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I don't mind being friends, I like it actually, but the way he is acting is just confusing

Oky so what happened was that me and this guy started dating,we only dated for 4 months. He left me, because he said he is not ready to be a father (I have a son, he's 3). He said thatI can wait till he grows up,but I told him that it'll never work because my kid comes first. Now we are only friends, but its weird, he brushes my hair and dries it, and gives me massages, he gives me now more compliments than when we were together. He talks about sex more even though he stopped my advances. He called my kid on his birthday and bought him a gift. He plans time with me. I told him to delete my pictures on his phone, he only deleted the ones with only me in. He kept our photos together and photos of my kid. On the other hand he already went on a date with another girl, and sent me photos of the types of girls he wants me to look out for him. I'm soooooo confused! I have no idea what he is thinking? We talk permanently and he always tries to cheer me up and wishes me future hapiness,he takes care of all my needs. Does anybody have any advice or insight in what's going on? Please help!