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Romance / Re: What Does Your Zodiac Sign Say U Re, Read Mine? by shanda(m): 11:21am On Jun 22, 2008
Librans --- I'm one.

They flirt a lot. They are smooth player. They plan their games before they execute them. Believe me, you have to be very smart to catch them.
Romance / Re: What Does Your Zodiac Sign Say U Re, Read Mine? by shanda(m): 11:15am On Jun 22, 2008
Geminis have the tendency to maintain a double life (two relationships).
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 11:08am On Jun 22, 2008
she's very jealous. Some weeks ago I told her about a lady that had interest in me but i no give am face. When she came to my place on friday, we had two rounds again, she's too wide now. While she was leaving she insisted that we pass by the girl's street, because a friend of mine stays on that street. She knows this particular girl (pretty and sexy too) that i'm talking about. She only wanted to know how the girl will react if she sees me with her. She behaved like a kid. We passed by but the girl wasn't outside, I saw she was disappointed.

I ended up sleeping with the other girl yesterday, because she's just crazy about me. I did it because I'm already losing interest in my girl basically because of what she did. I never cheated on until yesterday. I still have two more targets and I'll hit them before I resume. Don't blame the playa, blame the game !!!
Romance / Re: What Does Your Zodiac Sign Say U Re, Read Mine? by shanda(m): 10:00am On Jun 22, 2008
I've come to realize that sagittarian females always have more than one sex partner. They are best kept as girl friends, to keep your bed warm. They are always cute and have cool and soft bodies. Just watch out for them.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 10:41am On Jun 19, 2008
@tboy1

I'll start my annual leave tomorrow. It's been approved. We'll probably spend most part of tomorrow together. I'll talk to her and I'll make her understand I won't leave her if she tells the truth.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 10:34am On Jun 19, 2008
@tope

Just checked out your pix . You look gorgeous !!! Your guy dey enjoy o
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 10:31am On Jun 19, 2008
@tboy1

Thanks for that. I actually plan to tell her mum. The woman will be heart broken if she hears that, but I'll go ahead. Infact, I'll make sure she's there while I tell her mum. She'll not even know i have such plan in mind.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 10:17am On Jun 19, 2008
Believe me guys, this is the first time I'll feel differently about a lady in my life. I've never taken any of them serious. My quest to have a committed relationship makes me to like her. Is it Love I wouldn't know. Due to the length of time we've been together, we've just been fond of each other. I don't get to spend much time with her though, too busy to play with her too. In all these, I know my mistakes, and I know the role I played before the whole thing degenerated to this level. Actually I really wished someone can talk to her to just come out openly. I think she's just scared of doing it, but it will only make things worse. If she had spoken to me about it, I would have forgiven her. Maybe she probably feels, it's difficult to find someone that will forgive such offence, but it's not true. I'm ready to, if she opens up.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 9:50am On Jun 19, 2008
Latest Update.

I got home a bit early last night (7.30pm), and she was already waiting for me there. She just kept saying sweet things to me (not freaked about that though). She said she doesn't want this relationship to end, and that i should about the plans we both have together. She begged and begged. I was just looking at her, because she did not say what i wanted to hear. She apologized for things she might have done in the past. She told me to try to understand that she's a lady and guys will always disturb her (she's very pretty though). To cut the story short, I ended up giving it to her twice according to my plan B.

I tried to curtail her movement because, I know her more than she thinks. She's a sagittarian while i'm a libran. I took time to learn about her and it really helped me in handling her. I think anyone in any relationship should try to read more about their partner's zodiac sign, believe me, it will help you a lot in your relationship. In case you don't believe in it, just give it a trial and see what will happen.

My only concern is her parent, especially her mum, she's very fond of me. She'll not be happy if she ever find out that I've finally broken up with her daughter. Infact she's going to call me to know what happend, because she took me like a son. She calls me regularly to know how i'm doing. Is it wise to intimate any of her family member, maybe brother or sister. My intention here, is just to help her, so that they can talk sense to her, i won't gain anything from it, but i don't just want her to go astray and turn into a prostitute when things can be corrected.

She really enjoyed herself last night; so did I. It's not easy to leave what you are freaking used to. It's not easy to walk away like that. More updates later jare, got to trade now.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 6:02pm On Jun 18, 2008
I forgot to add this. Even If i decide to call it quit, I know her parents will call me to know what happened. I'll have no option than to let it out to them. I'll do that to help them and their daughter. Maybe, they'll be able to talk some sense into her. But she'll still be a goner if she doesn't say it. There's nothing to hide again, it's f, g glaring. I think I feel better talking about it. That's one of the best ways to handle situation like this. One more thing to others that are already suspicious of their partners; please always know that, it is the neglect of time repairs, that makes re-building necessary.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 5:09pm On Jun 18, 2008
I can forgive her, If she if she opens up, and tell me the truth herself. Otherwise I'll go ahead with plan B, which you guys already know.
If I go with plan B, I'll play along which is a simple thing for me to do. She'll never notice, as there will be no changes in my attitude towards her.
Deep within me, I know she's a goner!!! I'll just give her nice retirement benefit.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 12:44pm On Jun 18, 2008
@ bennygee
Nobody can break my heart, believe me. I've never been emotionally attached to anyone, and i will not, so where will the heart break come from.

@idey_craze
I've been in that situation too


Meanwhile, are we all saying people cannot change after asking for forgiveness I think some people can. Those castigating others, I wonder how u'll all feel when you get to find out that you are not the only one sleeping with your girl. The fact that it has not come to your notice does not mean it is not happening. Some people will have heart attack when they find out.

