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2dice01:
What you should do is make sure there is physical contact next time you guys are meeting

When you guys meet you should hug her (instead of shake)
Then her she smell nice and yummy 😜

You have a guitar can you play?
You guys do a duet
She sings her fav song you play
Look into her eyes as she sings
You already fucking with her brains bro 🤗🤩

Flirt and have fun 🤝🏽

This is very helpful. I'm still learning, so I can't play very well for now. In the future I will.
I will initiate contact when next we meet and make her have fun around me. That's what I gained from your reply.

GRIMMJOE:
Forget women and face your education.

I can do both, no? It helps my social skills and helps me gain more experience with the opposite sex.

I have my schoolwork covered and work with a daily schedule, so I manage my time wisely. Thank you for your advice though.

Hello everyone,

I appreciate the good work you all do here to inform men about how to be better and understand life.

I have a question to ask. I'm in university and I just met a new girl. She's Nigerian and I approached her after an event in school. She didn't want to go to her room because she was bored. We talked for a while and she looked like she was very interested in me. My friends told me later that her body language was encouraging. I think so too because we talked for about twenty minutes straight and our conversation flowed. We talked about different things and I told her that I will walk her to her room. She did not hesitate and we went together.

We got to her room and I entered in. She sat on her bed while I stood by a table as we talked for sometime. Then her roommate (a Ukrainian) came into the room and the girl told me that we should leave b/c she did not feel too comfortable. Especially because she was not very close to her roommate. She also said she wanted to see my room and I gave her my jacket (it was snowing) while we walked to my dorm. She liked my room (it has a guitar, nice shoes, a drone, tv, etc) and she was admiring things while I just kept up small talk with her. We exchanged socials and she left back to her place.

I have some questions and I hope some experienced men would help me navigate this smoothly.

1. I did not escalate or make any sexual/romantic moves. It was our first time meeting, so I did not want to mess things up and I didn't want to look desperate. She is Nigerian so I suspected she would try to play hard to get based on African morals and such.

2. She looked really happy and we were in synch. How do I move forward and not get stuck in the friendzone?

3. I did not initiate any physical contact but I plan on doing so when we meet next. How can I be smooth with this?

4. I plan on inviting her to my room for a movie on Friday or Saturday night. Then, i'll see her body language and proceed from there.

What can I do?