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Aidejay:
No matter what you do or say,
Don't send her money. Don't even bring it up as a possible option. As you left it there it is okay. If she's really into you "money" won't be an issue. Honestly!

Bro do you advice i continue the daily chats on whatsapp? i try to message her daily even if its a little convo, but with her saying this
''im broke and honestly dont feel like going out'' after asking her when she is free. is that a sign to move on and she isnt interested at all?
i dont get bro, she came over to my place, i didnt touch her, we had a good time, and she even messaged when home she was fine and enjoyed it too. im just confused bro

Aidejay:
Bro that's what SAPA does to everyone, you won't just feel like going anywhere. Especially with someone and end up being a leech and sucking them dry.

The last outing I did about 4 weeks ago, I made sure I had enough money just in case. And guess what...? I still regretted spending all that money. (Cold Stone ice cream is not for "I still dey manage" people oooh!)

And about you texting first, it's a woman thing. They're all like that... As far as she's not a snob and boring continue initiating the Convo but don't come off desperate or jobless.

Bro thank you for this response. She came over to my place on the first date after talking about a week on whatsapp, we chatted four about 3 hours i offered her a drink, by all indications it was fun and pleasant and she texted me when she got back home that she was safe and we continued conversation from there
Only for here to tell me this morning ''that shes broke and honestly doesnt feel like going out'' the exact quote after i asked her when she would be free this week? i then further asked if the main issue was money and she said yes it was.
I said ok no problem let me know when you have chance and your free she replied ''okay fine'' that was the last message. what next do i do or say?

I met a girl on badoo after we matched and liked each other, we quickly exchanged numbers and were talking for about a week solidly on whatsapp, i invited her over to my place and she came we spent about 3 hours gisting and by all impressions it was fun, she messaged me when she got back home that she was safe.

I messaged her today asking if she wanted to hang out again and she said '' im broke and to be honest really dont feel like going out'' i asked her ''is money the main problem?'' she said it is. I then told her '' okay no problem, let me know when your free or have chance'' she replies with ''ok fine''

should i take it as a hint she isnt interested? The first date went so well by all impressions and she had said earlier she was open to hanging out again only for her to say this morning she is broke and doesnt want to hang out. we are both students, but it seems like im always the one messaging on whatsapp to say hi or hello she never on her own messages. advice guys? i like this girl alot but dont want to be played for a fool or simp