A white Ohio woman is suing a sperm bank,
claiming that she was accidentally inseminated
with vials from a black donor.
In the lawsuit, Jennifer Cramblett claims the lab
mix-up has caused her and her partner added
stress and anxiety as they struggle to raise their
2-year-old biracial daughter, Payton, in their
"racially intolerant" community of Uniontown,
Ohio, the Chicago Tribune reported.
The lawsuit, filed Monday in Cook County
Circuit Court, alleges that Midwest Sperm Bank
gave her the vials of an African-American
donor's sperm in September 2011, even though
she and her partner had picked out sperm from
a white donor.
The lawsuit says they received vials from
African-American donor No. 330, instead of
sperm from white donor No. 380. The mix-up
occurred because the hospital keeps
handwritten records, which were likely misread,
the lawsuit alleges.
Cramblett, 36, didn't know about the error until
she was already pregnant in April 2012 and
decided to order more vials from the same
donor, so she could have another child with her
partner. She called up the sperm bank and was
informed that the vials she received earlier were
from a different donor than the one they had
requested.
She's now suing the sperm bank for wrongful
birth and breach of warranty because of the
"emotional distress" and "economic and non-
economic losses" she's endured.
"On August 21, 2012, Jennifer gave birth to
Payton, a beautiful, obviously mixed-race baby
girl," the lawsuit states. "Jennifer bonded with
Payton easily and she and Amanda love her
very much. Even so, Jennifer lives each day
with fears, anxieties and uncertainty about her
future and Payton's future."
Many of these fears stem from the fact that
Payton is growing up in an intolerant
neighborhood with an all-white family, the
lawsuit says.
"Because of this background and upbringing,
Jennifer acknowledges her limited cultural
competency relative to African-Americans and
steep learning curve, particularly in small,
homogenous Uniontown, which she regards as
too racially intolerant," the lawsuit states.
The mother also complains that in order to get
her daughter's hair cut, she has to travel to a
black neighborhood, "where she is obviously
different in appearance, and not overtly
welcome."
She's also worried that her biracial daughter
will feel stigmatized around her "all white and
unconsciously insensitive family."

SOURCE: Nypost

Serious Matter: my friend in Houston, Texas just told me about this. It is not funny.


I feel like cursing the day she moved into our house. Seven years still no pregnancy. Evil woman & always nagging. Always suspected she was adulterous. But this is HELL NO! I have had a turbulent day only to get a hellish night. Just wanted to take out the new driver's number from my step-mum's phone and I got this rude shock. She was chatting with my ex girlfriend & lesbo room mate. Not just chatting but sexting. I have sent some of the sex pics & chat history to my iPad. How can she be sleeping with my step-mum. No way. I feel like killing someone here.

I feel so betrayed and back-stabbed. I care less about her sexcapades against dad but it is HELL NO for her to make my lover break up with me last year only to be shagging her under my nose. I fear I may do something I will regret . no way. Even some of the pics of their love was right her at our guest room, even with a top I bought for her last year. Shame!!!

missstella:
But seriously it seems like our healthiness depends on men first it was breast sucking prevents cancer and now swallowing sper*m.....

Lmao. My fiance sent me a warning, saying I will start paying for a every nutritious dosage of spe*rm I drink off him

missstella:
Ayaf learn something

Sweetheart, hope the men won't be amazed with our new hunger for cum

A blow***job a day keeps the doctor away? Hmm.
Semen is a bodily fluid that is secreted by the gonads of
male animals. It contains spermatozoa and fructose and other enzymes . Semen passes through the ejaculatory ducts and mixes with fluids from the seminal vesicles, the prostrate, and the bulbourethral glands. The seminal vesicles produce a viscous, fructose-rich fluid. This forms around 65-70% of the semen base. The white color of the semen is due to secretion from the prostate glands containing enzymes, citric acid, lipids, and acid phosphatase.
Thus semen contains:
Fructose
ascorbic acid
zinc
cholesterol
protein
calcium
chlorine
blood group antigens
citric acid
DNA
Magnesium
vitamin B12
phosphorus
sodium
potassium
uric acid
lactic acid
nitrogen
other nutrients.

