As much as uv gone through several bad experience regarding the treatment of chicks. Being a good guy has nothing really to do with ur present predicament, its simpy attitude. Being a good guy is a thing of the mind, and must not be shown often. what works on gurls is simply reverse psycology. u dont have to change ur whole personality because u want a rel to last longer, that act shows that u are the weaker vesslle. of course dig bad guys, but in actual sense they dont dig bad guys but a guy with a bad attitude. the code is this: never show 100% emotion, keep 60% to ur self and 40% for her. second code, once in awhile let her think that she is not the only one in the picture, that stares jealousy. and a jealous gurl is a potential sucker for luv. code three, dont always allow the argument go her way, u are not gaining her luv admiting to every thing she says, it makes u the dominating party, gurls want someone who can dominate them. cos they are like machines gone GAGA. basically work with this, u musnt change for any body, u r stronger than that, YOU DIG