Yaa they have been there since they were 4.so they are now used to the system since there mother visits them always.

Thanks u gyz for all your contributions. He agreed to leave the twins in Uganda until we settle since they are in a boarding school and their mum will always be there for them. I made up ma mind en we will be going home for the introduction and wedding in May then go to canada. I will keep u gyz posted on whatever goes on. Thanks once again for all your ideas. May the good Lord continue blessing u gyz. Long Live Nairalanders!

By de way i jelousy u gyz coz u have dat strong spirit of brotherhoodness more than any other community. But i have one more advise for u gyz. Stop being envious of each other coz you are all brothers. I feel so bad when i see some of your brothers setting up fellow brothers for no reason other than jelousness. Please stop dat if u are one of them. Peace be with all u gyz. God Bless u

Your welcme dear Iam from Uganda bt i am not there now. You gyz are peculiar. So keep on being proud of who u are. God has a reason as to why u gyz are like that. I even heard that Nigeria is in the bible. Is it true? If its true then u gyz are aspecial nation. May God continue blessing all nigerians where ever they are. You can't believe this,bt the truth is, i really feel bad for nigerians because jst mere mentioning that u are nigerian,someone's mind begins doubting that person. But my prayer is whatever the devil mearnt for bad,God must surely turn to good. Guys keep on praying either to God or Allah for favour wherever u go because that is all u need.

Thanks alot once again u gyz. I jst finished talking to him on phone for 3 hrs and he suddenly told me dat i shouldnt think that he is gonna marry coz he wants me to take care of his kids. He said dat for dat matter he is not gonna take the kids to canada until we settle. Including finishing my masters and producing my first born God willing. He says dat since the kids are with their mother and they are going to school he says dat they can stay there for a mean while. I am not really bothered about their mother since we shall be in canada and besides she cant even talk to any of the gyz relatives coz of wot she did after the guy spending a lot of money on her.She cant even visit her village because of shame and guilt. However,my fiancee says dat she is still begging him to forgive her.en he sayz dat he cnt forgive her.not upon wot she did to him. So, do u think he can change his mind en go back to that lady in future?Ofcourse i knw the kids will always belong to her since she is their mother no matter wot. But the good thing is they are both girls, so i think if we stay with them when they are old i think its better. Wot do u think?

They divorced legally in court but my fiancee talks to her because of the kids since he has to take care of them until he takes them abroad. He is in canada and me i am in Japan but we meet so often . We are all ugandans.Hope i have answered all your questions. Feel free to ask me any questions. Thanks for your concern. I am so grateful.

I am so grateful for all u guys because everyday i learn new ideas from this forum.How i wish i could come up with something like this for my country. May be you could give me some ideas on how to start. Yaa for real i ve heard alot about Nigerians bt i like them cz of their unique characters. You gyz are so diff. from other africans.

NO.1 Yo very courageous
      2. Very hardworking
      3.Intelligent
      4.Loving ( Nigerian men know how to love and for women) from experience.

Anyhow i believe every ctry has good and bad people. So keep on moving u gyz no matter what people say.
Cheers Nigerians .

Thanks everyone

Thanks alot you guys for all your ideas. I am 28 years old.Briefly this is what happened ,,,, he told me that his wife fell in love with his neighbour four years back when they were planning to wed. He says i should make up my mind becoz  time is against us. Yes,he wants me to be the mother of those kids and the ones we will produce together. He has so many plans for us including taking me back to school to do a masters and others. But i suppose what made the woman cheat on him was becoz of the distance according to what he told me,  This man lived abroad and he always used to see his wife once in ayear. So he now wants me to move to where he is after the wedding. However the kids are still living with their mother in Africa and he says that  she has allowed him to take the kids abroad. But my problem is, i dnt have kids neither have i been married before, so i find it abit difficult to live with kids of my husband esp.abroad without a maid since i have my plans of working too. Won't i end up being a maid? Thats my worry. For sure i knw its not easy to take care of kids who are not yours. I am a teacher by proffession bt i ve always found it hard to jst teach these kids.How about living with them forever? And if it was one , i think i wouldnt have a second thought bt they are 2. The truth is i love kids so much bt living with them forever is abit hard.Please advise me. I am in dilema.

Dear Nairalanders, i need your advise because i am in dilema. I am in love with a 45 year old man, who has 6 year old twins and he is proposing to marry me. My problem is, i love him but i am worried about taking care of these kids that are not mine yet i am not yet a mother. Please advise me because i have two weeks to make up my mind. Waiting to hear from you. Cheers

Fine en hot

Nice meeting u Acidrop. How is Australia?

Hi Douzy!

Thanks guyz for de warm welcome. I hope to catch some fun since i have people to tlk too now. Cheers everyone.

Sure, i think thats a pretty good idea. Go on with your idea. Good luck!

Hi Nairaland users,i am so happy to discover such an educative,interesting, and entertaining forum though i am not from Nigeria. I have learned alot on this forum and i hope to learn more as i also share my views. However i am looking for friends as i get used to the Nairaland users! Cheers to everyone. Feel free to talk to me.

bluenubian:

girl, don't act on it, its pure lust

Its not lust i am convinced its LOVE

j-girl:

First of all, Is he single?

He is married

j-girl:


are you sure you're not mistaking the Holy Spirit for butterflies
Find out if he's interested and then you can dream of telling him.

I am very sure its not the holy spirit because i have been in LOVE before and i know how it feels.

I have been a member of some church for a couple of Months but i have a problem. Every time i see my pastor preaching , butterflies start running in my stomach. This has been going on for some time but i don't know what to do since he is married. Can I tell him? Advise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi

To be sincere why would a serious man hang out with a tall woman? Don't you think it feels like hanging out out with a fellow man? What do u think?