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ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Mental illness, he needs medical attention asap

He has psychosis and schizophrenia or both....
May the universe be kind to him.....

nnamdi640:
I don't blame you, assuming you stayed in your father's house without husband, then you will know the importance of having husband like that your man. You want him to start clothing you as baby or what. If you think he is not trying enough, pack your load and go to your father's house let see if you will survive it for 2yrs..... No just carry this type of your brain cross road, that you are a woman doesn't mean you will not support your husband in this present time, women that are doing more than what you think is too big you are doing can't even call their husband useless. If you know the meaning of useless, you won't use it on your husband

So if I go back to my father's house, are U saying I won't be able to feed myself?
Someone dat can't take care of my personal expenses , no clothing, no toiletries , no pocket money, no emergency funds.
Man, I can comfortably feed me and house me without going back to my father's house..
So I say again, he is useless to me in the scheme of things.

Yemoad:
There is life after death,we are here to make choice of where we will spend eternity, two destination after death, heaven where God,holy angels,and the saints that have died,no unholy person or things can enter there,
Then he'll fire for the sinners those that disobey God and died will spend eternity with Satan and all the demons the falling angels,So you need to give your life to Jesus and he will cleanse you from all your sins no matter what you have done,He will forgive you if you turn to Him with all your heart, PEACE

Na one spirit sit down tell u all these one or u read am for bible(fictional book)?
Like someone above said why did God choose to reveal himself to just less than 5% of everyone who has ever lived? Considering that it is estimated that over 108 billion people have existed throughout mankind's existence.

achu442:
The soul is repackaged.

The body goes to earth

The spirit continues another journey and pays dearly for sins committed in the past life

So where do the souls of Gorilla and monkeys go to?

Toruibestate:
Very true because the way life is..
You mean we came down from heaven just to fight to enter heaven again?
Very weird.

How can they even say we came from heaven when nobody on earth can tell how the heaven we came from looked like, nobody could even tell about their experiences in their mother's womb....yet they confidentialy say when we die we are going to heaven or hell that no one even knows the description of both places....nonsense

I hope Righteousness is not been here yet to preach Jesus

nnamdi640:
Someone paying 80% of the bills is useless to you, see bad mouth of the highest order. Don't even try to say it out before people reason your matter. You would have forced him to pay 100% of the bills and also carry your family problem join as if he was made to be your family slave.... You are lucky that you are married, if it was now you are reasoning like this, you for smell pepper.

He pays house rent, na me wan pay am before.
He pays children school fees, na me wan pay am before.
He gives only breakfast and dinner, na me wan do am before abeg shift, I say again he's useless to me on the scheme of things as far as he doesn't care for my personal needs

bigdammyj:
Noted.
"If she is able to pay all her bills without your assistance, she cannot listen to you."

Life is transactional, this also applies to any relationship you can think of...
Boss - worker.
God - Man
Parents - Children.
Husband and wife....

God promised humans an eternal home, if they believe and worship him here on earth, else na hellfire , even though I believe this is fiction, what other transaction is greater than this...

Boss promises his worker payment at the end of the month if not you think he will order his employee around? No one will work for him in the first place...

An Husband is not able to provide anything tangible for the family, you think anyone in the family will listen to him, even the children will curse such man beneath their breath....

My take

Lord Lamba is right, I'm a married woman and even though my husband pays about 80% of the bills in the home while I take care of the 20%, he's not responsible for my upkeep, maintenance, clothing and everything that concerns my family, I do not totally submit to him, cos he's personally useless to me in the scheme of things.....

Lord Lamba right now.... .


Twenty characters dusted...

This is not the first time they're unfollowing each other...
Attention seeking couples, when Una tire Una go rest.

Iran tying their perceived enemies to ballistic missiles and firing them to their opponents camps traumatizes me ....

fuckingAyaya:
who are you referring to as sky God? Be very careful! People wey do pass you were later humbled by God, some were not lucky to realize their foolishness whilst still alive be very careful. They're atheist in Nigeria, frustrations made people not to believe the existence of God. Humans are the most funny creatures God created, WIKE that used to brag heaven will not fall if he does this and that you saw how he was speaking in an unknown tongues because of little engine failure? At that moment nothing concern him with being a minister of FCT or his arrogance, he was pleading to be alive so people that use to claim atheist a time is coming when you will explain the meaning of the word atheist to the creator but for now continue being a FAST MAN.

Fear is a tool for control..

