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Hmmm

austyn0:
Pure childishness...

Op,, how you go de reason share the duty of carrying common polythene bag all because of sey you foot bill? E no suppose,, your shoddie for that matter, you for just carry am ma to show your romantic side..

My female friends know me as a joker,, I jokingly push them into carrying whatever I buy,, provided them de there, except it is heavy...This no be matter na.

she said; Beb, it doesn't make sense why we will walk together n I will be the one holding the nylon?. Which means it will b an everyday stuff. To be sincere. What that suppose to be my work?

ranmoor:
is it heavy? If yes, u should carry it without complaints. Is it more than 1 bag? If yes, u should carry out of it. Any other thing, just leave her, if she likes she should leave it there. do not let any girl start making u do stuffs, do things because u want to. trust me in few months, she will be telling u its your duty to be doing her laundry

it wasn't heavy at all. It's what u can pull from Canada to China. I just had issue with her motive.

If it was a heavy nylon I bet she knows she doesn't need to tell me, I know it is too much for her to carry. It's just filled with wat we will eat for dinner. 4noodles, 3 eggs, 4 pure water and that's all. I felt it's not worth the share weather I foot the bill or not. N I feel she just wanted to share d load which wasn't necessary. Even if u want me to carry it, there is a way to present it rather than presenting it in a way that will make me feel less thank a man. U don't have to manipulate me then feel ur charm is working.. He'll no

XhosaNostra:
But I was being polite I don't know how I could have written it any differently. It honestly wasn't meant to be caustic.

polite? That thing sounded like my mum was about to slap d shit outta me. Well thanks I picked out the msg though.

XhosaNostra:
Far from being angry but alright.

hallelujah. I just wanted more wisdom, I dint conclude I was right. We learn everyday n I am open to corrections which was the reason I asked, just make it friendly. It will be more welcomed

selfwife:
sometimes,it is best you do what suits you.Anyone can carry the bag.for me,as long as i will like to carry it,my man will not allow.there is no big deal about who carries it.

Thanks so much, I guess I made a big deal outta it. I will learn not to see things of such as big deal...

XhosaNostra:
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that?
If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS!

i just asked because to wanted to know more, not because I felt I was right. Ur answer is too aggressive. It's obvious u are shouting there. Calm down

Bass123:
Just go to bed and snore. You are still a baby what does that takes away from u. Does that makes u less of a man? Go to bed joor!

only babies point out babies. My question is very simple, am I right or wrong? U ask if it makes me less of a man? For u to go get stuffs for the house with ur wife n she watch u pack it up n down? This is not about her quota, it's just courtesy. Then why tldid she follow me way up to the junction? To watch me buy it n bring it back home? Gaskiya I can't even guess ur gender with this level of thought..

XhosaNostra:
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that?
If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS!

XhosaNostra:
You paid, so what? It shouldn't be about who paid or it makes you come off as a petty jerk. What's even a big deal about that?
If you told her that since you paid, she should carry the bag, I assume it could be why she insisted that YOU carry it.The whole thing is childish. In fact, I think you're childish for even making it about contribution. It's a tiny bag, not Santa's bloated, Christmas goodie bag FFS!

hmmmmmmmmmmm, u re angry, I know I dint offend u sha. Thanks I understand, thanks for ur contributions. God bless

Eve fam.. Just this evening I went strolling with my girlfriend to get noodles, bread, egg and soft drink for dinner. And after the purchase she insisted I carry the nylon which content I paid for. I feel it shouldn't be so, since I paid for it her contribution should be carrying it home. Not just eating it alone, n d store its just a few trek to my house. Am I right or wrong on this?

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