jorion:


Because they can fake it. You don't really have to spend too much to bang a girl, just have 5k to give and fake the rest with beautiful lies.

I know someone that’s very good at this game, and he is always successful with the act.

FireUpNow:
What's in the body of a 70 yrs old woman still bleeping? Disgusting

I know a grandma (in her 80s) that still has a sexual partner. I know because I lived in her late husband’s house, which she occupies. Her sexual partner was maybe a lover in her youth.

Some women can refrain from sex after the death of their husband, but it’s never easy for them, especially the lonely ones. If you see a widow(50-up) for long years without a sexual partner, she’s a rare gem.

I know of a widow with children older than me staying alone, she works. One day, she requested of me to help her with a transfer on her phone, both of us in her house alone. If not for the sake of doing the right things, I know what could have happened that day. She was literally shaky, and there was a sexual tension brewing within the moments, I had to sit on the arm of the sofa to give enough space.

Just the way a man needs copulation in their old age, it’s more intense for a woman too. Its just the cultural restrain on women not to be overt sexually that keeps them in check.

She detest you as a weak man, and she will make you suffer for being a weak man.
You think it’s love, it’s not. She disrespects you all the time, and you still go back to ask her in a beautiful voice why she is acting like that towards you, then you forgive and tell her calmly to forget about the issue. Lol, the end of such men is full of guilt. And you will ultimately suffer for your emotional weakness.

Lesson: don’t tolerate her disrespect in any way.

Women are cunning in act. You may not notice it is being disrespectful, but it gets disastrous over time. So, never tolerate her little lies of being busy and unable to text you “how is your day going”, or her plan of visiting a place and you are not aware she is already on the road.
These are the subtle signals of being disrespectful.

Says a girl…


Her crys are lies…

Marriage will not bring a lasting solution to your problems, don’t mind all those telling you to get married. The truth is, you’re battling an addiction of sexual lust with females. You get turned on by what you see mostly on the internet (which I also see), and it affects a majority of guys, not me though.

I can’t tell you to do this or that as a solution, it may not work for you. Certainly, the first thing to do in solving a problem is to define the problem. Which you have defined that you spend a lot on escorts, and you want to stop. A determined mind will stop that rubbish, but I doubt if it will be easy or happen quickly, because I realize you are far deep in the ocean of debauchery.

Yes, you can quit. It’s all in the mind.

Warning, that your Nigerian girlfriend may be your worst nightmare, when you later discover she’s not an angel, you supposedly know. I doubt it 99.9%. You go dey trust all these Nigerian gurls. To crown it all, a long distance relationship from Canada to Nigeria. LWKMD, toto wey dem dey service steady.

Redefine your life and purpose if you want greatness. Better still, try to get a girlfriend within that county if you know sex is so important to you.

A girl uploaded her status and he replied.

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Don’t be a simp in this life, it is worthless, even gurls hate it, they hate u for it.

Women are full of emotional baggage, these I’ve seen from experiences and, if you has a man is not emotionally firm, then issues will arise.

The both of you’re immature and shouldn’t be in this marriage. Because you’ve always insulted each other since the initial stage of the relationship.

On the one hand, she doesn’t revere you as a man, has emotional weakness (low self-esteem), and can easily be lured sexually, then blame it on her weaknesses. On the other hand, the blame is on you because, you don’t assert authority as a man. God forbid bad thing, I know my girlfriend slept overnight at another guy’s place. Tufiakwa.

I once had a girl with similar character with your wife. I won’t go into details, but certainly they’re all have emotional issues, like something is lacking from their upbringing that makes them compel you to do things for them, a kind of narcissistic behavior. It may be daddy issues.

Leave her alone, you’re not the savior of this life. It’s even better to quit at this early stage, seeing this signs because, it will definitely become worse.
As you said, she’s switched character to become her real self. And that is her true self, which can never change.

Boss, a girl’s character trumps any other thing, including shape and beauty. Find peace of mind.

Things dey happen oo

Raw potatoes are now costly to buy, plus oil and other factors for cooking; it becomes harsh and expensive, doing a cheap trade in the present Nigeria economy.


Nigeria is laughable, when you think of things that affect the survival of the common man on the street: food, clothing, drugs, basic commodities like your toothpaste, bathing soap, condiments, including the value of money, have become unstable, compared to the actual prices they used to be, a decade ago. For a country with rich resources and population, we are far beneath our outcry on demands from the government.

