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True words right there .... introversion self get repercussions 🫩🫩my God🤦

Panda7:
I believe introverted dudes hid under the Internet to post trash and conspiracy theories . If you are a real dude you should be able to get a real match offline. Staying indoors with your assumptions won't change the reality. Your physical influence could.

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BEHOLD the beginning of the END ...🔥🔥who no adjust gi collect 🔨=Pukkalolo

This is just the pure truth... You wrote well.

When a man blows up and makes serious money, the first thing his brain screams is “I need women.”

But when a woman starts making money, her first thought is, “I no longer need men.”

That’s not a coincidence. That’s female nature on full display.

Look at these billionaire/millionaire wives in the Western world filing for divorce left and right. These women didn’t leave because the man suddenly became ugly or boring. They left because they now have enough of their own money… plus the fat divorce settlement coming… and they’ve concluded: “I can fund my lifestyle without this man.”

The moment a woman starts earning more than you, or meets a man who does, you don’t just become less attractive… You become useless in her eyes, especially if she had no genuine desire for you from the onset.

This is why that popular advice, “Just make money and women will follow you,” is becoming one of the most dangerous lies men are swallowing today.

Because here is the truth…

Society is bending over backwards to push women forward… more scholarships, more corporate favoritism, more social support. In a few years, a huge wave of women will be out-earning the average man. And when that day comes, men will face mass rejection and silent heartbreak at levels we’ve never seen before. Not because women hate men… but because they simply won’t need men anymore.

And it gets worse.

Because right now, the female intimacy gadget industry is exploding. Vibrators, intimacy gadgets, AI-powered realistic d!ldos… women are getting better orgasms from plastic and silicon than most men are giving them in real life.

Many women are quietly choosing toys over dicks.

Soon, a growing number of women will ask themselves: Why tolerate a man’s flaws, ego, and drama when I can have financial independence and sexual satisfaction without him?

My brother, this is the future staring us in the face.

The game is evolving. Most men will cry about it. The dangerous ones will adapt.[/quote]

So Saddening🫩🫩

JESHAL007:
I have had some crazy sexual encounters with some of the most innocent looking women in today's society that I am 100% sure both their boyfriends and eventual husbands will never get to experience Such with same women.

As I Rule I don't do married women.
Suprisenly, the number of Green lights, Sexual fantasie chats And Nude pictures that comes my way on a daily basis from married women (in most cases they usually hide their marital status) has inforced my beliefs that Most married men know absolutely nothing about the sexual nature of their supposed Good wifes and it also validates my suspicion that most married women are using marriage to cover up their whoring enterprise....

Back in the days women used virginity, fidelity and feminine characteristics to bargain for a man's commitment.

But this day's, it is we the men that are willingly offering our commitments (some even their birth right) to women for something as pathetic as validation from a woman even when sex ( not to talk of virginity ) is not guaranteed.

We sold our rights, dignity And Authority in the name of being civilized and Woke.

Experience something like this ...the last asked i should wait for her to think about it ....thinking about giving me a chance too keep 2 years ..I just lost interest

PinkNature:
part 1

guys reading the redpill isn’t enough. you’ve got to go into the real world and practice.

i drowned myself in the redpill throughout covid but got severely burned 2x in relationships. i got brutally heart broken after a girl i fell in love dumped me like i didn’t even worth a naira to her (i was 23) and i fell in love for the first time. i remained single for a long time (tho i was having sex because 😌)

so i kept asking girls out for the sake of sex, which i did get. so on this day, i went to sch while being high and i asked a lot of girls out but one showed a bit of interest while texting so we got talking she was really beautiful and i noticed we’ve got chemistry.

but she never wanted to come to my place but loved whenever we spoke on the phone.

Worst thing a man can do to himself...Buying attention...same attention that lacks integrity..mtcheeww

MetalJigsaw:
11. When You flash money on a woman's face, i.e trying to show her that you're a rich nice man, you're only communicating one thing: You're just another beta bucks man; A fund raiser, money dispenser A.K.A. ATM 😂

All tied to the MAN
Just because you're a man means you should SHOULDER THE WORLD RESPONSIBILITY 😔😔😔

MetalJigsaw:
8. Their loyalty is highly transactional.. Nine out of every ten relationships are flourishing mainly because of the man's financial efforts, not his personality.

