buzquet:
Bro, you should not be ashamed. Just man up, apologise briefly to your wife. Don't be too emotional about it. She will constantly drag you into her emotional frame because of the issue.. resist the urge to explain. Whoever she has reported you to, if they call you, just apologise briefly and move on. Don't explain too much for anybody. Remain firm as a man you be. She will come around.


Please don't make mistake of trying to please her too much. Just make sure you pay all the bills as you dey pay am. Don't panic because if you panic, you will press self destruction button.


Women don't care about morality, they only care about if you are Strong Or Weak. If you are Strong, she will forgive you and move on. But If you are weak, she will severally punish you for it till death do una part. Stand strong, sir

CharleyBright:
N615,000 minimum wage is not feasible.
Labour unions are being selfish.
What happens to all other people that are not civil servant and won't be paid N615k? No be same market everyone go buy from? The civil servants will have much more to spend, while the the pepper seller and vulcanizer man on the streets have less to spend.
When FG removed fuel subsidy, didn't it affect everyone , so why would labour unions be demanding for 615k for workers alone?.
What about the inflationary effects on the economy?
Best the FG should do is double present minimum wage of 30k and make it 60k. Any worker that don't want it should resign and go home.

Lanretoye:
Oya we no see them,make we Dey go back home.he should tell us how he reduced the cost of operation of the train he provided for anambra so we will know he has experience,how do you give what you don’t have?.the whole of southeast I’ve never herd or seen a moving train in year 2024,yet one idiot like this one i quote will come and tell me Obi this obi that.stop making a show of your stupidity abeg,look at what this one is saying.
beer production factory is what your state needs for development,you don’t need train stations and railway.with this kind of thinking I’ll admit that a Fulani cow is worth more than some of you.
Can u imagine the madness,no school no hospital,no road,nothing to show in 8 years and this one is talking.

pharmagba:
Unserious labour leaders, they don't know the enormity of task at hand hence throwing up figure recklessly oblivious of other factors as government earnings and amount that should be for capital project from earnings.
All earnings cannot be for recurrent.
N80,000 is realistic and OK.
Someone that has been surviving on N35k will.survive on N80k

ManirBK:
US & France are Sources of instability in Nigeria & Africa.
Check around the globe anywhere there is US or France military base
you would see that there is destruction of security architecture of that
country and a lot of armed group fighting the central government

StarRiderr:
Those that supposed to talk are keeping mute people like Fr Ejikeme Mbaka,prof wole Soyinka and their likes have lost their voices the elite who supposed to lead the protest are keeping mute that fat Ohanaeze Ndi Igbo that supposed to keep quiet if he doesn't know what to say came out started supporting some ignorant Obident and Igbos for not joining the protest I don't know if they are leaving in another Nigeria no Wahala we dey

banjicom:


Which one be arsenal will never smell d epl cup? Den tell you say arsenal never win epl cup before? Abi which kind yeye talk be dis.

Namaster:
You need to visit a neurologist because something is WRONG with your brain.

A girl nearly ATTACKED your sister, intimidated your friend and seized your phone YET you're still folding your arms and looking.

She OSTRACIZES you from your female friends while she frolicks with all the men in your community. And collects gifts from them.

Rest assured that gift is not the only thing she's collecting. She's collecting diicks, too.

Women who have a man like you on lockdown will ALWAYS Bleep around. Your case is not an exception.

Also a CRAZY woman made you lose out on a financial deal and you did not discharge her IMMEDIATELY? What's wrong with you?

You are not married yet and she's already stealing your peace of mind and making you a cuckold. Nothing good will come out of that relationship.

I bet you are NOT even getting sex from the she-devil.

Anyway, you know what to do. Go to her right NOW and break up the calamity you call a relationship. Tell her you are not doing again.

Tell her to LEAVE your house immediately. Don't negotiate. Don't talk about anything. Just END it!

If you are scared, go with some of your friends. Don't be afraid to look like a pussy. Everybody already knows you are a pussy.

But whatever you do, make sure that bitch leaves TODAY!

If she claims to be pregnant, wish her luck and tell her you'll see her in 9 months. Then make sure your first interaction is at a lab for a DNA test.

KICK. HER. OUT. TODAY.

Thundafireseun:

Oga do a DNA test on all your children before you talk of forgiveness



I just confirmed that this story is a fictional story in secret search of likes and comments….

FarSide:
Hello fam, after my last year's ordeal, I decided to settle down.
I asked my girl to move in with me. We've been together for like 4 months now but the problem is that she doesn't want me to talk to any lady whatsoever

I mean she charges at lady that comes close to me, no matter who.
First was the day I met my married sister with her son close to our compound; my girl doesn't know she's my sister cos she doesn't stay around and they never met. She almost pounced on my sister. I told her she's my sister but she still doubted. I got angry because her action was embarrassing to me.

This week I saw a friend close to our gate on a very busy road, I stopped to say hi. We greeted and parted. I never knew my girl was watching us; she charged at the girl and demanded to know what business she has with me. The girl told her she has no business with me and my girl warned her to stay away from me or she will naked her next time she sees her around me. She me inside and started a fight. Took my phones switched it off and I lost a contract cos my client called while my phone was off.

