VTJN:
interesting

So you guys have been cohabiting for years with 2 kids? Like seriously? You probably took advantage of her because her father is either late or not together with her mum. And all of a sudden she's no longer a good woman? Your supposed wife to be left the house with the kids and you didn't deem it fit to visit her family to inform them what is happening? You came to nairaland to seek opinion and gladly someone who probably don't know what marriage is was telling you not to accept her back again like seriously? I can also add more fuel to what those guys told you. Do you know what? I'm a bloody single guy with no intention of getting married any time soon. The same me will come to nairaland and advice a supposed married man or a married man to be. I'd make sure i scatter their union. Isn't that what they're doing right now? End it as they say and probably they'd give you one of their sisters to continue from where you stopped

Sadly. they can't give you their sister because they've seen clearly the red flag in you. Cohabiting with someone's child to the extent of producing 2 kids. They can't give you their sister or daughter obviously but they can push you to end your supposed marriage to be and go out looking for your next victim or probably remain single like them.

If that lady was their sister or daughter. Trust me, you'd hear a different thing entirely from them. You'll be seriously lashed and whitewashed. Unfortunately, it's not their sister or daughter so they care less about her.

Btw, how i want my sister or daughter to be to be treaded same way I'd treat ANY lady known or unknown to me.

All the best

Dem dey talk A u dey talk B.. definitely u re high on colos

MAKE UNA DEY THERE DEY PLAY

WHEN WIKE BE GOVERNOR, ANY OF UNA FIT talk OR JUDGE AM ON HOW HIM CHOOSE TO USELESS POWER

ABEG SIM WE DEY EXPECT TO SEE YOU FOR AHOADA THIS SATURDAY, NO FAIL ABEG BKOS MY CHOPPINGS DEY INVOLVE

VTJN:
interesting

So you guys have been cohabiting for years with 2 kids? Like seriously? You probably took advantage of her because her father is either late or not together with her mum. And all of a sudden she's no longer a good woman? Your supposed wife to be left the house with the kids and you didn't deem it fit to visit her family to inform them what is happening? You came to nairaland to seek opinion and gladly someone who probably don't know what marriage is was telling you not to accept her back again like seriously? I can also add more fuel to what those guys told you. Do you know what? I'm a bloody single guy with no intention of getting married any time soon. The same me will come to nairaland and advice a supposed married man or a married man to be. I'd make sure i scatter their union. Isn't that what they're doing right now? End it as they say and probably they'd give you one of their sisters to continue from where you stopped

Sadly. they can't give you their sister because they've seen clearly the red flag in you. Cohabiting with someone's child to the extent of producing 2 kids. They can't give you their sister or daughter obviously but they can push you to end your supposed marriage to be and go out looking for your next victim or probably remain single like them.

If that lady was their sister or daughter. Trust me, you'd hear a different thing entirely from them. You'll be seriously lashed and whitewashed. Unfortunately, it's not their sister or daughter so they care less about her.

Btw, how i want my sister or daughter to be to be treaded same way I'd treat ANY lady known or unknown to me.

All the best

This your talk no follow at all

God have saved him

Marriage is a very deep thing
And must be critically analysed to avoid had I known

By the way you are even a single guy

Allow those experienced in the game to advise the guy

Meektunz:
I won't come and cook up a story, this is what I'm passing through now.

okay! if woman truly loved u, she will not even reason of leaving ur house talk less of saying it out! women no dey forgive bad deed u did to them! my sincere advise for u is to let her go!! and look for anoda woman!

PrayWills:


PS: she was raised by a single mom

When we tell people to avoid children of single mothers (both male and female) this is an example of why! They have no standards (family wise) to maintain. The mother cannot talk to her because she has no moral authority to or set an example.

My advice to you is this: You already have children with her: you have nothing to gain by marrying g this woman and everything to lose. Treat this as a devine intervention. You have already made the mistake of having children with the child of a single mother, there is nothing you can do about that. You are probably thinking you can give them a stable home by marrying their mother, na lie. Your baby mama does not know what a stable home is and you cannot give what you don’t have and have never experienced.

Be thankful she ended it because you are clearly not thinking straight!!

Trust me you have nothing to gain from this marriage and everything to lose. The biggest decision a man will make in his life is who he chooses as his life partner, the second most important is who he has children with. You’ve made a mistake with no 2 don’t make a mistake with no1.

