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It’s indeed realties of life. Your post comes with lot of awakening in knowledge, needed to read right now.

I have been a good person, playful and being my best self to people. In contrast, reality played me, I was able to understand not everyone has your best interest at heart. Even when you try to relax your boundaries, humans will trespass and make you question your own sanity.

It’s not you, it’s them that needs rehabilitation of behaviors.
Now it’s left for you to protect yourself or get burnt by their untoward actions.

This is so me these days.
I see them here around Ikeja a lot, so many beauties, but I don’t allow myself to make a move unless her green light says oya come.

Just yesterday, I saw one waiting to collect her food, maybe sharwarma done at road side. We observe each other, but my brain no activate GO.
Naso I waka pass 🚶‍♂️

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Well done sir, how is your mental health?

You’re a good man, and only doing what a good would do. However, the reality is the world doesn’t reward your good deeds sometimes. Its’t designed for you to tolerate others excesses. It’s designed for you to stand for yourself and take actions that will be considered to favor your existence. That’s life, your mistakes will constantly be punished, irrespective of who is making or influencing that mistake.

Therefore, take matters into your own hand. There is a reason you’re the leader of the house, the leader has the final assent in a contract, even though there are parties.

You’ve not shown signs of good leadership, frankly speaking sir. She is only a woman, they’re not meant to be in that leadership role, because it takes critical thinking 🤔, based on existing evidence.

Moving on sir, start having the final say in your house, she’s cost you a lot already, so sad to read about all you’ve sacrificed, but it doesn’t seem like an effort to her myopic mind. She will do worst, if you continue to adhere to her whims.

Stand on your NO. Let your YES be resounding.

TheStoriesOfMan:
I'm suspecting you.

You like big things.

Nah that’s not me. But big things in the right places, these days I am attracted to the jugs

I have great taste for a petite lady. Specially tall with straight legs, and she realizes she has this figure and knows how to move the tiny waist and carry the legs I go just dey appreciate God’s work

Smh If u zuuor for woman your eyes will see shege in this life, she may even give you a bastard.
One thing stands, no matter how beautiful or posh you see her, you are meant to dominate her by your moves and she will bow. Your first, few impressions matters to her a lot, to know if you are the kind of man she can relax are rules for you to lead her.

A girl is getting married this coming Saturday, and I have first-hand info of when she went to cheat in a far distance while still in the relationship with her boyfriend to be husband.

Vet that gender and they will relax, in lieu relax and they will vet you and show you shege.

I didn’t get any center to choose from, is the TVET program truly working?

Sex is powerful, it is the act that conceive life. I often wonder how powerful it is to birth a child through the process, and it is said that the child carries glory to the earth.

I was telling a friend the other day that the desire for it is natural. It’s the beginning of our existence and it drives our existence.
As a man it takes discipline to be focused, because even if you desire not to fornicate, factors around you may not give you the choice to stay true to that decision (for long).
I have seen many cases, so I definitely have an ample experience of this situation.

If I may ask, if you choose not to engage in promiscuity, it is to what end?

Possibly it’s because you can’t afford the lifestyle or probably you are pious.

If you can’t afford it, well you may convince yourself that you are living right as a man. Nah, you are only living within your income. A real man wants an harem of women, that’s our true nature, but we try to tame the act.

If you are pious, well your religion is only a belief which is based on relativism. What your religion criticizes, may not be absolutely bad in another religion.

After all said and done, it is advisable to tame sexual desires, don’t be like Solomon or for the women Cleopatra . As too much of everything is a disaster.

The application offer seems interesting, but the process is cumbersome.

Has anyone successfully completed the application or interested in applying and taking the steps to apply?
Please quote this comment, I am so much interested in the application.