Where the link dey baba dem ..make Una add me ...08051453773.

LifeofDream:
I was on the WhatsApp group before my account was suspended by Zuckerberg..

I will appreciate if I can get the link to join again..
Thank you 🤍

The problem is not about approaching ..in my experience
9ja gals are typical rude or lack self awareness....you can decide toasting make them make you feel like say they're doing you a favor by responding to your attention.....mtcheeww

emmaodet:
Lol....I will say give marriage a chance if you can.

I have this believe that you can only get better in what you do and not what you keep avoiding.
We always get nervous when driving a car for the first time, riding a bicycle /okada/ swimming / football / starting and running a biz / entering ring to box / writing etc and always get better as we do more of it not avoiding it.
SO i am of the opinion that boys should go out and woo/toast ladies more, date more and with time you will get better and know how to filter out the seeds from the chaffs.
When i started toasting ladies, i always forget all the lines i had crammed to tell the girls.
After approaching and saying ''Hello'' every other thing disappers from my head. It was so embarrassing then.
Sometimes, my voice would be shaking while talking or afraid but consistency overtime made me better.
Now, i approach ladies with confidence and can keep conversation for as long as it worth it..... that is a lesson from experience and not shying away from it bro

TRUTH📈

MetalJigsaw:
6. What you have done for yourself will keep her more than what you have done for her.

There's not point trying to change HER

MetalJigsaw:
4. If you can't change her, change her. 😡

🤣🤣🤣 I swear

MetalJigsaw:
Women shaa They aren't far from children.

These are what I've learned about them in my few decades in this world:

# You chase them, they avoid you.
You avoid them, they chase you.

You're right YOUNG GUYS don't Indulge Married women but I can't say same for women ...they literally go with anything .....dreamxhaser post=139025245]At this point….no matter how good looking you are and how good your game is. Women will always cheat.

I don’t think there is a woman out there that doesn’t cheat. They can love you and still cheat.

This why, i think how they feel about you should never be your problem, as long as you get the pusxy without investing your time and resources.

As For the married men who think their wives are different. I promise you they just haven’t got the right chance. If that 25 year old young man in her work place or street makes a move, she is most likely going down.


Married men are just lucky most young men don’t eye married women. Especially those aged 40 and above.[/quote]

🙆omo e reach that level ??no wonder R Kelly still dey cell ...dem dey fear women for that side ...🫩🫩=internationalman post=139000099]

That's not always true, sometimes the more beautiful and attractive you are as a woman, the less men woo you. And about your first sentence, you may be right but Nigerian men are totally different, they are on another level above the rest when it comes to chasing and lusting after attractive ladies. They come off as too thirsty. They are primarily the enablers of olosho in Nigerian women.

In America, if you approach and woo a girl the way we aggressively do in Nigeria even when the girl don't seem to be interested, you will be accused of sexual harassment. A guy just got fired in my workplace for sexual harassment for persistently buying gifts for a lady even when the lady constantly told him off.

It's only in Nigeria Oga will fire you or starts maltreating you for refusing to sleep with him. Lecturers are the worst. Try to do the same thing with Yankee girls against their will, you will go to jail.[/quote]

Nothing but the whole truth __=dreamxhaser post=138969187]

You're right to extent.

As for men who are "ugly," I don't think any man is ugly per se. The thing is, a lot of men don’t work on their looks.

Let me give you an instance. I am an average-height guy (Nigerian average) with a face that I would say is within to slightly above average, dark-skinned, and I have a good voice. How do I know? I have had women compliment my facial looks (though a few times), but almost every woman has complimented my voice.

In fact I won’t lie, i used to think i was ugly, women made me realize i am not.

I have friends who are as good-looking or even better than me, and they are way taller. We went to an event where there were a lot of girls. I dressed well, used a good perfume, a wristwatch, and everything. Guess what? All the girls' attention was on me; they were trying hard to get my contact too. My friend, who is 6’4” and handsome, confirmed it and was like, “These girls are into you.” The reason is because I dressed well and automatically look good better.