The fact that you felt a need to say she was raised by a single mum means deep down you know the problem. Never ignore your own instincts.

PressMyButton:
Same Bitter Obi increased tuition fees in Anambra and declared that Education is not for the poor. This bitter fraud is the worst lying hypocrite among humans.

Wetin ds one dey talk sef?

Alexiiydon:
Cry more na you talk say Nigerian are poor ...maybe it’s time to tax the rich ....obi Dey wail because he know how much Dey hun account like this and how much govt go deduct....AND OBI wails should be the heading of the post ..OP

. So it's only Obi that is in Nigeria ,It's Obi that is Crying Ebin Pa waooo.

How much tax would make Obi to say Ebin Pa waoo.

Come to My Area and see the Numbers of Yorubas that has Already turned to Beggers as a result of the Harsh Economy .

Why would U not rather Say the truth .

The Harsh Economy is Heating all Tribes

Alexiiydon:
Cry more na you talk say Nigerian are poor ...maybe it’s time to tax the rich ....obi Dey wail because he know how much Dey hun account like this and how much govt go deduct....AND OBI wails should be the heading of the post ..OP

you deserve dis because of your bacteria

Alexiiydon:
Cry more na you talk say Nigerian are poor ...maybe it’s time to tax the rich ....obi Dey wail because he know how much Dey hun account like this and how much govt go deduct....AND OBI wails should be the heading of the post ..OP

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MEEVEET:

You mean people who stand to gain from the project

What has been the benefits of Lagos Ibandan rail... Sure good project but was it financially wise to do? A rail that Can't even break even not to talk about paying back it's loan

Is it that u guys don't understand how economics works or you are really bad at maths?

I am discussing Lagos Calabar coastal route, that the one you mentioned failed is nothing to do with it. Has it even failed, are the trains still not running?

Of course consultants will be paid regardless of whether or not the project goes ahead, it's not pro-bono work.

Would there be corruption in the execution of the project, yes, would the project benefit people, yes.

Thankfully naysayers are being ignored, especially the Obidient ones.

LOVEALAIGBO:


Blah blah fcking blah! You talk a lotta shit mate!

I knew there was something not quite right about you from the moment i read your first idiotic post! Your subsequent posts on this thread together with your deceitful post history confirmed i was spot on in marking you down as a repugnant impostor and psychotic murderer! You disgust me!

Diseased swine!

Diseased swine ga ha ragbu nne gi.

Mpama!

I respect Israelis because they don't care what the outside world is saying. The kind of pain they inflict on their enemies no matter where they are, is terrible. The protests against Israel are as a result of the pain, many on this forum are in severe pain, not to talk of the people receiving the rewards for their actions on October 7. Israel will continue to exist and her enemies will continue to suffer in their hands.

WrriterNg:


🤡 🤡 🤡

Your problem is that you talk to appear smart, instead of sitting your ass down to learn.

Every post I make here is copied from Western news mediums Reuters, Guardian, CNN, BBC, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal etc.

You can look them up and confirm it.

Are you saying that even western outlets are spewing Russian propaganda?

And pls let us know where you get your news that isn't "Russian Propaganda" from?

Did I dispute the news,??
It is a welcome development I would prefer potus boarding the sanctions against the Chinese giants huwei

My problem is that you are to invested in Russian propaganda that you forgot to attached Chinese flag

Chief putard

NeckingNgulping:
Your leaders know you can't do anything about it..

They keep throwing shit at you because they see you as a weakling.

They know you will only wail and complain, but at end you'll accept and move on.

They know you're aware of the military men that will be deployed to shoot at you if you dare to protest, so you won't try it.

The money from revenue is no longer enough to take care of their opulent lifestyle, hence the incessant taxing to get the funding to live in luxury.

They also know there are people who will support and fight for them, regardless of their bad and anti-people policies.

Let's come together and dislodge them. Life is too short. We can't keep living this way.

Enough is enough!!!

You talk well sir, but you see that bold, deploying military to shoot people, many of us dey fear that one. We no wan die for nothing. What can we do about it?

Another problem wey dey tiring na the people supporting them even if they make anti-people policy, cos of na my tribes man mentality. It takes us back to square 1. Carry Lagos taxing system mentality dey slap almost everyone for Nigeria. Many states don't generate/make money like Lagos, yet you want to take the lil or nothing from us.