I believe we all need to work on our emotions, and should not be shocked whenever things happen to us. Nothing can shock me, i won't find any of such story unbelievable. For christ sake, we are all humans. Some people think they are so perfect and cannot fall into temptation. Even you leave a cheating partner, whatz the assurance that the one you are going to meet will not cheat on you. I noticed she was cheating, because i saw the signs.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 10:32am On Jun 18, 2008
That's true izeek. That's the reason why i've always been skeptical about having a serious relationship with any girl. She can be cheating, but she'll find it very difficult to leave me. Even if i eventually quit the relationship. I can still see her anytime i want. Do you think it's easy to leave what you've been doing for over two years. She's addicted to my stuff, and i like her body too, no doubt. Well i'm paying for what i did. I over- exposed her to sex. In the last one and half year, I've had over 100 rounds with her. I'm not exagerrating. Sorry for using those words.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 9:34am On Jun 18, 2008
Yea ! no problem. But i'm going to do an irreparable damage to that place.Believe me, I'll wreck the place for her. I've already told her to come over this weekend.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 8:49am On Jun 18, 2008
The truth is that, I'm ready to forgive and forget. I hate it when people try to prove they are smart. I've known a long time ago that there's something going on, but due to the nature of my job, i don't have enough time to do anything. The truth is that I like the girl but I'm not emotionally attached to her. I've never been emotionally attached to anybody in my life, and i don't think i will. Ladies are very cunny and I'll only pity a guy that trusts her girl with the whole of his heart. I'm not saying all ladies are the same. The truth is that, it's very difficult to come across one that is upright and sincere among them.

I now understand why some guys doesn't want to get married. Believe me. When I met her, she was extremely tight, that it took us time to adjust, this was because of my size. I'm sorry for using these word. I was ready to stay with her in spite of the fact that i expanded her more than five times her original size. I didn't want to leave her because I believe if I do, any other guy that comes across her will leave by the time he finds out how big the place is. I guess she did not understand this.
Romance / Re: A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 7:49am On Jun 18, 2008
Oga! i'm not a stupid guy, you hear. I'll forgive her, and that's the end of the relationship. But, I'll Bleep the hell out of her for sometime. That's certain.
Romance / A bleeping Cheat!!! by shanda(m): 9:48am On Jun 17, 2008
Used to have a girl I was see for over 15 months. Duringthose period, the major challenge I have with her is that, she sometimes stay out late at her friends place, which to me is not ok. Though her friend stays about four streets away from hers, she stays there till around 10pm sometimes, which is not a proper thing as far as I’m concerned because she’s not working at that moment.

I’ve been suspecting that she’s having an affair with someone else since we've been seeing, but I’ve not been able to confirm that. Actually I wasn't that bothered cos I wasn't that committed. Dont have much time. But, I noticed that she’s always going to particular area because her aunt also stays there. Sometimes when she’s gone, I’ll call her more than 30times without her picking my calls, and maybe later in the evening she’ll call to tell me she went to her aunt’s place. This happened not less than six times. That alone is a sign of cheating.

Her phone had problem so I collected it to repair for, but she insisted on collecting her sim card. But I told her I won’t release it, so I went with the phone and sim. Meanwhile, I noticed a particular number that always call her at odd times of the night. I noted it. I asked her about the number she denied knowing it.  On one of those days she went away as usual without picking my calls, I noticed that the particular had called her like three times early that day. I noticed this after I collected her phone for repairs.

I was in my office and this particular number called me. I picked it, and the guy asked who was speaking, and that someone flashed him with my line. I told him that can’t be possible, because I’m the owner of the line and I know those I called. He dropped , and immediately I called my girl to ask her where she was, she told me she was at home and that she will explain to me when she gets home. Underneath, I heard this same guy’s voice saying something like “why are u telling him you her at home”. She cuts the line, and I called her back more than ten times without picking her calls

To cut the story short, she denied going to any guys place, but she confirmed that this particular guy stays beside her aunt’s house, and he actually asked her out, but she declined. But I don’t believe a shit in all she said. The guy later called back to ask who I was. I told him, “if you are her boyfriend I’m not disturbing you guys o”. He now said “ok, I’m her boyfriend who are you”. I dropped the call. I like the girl no doubt, but I’m not blinded by anything. Just like bleeping her.I’ve never been committed to any lady in my life. But I’m highly disappointed in her, cos I like her a little.

I asked him how he got my number but he declined, I told him not to call me again, and that she should hold on to his girl. Just want to take time to on how to deal with her, no advice needed, but if u wanna say anything. Feel free
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Investment / Trading On Nigerian Stock Exchange by shanda(m): 2:36pm On Feb 18, 2008
I would like to know if individual speculators are allowed to trade directly (through a broker) on the nigerian stock exchange as it is obtained abroad. I realize a lot of money can be made through this. If the answer is no, i would like to know on which african stock exchange can individual speculators trade. I look forward to hearing from you guys.
Health / Re: My Doctor Says I'm HIV Positive by shanda(m): 2:27pm On Oct 04, 2007
I couldn't go through all the posts to read the comments of others. The truth is this, i've never believed in HIV, though i know there's AIDS. Has anybody thought about this: what do they really test for whenever you go for HIV test. The truth is that, if you have acute typhoid or staphylococcus infection, and you go for this test, the result will be positive. It all boils down to your immune system. I really don't have much time but I'll advice you go to iris medical foundation and speak with Dr Ojeih. He'll place you under treatment for a couple of weeks. After this go for for the test again, the result will shock you. Again, don't take any anti-retroviral drugs, I'm begging you. Most times they are the real cause of the disease.
Computers / Re: Best Home Internet Service In Nigeria? by shanda(m): 2:31am On Sep 29, 2007
Go for MTN. They are the best at the moment. Setup cost is 33k which include, the cost of usb modem, first month subscription and sim card. The modem is very very portable.

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