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spending time and energy will be of no use unless u first af all determine the state of things betwwee n the two of of you.
first have a heart to hear t talk with her abnd determine where the two of you are going wtiuh the relationship. if u are convinced that there is hope, then we can begin to talk about what it takes tyo build back the relatiohnship.dont put the cart before the horse!!

one cannot but wonder why u havent gotten married within the 6 yrs but all in all, u cant force someone to continue loving u. u have seeen the signs. very likeky she's falen out of love with you. its better to confrim from her if she still loves u and if not, to let her go.it'll hurt at first but in the end it'll be better for both of you. u'll definitely meet someone else even though u may not think it likely right now. i know it'll look as if u wasted the last 6 years but thats better than wasting the next 6! cheer up man!