The worst part is that she knows all the guys on our street, both married and single are her friends. So even buy her stuffs/gifts but I can't talk to anyone for any reason

I've been thinking it's a terrible mistake having this girl in my life. I have never been happy that she's around, I prefer staying outside to coming home.
I've gone to see her people once but ever since she started all these drama, I've lost the zeal to continue anything with her.

Can anyone advise me on how to handle this issue please

banjicom:


Which one be arsenal will never smell d epl cup? Den tell you say arsenal never win epl cup before? Abi which kind yeye talk be dis.

Tomman:


I could not agree more with the bolded statement, and it is precisely what I have been advocating for a long time for black people collectively to be doing - BUT WHICH THEY HAVE NO INTEREST IN DOING (partly because of their tendency to see so-called "white" people as gods - which they are not). There is no bigger advocate of (genuine) black independence than me, and that necessarily includes financial and economic independence.

And, incidentally, it is not an either or thing, as most black people strangely tend to talk as if it is. One can work for true independence as a people while at the same time acknowledging the realities of the hostile nature of certain other groups towards them and any attempt by them to be collectively free. In fact, such recognition of reality is a necessity, without which you can't really have true independence.

I was aware that evb2000 had starting making some money in Nigeria through KDP before he moved to Canada. I was only referring to the extent of it. Even then I may have made a mistake in my reading or characterization of the whole thing. But that does not change the overall point I had been making, I never said that one is not allowed to make any amount whatsoever even within Nigeria or Africa as a whole. But there is a certain level of income that seems to trigger the alarm bells of Amazon and causes a shutdown action with respect to black authors, especially those in Africa, regardless of whether they are working honestly or not. And that is in addition to the fact that the algorithms seem to be very much rigged against them in the first place. In fact, most of the evidence I have seen for this is actually based on the experiences of black American authors.

Like I said towards the end of my previous post, I am very much open to being corrected and proved wrong. I would be happy to be wrong on this. I like to think that, in spite of how things may look, we are nevertheless in a fair system. The problem is that I just have not seen any actual evidence that that is the case.

Namaster:
You need to visit a neurologist because something is WRONG with your brain.

A girl nearly ATTACKED your sister, intimidated your friend and seized your phone YET you're still folding your arms and looking.

She OSTRACIZES you from your female friends while she frolicks with all the men in your community. And collects gifts from them.

Rest assured that gift is not the only thing she's collecting. She's collecting diicks, too.

Women who have a man like you on lockdown will ALWAYS Bleep around. Your case is not an exception.

Also a CRAZY woman made you lose out on a financial deal and you did not discharge her IMMEDIATELY? What's wrong with you?

You are not married yet and she's already stealing your peace of mind and making you a cuckold. Nothing good will come out of that relationship.

I bet you are NOT even getting sex from the she-devil.

Anyway, you know what to do. Go to her right NOW and break up the calamity you call a relationship. Tell her you are not doing again.

Tell her to LEAVE your house immediately. Don't negotiate. Don't talk about anything. Just END it!

If you are scared, go with some of your friends. Don't be afraid to look like a pussy. Everybody already knows you are a pussy.

But whatever you do, make sure that bitch leaves TODAY!

If she claims to be pregnant, wish her luck and tell her you'll see her in 9 months. Then make sure your first interaction is at a lab for a DNA test.

KICK. HER. OUT. TODAY.

Cindypresh:


My dear

I'm not nnamdi kanu supporter, I don't like him same with many Igbos. My mom's elder sister will always hate him because she said anybody that saw the civil war won't support what nnamdi kanu was doing.

You said the igbos should allign with others to get the presidency right? Who did they allign with when they voted Obasanjo, Yaradua, good luck and Atiku with block votes oo??

Are you all about getting the presidency or good governance

Cindypresh:


My dear

I'm not nnamdi kanu supporter, I don't like him same with many Igbos. My mom's elder sister will always hate him because she said anybody that saw the civil war won't support what nnamdi kanu was doing.

You said the igbos should allign with others to get the presidency right? Who did they allign with when they voted Obasanjo, Yaradua, good luck and Atiku with block votes oo??

Are you all about getting the presidency or good governance

Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

MakindeHassan:


It’s this kind of talk and thinking that has brought us where we are.

As for Eko Atlantic, I know because I have my sources. Go and try negotiating a land there and see the account your money goes into.. unfortunately many Nigerians cannot afford this and transparency is not common.

A foreign company proposed the idea to the government as a way to stop the flooding in VI. It was a win-win deal. The flooding will be stopped and they will own prime real estate in one of the best parts of Lagos.

I give Tinubu his credit for allowing the deal pull through. Some greedy governors will have declined if they weren’t given hefty bribes but Eko Atlantic is not a government project.

Slytiger:

Normally, the government was not supposed to give them 1 Kobo, in war, losers don't dictate the terms for the victors.

Eko atlantic was Tinubu's idea. The records are there. The development started with Tinubu. Fashola just continued the work of Tinubu e.g LAMATA is a good example.

Was Obi a politician until not long after he was brought out of Abacha's gulag?