I also have another friend who is not tall. in fact, he is almost short, but has women tripping over him because he has a good "face card."


In fact, little things like your skin or haircut can make or break your looks. Some things are beyond our control, like height and facial features, but the rest is on you.

Another thing: there was a time I got a good haircut, took a picture, and posted it on my social media. Omo, you should have seen how people were hyping me! That same "me" got a skin cut a few months later, and even I could see the difference, I looked really ugly.

Also, women have specs (preferences). Don’t let anyone lie to you; some like light-skinned guys, some love dark-skinned guys, some love chubby men, some love skinny men (yes, some do), and most love tall men.

It's left for you as a guy to know her spec and know if you should keep pushing or not.


Just look at the Snowfall actor (Damson Idris); the guy is average, but when he dresses and comes out, every girl thinks he is handsome.

So, that money men use to chase women, use it to work on yourself and freshen up. Get a good skincare routine, good clothes that fit you, a good haircut, and many more. I promise you, you will move up the ladder from average to handsome.[/quote]

🙌🙌🙌 Ubunja my prophet from day 1....God bless the day I met this thread 🙏

ubunja:
happy 2026 bro. The Redpill is Eternal.

Add me to the group please 🥺 🙏..08051453773....Savingz.

Martinez39s:
Ubunja was the first person I mentioned. Lol.

Anyway, it was inevitable. Regardless of whatever happened, we were all bound to move on. I remember saying so, a few years back, that this time would time. Even human beings don't last forever.

The WhatsApp group went silent after three years of hot activity , almost up to a year. When I had concluded that it was dead, it came back to life again and is now active like its peak.

May the souls of redpillers who passed away rest in peace. For those still kicking, more growth and success in your redpill journey and other areas of life.

[You mean there's a GROUP 👀👀 MAKE UNA ADD ME NA ...I DEY ACTIVE since the BIRTH OF THIS THREAD OO SHUUU.....08051453773...Savings ]Please someone should add me to the WhatsApp group, I heard there's a WhatsApp group. Someone should be kind enough to send me the WhatsApp group link. Thanks guys[/quote]

🙆🙆🙆Na WA ooo....to near gals these days dey bother me ...false rape??🧐 Chaii ...revenge is a must 👋👋

=Agbaje1246 post=124424172]I have been accused of rape before,what saved me was that my mother threatened to take us to a village traditionalist before the idiot of a lady confessed that I was playing too hard to get with all her numerous greenlights . She nearly ruined my life cuz she couldn't handle rejection.. Thank God I had a wise mother[/quote]

So what's actually the guidelines to building these sexual comfort here's my Whatsapp 08051453773....


Years ago, I saw a thread on Reddit. It was kinda like this thread we are currently on. But this time, it was a female thread. Some 'woke' women among them were teaching the other women 'how to master men, get men to commit, and everything thing related to winning a man's heart and getting him to chase.'

I was captivated by the thread, not necessarily because they were dropping any dope dating wisdom. It was simply because I was surprised to see that women also actually care about trying to master men and win a man's heart.

That was really fascinating to me because I used to think men are the only ones so concerned about mastering the opposite sex. I was shocked to see that women are also damn concerned about getting good with men.

That was my first dating 'awareness' ...then everything else I later learned about women grew from that awareness.

Normally, guys will Google "how to get a girlfriend" or "how to know if she likes me" or how to make her chase me," and so on...

But my style of research changed immediately. I started googling things like, how to get a boyfriend," or "how to know if he really likes me" or how to make him chase me," and so on.

Why?

Because...

There's a proverb that says, "If you want easily conquer your enemy, you need first find out the kind of advice they are getting on how to conquer you."

I was curious to see the kind of dating advise women are getting on how to handle men.


This might sounds paradoxical and counterintuitive: this way, I got better ideas on what actually drive women and how women think.

I came gradually to realize that women actually want to please men, impress men and win men heart...

