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Having worked with the likes Iyanya, IcePrince, Yung L, Endia, Solidstar, Moelogo, Sona, 2kriss, Danny Young and Olamide on his upcoming EP set to be released in 2015; DJ Unbeetable releases the music video for “Wa Jaiye” featuring Kida Kudz.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJH2gEwS-sU

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Am going with the number one, the no.3 should try better next time, and for no.2 I will advise u to keep trying you'll get there soon.

Men and woman have very different communication styles. That is nothing new. We’ve all heard time and time again that men and women have a unique way of viewing things—a different way of being. And, you know, there really is nothing wrong with being different. Our differences allow us to bring the best out of each other if we choose to see things that way.

The problem, however, arises when the acknowledgment of these differences leads to untruths about a particular gender. I have heard so much crap about women and “how we are” that I just have to laugh sometimes. And sadly, I think so many men are buying into the myths when, in fact, there is so much more to who we are.

Sure, I believe women have a lot in common. I cannot deny that. But I also know that so many women just don’t fit the bill for so many of the myths floating around. So, on behalf of all my sisters out there who are tired of being placed into this box of “how women act,” this is for you.
Here are 11 myths about women that men need to stop believing.

1. Women are more talkative than men are.
In all fairness, I am pretty chatty, but I also have plenty of female friends who aren’t big talkers and they don’t need to say too much to get their point across. Plus, the truth is, plenty of men are talkative too, so it’s not a female trait.

2. Women are too emotional.
Women are perfectly capable of containing their emotions when they need to, and the time of the month doesn’t determine how they make decisions. Furthermore, there is nothing wrong with being emotional at times. Showing emotion can be healthy.

3. Women don’t trust other women.
I have a group of women I love and turn to for advice and encouragement. These are women who “get” me and I trust them. Women are fully capable of trusting other women—as long as those women deserve their trust.

4. Women expect men to spend a ton.
If you are with the right woman, buying lavish gifts and fancy flowers won’t win her over. Sure, those things can be nice, but if you are able to meet her true needs, those things don’t matter all that much.

5. Women Crack under pressure.

Anyone can crack under pressure if they don’t have the right skills to manage high-pressure situations. Most women actually handle pressure pretty well.

6. Women overspend.
Women are actually pretty savvy when it comes to managing mone

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Think everyone is perfect and without problems? Think again! Tonto Dikeh decided to share her pain with fans, to show them that don't see others and think they are perfect

"Bin having this terrible back ache since I knew myself as a person** It gets really worse n sometimes it makes me cry,I have to use this neck Pad almost every day privately.. You see no 1 is without issues but in all am a happy girl n am wearing my poison with swag praying that some day d light would shine on my Back.. Love u n Good night Lovers** #Pray #Pray

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Mz Chichi shared this photo few hours ago on her Instagram.

Ladies can you rock the this?

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yes, i own it

bastien:
cool,are u the owner?

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Recording artist and EME star Shaydee is on a roll as he keeps churning out songs to entertain his fans. He gets together with Legendury Beatz for a new single – Potential Freestyle.

The 3 minute club banger “Potential” is a freestyle dancehall song produced by super producers Legendury Beatz who worked on ‘Azonto’ by Wizkid.

Shaydee’s vocal melody on this beat showcases his love for the dancehall style of music and has him dropping stunning vocals. Shaydee’s work is showing him to be a voice to be reckoned with in the music industry.

DOWNLOAD Shaydee – Potential (Prod by Legendury Beatz)

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For some people, finding the right mate just happens. They weren’t looking for it, but somehow they were in the right place at the right time, they dated, and love blossomed. Sure, developing a strong foundation may not have been easy, but finding each other wasn’t all that hard. It simply just happened.

That isn’t always the case though. Some people find themselves ready and waiting for the right mate to come along. They want to fall in love and build a future with a person that they believe God crafted for them, but it doesn’t seem to be happening in their time.

Finding the right life partner is a reasonable desire that many of us share. But what happens when you end up with someone and something in your gut just doesn’t feel right? You love them, but it seems like something is off. Maybe you can’t quite put your finger on it, or maybe you can and you just don’t want to admit it.

Whatever the case is, you find yourself in a position that makes your seriously question if you will truly be happy building a life with this person.

Love is a powerful thing and without it, a marriage will suffer. Although, love alone does not make a happy couple. It takes a lot more than that. If you find yourself wondering if the man you’ve convinced yourself is Mr. Right might actually be Mr. Wrong, keep reading.

Here are a few signs that your guy, no matter how much you think you love him, may just be the wrong guy for you.

