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She couldn't cancel her vacation for his funeral, but is willing to be on ground for his Will reading pronto.

Someone you claimed to have been married to for 17 years!

This level of 'anyhowness' is frightening.

Oyibo way of life is on another level. So I'll just...

Kvarachi:
Thank you, we have since settled and she's laughing her head off with most of the comment on here

OP!!!


*This thread just hold me local.
Normal me wey nor dey comment pass five times for one thread. Chai.

Kvarachi:
Sorting of feelings has been done already, just wanted to sample the opinion of people

Sample the opinions of nairalanders?

You go legit enter panic mode.

It's been an enlightening thread no doubt.

Kvarachi:
And lastly, there's nothing to fix cuz there wasn't anything broken in the first place. Both of us are good as I'm talking to you now, thanks anyways for your concerns
Lolz, in the first place I wasn't showing off anything by mentioning of the 2k. I only did that to emphasis that somebody I'm doing such for should have giving me some priority before others

You've learned, she's learned. Everywhere good.

You'd have just sorted your feelings out with her in private.

Nairaland tho.

Kvarachi:
Why is everybody all about the 2k I'm giving her. So I will be giving somebody 2k and I won't have a savings of my own.
Some people spend more than 2k everyday on frivolities, do we advice those ones too to be saving the money.
People spends more than 2k on beer, smoking and what not everyday, should they have been saving that too.
Ok most people that hasn't been giving babes, or drinking or other frivolities. How much have they save?
Enough of all this 2k should have done this or that for me

Are you seriously asking why everyone is about the 2k?

OP you wanted the show. Now you've got it.
Some info should be private. But you threw in everything hoping for your girl to be bashed. Shey you're now satisfied.

After your shakara finish, goan fix what wasn't broken in the first place.

idahme:
Typical women attitude, you are bringing up blackmail because accountability is the biggest thing for most women. What the OP does is for the goodness of his heart madam cherry picker

It's now 'typical women attitude' Na so.
Accountability C'mon.

And we're all clamouring for a better country o.

Whatever happens to first come, first serve

OP and his girlfriend go dey alright.

Kvarachi:
Mehn, I respected everyone's opinion including urs. I only respected her opinion more than urs.

Her opinion is very valid too right.

But calling other people's opinions 'rubbish' is what irked me.

Kvarachi:
She ought to cuz she said the right thing

Okay o.

Make una enjoy.

If you didn't want people to say 'rubbish' about your issues you shouldn't have brought it up here.

Abi you were expecting everyone to pat your back

That'd would have been very lame.

idahme:
You can't approbate and reprobate at the same time

Anyone who thinks is a man's duty to take care of a girlfriend or a wife can't have a contrary opinion of not using corruption to fill up the boyfriend's can with PMS unless you think otherwise then your opinion is valid.

Where I will have a problem with your opinion is when you think you are entitled to a man's money and that it's a man's duty to feed your lazy ass because you are a woman and at the same time you are not entitled to fraudulently give the man PMS because he is not entitled to getting PMS expressly from your station even if he comes last.

What I see most times is that people cherry pick what suits their selfish interest and not for the greater good of all its only in your selfish interest when the man goes the extra miles to give you free money but not in your interest when you go the extra miles to give him speedy PMS. I support people who are consistent irrespective of whose ox is voted and not cherry pickers. I only dissected a better representation of the ladies comment you called rubbish hope same applies to me also?

Comprehension!!!

*The person I quoted up there said "people are talking rubbish" for stating their opinion.

Feeling entitled to a man's money is not part of the deal for me and other people...

But I'm sure what the OP does for this said girl is from the goodness of his heart and wasn't forced to do so.

Using that now as a blackmail in this case is petty 💯.

If he needed that fuel so bad, he should have preinformed her and I'm sure she'd have done the needful. Not trying to make a show out of it.

Mentholated:
FAKE STORY

You created 2 threads the same day. You had a girlfriend in one and a wife in the another.

