₦airaland Forum

Since you believe both of you have suffered for the relationship go and borrow the money from the loan app , borrow from family and friends .

dominique:
What is your business with the weapons another country us producing? Are you not producing weapons yourself? In fact, your weapons have caused more deaths, destruction and devastation than any country in your region ever will. How one person can be so much infatuated with destruction and chaos is beyond me.

Satanyahu for a reason!

And you think Israel care about this your cry ,I don't know if you can be comfortable if you next door neighbour is storing petrol in his room

keemsleek:
I don't understand you people issues with single mothers. Is it not men like us that made them single mothers? In every circle there are always few good ones. What about single fathers or girls that committed several abortions or una single babes that are into runs etc. There are still few good single mothers 100% better than una single girls.

your choice there is no need to get angry with other people opinion you can open another thread and tell us good things about single mothers,

You have nothing doing with a woman who have no good Job, no political connection ,No abroad paper,no landed property in a good location or inheritance.

Is only those poor one that call men broke

I don't go near broke women that have nothing to offer,the Almajiri on wig that believe I should provide for them as if am their father

You expect me to provide what your broke father cannot do for you

In all you do also avoid all these bitter feminist on nairaland

aAll

Righteousness2:
So unfortunate what many of these guys have turned church to?
The Fear of GOD is totally lost. Fornicators , adulterers and all sorts of Depraved people are so courageous and bold to pose as religious title holders , standing in a so called altar.

Truly JUDGEMENT WILL BEGIN IN THE HOUSE OF GOD

All of you are the same is just method of operation that is different

sammiewrite:
Shocked to see comments talking about plan B, not putting eggs in one basket or even worst, the ones saying all women or men will fail this test. Like, seriously? But why am I even surprised? Isn't this the same Nigerians who believe in the idea of "workchop?" Zero integrity, but somehow they want their leaders to be faithful and honest.

As for you OP, if you like, allow damaged, dishonest people to mislead you with all those insecurity talks. She denied your papa this one time. Just like Peter in the bible, there are at least two more times she is going to deny you. If you think cheating is only when your girlfriend is sending nudes or doing the do, then think again. And one last thing, let this be the last time you will ever seek advise from or report a woman to another woman.

am equally shocked too

ogaprime:
OP, please don't mind those calling you the red flag. You are in the best position to use what ever means or method in selecting a Life Partner.

For someone you call a partner to deny the relationship even if the two of you haven't met each other's parents or family members calls for immediate concern. That means little breeze of distraction, the partner is tossed off the radar.

Don't mind them they all have criminal minds together

Shaketable:
Guy cool down! U r planning to marry her u have not, if she were ur wife already or u have done the traditional rites n this happens u can start throwing all these tantrums but as at now u can still disappoint her , which u might do. So don't over react cus she knows she is not urs yet not even by tradition or anything. Cus I see traditional marriage as d real marriage, u add any other one on it. So don't over react , if her character is good which is what u should really look into go for it.

Most of you have criminal minds ,he has been spending money on this particular girl and her mother ,read your comments and think again if what you write up there makes sense even if the Op marries her she will still cheat

Chijeep:
My cousin sister said I should forgive her.
And besides, she made it clear 2 the person that she don't want s3x

you are still a learner ,I pity you

You don't know anything ,even if you ask for her nude she will send it ,so far money is involved ,you want her to be loyal to you ,is she having a good work ,you don't know relationship is the work of most of these ladies

AkpaMgbor:
What is the implication? No we cannot stop talking about the madness that is religion. You say she’s an adult, how about kids who are made to go through the same thing by their parents or wards and end up dying, was it the kid’s choice?

You want to cry more than the bereaved ,the children are they yours,you suddenly love the children more than the parents, have you taught about the danger of blood transfusion too

What about people that get transfuse and still die ,am not here to talk about what adult decide to do with it's life .

If not satisfy with her decision you can always challenge it in court

Women are very brutal whenever they have power, just little power they exhibit the wickedness inside them

Not our problem ,go to court and prove your case

People should respect her decision ,she is an adult and knows the implication of her decision, people take blood and still die

64kent:
so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me
help what do i do ?

You have asked the right question once you hit the nail on the head they will get angry.

And you have no business with such lady pls move on to another

nairalanda1:
I am happy with your comment, that's why I am helpfully suggesting you marry another man.

You are being honest and that's good

So marry a man and leave those evil women alone. And tell your mother too she is like that. She will appreciate your honesty

I won't allow you to drag me to your level but I still maintain jump into river and die if you don't like my comment

nairalanda1:
Better marry another man then , since women are all like that.

Also disown your mother, she is a woman after all and all women are like that as you said

if you are not pleased with my position you can take a dive into river and die is not my problem

The reality is all women are like dat ,even your wife or girlfriend that you think is an angel is just waiting for the right time to show herself.

We shall all learn either from it happening to you or from other people example

No woman no cry

DeclanR:
Don't judge people u don't know by your own Standards. You could make a sensible comment without been uncouth.

Rubbish

To a finished man like you is rubbish

There is no happy ending for a matured man begging for love.

My advice to you is to first go and learn how to love yourself first.

It looks as if you are not love at home the reason you are looking for love from someone that didn't love you.

Despite all the complains about how Nigeria women misbehave abroad ,this one still wants to carry woman go abroad ,with her character now did you see her as a supportive partner.

If it happened you will run come nairaland for advice.una no dey hear word

Osiris12:
e go really take international efforts to push tinubu out

There is serious fight between forces of darkness and light and it seems does of darkness are winning now

Op you have been advised to wait till it happen what you see your wife expressing her feelings to another man is nothing until the actual penetration occur ,even the females pretending to be male is telling you that your problem is insecurity

You see her as your girlfriend but she see you as her ATM machine.