1. He has cheated on you multiple times
People makes mistakes and any married couple will tell you that without forgiveness, it’s hard to make a marriage last. That said, if someone is cheating on you repeatedly, even after promising that they won’t anymore, it’s a nasty pattern. Chances are a ring a vow won’t force them to break that pattern. Run the other way.

2. He will not even consider premarital counseling
It’s one thing for your man to do it reluctantly since many men do not like the idea of counseling. However, refusing to do something that will ultimately help you create a strong union is really a bad sign.

3.He calls you names at times
This is connected to the aforementioned lack of respect. Couples have arguments, but constant name-calling is unacceptable. If your man calls you stupid, lazy, fat or any other combination of nasty names. He does not deserve you.

4.He tends to raise his voice at you a lot
Sure, people get in heated fights at times, but being yelled at because of something you said or did really isn’t okay. I think all adults should be mature enough to communicate with inside voices instead of intimidating people with screams and shouts.

5.He has qualities that make you question his parenting abilities

if you plan to have a family, one of the main things you should think about is whether or not you can see this man being a good dad. If he gives you major reasons to doubt his ability to be a good father to your children, he’s probably not the right guy for you.

6.He has little regard for the people you love most
Your man doesn’t have to absolutely love all of your friends and family members, but he should respect how much you love them and treat them accordingly. You don’t have to love people (or even like them) to be kind.

7.He doesn’t value your opinion
What you have to say should always matter. It doesn’t mean that things will always go your way, it just means that you feel heard and you know your mate places value on what you have to say.

8.He refuses to discuss the future
Of course you can’t map out every detail of your lives together, but if he never, ever wants to talk about what lies ahead, it’s kind of suspect.

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http://lifestyle-ng..com/2014/10/8-reasons-why-your-man-may-be-mr-wrong.html

ILove both of them, am not choosing oooo

On point!

major466:
Love is commitment to care for anyone without expecting anything in return.
Remember the bible say: Love your enemies as yourself and do good to them. This is a pointer to the fact that Love is not based on feelings but action.
Good write up. Though I don't agree with the last paragraph.

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True love is often confused with lust. Here’s how to know for sure what your feelings really are.
Moving from “like” to “love” is one of the most important transitions a couple can make. Unfortunately, it’s also one of the most misunderstood ones.


Too many couples think that love is the same as lust. This equates love with the ooey, gooey excitement and breathless anticipation that usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship.

Unfortunately, defining love this way makes it into a feeling. The down side of that is that feelings come and go. If you don’t want your love to wax and wane with your emotions, you probably don’t want to define love solely as something you feel.

Our culture doesn’t give us a lot of other options for a definition of true love, though. If it’s not just a feeling, then what else is it?

Love is a Feeling . . . and More
Fortunately, you don’t have to lose the concept of love as a feeling altogether. Most of the time, when you are experiencing true love, you will feel positively about your significant other. You may not feel head-over-heels in love with them, but you will think well of them, want to be with them and, overall, feel good about being with them.

The difference between true love and defining love as only a feeling, though, is that true love continues even when you don’t have positive feelings about your partner. In fact, you can experience true love even when you’re furious at your partner or when they have just hurt you deeply.

The thing that causes this difference is commitment. When you’re truly in love with another person, you commit to staying with them even when things are hard. You decide that the person you’re with is a person you want to continue to be with, and you choose to stay.

Note that there are usually some caveats to this decision. You should, for instance, not choose to stay with someone who is abusive. Some people choose not to stay with a partner who cheats on them. Whatever your caveats, you can build them in to your original decision.

How to Decide
Since committing to love someone is a big decision that will affect all aspects of your life, it’s not one you want to make quickly or without some knowledge that the other person will return your commitment and is someone you want to be with.

Luckily, there are some things you can do that will help you decide whether or not to commit to a partner you’re in a casual relationship with. These same things will help build your commitment once you’ve made it.
First of all, you’ll want to build trust. After all, you don’t want to commit to someone who isn’t worthy of that decision. Secondly, you’ll want to get to know your partner well and to let them know you. It will be easier to commit to someone who knows your quirks and loves you anyway. Finally, you’ll want to build a strong friendship with your partner. This friendship will help you hold to your commitment even when you’re not sure you want to.

Source: http://lifestyle-ng..com/2014/10/how-to-know-if-you-are-in-love-or-in.html

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We must be careful as we navigate through the most difficult periods of marriage. Being selective with our words and still being able to speak life into our relationship will be crucial. Quitting is easy, but it takes a truly committed partner to stay and fight. Couples have to change their mind set and remain in a proactive mode, instead of a reactive one. Waiting to take action after you’ve arrived at your breaking point is risky. Let’s examine some of the reasons couples divorce and discuss how we can protect our marriage.

