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tpiah:

Yes this really happens.
Another man introduce his white wife to his sister (the sister was his wife, who was living in Nigeria).

makajibbz:

Yes, the two babies are our own babies and in this point  I cant say something bad about him.
He take care of them very good and he is a lovely father.

i dont know any black couple, so i dont know about the problems.
I think they will not have some much problems when they come from the same place.

But my parents came from the same city and had a lot of problems every day

His parents of course are involved.
But some women told me that their "husband" invite her to the family and they thought that this was the family and later they saw that their husbands paid this people to play his familiy

So this mean nothing.

Of course I like to travel to Nigeria. We spoke about it before. His parents also want to see the children. The time they hear that he will come alone this year after 6 years their was so happy but they was very sad when they hear that the children can`t come with him. I think his mother is a very nice person and she like to see her grand children but no way for us.
He can`t invite them to germany, because we dont have so much money. I am just a student. And to go to nigeria is also very difficult and expensive. My boyfriend said that at the moment its not so good there intense of the security exspecially for white people and I am white   so he is a little bit afraid and me too.

When he ist there i will pray every day that he will come back healthy. i have read so many bad things.

I am from Niedersachsen.

makkajibz:

I spoke to his mother, his father and his sister, but on telephone it is very difficult to understand each other, so this speaking for me is like nothing. Its only: Hello, how are you? How is the baby? etc.

So this is why i dont really like to speak with them, but his parents always stress him when he doesn`t give me the phone. Sometimes this cause problems too.

i am from germany, like you
i am 23 years old and a student.

my boyfriend is form nigeria, benin city and he is here since almost 7 years.
he is 26 and he is working in a firma.

when you want know more, just ask.

Yes, you are right.
Thats true.

But in bad moments i just have to think about all this words form these haters.
this ist what sometimes destroys relationships between two people, because people just speak to much.

Normal i feel that i can trust him and i think that he loves me (ok may be sometimes he really hates me   ).

In octobre he want to travel to nigeria for 2 weeks and i dont know what to do.
i think i will go crazy here, because i will just thinkt about that he go to his wife there, even when he says that he is not married there  

Hello everybody,

first i want to say sorry for my bad english and i hope that you can understand me. I try my best 

I read a lot in this Forum and you people discussed a lot about this theme , white women/black man, black women / white man.

I am together with a nigerian man now for almost 6years. We have two children.
Our relationship ist sometimes good and sometimes very bad. I am not so sure about him, because people are always telling me that he is just pretending. Normal i dont need to believe that but sometimes i have to think about all this.

Now i hear often from black women that black man, exspecially nigerian man, dont even like white girls.
we are uggly for them and just a ticket to europe, and one day he will just go and take his wife from back home and forget about his children here. This happen quite often and because of this i am really a little bit afraid and i like to hear some oppunion here from you people,