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I used to be close to a girl that runs a petty shop in my hood. We were very close nd gist alot but some weeks ago, we had a lot misunderstand nd since then we arent the speaking type anymore. I do catch her looking at me each time i walk pass her shop but i noticed that wen i go to buy stuffs from her she'd be reluctant to attend to me, she'd avoid lookin me in the eye nd on attended to me, she gets slow and acts angry probably cus she wants me to stay alittle longer cus i dnt visit her like before anymore. Just yesterday, i sent her little bro to go get me something from her shop but she sent the little boy back to me to tell me to come nd get wat i want by myself. Is she trying counteract orders thereby getting angry or is she just missing my presence..?

masterchi:
She is still a child op. How old are you?

22

..turned 18 on february.

She cant even respond well to a simple complement, she turns away like you hav said something not right. She's extra ordinarily shy. A tall big girl of her size acting like a ten yr old girl is so disgusting. I've thought of leaving her but she gets moody nd pale wen i stop talkin to her. I like her alot, she loves me from all indication but ahh.. She needs to grow up, i've tried talkin to her but she doesnt even knw what her problem is. Pls any advice

teewai3:
she is jealous i guess!!!, nd i think she likes u

lol, so why she dey form since naa

adonbilivit:
she is not telling u the truth. a girl forget a note another girl asked her to extend to her boyfriend?...well from her response i guess thus:
1. that girl is prettier than ur girlfriend
2. the girl actually gushed out about you in the note
3. she is insecure.

hmmm, but she isnt my girlfriend anyway, we just get along well dat all.

ERCROSS:
She wants to present it to her boyfriend naa..
Smart gurl..

how cud she present a letter to her bf wen it has anoda guy's name written all over it?

adonbilivit:
ask her first. i need her response to know what mine would be.

dis's are her words, ''sorry i actually got d note 4 u but i 4got 2 get it ova to u cus i was busy nd i cant find it wia i placed it...i'm so sorry!''

We've be really nice friends but no romance involved. She got her hand on a lovely romantic note addressed to me 4rm another lady nd decided to hide it 4rm me,
why did she do dat

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I'm a guy in my early 20s, i'm a ladies guy in my zone nd its been like dat since my sec school days but sometin has been happenin recently.
My lady friends tend to get seriously shy at talkin to me one on one dis days. They can only relax when on the phone with me but when i chat with them in person, they avoid my eye contacts nd can take minutes of our disscusion to relax.
They do admit to being shy at talkin 2 me this days but cant just say why nd cant even help it.

Pls what cud be dia reasons...
Most of them r in dia late teen ages nd few in dia early 20s like me.

I have a female friend who once claimed she had a boyfriend but she'd hardly say anything abt him each time we chat.
Sometime ago, she told me not to talk abt other girls in my life each time we talk cus she said she does get jealous nd she later told me she luvs me but the fact she has a boyfriend makes it difficult 4 her to admit her feelings 4 me.
Just recently, she asked me wat i'd do or say if she asks me to make luv to her. I told her she wudnt ask me dat cus she has a lover nd again she claimed to be a virgin so i told her she wudnt want to gv her virginity to just a friend instead of her luver. She said i'm sexually attracted to her and dat she's thought of having sex with me 4 a long time even though she had neva allow her bf inbtwn her legs.
She insisted on laying down with me nd she doesnt care if we make it a habit cus its been long since she wanted it.
I tried not to gv in imidiately as i was shocked she was asking me 4 sex because she was such a quite, innocent looking girl nd i've even avoided talking up sex with her cus i've always thought it'd scare her away but she even suggested a place outside the eyes of our people but wen she saw dat i wasnt fast giving in to her demands, she started laughing nd said she was only joking nd dat i shouldnt take it serious.

Pls pals, do u actually think she was joking or was she serious abt giving me her viginity. She's 20 nd i'm 23.

I've long logged in here cus of work but i gat dis issue eating me up nd pls i need ur help nd advice as friends.
This girl nd her family packed in to our quarters sometime ago nd it wasnt long; we became friends. I got to meet her family nd they liked me too as her siblings became fond of me nd d parents neva had problems seeing me chat with dia daughter.
She was always fond of hearing stories abt my past dealings with ladies as she always asked me to start 4rm wia i stopped the previous time. I neva lied to her abt my past as she was always sincere with me abt hers but she noticed i've had dealings with many ladies in my college days nd 4rm wat she's been seeing around, i'm very popular with the ladies in my area as any girl dat works past us as we chat outside wud always say hi.
My problem with dis girl is, she snubs me anytime she accidently bumps into me on d street. She pretends like she doesnt know me nd wud walk away quickly even b4 i cud say her name but wen we're alone, she's so relaxed and laughs at everything i say. I've asked why she behaves like dat on d street but she wont say anytin. She prefers not to talk abt it nd even gets angry wen i persist.
Sometimes i begin to think she doesnt luv me dat much like i luv her as i think she arnt proud of me before people. One minute i'm with her, i think she luvs me dearly but the next minute she snubs me on the street, i think i've been fooling myself nd i'd be tempted to cutoff 4rm her. Pls ma friends wat do u make of this, why is she acting like this

AnodaIT: What is going on?
Everybody sleeping with their relatives on nl these days.
This is the 3rd topic for today alone

guy just try nd understand topics b4 commentin... Was dia any line i mentioned sleeping wit her?

