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I have been masturbating for almost 14 years now....I am 24 and haven't had sex before
Tried to have sex like four times with different girls but couldn't because my dick just falls once I want to penetrate the girl...like I am really depressed and feel useless, I have a girlfriend but she doesn't know what's happening because I always make an excuse when ever she comes to visit...I feel like I amight dead already and have already given up on myself

extol1:
please stop believing this shit, most of these lie about been deflowered by rapist

But i still don't get it why would someone lie about being raped?
She could have come up with another story if she was trying to get my attention

Anuoluwa1234:
It's okay, no problems, but also I never said she was planning evil against you, read what I typed well . The ball is in you court, as I said earlier, play it well.. all the best for you

Okay thank you

Oluromantic:
You shdnt even have replied "it's fine" back to her. Just leave her to do what she wants, it's her life. And remove emotions from loving a woman without confirming she's worthy enough to be called ur wife. I don't understand why some guys just fall in love cus of some childish attractions.. she will just be manipulating you at will. Are you a small boy? You're the man, you're in charge. Both of you are not brainmates. Stop letting small girls talk to you anyhow. Look out for another girl as u work towards becoming more financially stable to settle down. Simple!

Okay thank you

Anuoluwa1234:
Senior boy , the ball is in you court, do as you wish . This is a dumb story .. if it is true, believe me, the girl has no sense at all, you mean you are still with someone who planned evil against you .
And besides, did she tell you she was a virgin??. If yes, she might not be a virgin from onset, but maybe she think u are serious, and the relationship might move to marriage etc.. she is now looking for stories sha, she kuku know u go believe .
If you are not a virgin, why lie about it. . It seems u are serious than she is, any relationship build on lies can never stand. Even if it leads to marriage .
Lie walks in chains get that..
Shallom.

She never planned any evil against me...when I started dating her she told me she isn't a virgin, yes we had sex but i asked her how it happened when we started dating she refused telling me about it.....but yesterday she told me she was disvirgined during the rape

So you think she is accusing someone of rape?
Why would she do that
I know the guy she is talking about

Please I need help from you guys, I have been dating this girl when I was In my finals in school, she is still in school though but recently we had issue because I stopped calling and texting which I did because I started suspecting something unusual with her which she didn't want to talk about. .she then called me on Monday that she is letting me go then I sent her a text that it's fine, then she started telling me everything that happened, that she was raped in her 100lvl by her course mate and the worst is that the rape was organised by her best friend who she still takes as her best friend even till today and the guy who raped her she still talks to him too and she said that why she kept in contact with the guy was because she wanted to take revenge on the guy...Please am really confused don't know if I should just let her go
Please I need your opinions...I still find myself loving this same girl

Please I need help from you guys, I have been dating this girl when I was In my finals in school, she is still in school though but recently we had issue because I stopped calling and texting which I did because I started suspecting something unusual with her which she didn't want to talk about. .she then called me on Monday that she is letting me go then I sent her a text that it's fine, then she started telling me everything that happened, that she was raped in her 100lvl by her course mate and the worst is that the rape was organised by her best friend who she still takes as her best friend even till today and the guy who raped her she still talks to him too and she said that why she kept in contact with the guy was because she wanted to take revenge on the guy...Please am really confused don't know if I should just let her go
Please I need your opinions...I still find myself loving this same girl