1. Someone cheated.
When someone has broken the trust, that journey toward recovery will have its share of twists and turns. However, it isn’t impossible. Couples have to be completely honest during the rebuilding process, once they actually choose to rebuild. Of course there is no hurt like the pain that surfaces from someone betraying your trust and being careless with your heart.

It’s heartbreaking and devastating. And it is okay to not only feel those emotions, but also share them with the partner who’s responsible. Couples typically feel they have to tiptoe around what is really happening in the relationship. The opposite is true. The cheating partner and the injured partner have to discover how they arrived at this place and be willing to listen as well as bring solutions to the table.
Sadly, not every marriage is infidelity safe. There are some individuals who don’t know how/nor care to be faithful. For those of us who do, we have to be truthful about our wants, needs and desires. Whenever we aren’t being fulfilled, being vocal and realistic (as loving as possible) will provide an opportunity for our spouse to correct and deliver. On the other hand, when we aren’t doing the fulfilling for our spouse’s needs, (without making any excuses), we have to step our spousal game up as well and take excellent care of our half of the marriage.

2. Divorce became a very real option.
Whoever tosses that ugly word “divorce” around initially is setting the tone for the relationship’s future. If you say it, you’re letting your partner know it has been considered. In some cases, it gives the other partner permission to throw in the towel. Who wants to put forth the energy or effort to be in a partnership with someone who doesn’t appear to be as committed. We must ask ourselves if we’ve personally done everything required to save our marriage, prior to arriving at the thought of divorce. Again, not using that word during arguments or when we’re frustrated is key. It’s irresponsible to say things we don’t mean without considering the impact it has on the marriage.
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If you smell smoke, look for the fire and take emergency action. We can’t afford to pretend as though an issue doesn’t exist. Sleeping in separate rooms, not communicating and not being intimate for weeks on end, are red hot signs something is seriously wrong. A marriage can’t live if the partners are dead toward one another. We can’t be afraid to lovingly acknowledge and discuss our issues as a couple. Asking our mates how we can be a better spouse, making sacrifices, and taking action are all necessary.

3. Forgiveness is nonexistent.
Humans make mistakes, continuously. Since we aren’t perfect, we tend to make lousy decisions. Deciding to forgive our spouse, yet reliving and reminding them of their mistakes constantly is counterproductive. Not only does it keep the negative memory fresh in your mind, it pushes your partner even further away.

Not many adults would choose to remain in a situation where they are regularly considered the villain. Forgiveness doesn’t erase the error, it simply proves the commitment was strong enough to survive. Having a very real dialogue based on what we know about our mate is helpful. Questions to ask include “would my spouse purposely hurt me” or “if they had that choice to make over again, would they make it again knowing what they know now”? If your answer is no, forgiveness may be easier. If your answer is yes, continue to look for understanding by asking why. We must determine what we need from our partner to put us on the road to forgiveness.

4. Irreconcilable differences.
When couples recognize their issues/differences and ultimately decide the marriage is no longer worth making any personal changes, they throw in the towel. I often wonder where these differences come from. Were they there and the couple chose to ignore them? Usually what we see is what we get, especially true for those who dated a while before marriage. Those bad habits don’t surface overnight. Being honest about what you can and cannot tolerate in your relationship has to be considered prior to saying “I do”. It’s naive to think we have the power to change someone else.

Marriages require our undivided attention. Relaxing in your marriage, ignoring our spouse’s needs and being selfish are relationship sins. We can, however, protect our marriages. Being aware and clear on what your relationship needs to thrive and being active in keeping your commitment are excellent tools to maintain a solid marriage.

Source: http://lifestyle-ng..com/2014/09/5-reasons-couples-divorce-and-how-you.html

Mavin Records unveils the music video for “Adaobi” which features the track’s producer Don Jazzy alongside Korede Bello, Rekado Banks and Di’Ja.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f6-gjQQNIlA

DOWNLOAD VIDEO: Mavins – Adaobi ft. Don Jazzy, Korede Bello, Rekado Banks & Di’Ja

No Hard fellings ma'am

Aitee1:
Is there nothing else to talk about in this romance section apart from

Women/girls topic... wetin we do una sef

And cos the mods moves all topics wid pic to fp

Y'all ditch and criticize women and attach photos jus to hit fp



And u u no dey tire to be FTC

Joblessness @ it peak! Jus grow up that's all...no pun intended.