I noticed nairaland moderators have been trying to act woke lately by pushing threads that lack context to the front page. This video has been on the internet for more than a year if I can remember. Smh
Who is this moderator? Because this no longer funny

Ourtruth247:
Slaves can't manifest their thoughts

Everything I have explained doesn't matter if you are still a slave

What is a slave? A slave is a soul who believes other souls are superior and he has to worship and serve them to get what he wants

If you believe in the supremacy of a god, you are a slave because you have given your power away to that being

The first step towards spiritual enlightenment is to reject the supremacy of all gods. You have to reject Yahweh or Allah or Sango or Amadioha or whatever deity that claims to be your god

You are actually stronger than them because they are stuck in the 4th dimension, while you have the innate ability to transcend into higher dimensions

You are basically a guy with an AK47, but because you don't know you have an AK47, people with pistols manipulate you into needing their help in exchange for servitude

This is the truth, either you believe it or not.
This is the life I live, I don’t believe in the superiority of any God over me.
Have you ever had that eerie feeling of realizing “you’re a being .“ Until then you won’t understand perfectly the message he’s passing. You need to come to that realization.

You are a God. But you don’t realize it, so sad 😞.

And concerning manifestation, the success of your manifestation lies within you even after you have practiced everything he said.
It has worked for me, that’s why I can’t debunk all he said.

If it doesn’t work for you, the answer is simple. It’s the same reason in a church people pay their tithes and expect more, and only a few truly gets multiplied. Just an analogy, because I don’t regard tithing, it’s a scam.

RSS. I have two close friends that attended this sec., school. It’s indeed a great school. They have old students in great places.

NYSC for girls is a place to explore, she will meet many toasters. She will make moves to cheat, except it doesn’t eventually work out.

I think cheating for girls can be noticed a mile away, they may seem to know how to cover their tracks, but as a man that knows his babe intimately, you will be able to discern there's something wrong. That changes in pattern will be there, it’s left for you to make your judgement.

Still, not all girls are indecent. But “once a cheat, always a cheat “ may be true in the case of NYSC.

Just play your own part bros, don’t over stress yourself when it comes to giving, and giving a F about what she does. That way, you’ll win at the end of day.

Bros no be lie. I don run am for gurl before, and this same girl I confirmed she has done it for another guy. Sometimes I sit to wonder this is a crazy matrix of female sexuality.
I chill at a chemist shop later in the evening, I asked the small Doc there a confidential question to understand the female gender, I asked him what do young girls buy the most, he said it’s PT. Lol 😂

Especially this generation of girls, they are on a knacking spree. If you don dey knack without protection, you go comot belle, wahlaii.
Young gurls dey knack ooo. In Mavo’s voice “E reach my turn you kon dey form repentance” lol 😂

REAL LIFE mehn… The redpill has never been a lie.
I am grateful to be part of this movement.
If you don’t understand women you will suffer, lol.😂

Please, let’s keep this page alive for posterity sake. I believe only nairaland has got a long thread of dosage of red pills and real life tales to back up the stories. So don’t mind some douchebag that comes here to spit rubbish and derail the thread with their myopic views.

I check up here sometimes, take the dose and continue to apply them in life endeavors.

Funnily enough, women still win by settling down with a man at the end of their youthful exuberance. It’s just a win-win world for them, maybe, maybe not.

And she even smiled for the camera 🎥

A show of…

All the boarding students I met at uni and have now become matured are lazy people. There ain’t just put together. This is not saying all boarding school students are unkempt or lazy, rather 6/10 boarding products fall in this category.
The day students I know take care of their selves better.

I can’t take my wards to boarding, I prefer day school.

The virginity is an illusion. Many circumstances will happen in life that may cause you not to end up with your virgin girlfriend.

I know of a virgin gurl that I can never wish to get married too lol, life is that complicated. Her character is what I can’t manage.

Also, I know a dis-flowered gurl, who is classy and genuine, she ticks the virtue that a man desires in a woman. Maturity will teach you that it’s not the virginity.
Her body counts matter, so look out for these factors of consideration before choosing a non virgin virtuous gurl.