Ashaaaa......I see what the colonial master did in the sky daddy's book

stuffs2002:
If you like accept, if you like don't accept. That one na for your pocket.

Iran never wanted a war but they showed they had the right to defend themselves.

Iran showed that the had the right to defend themselves, that one sef na for your pocket.....Keep Crying

NNtv:
not just the church, the government has create policies to preserve family because we are not ready to have a disjointed society that leads to rise in crime, which is always the outcome of children raised without parents.

In one simple, compound or complex sentence, please kindly state the policies the govt should put in place to preserve the marriage / family cultures and values....
Abi no be people wey dey the same govt dey cheat and get sugar daddy or mummy pass ...........abegiii

stuffs2002:
Isreal are expert at bombing children, the weak and the elderly.

Isreal are not looking at Iran anymore as they saw shege banza in the hands of Iran

Let's even accepted that Iran defeated Israel in the last war, why did Iran also agree to the cease fire, I thought their solidarity lied with Gaza, why didn't they continue to pound them on all fronts

OLAADEGBU:
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The ministry said that the overall death toll since Israel launched its campaign had risen to 62,686, with another 157,951 injured.

If you're an Hamas sympathiser, hear me -please stop coming here to cry foul, our demands are simple.....Release the hostages and let's have a heart to heart talk until then, you go continue to dey collect wotoporiously....
I always stand with Israel..

I am yisreal in Botraleged's voice

CorrectionFLuid:
Woke mentality is also herd mentality.

Because this lifestyle is championed by those who like to think themselves smart, does not mean that you, who subscribed to their ideology in order to appear smart, is a critical thinker.

Critical thinking involves knowing that humans are not sheep. And that there's bound to be disagreements in everything. Calling those who disagree with you herds, or other condescending names proves you want to be seen as smart. And you're actually far from smart.

You're very right Epaaa
oya dey go now....

Offpoint1:
You're absolutely right, everyone can't come from my family tree.

Those who have not seen money thinks money is everything.

Do have a great day ahead.

You're absolutely right, you just spilled my truth, because I've not seen the kind of money I want , I really do think it's everything you need to have heaven on earth, if you believe otherwise, that's on you and your family tree and not me...Epaaa

Offpoint1:
If you molded your siblings to the stage whereby they don't literally need your advice to make THE RIGHT CHOICES, you could have understood... But since you fall into regi's family kinda tree... Your brain can't comprehend.


Unen

Everyone can't come from your family tree that's wrapped with everything called Poverty...
And yes ,I'll choose the nwokos over anything that doesn't even have a name

Fenrir:
🤣🤣🤣 tell this to men of a particular tribe that expect sons to worship them and expect all men in the world to worship them at weddings with prostration

The 1 tribe in Nigeria that literally has a god complex ego and Inferiority complex raised to into all of the men

Men that preach they are the ultimate example of humility and respect but get abusive and call you all names under the sun if you use your basic human right under laws of Nigeria and say "no, im not doing it"

You're right my dear, even though I'm from that tribe, I can confirm all that you've said, my husband is a typical example, he wants me to always treat him like a small god, and always quiver before him, but I always stand on business and don't worship anything called man like myself, I fit respect you if it's mutual, but worship and bow for u, I'll have to die first...

Kaa4:
This societal abnormality is destroying marriage: the oldest institution for family procreation established by God. If the women allow it, it will continue. A woman should not have children outside of wedlock

Churches have work ot do

We should get back to the basics

So what happens to atheist, theist, agnostic and the likes who don't believe in your God?
You wan force your belief system on them or you go force them go church on Sunday....
Or maybe you should even sponsor a bill in the national assembly mandating people to practice one of the popular religions.....arrant Rub ochhh

Offpoint1:
I don't advise my sister's on marital issues, if they can't make their individual choices, then they're not ready marriage.

NDISEME UNAM IKOT... that's your answer

If you don't advice them on marital issues, why are the choices of other women making you r ant here?
If in your own words- women will settle for anything that has money why are their choices paining you when you can't advice your sisters on who to marry...

Epaaa be careful...

LARRYOBRAIN:
Jesus loves you.
John 3 vs 16.
Take care.

I love you and Jesus too, but I will not worship you ....

Offpoint1:
You're not my father ke? Yeah, but he's your grandfather 😂

This folks marriage made me realized women will settle for anything that has LOTS OF MONEY.

I believe if Ned wants regi mother and regi approves it, that woman go agree marry am.