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When it comes to living the life we want, we have to be willing to let go of the things and people that no longer serve us. If something is stressing you more than blessing you, it’s time to let it go. It’s not for you.

So here are 8 Types of Girlfriends Every Woman Should Ditch:

[center]1. Fairweather Fiona
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We all know this “friend”. When things are going amazing for you, she’s right there to cheer you on and keep you encouraged. She sings praises about you and is there when you call. But when things aren’t so great, she’s MIA, ghost, nowhere to be found. In that case i say ditch here please!. [/center]

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[center]2.Negative Natalie
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Everyone and everything is turning against her. Nothing ever goes right. Nothing is ever her fault. Everyone is dumb or stupid in her eyes. The sun shines, she complains it’s too hot. When it rains, she wants to see the sun. She curses everybody and everything all day long. Negativity is energy draining, and no one wants to be around that 24/7. Birds of a feather flock together. Are u still with a Girlfriend like that? Now is the time to Ditch her![/center]

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3. Self-Centered Sheila
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You know the type. Everything is about her. Anytime someone is sharing their successes and standing in “her” spotlight, she always finds a way to shine the light back on her. Only, it’s really not a good look. She’s also the type that thinks the world revolves around her….like you are supposed to drop absolutely everything to tend to her emergencies (because truth be told, that’s the only time she calls). No reason for ditching needed. Just do it.[/center]

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[center]4. Shady Susan

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Shady Susan encourages you to your face then talks about you behind your back and keeps it moving. Sometimes you just don’t want to believe it because you see such a different person when you interact with her. But like they say: when someone shows you who they are, believe them. [/center]

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[center]5. Know-it-all Kayla
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You know who she is. She’s always correcting you and everyone else around you. You can’t tell her anything without her getting defensive and trying to put you in your place. Even when she knows she’s dead wrong, she’ll figure out a way to turn the tables. There’s absolutely no way she could ever be wrong…about anything.[/center]

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[center]6. Jealous Jade
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I know, you don’t want to believe it. But your long-time friend that you keep making excuses for is jealous and she’s a hater. Anytime you have an event or invite them somewhere, she seems to be MIA. You’re always the one to reach out, and never the other way around. She would never admit it but secretly, she’s a hater. She’s never genuinely happy for you, and usually gives you backwards compliments. She doesn’t wish ill on you, but she’s envious of where you are and what you have. Real friends cheer you on and support you without you having to say a word. Ditch the ones you have to continuously run after.[/center]

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[center]7. Passive-aggressive Patty
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She’s the one that smiles on the outside, but is fuming with vengeance on the inside. Instead of telling you if she has a problem with you directly, she is quick to throw you under the bus and act like she’s innocent. She can be draining because you never know what your gonna get.[/center]

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[center]8. Serious Sophie
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This “friend” can’t joke or take a joke about anything. She takes life too seriously, thus, sucking the fun (sometimes life) out of you. Everyone stops laughing as soon as she walks into the room, and you keep wondering why you’re still friends. Life is beautiful and it’s definitely too short to spend it without laughter. [/center]

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We have to be careful about who we surround ourselves with, and allow to take up space in our minds and hearts. They are a reflection of who we are and where we’re going in life. I don’t know about you, but I’d much rather have two positive girlfriends in my life than six that act like any of the ones mentioned above.

Have you had to ditch negative people in your life? How have you handled it?

Lets talk!

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WHAT IS THE BIRTH CONTROL PILL?
Most birth control pills are a combination of two hormones, estrogen and progesterone, which work together to prevent ovulation. If taken as directed, the birth control pill is 99 percent effective.

WHO IS A GOOD CANDIDATE FOR THE BIRTH CONTROL PILL?
Unless you don’t feel that you can handle the responsibility of remembering to take the pill (ideally at the same time) every day, it’s a good option for birth control. It is well researched and understood by doctors, with health insurance it is cheap or free, and it is easy to stop or start using in a planned way. That being said, Cullins suggests not treating a break-up as a reason to stop taking contraception. “You never know when a new one will start, or an old one might start back up, and there is some lead time for effectiveness,” she advises.

CAN I USE THE PILL TO SKIP MY PERIOD (OR, ARE PERIODS REALLY NECESSARY!?)
Actually, yes (and no). Since menstruation is viewed as a coming-of-age ritual of sorts in our society, the idea that it is not in fact a necessary “cost” of womanhood can be tough to wrap your head around. But, according to Cullins, menstruation is quite frankly not much but the tangible evidence that you completed your cycle without getting pregnant.

