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This is a shocker

AfroKnight:
You’re 23.

You’re young. Ask her out. Don’t be afraid of the future.

Thanks bro

sanesta:
bros, no be every girl wey you get feelings for you go date.

you must not date that particular girl.

lol

GreenDestiny2:
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At this age, both of you can't be sure of what you want. My elder brother did same thing and is regretting it till today.

Hmmmm

sanesta:
For the fact that it worked for Prince Phillip doesn't give the guarantee that it will work for the op..

No be every girl wey come your way or show you green light you go date. The op mustn't date her as there's nothing to gain or lose, nothing special and I don't think any good would come out from such relationship if not that same heart break and s*x which may at the end imperil the peaceful relationship between both families.

@op, the best gift to gift that girl is a gift of friendship and not some infatuations that may turn you both to enemy.

Thanks but
U know sometimes making friends with someone u have feelings for can be difficult

What were you thinking when you broke up

LovelyDude:
Go for your heart. Prince Philip was 18 while he was in love with queen Elizabeth 13 years old, so don't let some people that are ultra-right tell you it's wrong to love and be with a 19 year old girl, since the feeling is mutual, go for it. 18 is the age of marriage in Nigeria so don't mind those people saying she's too young, they are he'll wrong.

Ok bro
But how are we going to cope dating a girl from same street it will have been better if she is a little bit farther

frozen70:
I am thinking of how you are going to manage this relationship if and when it develops to live affairs

Considering they are good family friends

She is in her late teens

What if the family gets to know that you are dating her and the relationship just ended like that

How will you feel or face them and how will you expect them to trust you and your family again

The worst is that you are all in the same street

I will advise you play the duty if a big brother, ask her about further details on her education plan

Advice her I how to be a woman and keep her self

Scold her when she goes wrong or you see her in the mist of boys or see her hanging with boys

It's better for you to be her watch dog than for you to devour her

U want make i sister zone her be dat

Gallantfortune:
Modified.




Hey, firstly, I will love to let you know that being in love is not something you can forgo easily. You said it all, you guys are both in love.... Why are you holding yourselves down because of your inter families relationship. Do you know you are playing with the girl's heart, which could lead to hatred and the hatred will hinder the family friendship, quote me right.
According to you, Am 80% sure that they will wants you guys to be together.... So why don't you go with your heart.

How can not dating her cause hatred btw the two family

donbachi:
If na boyfriend/girlfriend thing,i go sey make u no try am,but sey u wan marry her,
ahead.

I don't know what future holds but I go like serious with her if it work out

There is this particular family in our street that love my family and we love them too,the parents of the family takes me and my siblings as thier children and vise versa.
The relationship between both families started when they relocated to our street (thier house)last year I was in school then,I travelled home to celebrate the Ramadan festival with my family when I noticed this strange faces coming to our house freely my siblings also go to thier house anyhow I asked my mom she said that is our new family friend, the parents of the family came to greet me for my arrival prayed and said when my siblings said they have brother who is in school they had all been longing to see me, On Eid day they sent me drinks and food and the relationship keep growing stronger.
Late last year after the painful death of my mom I thought the relationship between the family will at least reduce but instead it continues to grow stronger,the family had four beautiful children, first born is a guy 21, second is a girl 19, third a girl 16, fourth a girl 10.
The second born 19 is black and very beautiful with pointed nose, recently in this lockdown I noticed she's inlove with me and she has been developing this feeling since the day she saw me, it will take forever if I should start telling you guys how I found out,I studied her to be very intelligent and straight forward in her behavior.
Very pretty embellished with brain that's what arouses me and I started developing feelings for her too,I don't know if this relationship is going to work because we are too close,her mom loves me alot though she noticed her daughter behavior towards is different I think she knows her daughter loves me,her dad respect me gidi gan,I know if I ask her out she'll accept but I'm afraid I don't want our relationship to affect both families relationship,even my dad noticed her feelings for me but he kept mute, some of my friends knows about it and they ask me if I love her and I said yes, some told me to ask her out some said it will affect both families relationship I should continue if I can face the consequences.
Here is my question my NL famz should i forgo the relationship or proceed by asking her out.
I'm 23

Shey the nose cover go cover my secret?

ghettokid1:
I will pick Osama Bin Laden any day anytime

Yesterday was his death date

StrongandMighty:
I wonder the kind mind people dey get oo... How person go come online dey bold enough dey complain how he or she wasn't allowed to sin.

is premarital sex no longer a sin? please I want to know

Bro sin has prevailed in this world to the extent that people think it is normal.
Those that re doing the right things are looked at as the abnormals

Can someone explain the #100 get 500mb for watsap and facebook for me,cuz it stated I'm not eligible for the bundle

Corona is world war lll

Bone crusher