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People please help!! Still havent been able to come up with the best possible action.

I rly dnt understand the kind of games shes trying to play.She just tagged me and the dude on a pic of her.
Could this be affiliated to what i complained about?

Thanks all for the responses. The major line that shocked me was when the guy said 'pray for us'. All other lines couldnt have meant much, US keeps me wondering if something has been going on. I just need advise on what to do people.

Hello everyone, I am here to let you people know what's going on with my love life and to get the best possible advise I can get before things go out of place. I have been dating my girl for close to two years now, I have never had any reason, or has she given me any reason to ever doubt her in terms of cheating or unfaithfulness, however she is more of the type that will always tell me about any guy that comes along to toast her and all that. Recently before she went back to school,she told me about a guy that was toasting her, but she immediately told the guy that she has a boyfriend, and she informed me of this, all along the guy calls her most of the time when we are together and the conversation sometimes seems interesting to her.But I as a person have developed an habit in which, if a girl gives u her trust and shows u beyond every reasonable doubt that she cnt cheat on you,I wouldn't put my mind @ it,but I dnt let lose of my guard at the same time so that things don't go the wrong way.By so doing, I had to not let lose of my guard regarding this dude that has been calling my babe. I sat her down and we had a mind to mind talk, she said the guy asked her out but she declined and told him she was going out with me,on the other end, I felt if truly you don't have anything to do with this guy, why accommodating his calls this much. I tried as much as possible to erase the thought of her cheating on me with this guy until the day I found a FB conversation btwn them both and I just have to ask you Nairlanders with utmost sincerity what you all feel is going on judging by this messages i'll be pasting below and what you guys can advise me to do, I love her so much and Its a painful feeling to seee that she might be cheating on me after all these years we've been together, below are the messages:
My girl: hihope u r great
The dude:  yes hun, i am doing fine, had a hell of a day at training but thought of you the whole time.hope you are reading for your exams, miss u, xoxoxoxo, hugs and kisses
My girl:  i tried your number dis evening but it was off.might talk 2 u tonight if not 2morow. take care and make sure u go to church 2moro.
The dude: So sorry hun, my phone has been acting up, keeps going on and off, i wont be able to go to church tomorrow because i will be having another training.But make sure you go to church and pray for us, okay? take care princess.

Those were the two sets of messages I saw in her inbox, apparently I'm not the type that would go an extra length to make investigations regarding issues like this by intruding my girls privacy before you guys ask me how I got to seee the messages, I normally dnt use facebook for blackberry on my fone, but she once used it on my fone, so I accidentally accessed it when I saw notifications on my screen in which I came about all these messages. Nairalanders, in as much as some of us are soft minded and some hard-hearted, we are all entitled to falling in love with some1, so with the utmost sincerity' I am asking each and every one of you that wants to contribute to this thread to tell me what you all think could be going on, and also the best possible advise I can follow. I apologize for the long story, without that, i wnt be able to explain myself better.Thank you all in advance.