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PunkyV:
Why do bad situations always happen to good people?

You sound like one of the few good people left in this world. Whether he loves you in his own way or not, you deserve a guy whose feelings for you are as clear as the sky is blue. His take it or leave it attitude doesn't exactly scream care but then again, that could be who he is. IDK. You also say he's insensitive to your feelings...nuh uh. Find someone better.

0ubenji:
The questn now shudn't be if he loves u or not..dats not reali pertinent here..
The signals his act conveys is wat u shud be bothered bou..

the way he's behavin is peculiar to men who r lukin for an escape route in a relatnship dey probably tired of ..but cnt summon d courage to call it quits..
I guess he feels choked wit u bein around..

P.S: this is 1 major disadvantage of long-term relationships

KnightRod:
I was here

dukem:
I am in a relationship with a guy for 3years, we are from the same state, Lga and attended the same school. love him very much that i made up my mind not to cheat on him, despite the fact that he is working but sometimes dont take care of me as his woman, These i dont complain about.
Each time we have a misunderstanding he will bring up all my flaws and mistakes which he has been storing. Apart from these, he will bluntly tell me that if i have other suitors or men that wants to be serious with me that i should consider them and start up something with them. Anytime i get him upsets and tries to explain things to him in a submissive and playful manner to him, he says hurtful words to me that breaks me emotionally. Sometimes saying that i and him may not end up married together.My question is this with all the aforemention does he loves me? Or am i wasting my time with him?

obiorathesubtle:
I dy teamVirgin o..

Iono what is viagra.. Ask jack sparrow.. Him fit know

Synzu:
This my moniker dey sweet you to call.

i swear oooo



Buh it isnt about the sweetness alone, we all are just checking if you are still alive.

HateU2:
lol. Don't mind my colouring ooo

lolzzz...You making me fall in love but you hate me too

HateU2:

oya vex not babie.... buh y u sef color the article anyhow na


All d same, ndoo

SAINTSAMURAII:
hehehe no bashing, me too, i will come out, muva is my campaign manager.

obiorathesubtle:

TeamViagra oya make una talk ya mind

WalkerMichael:
Nawaoo. God help us Sha. Legs be looking like that of Johnny Bravo

ErnieSmallzz:

i just have the feeling you would be hia....Chaiii mtn girl

HateU2:
Hi all.
I have read so many threads about ladies on this forum and sometimes I just waka pass because there are lots of things you guys don't understand. Lemme put you through.

We are Nigerians(Hausa, IBO or Yoruba) and somehow our culture is still the richest so far.

Now, some guys will open threads to complain about ladies and all that.

First of all check yourself. Most of you guys brags a lot. Lemme use an example, A guy was asking me out and can you guess his 'lines'? 'Baby, I will take care of you' Really , take care of me Is that the new line? I quickly told him to fcck off because I detest guys with that mentality. All I'm saying here is that don't try to impress any lady with your money and that's why most of you come here to cry whenever a girl asks you for #100 recharge card. Check your 'toasting skills'.

I also read a comment about a guy that said he can't date a girl with some investments, really? You guys are the most complicated 'Thing' God creaated in this world. Yes! Lemme back it up. We all know guys dont like it when Ladies are more successful than them Or is it the society that frowns at this That's why single ladies are afraid to buy cars and build houses because no man will like to marry a Lady that already has it all with the mentality that she will not be submissive bla bla like that. Examples are Linda Ikeji, Funke Akindele and others. You guys that are 'crying upadan' here, go to them please. Nobody is stopping you and remember they are single.

And for a man to feel like 'Man', he wanna provide for his family and while doing this, he Will also be complaining of too much of liabilities. SMH

Now, a lady is successful, she's termed 'Career woman' or even ' Feminist' simply because she's not married. Then our parents will start their wahala of 'Don't do this to me', ' Have mercy on me', 'Your mates are getting married' Bla bla like that. And Society too will start looking at you with 'some kind eyes' Chai! What exactly did the society wants from us

Okay, She's married now. To start running the house, she has to resign so as to take care of her home and if she disagrees, family meeting na the next thing. SMH. Or she's given the option of getting a maid . To save her home from the second wife popularly called 'Maid', she resigned and that does not stop 'Uncle' from cheating and complaining about her new weight and almost everything. *Sighs*.