DOES THE PILL MAKE YOU GAIN WEIGHT?
Unfortunately, there is no easy answer to this common question. Some women who go on the pill actually lose weight, some will gain weight (although not much), and many will stay the same. However, Cullins points out a very important oft-forgotten correlation: Two things tend to happen as women age. The first is that many women do gain weight as they get older. The second, and this can be a byproduct of the first, is that many people (not just women!) settle into more sedentary lifestyles as they get older and start their careers. Given these factors, measuring whether or not birth control causes weight gain is a complicated issue. You should pay attention to your body and its reactions, but you should not be afraid that taking the pill is a guaranteed path to weight gain.

DOES THE PILL CAUSE MOOD SWINGS?
According to Cullins, surveys of large populations of women show that there is an almost even split between those who find the pill affects their mood and those who don’t. That doesn’t mean you have to give up birth control. “You have to try particular formulations of birth control to see how they will affect you. If you have mood changes that don’t agree with you, change to another hormonal formulation or a non-hormonal birth control method,” she advises.

DOES THE PILL AFFECT FERTILITY?
Contrary to popular myth, the pill not only has no negative impact on fertility but is actually sometimes used to aid fertility. If you lead a healthy lifestyle, don’t smoke, and are in normal health, you can conceive pretty much immediately after stopping the pill.

HOW DOES THE PILL AFFECT SKIN?
All combined hormonal birth control pills (estrogen and progestin) are shown to improve acne. However, Cullins notes that the extent to which improvement occurs will depend on the individual. There is no way to predict which pill will work best for an individual suffering from acne. It’s a trial and error process to find which formulation will best prevent or reduce it for you. Improved skin isn’t the only perk of the pill, either — it can help women with endometriosis and debilitating cramps and protect against anemia.

SHOULD I TAKE A BIRTH CONTROL PILL HIATUS?
One of the more frustrating myths about the birth control pill is that it’s in some essential way dangerous and that if you do use it, you shouldn’t continue use for years and years. “The pill exists in a lot of different forms today that we didn’t have when it was first manufactured in the 1960s,” Cullins says. It is both safer today and also contains lower quantities of hormones than earlier versions. There’s no reason a woman cannot stay on the pill for as long as she is seeking to prevent pregnancy.

Source: http://lifestyle-ng..com/2014/09/dont-get-it-twisted-7-things-you-should.html

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We all have that friend. The one in the perpetual revolving door of romantic relationships. You can almost perfectly time the stages of their current escapade.

The discovery, which is also known as the “We have so much in common” speech
The “This one is so different than all the others” speech
The “I don’t wanna get ahead of myself, but they could be the one” luncheon,
The first big argument
The “I just found out they also do [fill in the blank]“ phone call
The eventual downward spiral
And the obligatory “Single Again” night on the town

Only to go through it all over again. Maybe you’re that person. Maybe we’re all that person at one point in our lives or another.

If you’re that person, you’ve most likely heard one of your close friends say at some point, “Maybe you should be single for a while.”

Why do people keep suggesting that? What good will that do? You’re not trying to waste any of your precious time alone. You want a relationship, a marriage, kids, a family, a home – and none of that is going to come your way sitting on the couch and watching Netflix every night. So what’s the deal?

This is the deal – You will never thrive in a long-term mutually fulfilling relationship until you know yourself well enough to clearly communicate your needs vs. your wants to your potential life mate and future family members.

In order to do this, you need to know what makes you tick. You need to know exactly what makes you happy and joyous. Know exactly what makes you frustrated vs. angry or enraged. Know what gets under your skin in two seconds flat. You need to know how long of a situation you can honestly endure. So many people aren’t aware of their own temperature gauge. They learn through trial and error – taking innocent bystanders along for the intimate ride of self discovery.

The point is if you are trying to use someone to make your bad life good, you are doing it wrong. You have to be able to feed your own soul before you can be expected to have enough good leftover to feed and nurture someone else’s.

The point is to make a good life even better.
And you haven’t made your life good yet. Which is why you keep searching for your internal peace in someone else. A vicious sure fire method for sabotaging yourself.

Don’t feel bad about it. We all need to become more aware of the continuing behaviors which work against our own best self-interests.

So the next time one of your friends tells you perhaps it’s time to spend some quality time with yourself, maybe they’re not simply full of haterade. Maybe they actually give a damn about you.

Source: http://lifestyle-ng..com/2014/10/why-do-people-say-its-good-to-be-single.html

Recently a lot of Nollywood famous stars have dumped Christianity for Islam. Each one of them had his/her own reason to do so.

1. Liz Da Silva
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This Nollywood actress was dating Christian, MC Oluomo, but later she left him for a younger Muslim man Olaoye. They got married and have a baby boy. Because of son, who was named Roheem, she changed her religion. She converted to Islam and adopted the Muslim name Aishat.

