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Autos / Sharp And Fully Equipped Camry 2009 1.850 by salemdv(m): 2:15pm On Feb 22, 2018
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Sports / Re: UCL: CHELSEA vs BARCELONA. What Are Your Predictions? by salemdv(m): 8:43pm On Feb 20, 2018
conte is losing this match already. without a pin point striker i don't see Chelsea getting anything from this game. where is morata or giroud? gone are the days of drogba and torrres
Islam for Muslims / 100 Direct Instructions By Allah In The Quran For Mankind by salemdv(m): 8:40am On Feb 11, 2018
Allah SWT has directly given us 100 instructions through Al Quran :
1. Do not be rude in speech (3:159)
2. Restrain Anger (3:134)
3. Be good to others (4:36)
4. Do not be arrogant (7:13)
5. Forgive others for their mistakes (7:199)
6. Speak to people mildly (20:44)
7. Lower your voice (31:19)
8. Do not ridicule others (49:11)
9. Be dutiful to parents(17:23)
10. Do not say a word of disrespect to parents (17:23)
11. Do not enter parents’ private room without asking permission (24:58)
12. Write down the debt (2:282)
13. Do not follow anyone blindly (2:170)
14. Grant more time to repay if the debtor is in hard time (2:280)
15. Don’t consume interest (2:275)
16. Do not engage in bribery (2:188)
17. Do not break the promise (2:177)
18. Keep the trust (2:283)
19. Do not mix the truth with falsehood (2:42)
20. Judge with justice between people (4:58)
21. Stand out firmly for justice (4:135)
22. Wealth of the dead should be distributed among his family members (4:7)
23. Women also have the right for inheritance (4:7)
24. Do not devour the property of orphans (4:10)
25. Protect orphans (2:220)
26. Do not consume one another’s wealth unjustly (4:29)
27. Try for settlement between people (49:9)
28. Avoid suspicion (49:12)
29. Do not spy and backbite (2:283)
30. Do not spy or backbite (49:12)
31. Spend wealth in charity (57:7)
32. Encourage feeding poor (107:3)
33. Help those in need by finding them (2:273)
34. Do not spend money extravagantly (17:29)
35. Do not invalidate charity with reminders (2:264)
36. Honor guests (51:26)
37. Order righteousness to people only after practicing it yourself(2:44)
38. Do not commit abuse on the earth (2:60)
39. Do not prevent people from mosques (2:114)
40. Fight only with those who fight you (2:190)
41. Keep the etiquettes of war (2:191)
42. Do not turn back in battle (8:15)
43. No compulsion in religion (2:256)
44. Believe in all prophets (2:285)
45. Do not have sexual intercourse during menstrual period (2:222)
46. Breast feed your children for two complete years (2:233)
47. Do not even approach unlawful sexual intercourse (17:32)
48. Choose rulers by their merit (2:247)
49. Do not burden a person beyond his scope (2:286)
50. Do not become divided (3:103)
51. Think deeply about the wonders and creation of this universe (3:191)
52. Men and Women have equal rewards for their deeds (3:195)
53. Do not marry those in your blood relation (4:23)
54. Family should be led by men (4:34)
55. Do not be miserly (4:37)
56. Do not keep envy (4:54)
57. Do not kill each other (4:92)
58. Do not be an advocate for deceit (4:105)
59. Do not cooperate in sin and aggression (5:2)
60. Cooperate in righteousness (5:2)
61. ’Having majority’ is not a criterion of truth (6:116)
62. Be just (5:cool
63. Punish for crimes in an exemplary way (5:38)
64. Strive against sinful and unlawful acts (5:63)
65. Dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine are prohibited (5:3)
66. Avoid intoxicants and alcohol (5:90)
67. Do not gamble (5:90)
68. Do not insult others’ deities (6:108)
69. Don’t reduce weight or measure to cheat people (6:152)
70. Eat and Drink, But Be Not Excessive (7:31)
71. Wear good cloths during prayer times (7:31)
72. protect and help those who seek protection (9:6)
73. Keep Purity (9:108)
74. Never give up hope of Allah’s Mercy (12:87)
75. Allah will forgive those who have done wrong out of ignorance (16:119)
76. Invitation to God should be with wisdom and good instruction (16:125)
77. No one will bear others’ sins (17:15)
78. Do not kill your children for fear of poverty (17:31)
79. Do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge (17:36)
80. Keep aloof from what is vain (23:3)
81. Do not enter others’ houses without seeking permission (24:27)
82. Allah will provide security for those who believe only in Allah (24:55)
83. Walk on earth in humility (25:63)
84. Do not neglect your portion of this world (28:77)
85. Invoke not any other god along with Allah (28:88)
86. Do not engage in homosexuality (29:29)
87. Enjoin right, forbid wrong (31:17)
88. Do not walk in insolence through the earth (31:18)
89. Women should not display their finery (33:33)
90. Allah forgives all sins (39:53)
91. Do not despair of the mercy of Allah (39:53)
92. Repel evil by good (41:34)
93. Decide on affairs by consultation (42:38)
94. Most noble of you is the most righteous (49:13)
95. No Monasticism in religion (57:27)
96. Those who have knowledge will be given a higher degree by Allah (58:11)
97. Treat non-Muslims in a kind and fair manner (60:cool
98. Save yourself from covetousness (64:16)
99. Seek forgiveness of Allah. He is Forgiving and Merciful (73:20)
100. Do not repel one who asks (93:10)

