Jennyclay:
Nice write up.

And again… The economy is damaged beyond redemption . Men should please render help if they’re in a position to help, people are really going through a lot especially, widows, single mothers and single ladies.

May God help us.

IconicR:
Akwa ibomites and sex

Poster stop sexualizing and stop posting her picture here without her permission

Pwettylinda:


Why are corpers appointed during elections??

Mumu

sarkinbauchi:
A corper is a servant
A minister is a servant.

FG can appoint a corper to serve as minister like many corpers engaged to serve as Electoral Polling officers by INEC.

donmik:
WAEC is falling in standard if these are the results we have from the children we teach.
80% pass is not true for the current Nigerian children in sec school.
I can defend this anytime.

The only true body of exam taken in Nigeria now is the Cambridge exam.

Even JAMB too is no longer true with the standard of marking as it was applied in the days of Ahmed Salim

Jennyclay:
Please, let them strike . The hardship in Nigeria is getting worse

Dear men, If you’re in a position to help anyone Biko help them, some people are really going through a lot especially widows, single mothers and single ladies.

May God help us

Jennyclay:
Please continue the marriage for peace to reign.

She lied, yes, and that's not a good thing But who knows whether she was raped and didn't want to count that as having sex , you know you men are beast . She must feel horrible to have her first sexual experience be a traumatic assault reason she wanted to lie she was a virgin sleeping with you for the first time.

Secondly, getting married to a virgin doesn’t guarantee you a happy marriage. A woman can make a man miserable in marriage whether she’s a virgin or not.

EKONGKING:
We are spending way beyond our means for decades .

If u want to avoid srilanka type of total destruction,prepare to withstand temporary pain for 1 year.

TheBillyonaire:


Not true. Social Media and tik toking has affected students academic performances. We can not blame a lecturer. Your lecturer is not your teacher. Even without social media those days, ask around about Maths Department and Chemistry Departments in Unical. They produced the brightest students cos you must burn your candle. No one was fuccking anyone for grades those days, in fact you can get fuccked with no grades awarded by Proff Edem and Co.

You show adults what to do and leave them to do it, but I can understand that students are more interested in yahoo yahoo and hook up than learning. But that needs not concern me.

I do not support nonsense.

immortalmortal:
In some good schools, the lecturer's ability to impact knowledge on his students would be questioned. He could lose his job for this kind of failure. Egong(late), Akpan, Effanga etc, Were failures in that department. Especially Egong

jeff1993:
LeT THE DEFECTING BEGIN!!!!!

Which kind name our AKWA ibom brother's dey answer sef .... Name wey fit make invigilator bite tongue!!!

pansophist:
To go past it, you have to go through it. If I were you, I'll meet her one on one and tell her honestly that I want to end the relationship. She will be disappointed, cry to stupor, but again, what yo should fear the most is the repercussion of procrastination., because confrontation postponed is confrontation multiplied, and with consequences.

I've been there, one of the hardest things I've ever done is looking straight to eyes of a woman that loves me with her heart and tell that it's over. Then, I contemplated ghosting, via text, via a friend, or with sneaky behaviours, googled online for expert advices, but lastly, man up the courage and did it to her face. If you respect her, you must do it this way, one on one.

Your experience is a real life example of no peace for the wicked, I'm not insulting you, but in my whole life on planet earth, I've experienced firsthand that you can not corrupt the structures you use in interacting with reality and expect not to pay dearly for it. You interacted with her from a place of deceit, lies, manipulations, and now, your conscience is tormenting you, its only natural. And if you did not do the right thing as I outlined in the first paragraph, it will only get worse.

So bro, man up, you've erred against her, we all have, but you must face it squarely, to be free from it. Freedom is responsibility, responsibility is freedom. To be free from your torment, be responsible for your actions and apologise to her don't waste any of her time again. If you do this, you'll notice a new found kind of mental and psychological freedom that is better experienced.

You've erred against her, we all have at one time in our life, but you must face your demons and confront it squarely. So no ghosting, no breadcrumbing, submarining, disappearing, ending it via text, and sneaky behaviours. If you don't do this, your conscience will torment you, unless of course you're psychopathic with no conscience, which obviously you are not, hence you're asking for advice. If there is anything such as man up, it is now. MAN UP.

InTheCloudySky:
Smh. Shameful and deplorable.