I learnt about from my mama and I'm still learning thou. She's an independent woman. When I was growing up, she usually hammer something in my brain.

'Ajike, don't rely on a man either his money, his wealth or his happiness (mind you, we are happy family with my Dad). To earn respect from a man, you must be able to bring something to the table also. Have a source of income before thinking of getting married, they are not predictable'.
And mind you oooo, when a lady is getting close to 26/27, Our same parents will start questioning us. *sighs* Seriously, what do you want from us

That statement is kinda stuck in my brain and I know t's helping me alot.

I don't really know what this thread is all about, I'm just trying to say 'Our society is kind of affecting us in everything or everywhere we find ourselves'. Before you open your mouth to talk, think twice.

To my single ladies, this is the Time to get it right. Yea love. Your dream, your career and everything you wanna become, do it now and be independent. You won't have enough time to achieve it when the kids starts coming. Or unless you have wonderful and understanding husband like [b]'Chimamanda Ngozi's husband's[\b] Let that guy respects you. Let him wonder where you are getting money. Let him thinks maybe you are 'coded olosho or ashewo(thats how they reason) .

I rest my case.
Bashings are allowed.
Lalasticlala, what do you think

HATEU2.....Confused since time 1807B.C . This is evident in her color combo sef

ritababe:
lol okay

when are we gonna end our fight naa

bqlekan:
Brother, we are surviving oh, We can't complain. Ow about you?


That is the problem with algorithms, it has to be reviewed once minor updates are being made. _seun must be aware now

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Im calling 9-1-1

sauceny:
I know you feeling the nigga

Lolzzz, you got her scope

donbenedict:
loooooooooool..



Sotey one fool been wan share ur nude sef


How did u even survive the heat?

she ran outta the kitchen into the bathroom. Simple

mimzy:
If u aint strong at heart , pls take it from me...do not contest..
Keep bench warming puleeeazzzeee

Or else...

...Coming froM an iron lady herself.

Please listen to mimshyyyyyyyyy


Le boo, we stil dey fight?

Marlvin:
Quite an experience huh,
there's more to life than that, you know.


I've got the most suitable song for your present mood.

it either will soothe you or burn up your emotions.

The Game feat Drake .....title of the song '100'

Marlvin:
Does it really matter ?

mimzy:

Le boo


Is your counter alright?

bqlekan:
Checks his counter.. 1 month and 24 days since 2007. It is okay sha...

ritababe:
will you get paid for it?

Rita rita.....Hmmmmm



U wan know if dem go pay me.....Yes. They will pay me in dollars. Okay now?

SAINTSAMURAII:
smallie

dukeprince50:
I registered earlier this month and i got 2days spent, its nt much buh i rock... Oh wait i'm i suppose to be prouda myself? This means i'm jobless lol.

Be happy bro


Toast to the good life

ritababe:
who is smallie

Ochek:
I think the counter is reset whenever you log off online. This is also possible with Nigeria's unstable network - fluctuating upandan.
So, basically, me thinks your time online is a definition of how long you are connected to Nairaland (on the go - OTG) and not how long you are registered with Nairaland.
Tankiu.

You tried but i dont think it works that way ....


What am saying here is that have been much online than some folks close to me with even lesser stats yet ,them seem favored with the counter . And for it to just change to 2hours 45min in a forthnight also prooves my doubt that the counter algorithm is actually dysfunctional. Only seun can understand this.



Letz jus go back to our akamu and leave seun's counter alone

success10:
HAVE U CONSIDERED SPECTATORS "THOSE THAT PEEP ON THREADS WITHOUT ANY POST"...
THIS SET OF NLANDERS SPENT VIRTUALLY 23HRS IN A DAY.

This actually cracked me up

Spenx:
My oga you no dey tire for nairaland matter ni ? haha

MUVA:
Did the thread close even before it was opened?

Lolzzzz.... You know how it is when real life situations gets hold of you, hardly will you even remember your password ...



Like i told obi up there, the thread was supposed to be a summary of events that shrouded the miss Nl. Not necessarily about me, just general stuff...... And it was suppose to convey my congratulatory speech as well.


Buh somehow, i got used to my alternate and didnt even remember a was here. Lolzzz ....Was surprised to see people waiting for another attack. Lolz.


Stay well my guy,
Your head dey there

iStandForPeace