In your honest opinion, between anything that has lots of money or anything that has lots of rags and thrash , who would you advice your sister to settle for

EPA I dey wait answer o

LARRYOBRAIN:
Even Quran and Buddhism book does not support same sex.

Oga, I don't practice religion, I'm an Agnostic Deist, Why should I have to believe in something without evidence to live my life freely?
Very soon you guys will mandate religion on everyone else you go sentence the person go prison.....Epaaaa

Fenrir:
And the number 1 reason for Nigerian men is sexual assault the word "NO" hurts your egos so you spit nonsense like "its my right"

Please rephrase the above...
More clarity is needed on that....

SmartPolician:
There's nothing to think critically and this moniker doesn't follow any crowd. Let that sink in.

If you don't know that our society affects how we live our lives as a people, I wonder what you have been learning in school. FYI, there are two major factors that make us: genetic factors and environmental factors. Everything that makes you you is traced to those factors. If you use your immoral lifestyle to negatively influence my children, you are a problem to my family and society. Nature only allows procreation through the opposite sex.

Also, for a man to coexist in one space, there must be rules of association. Man doesn't deserve total freedom. If a man goes without rules, nobody can exist in our society. Practising something unnatural in a faith-sensitive society is not allowed because we have agreed to use our faith (Christianity, Islam, etc) as the moral compass for our conduct as one people.

How many of you are relying on blind faith? As a Deist, I don't subscribe to religious dogma or scripted narratives created by humans, I determine right and wrong based on my own moral compass. What consenting adults do in private doesn't impact me or society. If you're bothered by it, I'm sorry I can't help u cos homo..... has come to stay.

Btw, I hope you're not planning to impose your views on others who've chosen not to have children, cos you could say they're negatively influencing your children and therefore they must be forced to procreate like it was written in one supposedly "holy book".

ArcSEMPECJ:
Evil begat evil, let not one be found in you....
What is the nature of love making ?.....is it not for conception

How can a man say he has anything to do with his fellow man? And having sex from the anus with the same man?meeeeeeeeenh this is disgusting nah haba..some even encounter feaces as they do the act....shiiiiiit

Do you know that most men indulging in the act drag pampers with our new born babies because their rectum is now stretched , damaged and can't contrast again to hold feaces, so anytime they feel pressed, they do it like new born babies...
My brother, go and thank whatever you worship that you are not one, majority are crying and want to pull out but is not easy

Or a lady using all sorts of nonsense on a fellow lady as intimacy gadgets and that ends it there , some even have a damaged sex organ because of too much usage of artificial things that ends them to just lust of the flesh and never conception...

Yes , the act is not good for a society , see as the lady was saying a lesbian was luring her to that act, that's the way it affects those who are not into the act because the act needs more souls to destroy....

You may be the next victim one day, and you will run here to tell us your experience...

I had an experience with one of the corp members posted in my NYSC PP then , he happened to be a roommate to me, I warned him that if he dares to touch me again at night , that I will pour him fuel and light him when he is asleep and I could have done that, I hate such nonsense, he had to change room the next day...

While your points are valid, I disagree with the idea that sex is solely for conception. Many people today choose not to have children, and it's unrealistic to assume that every instance of intimacy between opposite sexes is driven by a desire to reproduce.
People have sex for various reasons, and not every encounter is about procreation...
And yes, even though I don't like the idea of Male homos, female homos should be spared, that act is very natural in my opinion

LARRYOBRAIN:
You need healing, read Genesis chapter 1 - 2. May Hod help you.

I am not a Christian please, the bible is for Christian and the likes..
I'm sure you can't refer Muslim nor Buddhist to read your fictional story book ...

SmartPolician:
Unfortunately, it's unnatural and evil. In fact, it contributed to why God destroyed an entire city in the Bible. You live in a society with leadership failure and you cannot add this madness to our long list of problems.

Fortunately, we don't even need the government to tackle this problem because the vast majority of Nigerians share the same opinion on this. So, it attracts immediate and weighty consequences.

Firstly, I don't share in the school of thought that L....SM is unnatural or evil,cos I'm not a Christian but a Deist, secondly, how's L....sm "madness" and in what way does it pose a problem in the society? .
Two women decide to have a relationship and make love, how does that affect u?.
Note I'm not one but actions btw two homo doesn't affect me in any way...
and until you take the time to think critically and reflect on certain issues, you'll be susceptible to herd mentality, blindly following the crowd without questioning or analyzing the information.