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snowblaq:
Funny enough... You just described me... Wow.

Hey bae, let get to know each other. It seems we have things in common. Probably maybe we could be good together (08063920026)

LadyGoddiva:
Please leave us alone. We like ourselves like that!

Hey bae, whatup

GlitteringStar:
Well said! However, it is always good to be oneself and not try to force oneself to fit in where one does not belong. Introvert or Extrovert, people will always talk. An introvert shouldn't be influenced by what others say. If an introvert is comfortable opening up to others, then he/she should do so and if otherwise, then he/she shouldn't try to change who he/she is because of what others say or feel about him/her.


I'm proud to be an introvert. I love myself the way I am.

Hey girl, I like this let get to know each other. I am an introvert and i love being one

Dasherz:
people keep saying an introvert should get a friend.... how do I go about making friends or a friend? cos man ain't that easy

Hello, there are people like you out here, here is me.08063920026

I am an introvert and i love being one

MrThisandthat:
Hello darlings,
How do you do today? I'll take it that you are doing great.

I come bearing good news to those of you who believe in partial or total withdrawal from people and and environment(the introverts). I may know not if you were born that way or if it's due to some circumstances in your past but I put it to you that people around have a problem with you because you're unpredictable and may seem as a threat to them.
However, temperaments are what make up our personality for without them one might not be able to distinguish one human from another. These temperaments may exist singly or multiply in one person but the ability to take control of it is the wheeling power we possess as humans.
Although,it can be difficult to admit to yourself that you maybe an introvert because you have a "spoonful" of friends. Let me give you a few suggestions that might aid you in identifying who you truly are.

- you enjoy having time to yourself because your best thinking occurs when you're by yourself.
-you're the last to raise your hand when someone asks for something from a group
-you often wear headphones when you're in a public situation
-you receive more calls,texts and emails than you make, unless you have no choice.

If you are nodding through all these suggestions, then you might as well be the person I'm talking to. Being an introvert definitely has its advantages because you enjoy reflecting on your own thoughts, you'll be less likely to get bored when you're alone than someone who needs constant social stimulation. But then again, the pros begin to out weigh the cons.

People who don't know you might think you're aloof or that you feel superior to them. You begin to get labelled as weird or snobby and a lot of negative traits are ascribed to you. You may often get overlooked and it's difficult to blend in a noisy extroverted world. The worst is that you may begin to sink into depression because your thoughts begin to lead you and before you get to notice, the psychiatrist is already draining you with lessons that are as good as useless at that point.

In order not to get too extreme, you should allow yourself, giving yourself permission to be a little more open in revealing your thoughts and feelings and this may help you make the best of both worlds.
Above all, talk to someone sometimes, get a friend or a couple of extroverted friends or even a pet. Just get close to something because we all need somebody to lean on!!!





Yours truly,
SassyNIGERIAN for

AnotherNIGERIAN's Blog



Source: http://www.anothernigerian.com/2017/11/letter-to-introverts-from-sassynigerian.html?m=1

I will start by commending your writing, well structure with varieties of point. Seriously I will say you have talent, my advice don't waste it where it won't be use. Now to your write-up, my advice is that no matter how, who or what people may be, don't try to bend them, but try and blend in to their life. Getting to know them deep might change your perception of who they really are.Have a wonderful day

kingasap:
introversion is not a disease. please leave us like that.

God cannot make everybody same way, we are created with different color, race, culture, likewise character and behavioral.

able88:
in 6-words summary, "don't try to be someone else"


If my introverted temperament freaks you out, then get the hell outta my life

My fellow introverts should identify by clicking the "LIKE" button

I think you have a point