But we are still in need of basic life amenities, at the top of the list is food—legumes, grains, cereals, fruits, vegetables, oil and pepper are constantly increasing prices. Let me paint a candid picture of my narrative about Nigerians' years of privation. Because, in another five-nine years, the younger generations will lament the same hardship.

Years ago—about 11 years, common to all for a refreshment food is ‘potatoes’; fried potatoes, bean cake(akara) with bread, fried yam, fried plantain, and water yam fritters(ojojo) all together belong to the same class of survival food for Nigerians. Life was simpler, we weren’t living in affluence, but not hungry.
The irony is, our present reality is in shambles, an average Nigerian earns below the standard of living, (forget statistics and deal with the realities of struggling families in your streets) finding survival on their own, still the government has remained a pain in the arse.

Still emphasizing on ‘potatoes’, I love fried potatoes with stew, prepared by street vendors, especially when it is hot and tasty. This roadside fries, so cheap to buy, that me and many others eat for refreshment to our fill, even purchased by some families to serve for supper, have gone extinct on our streets. The sad truth is food mongers in the business find it hard to make sales. Raw potatoes are now costly to buy, plus oil and other factors for cooking; it becomes harsh and expensive, doing a cheap trade in the present Nigeria economy.

This is not a favorite food composition, it is an expository on the sufferings faced by the populace. I can not eat potatoes again, because it is not economical—ordinary potatoes, that people don’t cherish as a staple, have now become a substitute for costly yams; yet not affordable. How hard can it be?

Let’s understand this grief from the standpoint of an average man on the street. A father or mother with kids, some people have large families. An acquaintance shared with me some days ago, his sister gave birth to 11 kids—don’t laugh it off.

I acknowledge, the survival of these families is nobody’s responsibility but, the government owes us the responsibility of creating a food surplus, which they have failed to make. The ineptitude of the government then becomes a strain on the citizens' wellbeing. The policy of closing the frontier, in order to help local farmers sell their products is quite understandable however, such a policy requires a pancea to cushion the sufferings that emerges from the limited food production at home. Let’s not even go into the details of food scarcity, due to farmers' insecurity on the farm, the upshot of an increase in food crops in our market.


When will the Nigeria ‘e go better’ come alive? Will it materialize or not? These are a series of questions people are gripping. Even the Isrealites do not suffer these long years of hardship before their God harkens to their cry from the wilderness; it’s not funny. I can continue to lament in writing—other writers have done the same, what has changed, will the economic conditions ever change for the better?
The truth is the Nigerian leaders are not in the service of the masses, nobody can tell me otherwise.

Let me drop this here

Rema is on drugs

His name (Ashogbon) in Yoruba refers to sense. So don’t blame his idea. A person’s name is significant to their destiny in life

owem19:
War against yahoo boys

OLODO

FRANCISTOWN:

Exactly! But I do believe in the next life thing.

You don’t have to believe, because you will not know that it’s happening . Only an highly spiritual person can be able to connect the dots, because they have a clairvoyance.

One thing I am certain of and I’ve experienced is that, events are linked in life. Things do not just happen, they are made/caused to happen for a reason. I know this for sure.

A man can be good in his doings and eventually experience bad fate in life, also the same applies to a bad person. In the same vein, both good and bad person may reap what they have sown. Never forget life is a mystery, do yourself good not to be disturbed by its depth.
Good things happen to bad people, bad things happen to good people. Know this and have peace. Nobody has it all.

Lastly, Karma is not asleep ooo, it will happen either now or your next life. Life is just too spiritual to say your deeds will be forgotten.

You just hit d nail bro

Meanwhile, another 15 year old girl in my area already knows all about how to handle a man.
Same age, different orientation, community background and future ambitions.

Yeah, notcoin

2RightHands1Coc:
Was a skeptic too, some people made some coins tho

It’s too good to be true.

So Nigerians are still this gullible, gosh .

They are expecting free money. So many people still mumu for Nigeria like this

Lol 😂.

I’m listening to a radio convo right now, and they discussed that dj Cuppy got baptized recently, she rededicated her life .
That gurl eyes don see shege pro max. The truth is she’s aging and not happy, she needs a man, but sadly she has enjoyed her early years with men that DGAF.

You don’t want to know how it feels like having your younger sis get married and you still remain unmarried. So sad… I wish her well though.

Red pill 💊 is life.
When the pill sets you free, you are free indeed from the shackles of the conventional beliefs in love.
Do you truly want to know a woman, or how to become a complete man? You are in the right place.
Go through the teachings of the red pill pioneers here on Nairaland and apply it to your dealings with a woman. No matter how beautiful she is or her standard in the society. She will bend and succumb to your rules, it is evident.