I enjoyed every bit of this writing, it’s a rare discussion on what love has become in this day and age.

Earlier this year in a church service I attended, it was a Sunday service for the youths (I mean people within marriageable age of 25 and above), they were begging for questions that needed answers. “What is the right way to go about seeking love in this dispensation?” Lol 😂

I will be critical in my statements, we can agree that the year 2018-2024, not precisely. Changed the dating scene, when girls up their standards to dating guys with enough money. Although not every girl was affected by the plague, quite a number shamed guys not doing well enough and wanted love. Yeah, internet fraud funded the lifestyle for the guys and of course even girls from good homes had no choice than to succumb, lol. It’s a plague na, even if he no reach your side, you go also feel the heat. The demand for material things skyrocketed; gurls whored.

At the moment there is a respite from the above situation, if you look around, you will see pretty girls looking for true love once again, but the damage has been done.
I met one such example, 9/10 pretty face, brought up from a good home. We connected immediately, I gave her the uptown boy vibe, she showed a classy bad girl vibe, lol.
I needed love, but I am also from the streets, I understand the streets. So I continued vetting her, it happened she had once dated a yahoo boi over two years ago when she was in school that her heart still belongs to.
In a nutshell, I can’t have a thing to do with her type of girl, even though I like her vibe, because her eyes don tear, the damage has been done. But I still wan knack, lol 😂. The girl fine die.

As a girl, it pays to remain a virgin, a guy can only confuse you to have sex. If you do not give in he will respect you for that decision. But in most cases girls don’t keep virginity till marriage, they get confused at some point because in life nothing is guaranteed still.
Therefore, let your decisions be led/guided by the true giver of light.

As a deflowered girl, your chances of being with a sincere guy and in a relationship that ends in marriage stems from your character and sincerity in all ramifications.
Aside that, I can say it boldly that the dating pool is bastardized; it’s a dog eat dog.

Interesting topic for adults to discuss, not the neonate replies above 👆
1. 2023 was the last time, I’m celibate. When I was sexually active, sex happens 3 times a week at most, more than 2 rounds for the session.
2. Favorite position is cow girl, it makes me last, then I switch to other styles not to make it boring.
3. Sex is sweet unprotected
4. I don’t do multiple partners
5. Only in a relationship, sex is sweet when you share emotions.
6. Withdrawal game is up to par, other times we use pills after sex to be safe.
7. She’s had abortion with me once 🙃
8. No sex life at the moment. But an interesting thing is she was a sex freak and knows how to do it well.

What do u mean by u don’t have or don’t know how to make friends?

The family is the first and major agent of socialization . Other agents are the church or mosque, school, peer groups and so on. Is it that u didn’t socialize in all these places?

I understand that people are raised or developed differently. But these agents of socialization have been set up to affect your life in certain stages of life.
Look forward to finding solutions in one of them depending on the stage of life u find yourself.

The funny part is the guy said his babe has fish brain . Not knowing he himself has Kpomo brain

What happened to Nairaland literature section of 2014-2019. Nairaland got great writers in those years.

Pelumi and Uzorstech, I mistakenly canceled your message request on my timeline, pls resend.

I am at the stage of taking the English test, it will last for 30 minutes.
Anyone with an info on how simple or tough is the test?

Simping is a disease
There are some things you see some guys do, and you just shake your head. I pray their eyes open and see the light. It hurts me to see a king act in servitude.

You are suppose to demand from her, not the other way around.

Hmmmm…
She was never into you as a prospective lover. Anybody can possibly be financially broke at anytime. It shows she didn’t see any quality more to you, than a meagre request of data at the start of a relationship. Then she concluded you can’t afford it, and ended the relationship.

There are more qualities to a man than what he can provide financially at the moment. She never saw any quality.

Is this corn cob business still in operation?
I’m interested in supplying.

Isrealdmw is an unrepentant simp

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