But most men don't realize this. No wonder the vast majority of advice for men out there is centered on how to impress women: "how to make her laugh," or "how to please her on the bed" or "how to make her think about you" or "how to make her give you sex", or "how to make her attracted to you" or worse, "how to add sexual innuendo and humor in your chat so she will not find you boring," and so on...

The fundamental problem with all the above advise is that it's all still centered on (or related to)'pleasing and impressing women.'

But at the core, women don't want that. Women don't want you to be trying to impress them or please them. Women don't want you to be trying to get them.

Most men don't truly understand that.

This is why many men still failed with women despite everything they've learnt about women. Despite the fact that they've read all the redpill books... Despite the fact that they know all the alpha male rules and bad boy techniques....Despite all these, there's something still lacking in their game with women; there's still a MISSING PIECE. There's still a problem.

The problem is that you are still indirectly or covertly trying to impress the woman. You think you've learned some alpha or 'dominant' move, but you are still trying to pass her shit test and impress her. That's the problem.

Women are suppose to be the ones trying to please you, impress you or give you the pussy.

But, the challenge was, "how do I trigger women emotions and make them eager to want to please me, impress me and naturally want to give me the pussy and go into a relationship with me?"

I knew I won't find this answer anywhere online or offline because most advice out there are indirectly and covertly focused trying to impress women. So I had to depend on my own personal experience.

I started noticing that there are women that seem attracted to me or somehow liked me, but for some unknown reasons, these women still refuse to give me sex or date me. This got me confused. I began wondering, "what am I doing wrong?". "What is the missing piece?"

That was how I accidentally discovered the concept I call "sexual comfortableness."

Here's the big idea I accidentally learnt about sexual comfortability. I realized that when a woman is attracted to you or somewhat interested in you, then that means she's impress with you.

But her being impressed with you isn't enough. She won't give you the pussy just because she impressed with you. She would only give you the pussy if she's sure that YOU are also genuinely impressed with her. Note the key word: genuinely.

This quickly still relate to the fact that women actually want to please men, impress men and win their heart...

She has to be the one trying to please you, but you have to inspire her to do so.

Buiding sexual comfortableness with a woman is about making her feel excited, 'shameless' and safe about the idea of pleasing you, impressing and giving you the pussy.


Since then, my understanding about women changed. Instead of trying to get pussy or try to persuade women to go into a relationship with me...I just focused on building sexual comfortableness. That was when my game with women skyrocketed. The pussy naturally started coming my way.



You've already made one deadly mistake from the beginning.

Here's is the mistake:

You are trying to persuade her to go into a relationship with you.



Look, women know that men are the true gate keepers of commitment(relationship). As a man, your commitment is your POWER.

And women want to please a man, impress him and earn his commitment.

But when you are eager to go into a relationship with her, you are giving her no opportunity to impress you and earn your commitment.

As a result, she'll think you are cheap, weak and have no value and self-respect. So she becomes bored with you because you're no longer a challenge to her.

See, brother. Sadly, I view Marriage or relationship like a Cage. If a woman wants me in that cage, then she better impress me and make it seem enjoyable to me.

To be honest, most women I dated had to persuade me into the idea of going into a serious relationship with them. The relationship was mostly their idea, not mine. I was the prize, or better say, I was the catch. And even when I was in a relationship with them, I was like an egg: very fragile. Meaning, if she doesn't pamper me or treat me carefully, I'm ready to 'break' out of the relationship immedately.

A woman gets zero fulfilment from catching a man that wants to be in a cage.

Great fulfillment and satisfaction comes from catching the man that can immedately run out of the relationship if she doesn't impress him enough or work hard to keep his commitment.

And that's is how it's suppose to be because you own the power of commitment(relationship). The woman should be the one trying to please you and win your commitment.

If you are not a wealthy man or a rich celebrities, most women won't be inspire to try to please you or impress you... UNLESS you create 'sexual comfortableness' in her.


Now, you are thinking, "Since trying to go into a relationship with her is a wrong move, then I guess the right move is to just concentrate on getting the sex first...right?"

No, bro. Again that's another wrong move. Here's why...

