Hahahaha lwkmd. Nairaland na NOLLYHOOD

Thinking who should i pick from the two virgins btw upendo and cuddlemi?

Hmm hmm. I can decode something from ur post. I'll keep it private though. Now we are getting somewhere i may defend secondary virgins but not in all cases. I agree with u that we need to do more in educating ppl, which is what we re both doing here. Keep ur pride and if u lost ur pride through uncontrollable circumstances, hope is not lost. Others outside the box, i dnt know what to say. Upendo, im beginning to like u more, but i read something in ur post which i ve prevented me from pressing further.(hope u grab the gist)

upendo 98:

@satani
you know your username makes me choke first so please I am not feeling comfortable evn typing it.
It sounds sour and bitter in my mouth.
Now what you are talking about is called 'SECONDARY VIRGINITY'

That happens to those who'v lost it but choose to abstain till they meet their life partner.
It could take years but they are not 'original'virgins. (for lack of a better word)
And that is what we tell school gals to do. Practice secondary virginity since they already lost it.
Damn I hate this topic.

sexkillz:


@Satanii, I tot i was the only one proposing to Cuddlemii who no wan marry Itelligent and Decent Girl

shes a baby that needs to be tutored on how to relate with strangers and learn to be accommodating. She still thinks along the religious line

See dnt get my post twisted. 90% of posts are based on factual real life/daily experiences. The 3 scenarios u cited do occur but very minimal in comparison to the cases of error/ignorance/brainwashing/mistake which i have cited. The ppl in these categories fails to learn but rather throw themselves deeply into rubbish more. My first real girl in my 100 level told me she lost her virginity to a PASTOR in Southern Nigeria. Yet she kept her self till she met me. Such cases are raree rare

upendo 98:

@SATANI

Now what error/mistake/ignorance is there in these 3 cases?

@ The baby gal that got molested by her uncle/dad?(c'mmon av seen cases tht made me break down!)
@ The lady who had to undergo internal medical checkup cz of some infection?
@ Well look at these communities tht practice female Core mutilation. I dnt even know it affects your hymen but I just learned tht from cuddleme.

Now do these gals above lack virtue? No. Who's to blame here? the victim/infection/society??
Seriously get your heads out of the sand. I advocate for virginity but sorry I am not very rigid to condemn anybody if they lost it.Cz I have heard too many sad stories.
Plus and mark this its a virtue yes but an evil virgin gal is worse off then a kind hearted,trustworthy and lovable lady.
Gosh I know a virgin foul mouthed thief!!
Again cherish it amongst the many other virtues a woman is supposed to have.

Cuddlemii:

Hammering the change with your username is suppose to achieve what. your username caused it all. Please lets hear word jor. This topic is so unrealistic. Im out!!!

You all speak for what suits you and not the reality. I speak in general. Take care!!!

Really? I believe u are a xtian, how does ur christian bible tells u to treat someone like satani22? Cast me out or write him off? Smh at hypocrites,

upendo 98:

@ SATANI
You must be joking! who's that am trying to please here by declaring my status?
I have a Certifier[b] not [/b] on NL but above!!
That's 4 my future mate to discover ok.
And why do you keep asking evry other gal to marry you?
Whts the desperation abt?

No ma, im not desperate for marriage. Consistency is my style. I ve maintained in my posts that i wouldnt marry till 2013/14 or15 and only to a virgin. Im a very jealous type and never like to share anything with anybody. I love u and cuddlemii. Why? Cos of intelligence and decency. U guys epitomises xters of a wife material(on the forum). If i ever make a marriage gesture to anyone outside u guys, such must possess character better that of u two for me to mean/be serious with my gesture

Ur advise/could have been valid if pple actually learn from experience or others' Agreed it was an error/mistake/ignorance that made some loose their pride of womanhooood. Ask ur self did they learnt anything afterwards? Have they abstained from sex after the error abinitio? Are the up coming ones prepared to take lessons or cue from fall of those in their front or willing to take the adventure of sex? Too many questns with limited answers. We have to keep hammering the nail till theres change

Cuddlemii:

@op

You don't know that a horse ride and some specific tedious exercise or sport can break the hymen. Some people were violated, molested and have VVF.  The way you guys are going about your televised warfare against sex, people would become stigmatized and start committing suicide. Why remind people of their lost trauma.

Exposure is very important; if not why would a civilized man like you say things like these when you know so many things are at stake or involved. You were just discussing the negatives. Unsterilized circumcision can have complications and cause loss of virginity. Insertion of drugs to heal infection can also destroy the hymen. Not only sex breaks it you novice.

Do proper research before you post this trash again. The world is evolving, so set your topic with up to date activities and details.

If you are going to address Pre-marital sex or virginity, at least have the balls to do it thoroughly and convincingly like an enlightened person.

So those that lost it like the above listed points, don't have virtue?

I will join the action for 3some

Upendo me im still a virgin,hoping to marry another virgin. BTW are u a virgin? If yes come marry me.

O ma se o. Omo babe yii ko da eniyan mo. Do you know Esu laa lu ogiri oko? Oluwa mi eero= Eepo oo. Na mi be that. I be ina njo ogiri osa. Mo tee ri si.
There are to many incantation for Esu do u know?

BABE!:



lol---Pest oshi---

hey who u dey call pest? Them talk say Satanist no dey but ask from those that have seen me, dem go tell u how i look. Fear go catch u sef. Oma se o. Omode ko mo ogun on pe lefo.

Tinubu and his biased supporters need not fear. Hes not going to jail, if investigations and findings reveals his guilty of no financial impropriety or funds misappropriation

Op u be correct person just like me. No virgin, No marriage is my slogan. Any girl that isnt one, isnt meant for moi,

I wonder how it feels loosing ur virginity to someone who isnt getting married to u.

To be candid i haven't read the thread but judging by what u said i will say shes correct in being Secretive with strangers. However not everybody should be treated with levity. Some have genuine intentions.

Yes.

Bump

After 5 pages of the thread u neva still know her? U should have known a bit of her by now i guess. I saw u on on facebook. U look innocent, gentle and resemble an Asian. Are u an Asian?

Have i ever told u how pretty, elegant and gorgeous u are?

Where i go? I no dey go anywhere, i don become mario for ur thread

U have to be appreciative of the fact that its coz we feel u are important thats y we bring u into the scene. Dnt do shakara for me. I no sabi toast woman at all.

BABE why na? Oya smile in order to epitomize ur beauty. No mind michael 4jackson. Hin no get action.

Hey u no fit read English? Nothing attached. I dont want any cordiality with u. Just platonic discussion u come dey fear Satanist. I am a human being even though i can also be a devil at times.