Last week Saturday was the day I would never forget in a hurry, it was a Saturday I nearly died. My wife met me in the room while i was relaxing and she said she has something to tell me, so I said okay she should go ahead and the next thing she said was please she is sorry for everything, that she is tired of keeping it for 6 years and that she is ready for the outcome of this. I replied by saying "you're keeping me in too much suspense, please talk". Then she said i'm not the father of our first child, that the father is back for him claiming responsibility. Though I've always had doubt about the child right from birth. She said the father denied being responsible for the pregnancy when she got pregnant that was why she forced it on me. She started apologizing that I should forgive her, that she was young and naive. I couldn't utter a word due to how i was feeling.

She went down to our pastor's office and told him everything and that she wants to go back to her parent's house, then he asked her why and she said it's not as if marriage has been smooth and that I've sent her out of the house severally when we had issues. Etc. For goodness sake is that the issue on ground?

From then till today I've not understood myself uptil today, I was admitted in the hospital for good three days, I was discharged yesterday evening. Till now I haven't said anything yet due to my health condition. She kept begging me everyday day, right from the hospital, uptil today. Guys, I wish death could just take me, this lady has shattered me. I wish you know what I passed through for that child.

I remember when she was in labour for that child, i had to treck all around this city of Abuja from place to place begging people I know for little assistance so I could buy little things for the birth of the child, if I express what I passed through, Oh God... Let me stop here. Please guys what should I do? Right now I just want to get better and send her back to her parent's house. I'm tired of crying for almost 5 days now.

motayoayinde:


What's all these rubbish talk?

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I myself is equally surprised o.

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I have been searching online for this so called CYBERCRIMES (PROHIBITION, PREVENTION, ETC) ACT that permits Ribabu to order CBN and the banks to start collecting cybersecurity levy. I was only able to find the 2015 act, but the circular from CBN made reference to the CYBERCRIMES (PROHIBITION, PREVENTION, ETC) ACT, 2024. I was not aware that a new cybercrime act was passed by the national assembly and assented by the president this year. When was the act passed?

Here is the link to the 2015 act - https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.nfiu.gov.ng/images/Downloads/downloads/cybercrime.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwi589_-4f2FAxVIQ0EAHU-WDgwQFnoECAQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3YfiHSl8fhfMM1iMjwPwn9
In it I found nothing in reference to a cybersecurity levy, not to talk of it being paid to the office of the national security adviser.

I am pleading with Tinubu's media people here to furnish us with the updated act so we can confirm things for ourselves. Nigeria is still a democracy and not a dictatorship, everything action of government must be backed by law.

OkoRemi2023:



So what differentiate the three of them?


That's the bone of contention here, keep the sainthood to your unprogressive region

Yes the differences would have been clear enough, nobody is a saint but between the devil and the deep blue sea I'm sure one choice would still have made a ”little” difference. We all know how Tilumbu uses taxes to generate his IGR even at the expense of people that cant still pay same tax o, taxation isnt totally a bad tool but his implementation has made it look all bad to the extent that that blotted Seyi Law has even voiced out to show his displeasure.
You talk about my region(I'm sure you too will be claiming Lagosian, just pray they dont deport you to Oshogbo forest ones Sanwolu catches you). How developed is other states in your region excluding Lagos? Or is Lagos only the state in your region?

isabi2lof:
Allahkaduna homeboys dishing out what they know best on nairaland

Person say she no do again, dem begin talk about body counts , like dem fit do without women for their lives , same NL boys wey dey advise married men to get side chicks ...

Well ,online dey different from reality, everybody holy for online ..

I no no say dick dey gum woman body .

You dey mind the swines!
Nairaland incepted in 2005, I knew about it 2006 and registeres then. This is not my first and only account NL. I've known KoboJunkie and many others I can't recall as huge and intelligent contributors to the revival of this forum, I inclusive. These kiddos were still writing jamb back then or about to face their WAEC. But these days social media has erode all sense of disparity making everyone equals.

Alexiiydon:
Cry more na you talk say Nigerian are poor ...maybe it’s time to tax the rich ....obi Dey wail because he know how much Dey hun account like this and how much govt go deduct....AND OBI wails should be the heading of the post ..OP

U don dey suffer brain damage like dis o

PressMyButton:

Did it kill the people of Anambra?. Same Agulu fraud is coming out to talk.

