₦airaland Forum

Kimjongun:
I am starting to suspect feminism and lesbianism go hand in hand

you are absolutely right

I don't use strong offensive words on people ,I can't even call my son fool

As a matter of urgency there is need to organise training on mannerism for public office holders

Congratulations my brother

Nigeria men are getting more enlighten il

NotOfThisWorld:
Oga, do you have a job? You wrote all that and mentioned your wife's career but not yours because you probably don't have any. Since your wife is the only one working, paying the bills, ensuring you've a roof over your head and likely giving you pocket money as well, then you better continue doing those chores and without complaining. There's no big deal with a man cooking and washing plate. You say you feel like a woman but your wife is playing the role of a man if she's the provider in your family, so you take the other role and do it diligently. You also mentioned plaiting your niece's hair - if you're very good at that then maybe start a side business as a hairbraider, otherwise continue doing your niece's hair, along with your other chores in the house, and don't let your brother or anyone else cause problem for you and your wife. I trust you won't even try anything with your army wife.

This is a female you all can see her advice very brutal and straight forward.No emotion is attached she has the money she is in control.

Why will you decide to train someone else daughter in school ,things have changed is not the same life during the time of your uncles and father,now everyone is after survival there is no shame again .

Even in business there is nothing like gentleman agreement again ,pls don't set yourself for failure and heartpain, women are very brutal and heartless

They are out for survival,men should always bring in survival mode too ,look for relationship that will benefit you ,stop dating liabilities ,be intentional don't be carried away with sex and beauty

Before starting and relationship look at how is going to benefit you ,if not abort mission .

Women are not evil ,it's you that make wrong choice

Kalatium:
Let’s be honest — adulthood is hard work for everyone.
Bills don’t care about gender. Dreams don’t grow on sympathy.

It’s not a man’s responsibility to fund your lifestyle, fix your laziness, or fuel your entitlement.
And yes — this is for those lazy, unmotivated, unproductive, and perpetually “waiting for a helper” ladies.

Work is dignity.
Work is freedom.
Work is how you earn respect — not demand it.

Men are not financial plans.
They are fellow adults, hustling through the same chaos called life.

If you want soft life, start with hard work.
If you want independence, stop outsourcing your effort.

No one owes you a good life.
You owe yourself effort, growth, and accountability.

The world respects those who create value, not those who consume pity.

So go out there and grind legit — with your brain, your skills, and your hands.
Your future self will thank you for it.

Nobody is forcing men to do it , they are the one willingly accepting the responsibility and they start complaining and crying on nairaland.

Very weak set of men we have now they can only cry out on social media and still go back to the women DM begging them for relationship .The married ones are the worst

For business transaction to be successful there must be willingly buyers and sellers.

Disgrace people

Is it by force to marry or are you begging us to contribute money for you

Peakdesign23:
Just say you can't afford them. I don't think that all of them put together are after your money, probably you're the one making the wrong choices.

Yes ma I can't afford them I can't stay with liability ,glutton , Almajirii beggars,self centered

Esthered:
Which ways insinuator?

Go on an exposition spree na...lol

They will soon make law that paternity fraud will soon attract jail time of 10yrs you and your fellow Almajiris will soon see

Esthered:
He's not talking about his character flaw that necessitated the DNA test.

The topic for discussion is paternity fraud try and change your ways stop supporting evil

You will all be exposed

Diamond098454:
maybe she didn't know she was pregnant for the mysterious man or it may be a case of rape

you lack shame with all your comments I shake head for you

Sannisege:
They want Nigeria to be like America but they don't want to pay taxes. They all rush to Canada where everything is taxed but they don't want tax in Nigeria. How will local refineries like Dangote break even if cheaper fuel is imported from other countries? If you can't afford imported fuel that carries 15% tax, then buy locally refined fuel. Shikena!

No wahala bro Even your monthly stipend will be tax

emmatony:
Thank you very much. I truly appreciate it

Mostly the rent yield is not more than 5% of the current value of the house ,you can sell the house and invest the money on fg bond of 10yrs at least you are sure of collecting 17% yield yearly plus your investment value in 10yrs

You can use your yearly interest payment to buy land and build house

Forget about the guy talking about fg defaulting in interest payment .

Note .
This is not a financial advice DYOR

Double0h7:
Why?

your conclusion is dat the other guy is richer than the Op so he should double is hustle ,he is not in any competition with anybody he married their daughter legally , they can take their daughter and give to the other man

The only problem is marrying from such shameless and hungry

Is not compulsory he give them any gifts if he doesn't have the means

Double0h7:
The message they are sending is to up your hustle! Do you gift them?

After reading your comment I just shake my head

Zionmdde:
The guy was very brutal. And lest he forgets, the internet doesn't forget.

One day people will surely bring out this post for him

Very selfish thoughts
So your children shouldn't have grandparents, your wife doesn't deserve omugwo.

I hope he gives birth to a daughter, and a man also tells his daughter the same thing. Infact if the daughter loves the man too much, the daughter can do one or two to meet the criteria. Too much senseless things on the internet today

Have you not heard from ladies dat pray not to have mother in law

Ironfaceman:
Some nairalanders will begin to cry even though the story is farfetched. Because charity is not imbibe in them.

To them life is a give and take. But if God had put charity in the power of your hands
Do it.

what are you waiting for marry all the step mother around you and take care of their children

Don't try to drag other people to your mess do your charity alone and in peace

Depression is real

Nice quote from Almajiri on wig

What will the boy even benefit from being the boyfriend to a useless girl like dat

Men should stop making noise they are the one that created the situation especially the married men , check the girl WhatsApp messages you will see men chatting and begging her with money

Hit and run family

The chicken in the cage are always laughing at the one trying to free itself

Chicken who are in cage always laugh at the one that try to free itself

Sammy101111:
Lol see comment
You no build house for your mama na ordnary gf you I build house for you go cry

He has to build house for the girl and furnish it ,is he not sleeping with the girl

And #5000 is too small for the girl and her sister every 2 days he has to increase it

Buy land and build a house for them

Women are very brutal in taking decisions

I like the way they are dealing with all this ignorant men.

You will learn by force

One thing I like about women is they are very brutal in their decision making ,they don't allow themselves to be manipulated by any side talks,hope men can learn from this and stop listening to emotional talks from women.

Men are told to take their cheating wife back because of children.

This generation is full of weak men ,see their useless comments