Possible beneficial effects of consumption of semen.

There are mixed reports regarding the effects of swallowing semen. Some studies suggest that absorption of semen via the vaginal mucus membrane lining its inner walls has positive effects like reducing depression and also reduces the risk of breast cancer.
Some women are infertile or lose pregnancies due to
miscarriages due to their inherent presence of antibodies that destroy the proteins or antigens present in her sexual partners semen. Having MouthAction and swallowing the semen of the partner may help make the pregnancy safer and more successful as the woman is swallowing her partner's antigens.

But wait, there’s more. A recent study of college
students at the State University of New York in Albany
suggests that semen acts as an antidepressant.
Females in the study who were having sex without
condoms (see safe sex caution, above) had fewer signs
of depression than women who used condoms or
abstained from sex.
“These data are consistent with the possibility that
semen may antagonize depressive symptoms,” the
authors wrote, “and evidence which shows that the
vagina absorbs a number of components of semen that
can be detected in the bloodstream within a few hours
of administration.”
I kid you not, ladies. Semen is good stuff. It gives a
shot of zinc, calcium, potassium, fructose, proteins -- a
veritable cornucopia of vitality!

Boos
I can’t resist another plug for semen. It’s possible that
male goo can lower blood pressure. Another recent
study found that women who gave their men MouthAction,
and swallowed, had a lower risk of preeclampsia, the
dangerously high blood pressure that sometimes
accompanies pregnancy.
No, I’m not making this up. “The present study shows
that MouthAction and swallowing sperm is correlated with a
diminished occurrence of preeclampsia,” said the
Dutch authors.
SEMEN
Semen as an anti-aging treatment saw a spike in
popularity (or at least curiosity) around 2009. Turns
out spermine, one of the components of semen, is
high in anti-oxidants and can be used to smooth out
wrinkles. An enterprising Cosmo reporter even went
and got a sperm facial at a swanky New York spa ,
confirming that her skin did feel smoother
afterwards.

And for future reference, semen is also a natural cure
for morning sickness. Biologists agree that the female
body initially rejects the pregnancy due to the foreign
nature of the semen inside her. The body undergoes
this process by inducing the woman to vomit. Studies
show that ingesting sperm mediates the affect and
reasons that by introducing more sperm into the body,
the body will adapt and discontinue this rejection
process. Researchers suggest ingesting the sperm of the father is the ideal solution, as swallowing ejaculate of a
different man can actually increase the likelihood of
miscarriages.

In addition to health benefits, there are cosmetic
advantages to incorporating semen into your daily
beauty regimen. Many spas and salons across the
world have integrated semen into their treatments on
the basis that it will lead to healthier hair and more
youthful skin. Apparently, semen on the face isn’t such
a bad thing after all. These treatments however, are
pricey; some salons charge $250 for a 10 minute facial
scrub, while Hari’s salon in England reportedly charges
£55 for a 45 minute hair conditioning treatment with
bull sperm. However, as the salons promise, the
rejuvenating properties of these facials are well worth
it, and depending on your source, it contains less
chemicals than your average shampoo and is therefore
eco-friendly.


Hmmm. Now tell me what do you think?


m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3389375
m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3101168

www.nbcnews.com/id/5263250/ns/health-sexual_health/t/not-just-good-good-you/

www.news-medical.net/health/Swallowing-Semen.aspxm.huffpost.com/us/entry/3389375m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3101168