No see that Sense is very far away from all tinubu supporters....

Alexiiydon:
Cry more na you talk say Nigerian are poor ...maybe it’s time to tax the rich ....obi Dey wail because he know how much Dey hun account like this and how much govt go deduct....AND OBI wails should be the heading of the post ..OP

Now to tax the rich, those with less than 10,000 balance in their accounts, are they among the rich?

Kk4:
Nigerian men no dey fail to dissappoint.
OP point out alot of red flags and most replies are focusing on the toothpaste and body count.
As a guy, if you are not organise and hygienic, you never ready date proper not to talk of marriage. Nne don't lower your standards because you want to be with a man.

The thread is littered with so much childish comments I almost wanted to exit till I saw yours. It indicate the low calibre of kids with no sense of decorum, hygiene and self-standard swarming Nairaland. Imagine one kiddo saying he doesn't know it's a wrong habit to squeeze paste from the middle. Tells a lot about today's generation. Hence I always say Africans just copied westernism in a warped form. They call me afinju whenni was a kid just so you know how intolerant of uncleanness I was to a chronic level, those who knows what afinju means would understand how afinju just can't stand the tiniest of dirt, not to take of filth. We don't get comfortable and can't proceed well with an activity unless we sweep that floor several times, clean that dirt of the table before I can touch the mouse. I remember when living in an area filled with red muddied sand that I always washed the white sole of my converse sneakers so much every time that folks I didn't know where noticing it and one day gave compliment that they have never seen me with a dirtied shoe, I naturally sweat a lot so I sometimes pull off as when the discomfort gets unbearable, one day a woman joked at me that I wouldn't have done that if my white boxer was dirty. Impying I was showing off. I gave her a cynical look that suggests she is not to be blamed na, she's so much used with males with dirty boxers.

The only moment I can be found smeared with dirts and dusts is when the hustle or grind demands it like an oil-rig worker getting his hands soiled just to earn that mullah.

Personally I will judge your hygieneness by my own standard. Privately, I can't tolerate ẹgbín and I don't need no Whiteman to tell me cleanliness is next to godliness.

Ps
All the guys needlessly attacking the females here are suffering from deep seated insecurity. Like WTF are you hypocrites concerning yourselves with their sexuality or matrimonial desire. Stay on the topic by sharing your view or JGTFO!

Alexiiydon:
Cry more na you talk say Nigerian are poor ...maybe it’s time to tax the rich ....obi Dey wail because he know how much Dey hun account like this and how much govt go deduct....AND OBI wails should be the heading of the post ..OP

Another bacteria infected brain. U need bitter obi(200cl)