Bolushalom: Date me and introduce me to her as ur girlfriend...you'll never hear from her again.lol

lol...wish it's possible...if u can face her charges..

@rotmyt,...neva seen her undies b4 nd dont intend doin dat anytime, anyday.

My friend, it was said dat d grandparents stuff happened many years ago even b4 our parents were born...i knw even our parents wont even surport d idea of me datin her but dis girl really can go mad if i dear tell her wat i wnt, she can go as far as sucide honestly.

We've been friends right 4rm our tender age nd at a point, our families got so close cos we found out dat my mum nd her dad had same grandparents way bck in history.

This made us more like brothers nd sisters nd nobody had problems with dat. She nd her siblings were always welcomed 2 our house nd vice versa nd we did many tins 2geda but she was always closer 2 me dan she was 2 my sisters but dat wasn't a problem anyway.

Sometime ago, she told me she was inluv with me but i took her like she was jokin even though i saw seriousness written in her face. She leta stopped me 4rm callin her my sister insistin she wasn't. I had no problems with dat but few weeks after, while we were 2geda as usual, she told me plainly dat she was inluv wit me nd had wished 2 date me 4 a long time but she was scared of me turnin her down bt she just noticed she was abt loosin me 2 another girl if she doesn't spill wat's been up her mind.

I told her she was my sis nd i cud neva date her but 2 my surprise, she got really angry at hearin me callin her my sister nd she warned me again against callin her dat. Someone interupted us dat day nd i cudnt gv her d reply she wnted but she kept on pesterin me until i just accepted her just 2 make her happy but within me, i knw i've displeased myself 2 please her cus i neva liked her dat much 2 date her.

The issue now is dat she's makin evryone believe we're datin nd i'm nt comfortable wit dat. She's very jealous nd cnt stand d sight of seein me wit another lady. Sometimes i try 2 tell her d truth abt wat i feel abt her but she seems 2 do tins worse dan i can tink of if i should do dat. I've tried initiating a breakup many times but she'd beg nd cry till i'd hv no option dan 2 accept her again. Pls i need una candid advice on wat 2 do pls. I cnt keep pretendin 2 b inluv wit her wen i knw i'm not besides she tends to stand in my way of goin after d one my heart wnts...pls help me get over dis...

Unconvincing victory, i was expecting more goals...think we need to work on our spot shootings...fergie take note, enough of penalty misses.

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rooney arn't playing 2nite, he's working on getting fit 4 the liverpool match in the weekend, i bet van persie will score 2nite; if not another hatrick, its 3points 4 manutd 2nite,... ONE UNITED!!!

I over heard some group of ladies in a saloon arguing on guys with long straight cuted side beards like that of flavour n'abania and mike ezuruonye always lukin more cute and handsome than guys with short straight cuted side beards. What do u think my NL ladies, which does the magic 4 u. Long straight and sharp cuted side beards or the short ones that hang by the ear?

Idowuogbo: See dis heediot o! U don start puberty? Msteww...

na ur mama, na im i de wait 4.

cindyrella: Common shataaaap!

when u meet ur elder bro tomorrow, just tell him exactly this, i'm sure he'll b happy to know dat ur nursery school teachers are really trying...stinking mouth.

Idowuogbo: If I stone u ten days eba, gutter water dey ur brain? U best shattap and confess u were idle.Goat!!

busy cow, y dont u go back with ur milking stuff or ar u done 4 the day? U think i take shit lik u do? U're lucky u had some leftover eba to eat even though they've been dia 4 ten days and u had to manage ur gutter water. Maybe next time u'll have to feed on ur own dugs nd manage ur under ground septic tank water cos it's obvious u gat no choice...silly thing.

Really gat no time 4 stupid talks, if u all gat something doing like u all claim u'all busy, u won't come here showing off wat kiddy brains u gat even though u claim "silly adults".

I wonder why the so call adults won't go mind their matured threads, u still waste ur gadamn time reading and commenting on such a childish, kiddy talks. What does dat make u all?...mtcheew.

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