www.hercampus.com/school/u-ottawa/swallowing-truth-many-benefits-semen-women

Personally, I cannot stand it if a guy sees me poop. I
won’t even let any man into the loo while I’m in
there. Take it or leave it. I am Naijasinglegirl and I
don’t poop!
And neither should u! You’re a woman—have some class. And as much of a double standard as it is, he’ll be turned off by it. I am a master at bathroom etiquette. None of the guys I ever hung around with knew I pooped. I gave them the impression that
when my body needs to undergo metabolism, I vomit out my waste through my mouth or an angel visits me every night to empty my bowels.
Rules to follow:
There are two major factors to consider which are
sound and smell. Our nose and ears functions in a
mutually exclusive way. That’s why there’s need to
turn down the volume of your car stereo when you
are trying to locate a mixed up street address. That’s why its more dangerous to release a silent fart during a catholic mass service than it is to fart at a club.
SOUND
This section is for when the smell is not a factor, but
the sound is. For example, you know he wont be
going into the bathroom soon (perhaps because
he already went) but the walls are paper thin. If
you’re at his place in the morning or evening, you
can turn on the faucets, and showers, then pretend
you’re brushing your teeth vigorously to mask the
sound of your ploping. If he asks you why there’s so
much noise in there, tell him running water calms
your nerves.
If appropriate, the best thing is to tell him you are
going to take a quick shower. This is great because
he thinks you are doing it as “prep” for “wowie time.”
However, beware of two things:
1. The smell will be worse in a humid environment so
use cold water.
2. Do a super fast wash-up afterwards because of the
whole aforementioned “wowie time” thing he may
be expecting.
Flush as you plop. That’s pretty self explanatory. If its not going to be super weird for you to flush four or five times, then time your plops to the same time as the loud flushing noise.
Beware: TIME PROPERLY!
The loud part of the flush is not for a few seconds
after you’ve pushed the lever.
Put some toilet paper into the toilet before you begin.
This absorbs the poop and thus prevents that telling back splash noise. Beware, it will smell worse if you use this method because the specimen is not
submerged fully into the water.
Extra Tip: Turn on the radio to the maximum volume
or slot in one of those TerryG’s loud cds when your
bowel starts giving you signs. Before you leave him
in the bedroom or sitting room, tell him you
absolutely love the TerryG’s song playing. Then after two minutes of dancing or singing along loud, excuse yourself. Chances are, he’ll leave the radio up until you come back.
SMELL
Smell is a tougher thing to conceal. At times it gets
so bad his nose won’t only be traumatised. He might start hearing the smell of the poop. I’m sure you wouldn’t let it get to that cos you are a princess and barbies don’t poop!
But if it happens, smell is all you need to worry about when the area he is sitting is far from the bathroom and the sound wont carry. If this is the case, here are a few tips:
Before you get in there, pre warn him by giving him
signs like
“Boo, are you perceiving that awful smell from your
bathroom area? Let me go check it out.”
“Boo, let’s play hide and seek. I pick the toilet to
hide.”
“Boo, is someone working on the drainage outside?”
“Boo, what’s that smell? Did a rat die in here?”
Lock the door!
Do your deeds as FAST as you can!
Use the bathroom spray or, insecticide. Tell him you
are helping to disinfect his bathroom if he asks.
BEFORE you drop one AND after. Most people wait
until after. Do not make this mistake. Crack a window or light a match (I usually move around with a matchstick). These are both “tell tale poop smell” concealers.
If possible, don’t walk out of the bathroom till the
smell goes out except you are walking out with a
lawyer. LoL
That way, the smell has a chance to dissipate by the
time he needs to go in there again.


If multiple flushes aren’t a problem, take advantage.
The less time poop is sitting in the toilet, the less
chance is has to stink up the room.
If all else fails, accept that he will know you pooped.
As unattractive as it might be, all mature men know
that all humans poop. If he makes fun of you or sues you for a smelly poop , tell him to grow up. If he won’t grow up, he’s not mature enough for a
relationship so its okay to break-up cos of a natural
process like pooping.

http://naijauncut.com/2014/09/24/naija-girl-teaches-other-girls-how-to-secretly-shit-in-their-boyfriendlovers-house/