Women matter no hard, na u be ozuoo.

But is that a detour, as used in this context?

Let her do the loving, it’s always sweet like that. Just enjoy it while it last

ayjay45:
me that's advising her sef. I'm actually low-key depressed, but we ve got to stay strong.

LIFE IS HARD

Oro mii mafoo, we gather dey. Life no serious, na this country na him no too favour the majority. Na only few people get the real money for Nigeria, the remaining na on God we dey.

ayjay45:
bro I don't believe the universe has a plan for everyone sha.

Life can be brutally cruel sometimes

That’s why it’s a plan. Drake sang God’s plan

Truly, life is cruel, but you need to understand where you are, as it will affect the decisions you make here.
Your mindset is an habitual or characteristic mental attitude that determines how you will interpret and respond to situations (google). Let me give you a scenario.

Two days ago, I spent a lot on transport to get to the bank to collect an info on my BVN, while returning from the bank I wanted to give the driver tfare but brought out a paper, due to the stress on the queue I went through at the bank, mistakenly or absent minded I threw that paper that contains the info given to me at the bank away, which I need for an important job application. I thought it was just an ordinary paper in my pocket. It was when I got home that I need to use that info online, that I realized my action.

Many Nigerians will term this event as absurd. I felt bad too, but my mindset is different, I took it in good fate, and went back the next day again, spending lots of money, especially at this time when there is an increase in fuel price.
All I’m saying is, it’s not everything that’s working against you, some things are plans that will eventually work in your favor. It’s your mind that can make this distinction.

I remembered my comment on one of your posts on facial beauty. I don’t know other areas of your life that you find hard to cope with, but I believe that the universe has a purpose for everyone.

Not a staunch believer but I can recall this bible verse.

Jeremiah 1:5

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

It’s true, the creator of this universe knew you from the onset, I can see this manifest in my own life.

My advice is for you to find a purpose in life, not until then life becomes meaningful. You may want to say finances are not easy, everyone is affected by that in Nigeria, so live within your income. Because you don’t have enough today, doesn’t mean life will not be pleasant in future years, but make sure you are also doing smth.

So what other areas makes you regret being alive?

Your facial beauty as a girl? I have had close relations with girls that are not very attractive, and I understand how they feel about it. What is most important is your perception of who you are, is it how you see yourself or how people see you? The question is how do you see yourself?
There is a radio OAP I cherish so much. She formerly works with Cool fm, now with Nigerian info, yes Joyce.
Just look at the beauty in her, and tell me she is not beautiful.

I bet it with you, if you work on yourself in just 3 years from now. You will be the most happiest person on earth. Look at those areas of your life that are in defect, work on it. Is it by improving your skills, knowledge, finances.

So true, life is more easier for pretty girls relative to the ugly ones.

Today in church, I sat very close to a girl but didn’t pay any attention because na different matter carry me come church. She wanted my attention (maybe because I look smart, just a typical me), during the offering period she called my attention that I didn’t have the offering envelope with me, I replied no problem I’ll get it, then she insisted she will go to the usher’s stand to help me collect it, I replied her not to disturb herself, then I later went to collect the envelope myself.
I came back and told her thank you, then looked at her face closely. She’s just an average girl 4/10

I know within me if she was beautiful 7/10. I go follow up, because she don start the vibe already; collect her contact. But nah I wasn’t just feeling it, so I turned it down.
After sharing the grace at the end of the service, we both picked our bible, she was acting a way expecting me to strike a convo, but nah. I saw the awkwardness.

I go try my best born beautiful kids sha ooo. It’s a key factor in life, i.e a beautiful woman.

I don’t believe I’ll be doing this here, but this is Nigeria.
I will so much appreciate a job placement in a good field. I’m a fresh Sociology graduate with hands-on skills that can fit demanding roles, be it sales rep, marketing, accounting, communication expert, research and data analysis.
I sabi Excel, google sheets abeg help a loyal boy ooo Within Lagos and Ogun I go do

bakrepase@gmail.com

Lol. Isn’t a data suppose to equal 100%

For the sake of clarity, these are white Belgian Malinois, they are rare breed. It may be quite different from the internet description of a Belgian, but a thorough review will affirm the breed.
You agree to it or not, they are called Belgian Malinois, and it’s a rare breed. You will rarely see their type around.

A picture of the mother

These Belgian Malinois are rare breed puppies.