cruchenuti:


I fear that after you leave him to marry someone else. You guys will still find a way to always be intimate or even have sex even after Marriage.

to be honest I worry about the same thing we have spent almost everyday together having to end everything abruptly will take a lot of healing but it is all for the best...

dingbang:
good.... So move on .enter dating and hook up section in nairaland, hook up with new people. You will be glad you did.

thank you for the advice

dingbang:
visit a hospital where sickle cell patients are admitted and you will know how to start again..... I am just being mean because if you end up giving birth to an SS, you will hate yourself...


So avoid that now and let go... You are still young, aren't you?

yes o I'm only 25 but yeah I know the right thing to do and I don't want sick children.. Its just life, I know the relationship will have to end...

dingbang:
You know the right thing to do.. Seeking for empathy won't do you any good

@dingbang I know but it is not as easy as I thought, I don't know how I will start again....

Hi all!

I have been dating my man for at least 2 years now, when we started getting to know each other he talked casually about ex's. He mentioned how he was deeply in love with his ex and when he was ready to propose they went to check their genotype and it turned out that they were both AS & AS. This caused issues for them and the relationship had to end.

My biggest worry is that I unfortunately am an AS and I know how much heartbreak it will cause for both of us and and our families, I really don't know what to do, I've asked friends, I've prayed but I don't know how to tell him because he's finishing meds school and talking of settling down already. I am completely distraught and confused...

Please can you all give some advice, encouragement or even personal experience on how to handle this situation really appreciate!

Hi all!

I have been dating my man for at least 2 years now, when we started getting to know each other he talked casually about ex's. He mentioned how he was deeply in love with his ex and when he was ready to propose they went to check their genotype and it turned out that they were both AS & AS. This caused issues for them and the relationship had to end.

My biggest worry is that I unfortunately am an AS and I know how much heartbreak it will cause for both of us and and our families, I really don't know what to do, I've asked friends, I've prayed but I don't know how to tell him because he's finishing meds school and talking of settling down already. I am completely distraught and confused...

Please can you all give some advice, encouragement or even personal experience on how to handle this situation really appreciate!

Maxi112:
i barely indulge ladies on this platform however, talking about open conversation, don't you think we are derailing this thread or do you want to talk about my preferences?

if you say so

Umuchoke:
What if I tell you I've f98ked several Yoruba girls, especially from Ondo, by offering them ordinary cold pure water? You might think I'm lying or trying to get even but it's true. There was a day I f98ked two friends, Bisi and Busayo, on the same bed when I went on a business trip to Ore. Bisi was too shy to let me see her boobs (maybe it's her stretch marks she was protecting) but Busayo was wild and daring. It was a nasty session of fuckmatics because my hotel room smelled so bad hours after they left and I fell sick.

@Umuchoke haba!!!!! LWKMD

Maxi112:
you don't wanna hear that you asked, do you?

@Maxi112 i thought this was an open discussion.. where are you from? which tribes don't you like and why? shikena...

Maxi112:
you just did.


they're nice and hardworking people all the same.


for me, I have few tribes I can't marry from though.

@Mazi112 which ones and why if i may ask

Maxi112:
I'm not from the east but there's no difference between ebonyi man and Hausa man.

they have few things in common apart from their religion.


emboldened.... well I haven't seen one.

@Maxi112 oh really?? I never heard...

Afam4eva:

Don't mind him. Ebonyi people are probably the most down to earth and humble Igbos that you'll ever meet.

@Afam4eva totally agree although the mother wasn't so sure in the beginning because of the whole "if you're from north you're Muslim or boko haram" idea... she and the rest of the immediate family are quite supportive even though some of my friends were trying to discourage me saying igbo's will rather accept yoruba and other tribes rather than north (which i believe is true to some extent) but i guess times have changed??

My family have never had issue with any tribe, we have always been brought up to accept whoever shows genuine interest...

Afam4eva:

Southern Kaduna people are pretty much like southerners in my opinion.

@Afam4eva there are a lot of igbos where in southern kaduna and Jos too. My parents grew up with a handful who could speak fluent hausa, they are still good friends. There are still a few Igbos in KD and Jos, I'm not sure about other northern states sha...

Maxi112:
sorry to disappoint you, between an Hausa and Ebonyi man are identical no diff



enjoy!

@Maxi112 please explain? I have a few female family members who have married good and respectful families from the east, Imo state and Anambara state both families especially the husband's family were accepting....

I am from Southern Kaduna and I am dating a wonderful man from Ebonyi state it is very possible