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Travel / Re: Lagos City Marathon 2018: LASTMA Announces Traffic Diversion by salemdv(m): 8:12pm On Feb 07, 2018
no movement on Saturday b dat

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Family / How A Civil Engineer Discover He Is Not The Owner Of His Four Kids by salemdv(m): 8:43am On Feb 04, 2018
How l found out I’m not the the father of my 4 children after 22 years of marriage

He’s a 52 year old civil engineer. And his wife, a pharmacist, 50, both raised four children – 21, 19, 16 and 13.

The couple met in 1993, and married in 1995. And raised their four children to the best of their abilities with all the resources at their disposal… Until October 2017.

That’s when he discovered that all four are not his biological children! After DNA tests at HumGene Ltd in Lagos proved that he’s not in anyway related to the children that meant the world to him.

Here’s the distraught father’s narration of how his world collapsed…

This is my story:

On the 20th of September 2017, my 3rd child who happens to be a female was critically ill in the hospital and the doctor informed us that she needs an urgent blood transfusion.

My wife and I were in the hospital and we both decided to have our blood tested in other to know who has the same blood group with our daughter. But to our surprise when the result came out, we were informed that none of us has the same blood group with our daughter. We had to find a way out as soon as possible.

Fortunately for us, our first son came and he happened to be a match. I was innocent about the whole thing because I didn’t know the implication of a child not matching either of the parent’s blood group. After the whole thing was taken care of, the doctor called me in privately to ask if I was the real father of my own daughter. At first, I was furious but I calmed down and answered him by saying, “Of course, why would you be asking me such question?”

He went ahead to explain how a child can have either the mother’s or father’s blood group. I was confused and I asked him what he was trying to tell me. And he said it’s either I’m not the father of the child or my wife is not the mother because one of us is supposed to match. But since none is a match there is a problem. I didn’t take it seriously because it was sounding odd to me. When I informed my wife about it, her answer was, “Don’t mind that stupid doctor.”

After 3 days, our daughter was discharged from the hospital. My mind was no longer at rest because I didn’t know what to do. I went back to the doctor and asked for advice on what I should do. He told me that if I wanted to be sure of everything, I should have a paternity test done on my daughter. When he mentioned that to me, I almost collapsed because I know what that means. It was too much for me to handle. But I had to be a man and face whatever is about to happen. I asked him if I should do the same thing for the remaining 3. He told me that will be a good idea if I can afford it.