2. Laide Bakare
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After this Nollywood star divorced her Christian husband, she met a rich man from Lagos. His name is Alhaji Tunde Orilowo aka ATM. Because of the union, she converted to Islam and joined his fleet of wives.

3. Moji Olaiya
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She has Christian parents, her father is a famous Nigerian singer Victor Olaiya. But due to family troubles, she left her husband and three children and then converted into Islam. She states that Islam gives her more power and inner calm. She commented about the decision in one of her interviews:

“Honestly, Islam is a peaceful religion. The aspect I love most is that you don’t need any pastor to get closer to God. You don’t really need anybody to pray for you. You can always pray on your own and Almighty Allah will answer your prayer without any intermediary. I have been doing that since I became a Muslim and it has always worked for me.”

4. Lizzy Anjorin
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Lizzy is a popular Yoruba actress. She was born in a Christian family. Soon after she traveled to Mecca for Hajj, she insisted to critics that she has always been a Muslim because her mother is a Muslim as well. However, rumors claimed that her conversion was made because of her new date, an Alhaji – a big boss from Lagos.

She said on her conversion:

“Actually, my conversion to Islam is not new, it’s only that people were not aware. I have been a Muslim for long. I even have pictures to support that. Although my name is Elizabeth, which is the Christian name my dad gave me because he was a Christian.
“Then, I also have a Muslim name, Aishat, given to me by my mother, who was a Muslim. Also, some from my mother’s family members also named me Sekinat. Even my daughter’s name is Rufaidat. So, I grew with the two religions. And being the only child of my parents, I was given so many names, including Egandogo, Omosolape, Akanke. My Badagry name is Yenukunmun, meaning Isoju ota ni nse maa se rere (I will excel in the presence of my enemies).”

5. Vivian Metchie aka Fareedah
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This gorgeous Nollywood star was born to Catholic father and a Deeper Life Mother. Then she married a man who was a member of the Redeemed Church. Due to religious confusion, Vivian left Christianity and converted to Islam.
She has once confessed: “It is a personal decision. I understand the Koran more than the Bible… I was probably looking for peace. Yeah! That was what I was looking for and I found it in the Koran.”

http://www.my360vibes.com/2014/10/top-5-nollywood-stars-who-dumped.html

The Galadiman Kano, Alhaji Tijjani Hashim, is dead. His death was announced this morning.

He was a former aide to late Sir Ahmadu Bello Sardauna, Premier of Northern Nigeria and a cousin to late emir of Kano, Alhaji Ado Bayero.

Galadiman Kano was a philantrophist par excellence and the most influential royal member in the kano emirate council. He will be burried in accordance with Islamic rites.

http://www.my360vibes.com/2014/09/galadiman-kano-dies-at-79.html

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Ever heard of the phrase “Follow your heart?” We see it everywhere from the cartoons we saw growing up to lines in songs and graphics on T-shirts. It’s a way of life to some people, creating a seemingly passionate and romantic way of living to the fullest.

Choosing to follow your heart is a bold statement to make, but what does it mean exactly? In my opinion, following your heart means that you are allowing your natural passions to rule over logic and make decisions based on what you know in your heart will mean happiness, even if it doesn’t make sense to the brain. But what if your heart isn’t right? Would you still follow it? That’s one reason why following your heart doesn’t always work. Let’s explore this topic in the word.

We all know of the Proverbs 18:22 scripture: “He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing.” Let’s go up a chapter and look at Proverbs 17. Verse 20 says “He who has a deceitful heart finds no good” in the NKJV; the NLT version reads: “The crooked heart will not prosper.” In other words, he will have unsuccessful ventures, including choosing a wife, keeping a good woman, and sustaining a Godly marriage and good health.

How can a man with commitment issues in his heart find a wife, yet he desires to be married? That mess in his heart may be something he doesn’t even realize he has and it’s been there so long, he chooses broken relationship after broken relationship. This is why its important that we invite God into our hearts to examine and clean them up.

This goes for women as well. I’ve seen too many people make jokes about the real problems of insecurity in relationships. For example, when a guy moves away from his phone, it’s “fair game” for the woman he’s seeing to snoop and check his phone for pictures, texts, etc. If you already have these insecurities in your heart, they will tell your brain to make the action to spy (a sign of mistrust) and that damages the relationship; no “good thing” in relationships come from insecurity. This is not the reflection of a godly wife, so confront the issues residing in your heart to prepare for better way of thinking, believing, and acting.