Like I always say. This is not a USA vs Russia post. I do not like to meddle in the political frictions between these two super powers. I just love to talk about where I live (Russia) and some lovely experiences I have had.
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So while we are always quick to take sides when it comes to issues of Russia and America, I want it to be Russia vs our dear Country Nigeria today.
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Tomorrow 9th of May is victory day in Russia. We mark and commemorate the day brave Russian soldiers silenced the Nazis of Germany which ultimately led to the end of the second world war.
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In preparation for this, there has been several military and para-military shows and programs within the cities of Russia even in Yakutsk(Coldest city in the world -63 degrees) where I live, bringing citizens and foreigners like me much closer to Russian soldiers and see live and direct what these 'super humans' looks like.
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I am disappointed! But it's not what you think
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Let me share my experience with you.
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Russian Armed forces vs Nigerian Armed forced
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1. Russian armed forces respect citizens and foreigners extremely!
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So I was walking to the epidemiology center in the city to get a medical book needed to start my holiday medical practice. Some road sections were blocked because of military functions and police officers were helping drivers and pedestrians with alternative routes. Someone how I misunderstood a directive from one of the police officers and ended up finding myself in a lane with a vehicle facing me and a man dressed in ceremonial military attire with about three or four stars on his shoulders. (I am not familiar with Russian military ranking)
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Imagine yourself standing in front of a Nigerian army's military general's car because you misunderstood a directive. While I was shocked standing there...he smiled, waved and said "Африканец! рад видеть вас здесь." Which sort of means African! I am glad to see you here. and everyone around him just smile.
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Meanwhile I have never ever seen a Russian soldier holding a belt, a cane nor any form of torture equipment and they are very gentle with the citizens. In fact I have never seen a police office with an AK-47 here even though this weapon is being manufactured here in Russia. But Nigeria is a different and sad story!
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2. Russian Armed Forces has a high level of cooperation with the Russian police force.
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We all in Nigeria know that the Nigeria armed forces enjoy beating and dehumanizing our police as much as they love doing it to civilians. Both forces clash every other week, throwing shameful punches every now and then. I observed that in Russia, all law enforcement responsibilities that has to do with civilians is handled by the police. Even when the armed forces are staging any program, the police are in charge of securing the location, keeping civilians safe and crowd control.
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3. Russians love the Russian armed forces!
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In Nigeria we curse and hurl insults on those uniformed Nigerian men on daily bases, no thanks to their bad reputation. Many Nigerians even love to mock the Nigerian armed forces about how useless they can be against terrorists and we all saw how no one has faith in our army when a military operation in Niger was being considered.
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It is a different story in Russia!
The people speak of their armed forces with love and pride. They love them, you will see people waiving the Russian flag and chanting victory slogans even trying to take pictures with them within the limits of what is allowed.
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To be honest it got me wondering how these Russians built deadly combat machines and still managed to keep their human and loving side.
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I want to use this opportunity to let the administration of our military (Nigerian armed forces) understand that soldiers hitting and torturing civilians is not a normal thing at all! They should learn from countries like Russia how to be tough and 'reasonable' at the same time because, certainly while the Russian military personnel's might seem docile within the city, I think 99.999% of all of us on this forum will agree that our 'aggressive' guys are no match for them.
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I also realized that unlike the Nigerian army military structure where the ranking hierarchy of a thing has been manipulated into some sort of occult and a rigid system to fuel and pamper the arrogance of some unworthy superior thereby making it impossible for juniors to voice a dissenting opinion, Russian armed forces practice and enforce hierarchy too but there is deep and healthy relationship between people at the top of the ladder and the junior officers below.
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You can observe for yourself on YouTube the reaction and interaction of junior military officers when our president (President Vladimir Putin) or senior military officers interacts with them. (For instance you might see President V. Putin discussing with some officers and you will see another group of young officers doing their own private discussions just behind him or close to him)
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Then compare it to what we have in Nigeria. Not to talk of a recent scandal where a senior officer in Nigeria imprisoned, molested and abused a junior female officer. The case has somewhat been swept under the bed I think.
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In conclusion our government should do something about these abuses, restructure the armed forces, learn from countries like Russia, create rules and laws that will prevent civilian abuse by these guys and enforce these laws.
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And as a Nigerian, make sure you do everything possible to visit any of these first world countries are least once in your life and experience the other side of life.
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#StayBlessed.

osigiepurr:
Na mumu married man dey envy mumu Bachelor. If possible, both of them will remain Ózuòr forever.

Marriage sweet if you get the password. Wetin you gain if you no get Sabi wife for your house. Infact, unbillable kpekus go full everywhere jare!.

Na frustrated person dey talk like this. The funny part na say dem nor dey know, until words like ‘mumu’ and ‘ozuor’ dey flow for their mouth.

aswani:


All the consultants involved with the project from initial discussion through to feasibility study and now early stages of implementation cannot be wrong and you being right.

How do you know they can't pay back the loan, what information do you have looking at it from the outside that the ones inside seeing all documents don't?

You mean people who stand to gain from the project

What has been the benefits of Lagos Ibandan rail... Sure good project but was it financially wise to do? A rail that Can't even break even not to talk about paying back it's loan

Is it that u guys don't understand how economics works or you are really bad at maths?

That's a lie because most of those trains, buses and the likes are owned by private companies. So, never will u see such scraps of metals talk more of "Wowing" to it as claimed by you

Reflect7:
If this was CHINA, instead of MEN seeing the trains with faded paint and ''LAUGHING AT CHINA'', they would be thinking ''Wow, let's get to their rail office and offer to paint that train for x amount''.

From there they've started a business.

Keep being stupid.

Alexiiydon:
Cry more na you talk say Nigerian are poor ...maybe it’s time to tax the rich ....obi Dey wail because he know how much Dey hun account like this and how much govt go deduct....AND OBI wails should be the heading of the post ..OP

One mumu found. Pls you guys should be checking up on this fellow regularly. He must be going through a lot.

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