[left]Ahead of the 2015 governorship race in Rivers State, Mr. Andy Briggs, has said Senator Magnus Abe, if given the All Progressives Congress (APC) ticket, will be the antidote to Nyesom Wike’s quest for the governorship seat under the Peoples’ Democratic Party (PDP).
Briggs, who disclosed this in a statement on his news blog, said the assertion was anchored on the fact that the only politician in Amaechi’s camp whose accumulated influence and savvy can carpet Wike or any other candidate put forward by the PDP is Senator Magnus Abe.
buttressing his position, he said: “Amaechi’s stalwarts no longer deny that their leader’s worst political move was elevating Wike to Chief of Staff. To some, it was as bad as a deal made with the devil. Perhaps, Amaechi may finally escape the disastrous effect of that move through the agency of another figure (Abe) whom he had elevated the same day to Secretary to the State Government (SSG).
“Though Amaechi could not see the future when he made Wike Chief of Staff; he may have unwittingly taken out insurance by making Wike’s antidote the SSG. If Wike is smart, Magnus Abe is probably smarter but not as aggressive. Wike is single-minded, Abe is pragmatic. Wike can repel sensitive people, Abe is more discerning,” Briggs emphasised.
“Wike has executive government experience; Abe has
executive and legislative government experience. Wike will probably crush people’s civil rights including press
freedom. Abe is more comfortable with deploying oratory and a superior argument. Wike is apoplectic and blustery.
Abe is a natural orator and communicator,” he stressed.
He added that whatever chunk of Ikwerre that Wike may
prise away from Amaechi is neutralised by a bloc Ogoni
vote for an Abe. The votes of the Kalabari and other riverine bastion become decisive in such a scenario.
The veteran publisher, described Abe as a man bound byhis word, a decent man, a core Christian, a committed and dedicated Nigerian from the marginalised Ogoni area, a symbol of humility, a citadel of wisdom, a man of stable character, a loyal party man and an astute politician.
The Kalabari born journalist, who said he was neither an
APC nor a PDP member, noted that his people suffered
severe setback under Governor Peter Odili but blamed it on Kalabari politicians who had the power to make a
difference at the time.[

www.thisdaylive.com/articles/2015-abe-is-wike-s-antidote-says-briggs/189235/?utm_medium=twitter

S/Africa's President Jacob Zuma has announced
that 67 South Africans died in the SCOAN's
building collapse in Lagos.

In a statement released on Tuesday
spokesperson Mac Maharaj said: “I am greatly saddened to announce that 67 South Africans died and
scores of others sustained injuries, after a building at the Synagogue Church of All Nations collapsed on
Friday, 12 September 2014, in Lagos in the Federal Republic of Nigeria.”
The last death toll from the collapsed guesthouse at a mega-church in Nigeria was reported at 57 earlier on
Tuesday.
Maharaj said: “Our thoughts are with the families, friends and colleagues that have lost their loved ones in this heart-breaking tragedy. The whole nation shares the pain of the mothers, fathers, daughters and sons
who have lost their loved ones. We are all in grief

He directed the relevant government departments and
entities to act with the utmost urgency to ensure that
the presidency facilitate the movement of relevant
family members to Nigeria, to identify the bodies.
“Government will keep the public informed of
developments around this tragedy.”


SOURCE: m.news24.com/news24/SouthAfrica/News/67-South-African-killed-in-Nigeria-church-collapse-20140916.


Hey friends, with this grieving pains in SA do you think they will deal ruthlessly with the nigerian folks that were caught with the $9.3million in their country, possibly seizing the money completely.
Comfort to the bereaved family and friends

vizkiz: Op,are you the chick giving the d•ggy.style or the chick hitting that girl's @ss on your dp??

So you left the topic you were supposed to comment to ask who is which in an old pic I had with my friend? Smh. How does our old pic affect the topic?