I decided to take the bold step even though it was not easy. I asked him if he has an idea of where I can carry out the test here in Lagos and the cost. He advised me of 2 places and their prices. Coincidentally, a friend of mine told me that he saw an advert on Facebook about a company known as HumGene Limited, that they offer the cheapest DNA Paternity test in Nigeria. I quickly called the number they put on the advert and I spoke with the CEO of the company just to confirm if it’s actually true. She was nice and helpful and booked an appointment for me to come in with my 4 children in order to take samples from us. I asked her how accurate the result can be, and she said 99.99% if am the father and 0% if am not the father.

When we all arrived at her office, she told me to come in alone. She asked me for my story and if I was ready for this because the result could be either way and especially 4 children involved, the eldest is 21 years old. At first, I was scared and she asked me if I wanted to take time to think about it before making the decision. I was surprised and asked her if she doesn’t want money. She smiled and answered me by saying: “ Sir, it’s not just all about the money, I think of my clients’ psychological well being first.”

I had to be a man and I told her I was ready. I asked her when the result will be ready and she said 5 working days because she is yet to start the analysis in Nigeria. So, for now, she sends the samples to her partner company in Canada.

The waiting period seemed like a hundred years to me. When the results came in, she called me to come in for them. I was scared but at the same time, I wanted to know the truth. When I got to her office, counselling began even before giving me the results, I just knew the worst has happened but I didn’t expect it to be all my children that I have laboured for all my life, giving them the best in life. But unfortunately for me when I opened the results all the 4 children were not mine. 3 sons and 1 daughter. I couldn’t hold it as a man, I broke down in tears.

At first, I taught I was dreaming and waiting to wake up from sleep. The trauma was too much for me.

When I got home, I called my wife to the bedroom immediately and gave her the results. She denied everything. I wanted to believe her to make myself happy. I went ahead to call the CEO of HumGene Limited to ask her if she was sure about the result. I spoke with her with an angry tone, but she was calm and told me she is very sure and referred me to other places I can try doing another test. She informed me that although the prices are higher.

I didn’t know what to do and I went to the doctor that advised me to go for the paternity test. When he saw the results, he told me this can’t be a mistake because DNA does not lie and that the 22 loci region is the highest in the Paternity test. I felt more convinced and went back home. I told my wife that if she does not tell me the truth I will go ahead to our church pastor and show them the result. After hearing me say that, she broke down into tears and confession started.

She had all my supposed to be children for the same man. That was why our son had same blood group with the sister. She has refused to tell me the man and the reason why she did what she did.

We are yet to tell the children and our family members. I’m in great shock and don’t know where to start from.

The CEO of HumGene Limited has been of great help taking her time to counsel me anytime I needed that. I need advise. Please, what should I do? Men out there you need to be vigilant.


Here is a short interview with the civil engineer…

Were you always travelling when the children were conceived?

I was travelling a lot, but the maximum time I spend out of the house is 2 weeks. I do not keep track of when my wife gets pregnant.



Do you know the father of your ‘children’?

No, my wife is holding on to that.



Can you have babies?

I have never doubted that. So, I didn’t have any reason to check if I’m medically okay to have children.But I do not feel any abnormality in himself. I will go for a test to check, but I’m not in the right state of mind now.



What do you do? And your wife?

I’m a Civil Engineer, my wife is a pharmacist.



Why are you still living with her?

I am no longer living in the house now, I’m staying in the hotel.



When were the tests done?

Samples were submitted on the 3rd of October 2017 and results received on the 10th of October 2017.



What did you tell the children when the tests were done?

We told them they were going for a general checkup for genetic testing since HumGene Limited offers the services for that.



What kind of samples were taken?

Buccal Swabs.



Were the children not curious?

Not at all. We didn’t give them any reason to be curious.



Who have you told about the result?

Only my wife and the Doctor that suggested the test.



What’s your wife saying?

Just crying as usual and refused to tell me the reason behind her actions, I moved out the next day because I don’t want to be in the same house with her. The more I see her, the angrier I get, and I don’t want it to lead to something I will regret.



Are you not scared for your life?

I’m not, but this question is now making me think if I should be scared, I can’t think straight right now.



