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jennylove7575: I think there are some things that are better left undisclosed because of the uncertainty of the later consequences...I think she should wait awhile to achieve her purpose of entering into the marriage before disclosing it to the man.
Me I love dicck I can't be a lesbian. But if I were to become one, I well keep it secret and discreet. Away from my husband....

Thanks Jenny, but what if he discovers in marriage and divorce her after my bestie would have had 3 children? Me I can't survive d pains of being a divorces single mother , coupled with the stigma and untold trauma upon my unborn children! No way!! Jenny, u can never tell, I love dicks too, my fiance is 6inches and I have dildoes but my lesbian chics are so tender and sensitive that I hit orgasmic levels with frequent squirting.

@ sigmundfreud: I think he intends telling her cos as at ystday , she informed that he told her that he wasn't really cheating with his ex, but that he invited her over to his house to discuss something of great import and that he was gonna discuss something about it with her when he returns from Ilorin.
@ uruba : its more than pressure, she is over 35 and u know menopause is close. He is her first male lover. She has never loved or had sex with a man, never ever. So more like her first love(male I mean). So its just so hard on her. I got tears flowing down my cheeks. Sometimes I wish I could just marry her. (,but my fiance go kill me, lol). But for real, I rather she tells him and deal with it now.

@uruba: fear is he may eventually find out and I don't want a situation where that will be a ground for marital crisis. I hate divorce and can't stand to see my bestie go thru that torturous road.

@ shockwave91: u jus crazy . Lol. U think a right thinking hubby will call for a 3,some with his wife's lesbian chic. That we are lesbians isn't tantamount to being perverts. I won't share my hubby with nobody.
I will see her hopefully on Thursday, hope to convince her against terminating the pregnancy. Her fiancee told her he supports whatever stance she takes on the pregnancy, though I may chat with him and prevail on him to take a clear stand to keep the baby.

naijaboiy: if she eventually marries her husband are you people still going to continue your lesbian sexcapades??

Its none of your business.

sigmundfreud: Following!
I think bisexual applies more to your friend than lesbian.
Aborting a baby because of a church committee ( often filled with adulterous hypocrites) is totally cruel!

Like I said, I only "suspect". Not sure though. She never really said so but kept lamenting that her parents will be terribly disappointed if the marriage committee cancels the wedding on the ground of premarital conception. So I presumed she may opt for a termination. I just sent her a message asking her not to terminate it though. Ultimately its her choice. But pls what do u think is best as regards her lesbian secret being kept from him.

@'dulaman: wrong assumption. That's a fallacy premised upon an erroneously aasumptive generalization. I love my fiancé terribly yet I am a lesbian. I know a couple of women who though are lesbians yet love and adore their husbands unapologetically.

Pls I need opinions from serious minded folks.
One of my dear friend is getting married in a couple of months. We have been lesbian lovers from aeon years. However, she is getting married soon and we've been hardprsessed on whether she is obligated to let her fiance knows she is a lesbian for life, before the wedding day.
Pls note that;
1. They are so much in love. She can take a bullet for him .
2. Though he isnt as rich as she is, she adores and respect him to the moon and back. (She earns well over #500,000 basic monthly salary)
3. Sometime last year she caught him cheating with his ex, and we have verifiable proof that their estranged affair produced a daughter. His cousin told us last week.
4. Even after they did the introduction he hasn't opened up to her that he has a child out of wedlock. (She is still acting like she is oblivious of the truth, hoping he will be bold enough to come straight about it).
5. As of yesterday when I last spoke with her after the weddingcommittee of friends meeting, she is three weeks pregnant though i suspect she is opting for termination of pregnancy. . .cos the marriage committee of her church will insist on pregnancy test before the wedding day.
With all these complications , coupled with the fear of losing him and the stigma that will follow if he calls off the marriage as a result of her lesbian orientation, do you think I should encourage her to let him know she is a lesbian?
PLEASE , NO BASHING , I will IGNORE you if you come here preaching rubbish.

Godmystrength: after he will now tell some people that their names are not in the book and ask them to bring another money to use in writing their names there.

Lmao. I tire for this conman.

@ berem: thanks for helping him read btwn the lines. I was almost tempted to ask if I were suddenly having eyesight issues that translated son to daughter in my post. Good evening Ma

A Nakuru woman will spend 10 years
in jail. This is after she was found guilty of having canal knowledge of her 5 year old son.
Mary Wambui Muriuki says that she did this out of
desperation because young girls were snatching all her
boyfriends and she had no choice but take advantage of
the 5 year old nursery child.
The woman, who also has two older children and one
grandchild said that after her husband died in 1998, she
was attacked and raped by a man who she personally
knew. That’s when she got pregnant and gave birth to the oung boy. Wambui said that she committed the
unspeakable act out of stress and anger since all her
relatives abandoned her, and the only two boyfriends
she’s ever had were snatched by younger women. She
also insists that she’s till a born again Christian and
hopes that God will forgive her
The young boy disclosed to the police that his mother had slept with him twice. He also said that they lived in one roomed house with his mother and shared one bed. He later developed some severe pain in his groin and decidte to tell one of the neighbors who took him to Bahati District hospital for examination. He was issued with a p3 formm, filled it and led police to their home and had his mother arrested

www.nairobiexposed.com/2014/03/21/woman-jailed-nakuru-sex-5-year-old-son/

PASTOR WAHOME NOW CHARGING SH 1,500 TO CHECK WHETHER YOUR NAME IS in THE BOOK OF. Bishop Thomas Wahome of Helicopter ministries is the king of controversy.
First, the name of his church is just out of this world.. He is also known to craft very bizarre ways of conning his flock.
In 2012, pastor Wahome was charging Sh 1,200 to
anyone who wanted to touch his garment- like that
woman who touched Jesus’ clothes in Mark 5:21-34.
Wahome also claimed that people who touched his
clothes got instant healing from whatever disease
And now, he has devised a new con game. Its called
“Check whether your name is the book of life”. Wahome
claims that if you give him Sh 1,500, he can actually ask
God whether you are among those people who will go to
heaven. He claims that he has a direct line to God and he can communicate with him directly.

www.nairobiexposed.com/2014/02/06/pastor-wahome-now-charging-sh-1500-check-whether-name-book-life/

Don't really like it much cos I feel painfully estranged from my lover. Missing u @trendiitee

@ trendiitee : Hey pinkie, gudmorn. Trust u had a sweet nite rest. Oh nice. I just discovered d mails are lodged in spam/bulk folders n not inbox folder. So u may check ur spam/bulk folder for the mail I sent u.
Xoxo

@urhoboman: very thoughtful comment from you. God bless every virtuous woman out there.