Looking to Proverbs 23, we see a lot of sound instruction on how to operate in life. Verse 15 says “My child, if your heart is wise my own heart will rejoice!” which means that we can please God by simply embracing His wisdom. It will bring Him joy to live a life that’s devoted to Him and give Him glory in our relationships with other people, especially in our future marriages. What God won’t do for His children (us)! He will bless us even more so if we follow His ways instead of relying on our fickle hearts. God wants us to keep His words in the midst of our hearts, as according to Proverbs 4:20-21:

“My child, pay attention to what I say. Listen carefully to my words. Don’t lose sight of them. Let them penetrate deep into your heart for they bring life to those who find them, and healing to their whole body.”

Can you hear the Father saying that to you as you read it? This is loving mercy from God who desires to see us succeed in our relationships by guiding us with His instructions and examples from Christ and His Holy Spirit. Let’s bring this post to full circle: when we trust God with our hearts, we will be more equipped to follow it, because He is in it, glory! Psalm 119: 2 “Joyful are those who obey His laws and search for Him with all their hearts.”

Instead of following your heart, follow after God with all of your heart, submitting your passions and desires to Him to prepare you for the next chapters of your life.

Lets hear your thoughts, have you had a follow-your-heart moment?
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Nairaland babes where una dey.

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Would you rock this nail design?

Lets hear you out.
1. Yes

2. No

3. Hell No!, its disgusting

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As parents, we do our best to make the right decisions. We don’t always get things right, but we try. Parenting is hard work and as our little ones grow up, we realize how much they understand, what they internalize, and how our day-to-day decisions impact their lives.

We often find ourselves consumed with the impact our decisions will have on their childhood. We try to get them involved with meaningful activities that will keep them engaged and physically fit. We try to make sure they are getting the education they need to be successful in life. We are mindful of what they eat because we know how important a healthy diet is. These are all things we should be doing as parents, but what about the other stuff?

You see, we sometimes don’t realize that the decisions we don’t think of as “parenting” decisions are having a tremendous impact on our kids. And in years to come, our decisions can become a burden for them. I know that’s not what you want for your babies. It’s certainly not what I want for my children.

So as important as it is to focus on their education, their diet and their physical activity, I challenge you to think about the other decisions you make in your life. Those decisions may not have an immediate impact on our children’s lives, but will there be a long-term affect? Will the decisions you make today bring your children stress and pain in adulthood?

Here are 5 decisions I think your kids will thank you for making. They are not easy decisions to make, but the long-term impact of making them is priceless.

1. Seek help for your depression. So many people with depression suffer in silence, sometimes keeping their condition a secret from their own spouse. Untreated depression doesn’t just go away on its own, though. You have to seek help. I know that seeking help can be very difficult, but find a person you trust and ask them to hold your hand while you take that first step. I can only imagine what a difference it would have made if my own mother got help for her depression years ago instead of suffering in silence for so long.

2. Show them what healthy love looks like. You can’t stay in a relationship that is unhealthy and makes you unhappy without expecting it to do damage to your kids. It will. If your marriage is suffering, take steps to repair the damage and create a stronger union. If the damage is beyond repair, ask yourself if your kids will really benefit in the long run if you decide to stay together. They need to know that happy, healthy love is, indeed, a very real possibility.

3. Prepare for the worse. As parents we have to plan for the worse. This means that each parent should have a life insurance policy and as you age, you need to strongly consider long-term care insurance. Without it, if you ever become ill and need care that is not covered by insurance, the responsibility of paying for that care will fall on your children. By making plans today, you give your kids the freedom to focus on their own children when they grow up without constantly being worried about your care.

4. Get a life. Your life should not revolve around your kids. You have to have your own interests and activities. If you make your life revolve around them, it will eventually create a situation where your children feel guilty about living their own lives. As they grow up and move out, you will find yourself consumed with sadness because caring for them is all your know. Finding joy in life outside of your kids is so important.

5. Live your own dreams. The best way to raise healthy kids who can confidently pursue their dreams is for you to pursue your own. A big mistake that many parents make is putting all their dreams on hold to raise their children and then imposing their personal dreams on their kids. I know pursuing your dreams is not always easy, but you have to do it because your dreams cannot become theirs. Give them the space to have and live their own dreams.

What are some decisions you’ve made that will benefit your children when they become adults.

