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stonecoldcafe:
I'm more concerned about the part in bold. Kill you and you think that's normal?
Please be wise, dude is even out there dating someone else and you cant move on for your sanity? What for?
Listen, just tell him its over, SAY IT AND MEAN IT, don't go back to your vomit after that
lose his number, delete him from your life and phone, don't entertain any begging or telling others to help him beg
Be respectful if he comes around and just say ''i'm sorry its over''
Don't go and meet him in dark corners or even Mr Biggs and co.
Keep it simple and move on
Your heart will heal over time, give it time to heal. I know you are having suitors but allow yourself get over this man then give love a go
Goodluck

that's my fear,,,..he hasn't raised a finger at me before...maybe because when I sense he is angry I stay very far away from his#i no fit shout# He has warned me severally never to break his heart.. thats why I needed a better way to backoff

bronzegoddess:
For some reason I feel sorry for you




But seriously, where does ur jobless boyfriend get the guts to treat u like this He doesn't have anythn and he's misbehaving.



I don't think breaking up with someone is that hard, a simple text message will do

Hi,
I was blinded with the affection and care he showed me over the years...One big problem he has is anger..he can keep malice and will later come to his sense much later only to plead..it hurts..the problem with him now is I see a very dim future with him..may I have a reason to be happy at least..peace..
thanks tho

Hi dundayo,
I did tho..(every girls says that at first)...I find it difficult giving in because first I have the feelings that I should be prepared to accept what comes out of it..and I also need to be ready too..sex is psychological..
Also if you've seen us *earlier than now,youll suggest marriage asap..lol
if I mean something to him,why does he start a quarrel and always want me to be the first to initiate a peace talk. You see I've endured in silence g have played a good girl(though we got our weak sides), I think its high time I act fast before poo will be rubbed over my face. I use to think if a man finds a good girl, he keeps her close to his heart and cherishes her come worth may.#alessonlearnt#....He has been nice over the years..and when he reads this he might come crawling on his knees #he is a nl tho# You never no what you got till you lose it
thanks for your advice tho

dundayo:
its really sad hw things can b in relatnshps atimes,but first of all,the no sex theory in the relatnshp,did u suggest it or it was his idea?,
2ndly,no guy want to part wit b gal witout getin laid wit afta keepin u for so long a time,
3rdly,a guy is only jealous wen a gal stil means sometin to him,
my candid advise,try nt to b too desperate 2 keep him,mayb God is tryin 2 save u problem later in d future,keep all suitors as friends so dat u hav enough distractn even if he wil break it,let him end it himself...

This post is strictly for the matured minds..bashers please keep off,you not needed now at least for the moment.

May I begin my story, though it might appear lengthy please do take time to read and advice me accordingly.

My life has been showered with love and care from both my family, my friends and Ioved ones. I have been into a relationship that's more than 2years old and I must confess its been grossed with affection and care. We've both dreamt of a life together, we've dreamt of building an empire together, and hope to live a fulfilled life someday. As every lady I got a biological clock too, and time waits for no one. There are a few crazy things I've done and sacrificed to keep my relationship going, one of which I have turned down so many suitors because I hope to spend my life with the one I love.
Trouble started first when I got to find out the one I love cheated on me, I trusted him though at first (FYI we both agreed to remain chastised in our dating period even though we go a long way kiss*ng,cuddling,romanc*ng but we have kept s*x outside our relationship ). Like every lady I felt hurt
and wanted a break,and also like one with a compassionate heart, I forgave when he became remorseful. Things got a little better not until recently like every decent good and beautiful girl who gets suitors often, he got to find out about one who's on my neck, he got furious and avoided me.
He has forgotten that there are times I stood by him when things were toughs, I was careful never to be demanding as he isn't working and is still looking for a job as well as making ends meet. I have been patient and I wish to settle down soon (my clock ticks) and like every lady I pray for a better life for him too(things are not easy you know). Also I got too find out that he is seeing someone, which I confronted him about and he told me straight to my face that what I haven't been giving him someone else gives him, I felt hurt.
This is my point, I think I need counsel on how to get a break, I've got other suitors whom I know if they show me care and affection I'll develop love,he is kindah a jealous person and might kill me if I tell him openly(he might kill me)#my fear tho# even if he is cheating and gets me hurt. another fear I've got is he might turn out to ruin my life and might dump my sorry ass someday if I keep hanging on him (don't blame me because sometimes when I look into him I see a different being someone different what want he use to be when we first met). Life is full of ups and down and I have made up my heart to move on if I get good advice on how to end this whole relationship without losing my mind and my life#just my fear#.

Forgive my typographical errors!.
Thank u.