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Anuoluwa12345:
Good evening, pls I need help on something
I don't even know how to put it well, but I will try my best to explain a little..and I seek sincere advice from matured and experienced ppl on the forum.

I am a type that when I love ppl, I love them wholeheartedly..to the extent that I will give in all my best to them.. be it family members or non. When I tell you I gat your back, then I truly mean it. But the problem now is, when these ppl hurt me. I don't know how to handle it, I don't even know if I will call it unforgiving spirit or maybe cause I remember things alot, I will surely not forget.

It's not as if I won't forgive them o, I will but, to make that relationship between me and that person smooth back.. it's not possible.. the distance will always be there.. tho before I get angry or pick offence it takes long, but once it happens like this! I know I have lost relationship with that soul.

Some of my relatives (extended fam) offended me, and since about 3 yrs now, these ppl have been sending different ppl just to beg me and talk to me etc.. in order to make things back, but it's just not working!. Cuz I know myself.

And I am a type that, once I vex, I don't look back..even if the person has done a lot of things etc.. I have tried my best but it's just not working. And I understand the fact that there is no how there won't be argument among humans, it's not possible.

My greatest fear now is, what if I marry, is this how It will be towards my husband, someone I claim I love? Pls how do I tackle this problem before I reach that stage, pls I need sincere word of wisdom from elders, else why I come to a faceless forum to pour out my mind.

omoredia:
Lazy people will always see money as too small thats why they support failed leaders that will take from them with bad governance after agreeing to increase minimum wage

helinues:
Nigeria don't even have your time as you goofed big time.

Kenya only speak basic English not even grammar. Their accent is poor than Nigeria accent

OSUigboFlatHead:
That's a Christian terrorist.
Na so dem dey find trouble

PulaPower:
So long the Toto is good and doesn’t smell, nothing really spoil..

1vandragon:
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https://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/south-south-regional/870513-edo-shuts-event-centre-where-nigerian-rapper-criticised-tinubu.html

donleo92:
And he is some people's Messiah. Because he is against the west

The worst democracy is way better than military rule

That's my opinion.

People of bukina faso are crying bitterly, but you no go know

fykes:
Exactly..how much longer can he really live?

Lawalemi:
Correct. Make man leave Lekki wahala small

Galactics:
And some people that are hell bound are telling us to relax, that Tinubu is fixing Nigeria.

Kemetian:
Omo.....I pity those American soldiers that will go into Iran I swear...

MEGAWATCH:
From the statements , they prefer to SUFFER AND DIE with their families instead of a woman leading them.

They don't care weather she will lead them well or not!


AFRICANS WILL DIE IN SLAVERY TILL CHRIST COMES.





what a race ?

Omo makes mood swing go push us with war with united state of America



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DixseenMktPlace:
Where the bus
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