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Lies! Lies!! Lies!!!

1. Said she dey work and give me money for covenanct care.
2. said she dey sustain herself by the business she was doing while in Ibadan
3. Said i used her covenanct care money buy watch and clothes for my self


Foyin
Unit People
SeYo
Ksawife
Solaf1
Solad2
Funakinset
Debbie
Condo woman
OnipikiTom
Olagabwif
Damicolk

Personal thoughts on things I was accused of

1. She said I caused the 2 accidents that happened to her
1b. Would not even say thank you after spending 5k to fix the car she had accidents with.
2. She called my mother a witch
3. Acused me of not being a leader but not ready to follow instructions
4. Always keeping a dirty house
5. Small fight no food for days or weeks
6. Constant fight and comparisons
7. Accused my father of not being rich
8. Said she will leave the marriage when last born is 5
9. Said with Eliz&Felix that she will leave the marriage when the kids grow up
10. Said she doesn't believe in suffering in marriage. If it doesn't work, it's better to break up
11. Accused me of taking her things that missing
12. Now accusing me of leaving the marriage.
13. Constant disrespect, calls me names.
14. Cannot be corrected, but sees every correction as personal attack
15. Will not clean up her room, not fo so when advised.
16. Asked me to go look for jobs. Can't you see your mates.
17. Fights everyone around me. Cousins, in-laws, brothers, parents friends and other family
18. Gossip alot
19. Is it because I bought phone for her ? I can't tell her who and when to call
20. She said she has bought phone for my family members
21. Will not even say thank you for fixing her accidented cars
22. She said, I should lower my expectations on everything including foods
22. She said she doesn't owe me anything
23. She said Only when I need sex I when I remember her.
24. She me I can get sex outside, why do I want to turn her to a sex tool.
25. Now goes ahead and buys 2 intimacy gadgets to enjoy herself while I am sex starved
26. She will not allow us to teach the kids local language
27. Will not allow us to have a weekly family meeting.
28. Sleep for hours and would not cook food many times.
29. Fought me for wanting my brother here.
30. Fought me for moving my computer to our room when her parents and brother came
31. Housed her whole family 3 brothers her mum and her inlaws. Yet i didn't do anything
32. Having her own closet even with a debt of 30k is more important than having a family trip to Mexico and water filtration with reverse osmosis in the house.
33.Hit me with perfume bottle, slapped me on 2 different occasions.
34. Rained curses on me and hit me. Said It will never be well with me. ( Ko ni da fun e many time)
35. Called my sister and lied that I was hitting her when she was the one who did.
36. Has a negative impression of me.
37. Project her negative impression on me
38. Believes that she does much more than me
39. Values independence over connection
40. Did not include my name in the beneficiary just the kids
41. Denies me sex every time. If she ever allows, she will say can you come or can you do quickie. No emotions.
42. Behaves as if I irritates her if I touch her when initiating sex
43. Said she that I am just a figure head and absent father.
45. Told her not put shoes in the walk way she refused
46. She said she gets triggered when I use the word "I won't allow you to do something"
47. Called my mother a witch.
48. Called my dad a poor man. Said I am the one that asked your dad to be poor.
49. Called me a suit wearing broke nigga.
50. Said, She has make me figure head. Said she treat me as if I don't live in the house. I will be at home and she will call the girls and talk to the girls and not me.
51. Blanks out or zone out. Body shakes
52. Bought her Diamond necklace and earrings. She rejected it that she does want it.
53. Fought with Olagab wife, DamiColins, KSBWif, Fun,Sola&Debbie etc.
54.KSB&Collinsk disgraced me
55, MIL disgraced me reporting to pastor, send terrible message to her mon and mo started saying i thought her
56. How can you deal with someone whose strategy is manipulation in a romantic relationship
57. Said my mother spoilt me
58. Said I am wicked and sees me as such.
59. Said it's better she's a single mom
60. Did not pack anything when we moved
61. No hobby, no passion
62. Does not want me to say "let us"
63. She said she thinks like a single mom.
64. Said she doesnt want a man to tell he what to do
65 She doesn't trust a man that cries
66. She's angry that I told her that our daughter has been standing up to her and sometimes disrespect her
67. Had accidents with our car. Fixed it with over 5k. Ordinary thank you i didn't get.
68. Had multiple accidents and I fixed each one of them
69. Paid for counseling session. She stopped after 2 sessions. Almost 500 per month. Auto billing continues for about 3 or 4 additional months before I changed my card for automatic payment.
70. Put the camera in the freezer
71. Pack my clothes and put them in the basement.
71. Pack everything and left my Meta glasses in the sun until it is spoilt
72. Disgraced and disrespected me in the presence of the kids during Mexico trip calling me name just becoz I asked her why she didnt let me drained watch charge and charging her fully charged watch.
73. March 26,2026. Would not mute her phone or turn it off in the middle of the night when the notification kept coming in.
74. Would continue to make calls into the midnights and on the bed and would not let me sleep.
75. Always on the calls with her friends. Will not pick up my calls.
76.Pooed and left the door open with smell. When confronted, she lied that she did not pooed but peed.
77. When asked to clean up bathroom she messed up, she lied that she has clean it up when she has not. Continue to accused me of the same thing she did to my sister and my 2 friends.
78. Foestus issues without letting me know
79. Lied that she cleaned the washroom when she didnt clean it
80. Lied that didn't poo when everywhere was smelling of poo. When confronted, she lied that she only pied. I told her that if her pee smelled like that then she had a decease. She called my 2 friends and my sister that I looked for excuse to go out and left for 4 hours.
81. Got money from TaxCRA and will not tell me. neighbor was harassing me for money during that time, she refused to borrow or mention it. Yet she was still asking me for money. She borrowed her friend 1500 instead
82. After I helped her to set up direct deposit payment into her RRSP and TFSA , she went to tell her friends that I am caging her and that I don't want her to succeed and that I am threatened by her new job
83. On Son's birthday, she said she only wanted David 7 Donald to come. She also planned sleep over without telling me. So when I asked to bring other cousins, she said I have told how Tayo will go and that's how it will be. because i disagreed, she said she will not participate and I should go and buy things for the birthday.


told her to save some of her payments Told her friends that I wanted to cage her whe

Feb 13-15
Took the famito Fantasyand. Spent over 2k. No single appreciation.
Bought val gift for her but she didn't even buy anything for me.
Caused 2 fights Fight while in FL Ed. Disrepect over call & lack of accountability over decisions