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I will start with you and your wife to be, most of what you're feeling towards her now is infatuation and not the real love. So you need to slow down and be sure of what you're doing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you guys are not in love with each other, but most of those feelings at this stage are infatuation. I said this because, infatuation would not allow you to think rightly and see things the way you're suppose to see them.
Marrying a bad woman but with good family is better than marrying a good woman with bad family members. In most cases, family's pressure prevails because she sees them as her own blood. So it's only a few women that can take their stand in situations like this and will not mess up in the end.
Do not promise anyone that you will send their daughters abroad because that may be the beginning of the journey that will ruin the marriage. Women gets abroad and become something else, so in a case where the woman's families are not there to stand by you, man, you're doomed. You may think the woman loves you now, but by the time she changes, you would be surprised. If you guys will have to relocate abroad, it will come naturally without stress and by then you guys would have had more experience in the marriage. Be patient and plan very well since you're still okay for now. You may travel to visit, at least to build travel history, but as per your marriage, please thread with caution. Don't yield to the family's pressure, suspend whatever plans you have for now and let them realize by themselves or else you might regret your move in the end if you keep pushing.

The question here is did you serve God for those years cos you wanted to get rich or for salvation? Seek yea first the kingdom of God and every other thing shall be added unto it. If what you wanted was salvation, riches or not, you wouldn't care. My advice is never stop serving God no matter your situation. Only He knows why He answers some pple quickly and delays in some cases. Even if he doesn't answer, don't stop, but He surely will always come true for us.