A possessive woman is making headlines after she
ordered her man to wear her face on his t-shirt.
The woman of England, wanted to make sure her
boyfriend does not cheat while he was on vacation
without her.
20-year-old Abbie Bartlett, ordered the t-shirt for
her boyfriend of six years to wear when he was
alone.
Bartlett had the t-shirt custom-made with 4 photos
of them together. She then took a photo of her
boyfriend Leon Connolly, 24, wearing the shirt.
The photos were not all. The woman made sure
that girls stay away from her man while he was on
vacation in Spain, by adding a bizarre message: “I
love my girlfriend Abbie, I hate the girls in Ibiza,
so please stay away from me.”
The couple, who have a 5-year-old daughter
together, are treating the incident as a joke. The
woman posted the photo of her man wearing the
shirt on Facebook, and it has since gone viral.


– YJ News


www.radar.ng/oddity/possessive-woman-makes-boyfriend-wear-shirt-with-photos-of-her-everywhere-so-he-wont-cheat/

I do not know where family doctors acquired illegibly perplexing handwriting, nevertheless, extraordinary pharmaceutical intellectuality counterbalancing indecipherability transcedentalizes intercommunication's incomprehensibleness.

The person who made this sentence must be a VOCABULARY GENIUS.

REASON:
This is a sentence where the first word is one letter long, the second word is two letters, the third word is three letters long-- the eight word is eight letters long and so on-- the twentieth word is twenty letters long!

shockwave91:
kai babe where you dey find all dese ur news sef?.....LMAO
anyways @ least now she knows there's no excuse for not swallowing when she gives her man the next blow.job

Hmm, u guys will always look for a way to favor u. Lmao

GSKing:
Team? You mean like its a game? Something you support cos you enjoy it at the moment?
My dear, I wish you well in your endeavors.
Just so you know, this post made so much sense
Go and get married, happy matrimony in advance.

Thanks dear. U welcome

fruqsy:
but sorry are you a lesbian?...no lies.

Will you be paid for verifying my sexual orientation? Lmao. #TeamLesbo

Resourceful Claudio Vieira de Oliveira knows more than
a thing or two about overcoming adversity.
Medics told the now-37-year-old’s mother to let him
starve to death after he was born with a rare condition of
the joints that left him with severely deformed limbs …
and an upside-down head.
But despite his physical limitations, Claudio, from
Monte Santo, Brazil, has defied doctors’ doubts to
become an accountant and inspirational public speaker.
‘Since I was a child I’ve always liked to keep myself
busy and work – I don’t like to depend totally on other
people,’ he said. ‘I do a bit of accounting, research for
clients and consulting.
‘I have learned to turn on the TV, pick up my cell phone,
turn on the radio, use the internet, my computer – I do it
all by myself.’
Claudio types with a pen held in his mouth, operates
phones and a computer mouse with his lips and has
specially made shoes that allow him to shuffle around
town.
His independence saw him succeeding at school and
qualifying as an accountant from the State University of
Feira de Santana.
When Claudio was born, doctors told his mother Maria
Jose he would not be able to survive.
Maria Jose said: ‘People started saying ‘the baby is
going to die’ because he could barely breath when he
was born.
‘Some people would say: ‘Don’t feed him, he is already
dying’.
‘But there’s only happiness now. Claudio is just like any
other person – that’s how he was raised in this house.
‘We never tried to fix him and always wanted him to do
the normal things everyone else does.
‘That’s why he is so confident. He is not ashamed of
walking around in the street – he sings and he dances.’
At eight years old, Claudio, who had previously been
carried everywhere, began to walk on his knees.
WHAT IS ARTHROGRYPOSIS?
Congenital arthrogryposis is a rare condition that
causes curved joints in several areas of the body at
birth.
Contrary to popular belief, it is not a deformation of the
joints themselves, but one of the tissue that surrounds
them, thus fusing joints in place.
It is caused by a number of factors, including lack of
space in the uterus, muscle abnormalities, nerve
abnormalities, blood circulation problems and maternal
illness.
The condition is present in about one in every 3,000
babies and is usually detected before birth.
Treatment options include physiotherapy, splinting and
surgery.
His family had to change the floor of the house so he
could walk around without injuring himself.
Claudio’s bed, plugs and lights had to be made lower so
that he could do things for himself without asking for
help.
He cannot use a wheelchair because of his unusual
shape, making it hard for him to be independent outside
the home – but he begged his mother to be allowed to
go to school and learn with the other children.
Doctors have recently diagnosed him with a rare
condition called congenital arthrogryposis.
They believe he has multiple joint contractions in his
legs and arms which mean they cannot extend properly.
Claudio said: ‘Throughout my life I was able to adapt my
body to the world. Right now, I don’t see myself as
being different. I am a normal person.
‘I don’t see things upside-down. This is one of the
things I always talk about in my interventions as a
public speaker.
‘Nowadays it’s much easier to deal with the public, I’m
not afraid of it anymore and I can say that I am a
professional, international public speaker and that I
receive invitations from all over the world.’
He is not the only person with the disease who has
refuse to let it overcome his life.
In February, MailOnline told the story of Leanne
Beetham who became a celebrated photographer and
artist whose paintings of wildlife – which she creates by
holding a paintbrush in her mouth – have sold for
hundreds of pounds.
Miss Beetham, who has a degree in applied animal
behaviour, uses paint and graphite to make her images,
which can take more than eight hours to complete at a
sitting.
In 2006 one of her paintings was sold for £750 at
Christies