What do you want to do now?

To be honest with you, I’m yet to come to a decision. It’s very difficult. I have worked so hard to give the children the best anyone can imagine giving to their children.



How much did the tests cost?

For myself and one child, it was ₦60,000.00 and an extra child was ₦40,000. In total, I paid ₦180,000 for myself and the 4 children.



Blood group: Husband (A), wife (AB), first child (O+), second (B+), third (O+), fourth (B+)
Education / 20 Useful Websites That Increase One’s Intelligence Level by salemdv(m): 11:11am On Feb 02, 2018
We often waste our free time scrolling through social
networks, chatting with friends, or posting another pic
on Instagram. But here is something more useful.


Famous
Free Rice is a website that donates rice grains for
correctly answered multiple choice questions. The site
offers a wide range of topics to test your knowledge,
from humanities to science. For each correct answer,
Free Rice gives 10 grains of rice. You can play
in a group or individually.

Coursera is an educational platform that offers online
courses from the best universities and organizations
in the world.

Udemy is a market of knowledge. More than 10 million
students use it today, and there are more than
40,000 courses.

Lumosity is a website to enhance your intellectual
abilities. It looks simple, but Lumosity has its own
feature: it creates individual “workouts” for each
person. It’s worth spending some time on it!

Memorado is a free app for smartphones called “Brain
Training Games.” It contains many levels: 600 are
presented as a variety of different puzzles. (iOS /
Android)

Duolingo is a free platform for learning languages and
crowdsourced translations. Users learn new things,
gain knowledge, and later help by translating websites,
articles, and other documents.

Brainexer is a website with a huge amount of tests and
exercises to improve your memory, counting skills,
attention, and intelligence.

Memrise is a unique online platform that uses the
most recent techniques for working with memory
to help people obtain and remember information faster
and more efficiently.

Project Gutenberg is an electronic library that contains
various works of world literature.

Curious is a website created for students, teachers, and
talented people all over the world who want to share
their knowledge and skills and even be rewarded for
their work.

Open Culture is a website of educational and cultural
content that you can easily get and use for free.

CogniFit Brain Fitness is an app where neuroscience
and gamification are gathered for gray matter
workouts. According to the app developers, using the
app for at least 20 minutes 2 or 3 times a week can
really improve your cognitive abilities. (iOS / Android )

Fit Brains Trainer is a language-learning app. This
program requires only a couple of minutes of playing
to strengthen your brain. (iOS / Android )

TED-ED is a website for teachers and students that
contains interesting educational videos under
10 minutes long.

Zooniverse is an online platform that allows you
to participate in multifunctional science projects.
How Stuff Works is a comprehensive website with
a myriad of topics, explaining how things actually
work and turning these topics into understandable
articles.

Unplug the TV is a site offering a pile of entertaining
and educational videos. The simple format invites you
to switch to a new video with one click or search
through the archived data.

This American Life is a radio show discussing
a specific theme each time where ordinary people
share their personal stories and opinions. It can
be listened to via podcast, mobile apps, or, if you
prefer old-fashioned devices, on the radio.

EIDETIC is an app for people whose memory skills are
a bit unsteady. This app’s repetition method will help
you memorize anything. (iOS / Android )

Answerbag.com is a website for those curious users
who “just can’t remember how lifting force works,”
or “I wonder who the best basketball player of the
1980s was.” Answerbag has a very simple format, and
you’ll definitely find the right answer.



source: https://brightside.me/inspiration-tips-and-tricks/20-useful-websites-that-increase-ones-intelligence-level-441460/

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Education / Re: UI 2018/2019 Admission Thread by salemdv(m): 1:11pm On Jan 31, 2018
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Business / Re: Kingsway Ibadan: Before And After Pictures by salemdv(m): 10:18am On Jan 24, 2018
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Crime / Re: I Transferred N280k & N300k From My Mother's Account To Mine Via Phone by salemdv(m): 11:00am On Jan 15, 2018
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Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by salemdv(m): 8:03pm On Jan 13, 2018
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