Dear Office thanks for you time share with us ,

two year ago , I had an girl friend we love each other ,last year I won Dv lottery green card , we get marriage and send document to kcc ,
last week we had an interview in Ankara ,
officer inquest us for 2 hours , we had very hard time ,
he asked every thing ,like
when did you meet , where did you meet ,
at the end he said I don’t accept your marriage , you had shame marriage ,while I love my wife .
even after we provide many documents ,he give me an blue paper and told me you need to divorce to stay in process a dv visa
At the end of interview he said if you love her you can apply after getting the green card ,
Its kill 3 years of our time during this process he ask us to be a part what can I do
Its just blowing up a family take it apart
Please any advice is appreciated