Nigerian guys are partly to blame for this entitlement and mooching behavior of Nigerian girls, though, because many of y'all are quick to dash them money, always wanting to look like one big shot. You guys made Nigerian girls this way, so carry your cross.

Annie001:
Important for what?
What's the essence of finding x and y now?
Will I apply BODMAS to when working in an office?
Standard deviation
Maths is useless
My grandma wey no go school sabi how to count money.

IgiveLadiesBj:
Hello people of Nairaland, I am at the point of my life where I want to stop pleasing people regardless.

I find it difficult to say no especially to family and close friends and this has affected me badly in all ramifications especially in financial terms.
Please how do I say No and stand my ground without feeling bad or even care how they feel after I say no

Afolavid:
Na women wey go rape me i dey find like this

Putindbutt:

End of the day, the engines would still be manufactured in China while the parts of the buses assembled in Nigeria as usual. Nothing new here.

Romanoff:
You will still serve her breakfast.

Abi?
Una go say Nigerian girls no sabi love, this one done love you sotey she done turn Robin hood, thieving from her privileged mum to give to you the less privileged, you still come here dey complain.

Which advice you dey find gan gan?

If you no want make she dey thief give you, tell her make she stop na.

Iyaebe:
Please suggest a good place in Abuja or Lagos Island where I can learn Taekuando and Karat so that when I get married I can defend myself properly. The men we have these days have given us no choice than to be fully prepared before venturing into marriage with them, I don't want to be caught unawares. Your suggestions are highly welcomed, Thanks.

Biglittlelois:



I'm not asking of your mum's decisions, I'm asking of your outward emotions and reaction to what she did,

The wife the Op talked about expressed her feelings on what her father in law did, which in her right she is justified, no one will be happy of such a scenario except we want to deceive ourselves, and I for one do not like to deceive myself.

If your mother gets pregnant for your driver, you will not be happy about it, but you just have to accept her decision to marry him.

officialmario:


There is no way they will not come with family issues, even when you have paid the bride price, it is still part of responsibility.

siofra:


No. They are supposed to spend their money on us Queens

siofra:


It's so bad. And they are now very stingy too.

Iyaebe:
Imagine ooo.Please I want to ask,do old men have erection?

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence. I used to think you are responsible,but after this your statement of using juju to hook a man,except you are just catching cruise, I have lost every iota of regard I had for you.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

BigYash:
Blogger don nter one chance...
But Daddy Pastor should forgive na..

Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven." ... Of course, Jesus did not mean that we should stop forgiving after 490 times or even 77 times -- he meant that there should be no limits to our forgiveness.

Forgiveness is allowed Daddy....

FreeSpirited:
.Bleep off bro.. unless u are a 20 or 22 yrs old

FreeSpirited:

13 years is too small...why not 3o years...ozuor

FreeSpirited:
In Nigeria, the Calabars and Akwa ibom Men and women are generally known to be expert in the areas of sex.
I don't want to risk being stereotypic, many Nigerians believe we have more Calabar women doing Ashewo In brothels than other tribes in Nigeria. Though Benin gals can carry second position in that department.
When sex is related in terms of a Calabar woman, u will hear something like, Dem no de tire(i.e they are never tired), you will hear 'they can last long' , 'you will hear, 't's in their blood.
If it's about Calabar or akwa ibom men, u will hear,'cheating is in their DNA', 'they can never do without cheating even to save their lives'....you will hear...'dey Bleep so well'...
...
I was just thinking randomly, and realise they are the number one tribe when it comes to eating dogs in Nigeria...
... Remember dogs and indiscriminate sex can not be overemphasized.
What if their love of eating dogs is the reason they are full of sexual energy and reason they are so promiscuous and carry number one when it comes to sex?..
We know Edo women are also promiscuous and known for promiscuity in brothels and in italy.. But we can all agree calabar and Akwa ibom carry first in the matter in Nigeria...
Their dog eating culture and sex needs to be investigated, perhaps it contributes to their sex energy and precocity.

siofra:
Pumpumking are you gay??

Someone is here for you.

Bolarineliza202:

I can't give any greenlight as well,in the end he will later end up telling me that I was the one that made passes at him should in case anything later happen,I won't drag my ego through the mood,I am kindda proud , I have promised myself that I won't think with my heart long time ago,I now think with my head.