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IamLEGEND1:Lols. Na she didn't. I wasn't hypnotised when I was spending all that money. I was just doing it to please her in my own little way. But it wasn't enough for her. She need more than that. Which I cannot do. |
NevetsIbot:Thanks bro. I just needed to be convinced that I did the right thing |
tellwisdom:Thanks |
NevetsIbot:Yes bro! And that's a rough estimate. Because if am to calculate everything it's more than 70k. I feel relief and free. |
TrapQueen77:thanks |
ifex370:lols |
NevetsIbot:I can't say that her parents / family is poor. They are balanced. The dad has his own buildings and has two cars. So I doubt if they are poor. I don't really know what's her reason. |
Davash222:That wouldn't be necessary bro. Because I have broken up with her. And guess what? I don't feel hurt or heart broken. I feel relief. |
Davash222:Lols. Amen bro. Within 3month. I have spent more than 70k on her. And she is yet not satisfied. I tried my best to please while I advice her. But she wouldn't just change. |
macville2:I tried to explain that to her. But her response will be. Do I expect her to go and sleep with other guys? For help where as she have me as her bf. |
Nasa28:Yes bro. I was hoping and trying everything possible to change her. |
Good day pals. Please I really want to get things clear. I met this girl, in my school, we fell in love and started dating. We loved each other. Everything was going smoothly just like flavour said on his track tittle *wiser* featuring phyno and M I. So two months after. I stared notcing and observing some things. Such as, she is on a high demand, she always wants me to be the one paying her bills for her, and when I ask her about her parents she said must her parents do everything for her. That she have sibblings in other schools that do take cartar for. And she doesn't manage things. She will want to cook 3 to 4 different meals every week, and at my own expense. I tried talking to her that as a student. We are suppose to manage things. Even if we are been given millions by our parents. That we are not suppose to be cooking different meals at a spot. But she nag and arguee. Me am not that rich am a hustler on my own. I am the one taking care of myself in school. Am in my third year. And I have been thinking about life after school. I have tried everything within my powers to let her know that I can't fix her high end bills. But she will always arguee and nag. Don't get it twisted. Not like I don't do the thing I can for her. I do buy her provisions and some wears. But anytime she asks me for money. If I don't give it to her. She starts feeling bad that if I don't take care of her who will? . That she is my responsibility. That her parents must not be the ones to do everything for her. So me I have to think about my life as am in my early twenties. I wouldn't want to regret anything in future. I thought about so many things. I came up with a conclusion of breaking up with her. Which I just did. And now she is abusing me with all sort of words. My question is. Did I do the right thing or not? But as for me. I think it is the right thing to do. |
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