Women are the gate keepers of sex.

What does that mean?

This means that, it's the woman that "decides" if you'll get the pussy or not.

Since the woman have to be the one to "agree to" or "decide" if it's time to give you the pussy, then that means you don't really have any power in the interaction. The only way to get the power is to be attention focused and sexually detached.

One key thing I learnt from women's dating advice is that, women are advised to always leverage the power of their most valuable asset (pussy) to control men and get them to do what they want.

A woman’s power comes from how she controls access to her pussy. That means, the very thing that makes her powerful and in control is the fact you are trying to have access to her pussy.

Remember, women actually want to impress men and win their heart...

Being eager to have access to her pussy, is a big sign that you are already impressed with her. But she feels that you are NOT genuinely impressed with her because she has not done anything to impress you yet.

The one thing that makes a man sexually appealing is the fact that he's hard to please. Not impossible to please, but hard to please. Meaning, she has to work harder to impress him and win his full attention (validation).

So when you're eager to have access to her pussy or eager to go into relationship with her, you become easy to please in her eyes. She feels she already has you wrapped around her finger...so she becomes bored with you.

This is why I encourage sexual detachment and not being pussy focused.

If you don't give a shit about her pussy, then she automatically feels powerless around you. She starts questioning her value as a woman. This is a challenge to her ego.

The harder a woman work to please you and impress you, the more fulfilled and happy she is. And she associate that satisfaction and fulfillment to you, and as a result she'll want to be around you to get that dopamine hit (fulfillment).

The purpose of the man is to go out there, conquer the world and create as much value... While the purpose of a woman is the please the man, add unlimited value to him and give him total satisfaction.

Women are suppose to be ones asking "how do I make him laugh?" or "how do I please him on the bed?" or "how do I get him to fall in love with me" Or , "how do I add humor in my chat so he won't think I'm boring," and so on...

The Woman feel more purposeful and fulfilled when she's trying to please the man, and not the other way round.


Miracood2, there's a high chance this lady already wants to please you and impress you but you are not giving her the chance to do so.

With this girl, the idea isn't to persuade her to go into a relationship with you; the idea isn't to try to get the pussy...

The idea is to make her feel 'shameless', excited and safe about the idea of pleasing you, impressing and giving you the pussy. This is what I called building sexual comfortableness.


Yes, you are making efforts to get her but, again that’s where you got it wrong. You are concentrated on trying to get the her instead of "allowing" her try to get you.

The attractive woman doesn't value "male effort" because it is too available. Every man is already trying to please her, impress her and trying to get with her.

But when she encounters a man who can make feel excited, shameless and safe about the idea pleasing him and impressing him and going sexual with him... it's as if she has encounter a pure gold. She will cherish it.

If you want to learn how to build sexual comfortableness with women, click below and purchase a copy of my book...
The ball is in your court.

I just hope you got some wisdom on this post.

Stay blessed.[/quote]

Truth be told .....these pill 💊 💊 has civilized my tummy
Stop Personalizing Women Too Much , She’s not your property even if she’s your girlfriend, You didn’t birth her , you don’t own her, You didn’t buy her at any Set price from Any Vendor she’s only with you as long as The Situation Favors Her. she could be gone in a heartbeat [/quote]

You're so on point ..actually have been a silent follower but dedicated since the days this thread was created till date (eg days of ubunja and dphychologist...etc .something happened to me that period
Have been meeting gals lest wooing for fun ..but this 2 set of gals did a number on me
☝️The 1st gal was being difficult during wooing stage ,she was friends with my circle but made me seemed like I don't exist ,, I tried getting her attention my 🧠was messed up till I gave up ..

☝️2nd Gal was even my tribe but acting like she's foreign this one was a little easy but was manipulative ....I asked her out
😁She couciled then apologized the next day but never rescheduled
But what I noticed was she stringing me along ...trying to friendzone with her actions



--The average man is ignorant and misled. His mental construct of women is far greater than anything the typical woman aspires to. This is not his fault for his biology deceives him and society lies to him, as such the deck of deception is stacked. Nevertheless, the reality remains.[/quote]