worldduh.com/2014/09/01/how-the-baby-born-with-the-upside-down-head-has-defied-doctors/

John Lind admitted to police he ejeculated into a female
employee's coffee on multiple occasions. ( LinkedIn )
NEW BRIGHTON, Minn., Sept. 4 (UPI) -- Police said a
Minnesota hardware store employee who noted a
"strong odor" coming from her coffee discovered she
had been drinking her manager's semen.
Investigators said the victim, a worker at Beisswenger's
hardware store in New Brighton, told officers she
"noted a strong odor that resembled urine, but was
somewhat different and strange" coming from her
coffee mug and she found a liquid she suspected to be
semen dripping off her desk and onto the floor.
The woman told police she had "an ongoing issue with
a foul taste in her coffee" that she previously
attributed to "spoiled milk."
The woman told officers she suspected the culprit was
John Lind, 34, the Plumbing and Heating department
manager the store who would often approach her with
the zipper of his pants open.
Lind admitted to police he ejaculated into the woman's
coffee and onto her desk on repeated occasions
because he was "attracted" to the woman and he felt "a
sexual compulsion that he could not control."
Lind told police he found his own actions "gross and
wrong."
A criminal complaint filed Thursday charges Lind with
two counts of felony sexual conduct.

www.upi.com/Odd_News/2014/09/04/Manager-admits-ejaculating-into-employees-coffee/5291409855178/?spt=mps&or=1

What would you do if you were the woman, or if she were your wife or daughter?
Pls recommend a punishment for him too.

For the last 5 years I have had a lots of commando experience. In fact, lately I wear undies only when I am ovulating during menses and to church etc .

dytbabe:
Yeye?
Bt u read frm page 0
Yeye u

Sweetheart , don't mind the lil dude. He should be writing WAEC/JAMB n not here trying to discuss with his Aunties.

GSKing:
The op is the "friend" and "friend" is the op.
op is the pregnant friend and she's talking about her fiancé not "friend's" fiancé.
As a matter of fact, there is no friend, people should have known from her second post on this thread.
And please op, for the love of püùssy, you were never a lesbian. You're bisexual. A dictionary should have helped but you wanted the label. Lesbians AREN'T and CAN NEVER be attracted to men. Period.

I really do have no comments for your likes. Its a pity you have a dictionary, moreso "Google", yet find it a herculean task to unlearn your erroneous understanding about our lesbian sexual disposition. Not all lesbians are female bisexuals. For over a decade my friend was a non bisexual lesbian- meaning she had sexual affairs ONLY with females. She became bisexual when she met her fiance. I am a lesbian as well as a bisexual. .