Lets hear you out!
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This one serious oooo, writting waec 6times, Naija Diaris God oo

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Here are pics from the white wedding of Florence Ita-Giwa's daughter Koko Florence Mayen to her heartthrob, Chimaobi Shawcross. The glamourous wedding held yesterday Saturday September 20th at Eko Hotel.
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More photos here >>> http://www.my360vibes.com/2014/09/first-photos-of-florence-ita-giwas.html

Photo Credit Linda Ikeji's Blog

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Body piercing is the act of puncturing or cutting a part of the body and inserting jewelry. Piercing of body parts is hardly new. Early records shows that body piercing started back in ancient cultures. Aztecs and Maya pierced their tongues for spiritual reasons. The Egyptians pierced their navels while the Romans pierced their nipples for known reasons. Today, people also pierce their body parts for various reasons. Some people pierce because they feel it is fashionable, while others do so for religious or spiritual reasons, for sexual pleasure, to conform to certain lifestyle or to rebel or display spirit of independence. Both sexes are involved in body piercing. They pierce different parts of the body, such as the ears, lips, tongue, eyebrows, navel, nose, nipples and genitals.
There are serious health risks associated with body piercing whether it is do-it-yourself or by a professional piercer. Health risks of body piercing is often as result of poor sanitary technique or piercer lacking understanding of the body anatomy and using the wrong jewelry on a body part. These errors can cause problems for the one being pierced.

Some of the health risks associated with piercing are:

*. Body piercing can result to excessive bleeding if the wrong place of the body is pierced.

*. Hitting blood vessels or a nerve can cause permanent damage. When a nerve is damage you may not feel anything on that part.

*. Piercing can lead to serious infection. This happen when unsterilized equipment is used. You can contract HIV/AIDS, hepatitis, tuberculosis, tetanus, staphylococcus, abscesses or boil.

*. Piercing can cause irritation. For example navel piercing is subject to irritation because your clothing will constantly be rubbed by the jewelry.

*. You may lose part of your body. Multiple piercing on the earlobe has caused some to lose the entire curve of the ear due to serious infection on the cartilage.

*. An infection in the nose stud may involve nearby blood vessels and spread to the brain.

*. Body piercing can cause scarring (keloids) and allergic reactions. This depend on the type of jewelry used.

*. Piercing of the nipple can cause difficulty for a young woman to breastfeed a baby. Clothing may also pull the jewelry and result to tearing, forming scar tissue and can damage some of the milk-producing glands in the breast.

*. Piercing of the mouth area can cause choking, numbness and loss of taste in the tongue, prolonged bleeding, chipped or fractured teeth, increased saliva flow, uncontrolled drooling, gum injury, speech impediment, difficulties in breathing, chewing and swallowing.

*. You may find it difficult to brush the tongue if you pierced the tongue. This can result to accumulation of bacteria in the mouth and can cause halitosis (bad breath).

*. Jewelry in the genital areas can cause injury to you or your s*x partner.

Healing time for different body parts varies. Piercing of the ear usually take about 6-8 weeks to heal. Healing of the nostrils takes 2-4 months. Some parts may take as long as a year such as the navel area. During healing period, ignorance or negligence can result to infection. For example, one may not know if he or she is to avoid antibacterial ointments as they prevent air from flowing to the pierced area, thus trapping bacteria. Some solution causes reaction with the jewelry used. Not knowing which liquid will react with a jewelry can be a very big problem. What ever decision you make concerning your body, remember that your health is involve and do also know that body piercing has other turn off apart from the health risks.

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Don Jazzy and The Mavins are currently on a hot streak that’s lasted over a year with songs like Eminado, Surulere, Dorobucci and others topping the charts over the last year or so.
The extremely talented producer (and artiste) Don Jazzy carries his latest breed of stars – Reekado Banks and Di’Ja – on this new single “ARISE“. It’s a song of national solidarity for our beloved country Nigeria!

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This girl Yeye ooo, sum dey even find oerson wey go buy them iPhone 4 dem no see, dem buy her iPhone 4+2 she reject am, babe u need serious cane oooo!

CyberEBOLA: I bought my girlfriend an Iphone 6 as a birthday gift, but she rejected it. Please check the picture of the new iphone 6 below. Please what should i do?

Amin oooo!

imoleay0: E se o booda samwhizzy, tiyín náà á dáa ò.

tHanks Ma'am

BrainnewsNg: Op! Nice writeup. Keep it up!!

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Here are some photos from the one-storey church building belonging to Christ Chosen Church of God which collapsed yesterday September 19th. The building, which had been vacated recently by the church following its relocation to a bigger site, was being demolished by 8 workers when it caved in and fell on them. Three people have been confirmed dead while five were rescued from under the rubble. See more photos after the cut...
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Mr Right, i sight you, am working on your own topic too

MisterRight: Why is all topic on front page always about me and my gf? Wetin we do u Na?