just go back home..