Tashamania:
Thought as much

Creamypie, at first we met at a birthday party of a senator. I just told him I am a lesbian , hoping he will run off cos I wasn't prepared for any male relationship then. Cos I just broke up with my ex few weeks before we met. However I was utterly amazed when he called me the next time he visited Nigeria, and convinced me he wouldn't mind dating me. The rest as they say is history. #3YearsAndWeAreStillRockin

Tashamania:
Shh, it happens
Omg, did she say a Nigerian guy?

Lol. Thanks creamypie. Some dudes here are just so warped in their thinking. My boo ain't a Nigerian.

cocospice: @op, if your bestie fiance inquire if she's lesbo then she should come clean. If not let her keep mute and be discreet about it, she doesnt need to rub it on his face or anyone else.
My hubby did asked me while dating and i said yes, but have quit. He went ahead to marry me. I do flirt with ladies though, so hard to let go but with life and family activities am moving on.

Wow for real? Good to know u have an experiential counsel to give her. For now I don't see her quitting any soon. I have been as objective as can, even tried talking her into a sacrificial compromise n let go of all lesbian relationship. However its her choice to remain bisexual.

dytbabe:
Yeye?
Bt u read frm page 0
Yeye u

Dearie, so shocked at the number of kids on the prowl here. Even after I plainly stated that I needed MATURED opinions. smh

UPDATE: She confided me in our chat this morn that she is gonna keep the baby whether the marriage goes on or not. Pls folks I need u to pray along with her. Its quite complicated and tough already.
I have copied and posted some of the thoughtful opinions here to her, though she isn't on nairaland.


@dwilliams: tnx. But u don't have to badmouth the church.
@ Tashamania: true. Tnx
@

Omomehn: does ur fiance know u are a lesbian? how did u handle urs? if it did work out then profer it to her

Yea my fiance knows. However I told him right at the birthday party when we first met. We talked and agreed on boundaries before we started dating. Though he may silently be wishing I let go off my lesbo chics. Its a part of me and I owe no one no apology.
@ dytbabe: sweetypie , thanks. Don't mind some of these holier than thou guys bashing lesbians publicly but sending PMs and mails etc to bed us. Two of them here kept troubling me since ystday.

@ shockwave91: thanks a lot Sir. Good morn.
@ GboyegaD: I never said she has decided to terminate it. I just presumed. I hope I am wrong, I think her fiance may even kick against it.
@'remsonik: thanks dearie, I will see her on Thursday so we can holistically consider the pros and cons of informing him.
@ patholaw : I am not married and yes my fiance knows I have a lesbian orientation. We talked about it before we started dating 3 years ago. Kini big deal.
@ jennylove7575 : Gudmorn dearie. Thanks for ur thoughtful opinions. I guess u ain't a Nigerian?
@ badoolee : thanks sweetheart, don't mind some of these men here that a carry patriarchal mindset that disdains every freedom to women folks

@ uruba : o thou young man, art thou afraid? What causeth thee to fret? Fret not!
... #InUruba'voice : I hope u ain:t policing me? Lmao

sigmundfreud:
Thought of this too but our society will forgive/even permits the guy's secret than the lady's. What if he decides to tell everybody?
Telling him depends on the kind of guy he is...liberal, adventurous, open-minded yes. Conservative, rigid and traditionally African... serious trouble!

Wow! U sure got a critical and analytical mind. I told my auntie , who is a clinical psychologist in the UK, and u just voiced her line of thot. Thanks

@'RaphaellaDD: hey dearie, just saw your pics. Ur hair-do is so so terrific. Guess I'm gonna take off mine and get to the beauty saloon and make a new hair exactly like yours. Babe, u sure got an angelic beauty. xoxo

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awww....my heart just broke into uncountable pieces. I mean if my lesbian wife won't do a threeway wif me den is it my straight wifey dat would do it?
Thanks lots. Your humorous comments help dry my tears here. Anyway, sorry for dashing ur hopes.
@ uruba: deal with it, we love our lesbian sex more than heterosexual sex with our male lovers. The both aren't mutually exclusive , u think?
@ RaphaellaDD : u just wrote out my thot and counsel to her ystday. Thanks sweetheart . luv u.