It's obvious the OP copies these stories from other forums and paste them here for nairalanders...

Duchexx:
I don’t know what y’all are saying but if it’s my man that came to buy fuel or anywhere I have the power (bank, fast food etc) I’d attend to him first!
All these people talking rubbish are saying so because they enjoy talking rubbish.
@poster, you are right to feel however you feel!

All these people talking rubbish

You must be feeling really good now.

calabaman:
The girl is RIGHT.

Let's say no to corruption and entitlement.

Or are you the owner of the filling station

Too much pettiness in one post I tell you.

All this many info you put up here now, is to what end exactly

You want her to recieve free bashing in her workplace just because she's your girlfriend

The young girl is wise.

Give her a break!

Mon Dieu!!!

What's this . This is so painful to look at.

To think that the child is even family. And is tagged a maid. Ah!

Wicked and evil duo.

Schprobs:
U must be a muslim

Please read to understand.

The parboiled rice part is really strange.

Please get help asap. Cos it's an unhealthy habit.

If I were you, I'd tell him what I heard about the discrepancy in the figures quoted.
Hear out his response and make conclusions.

Such crookedness shouldn't be tolerated just because he's a 'pastor'

**If it's cos of pastor alone, most people wouldn't even go to church. Just have a personal relationship with your creator, and you'll know peace.

Leemzyy:
Why are people this stupid?biko kidnap her and cut off her head

Such a crass statement!

Cut off her head cos she killed someone abi

It's called cat fight for a reason.

One of them be like: Imma rip your face off, you 'snitch'.

Mature women like this. God forbid!!!

Looks can really be deceiving for real.

Looking at her, you'd think she's a mummy in the Lord. Chai.

Pray she's caught asap.

This kind of act is unacceptable.

oloriooko:
Poverty breeds wickedness and greed

I agree with you 💯.

Throw in envy into the mix and it's a round figure

My goodness!

If only they knew what he had in stock for them. This is how a lot of people miss their blessings with their anyhow behavior.

Later they'll tell you all na hustle.

Too much rot in the system for real.

NewDea4:
Catholicism is just a hilarious, utterly ridiculous lie😁

*Post says Anglican Seminarian...

Evil man in wolf's clothing. You couldn't control yourself cos a child who trusted you laid on your bed.

Wicked world indeed!

NothingDoMe:
Rear view mirror? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Una nor go kill person for Nairaland

Try to ask questions about what you have no idea of next time.

Check Jumia. Couldn't upload pic.

Bankowner:
CCTV footage you say?
This is nothing but a skit far as I am concerned.
I won't waste time and data seeing the video.

The CCTV must have been mounted on the rearview mirror going with the footage.

Thank God for escape.

Stayingalive:
Even you sef nor dey there

Ehen na!

That's why I'm taking the post with a pinch of salt.

Stayingalive:
except you didn’t read the post. Speak all the trash you want. That she moved and left because the said guy forgot this wallet is a huge red flag.

Oga were you there?

The man's post reeks of chauvinism.

Make una enjoy. Na una way.

Tightpussy2024:
Sis,but come to think of it,anyone that can react that way just because of FOOD...like,not car or house,or job,but mere food, it's a red flag

I , myself,will smile,pay the bill . Wait for him to send the money. If he doesn't,I block his ancestor. It's ways better than causing a scene and disgracing oneself. Las las,it will not pass $100

I get you. I'm not one to feel entitled to a man's money either. God forbid.

But I'm on a hundred the scenerio played out differently.

Having a personal relationship with your maker is the surest o.

Cos some of these 'MOG' can lead you straight to a different location other than God's intended location.

You test someone and you expect them to react in a way that suits your linear thinking mind.

See how he's gloating. Immature sturvs.

It's well o. Things people do cos of poverty.

Hope they got the help they sought from her.

Lovely pants there Regina.