Truthdeypain:


Their ignorance is bliss compared to yours, in your attempt to sound so cool, educated and refined. You sound really foolish, because for a fact stuff like this ain't new in our society, they happen daily! So you mean you haven't come across tales of peeps being hypnotized from the phone.

There are rules and principles in the spirit world, there are certain incantations and spells that these niggas, that's if you let them finish casting, tales effect immediately, it may sound unbelievable bit it is very true and can be very effective as well, though the effects may vary depending on the realm of your own spirit as a person and where you belong. As Omo ile wey i be I have personal experiences and third party experiences as well, Empirical facts! Don't think that people just sit up and make a thousand calls a day for nothing , common you can't be that stupid. People fall prey at the end of the day.

All man to his own sha. I pray say you go jam one day sha. Your English go change by then..

Seriously I believe all you said but the funny thing is I have experience this format but after speaking with the baba nothing happened to me and he said I should call him back maybe later I just I said yes but I did not call

Blessingisrael:
No matter what you do, Never, Never give up until she is set on the right path. I always wish I had someone who stayed through for me, maybe my elder bro. I guess I would have been better off. at 16, she is definitely vain, and materialistic. tell her to cool it , work hard, and at a time she will be able to buy whatever fashion item she desires. and when that time comes, she will realised life is more than what we possess, and those items won't mean much. I look at my shoes collections, and this pandemic make me realised how useless they are. they are gathering dust, but on that rack lay thousands of money.
if you don't nib the bud at the time and season, if your family can't meet up with her demands, she will slay to get those things anyhow. if you stay put , she will be glad that you did. do not mind anyone who will tell you to leave her to make her mistakes. my dear some mistakes, if not most, especially those that have to do with our lives are irredeemable. they leave us with a scar deeper than "leave the past behind" talks.

correct her in love, not by criticising, she will only plunge deeper into materialism.

Wish i can show her this to let her know we are not against her but driving her to the right path

WoundedLamb:
"... average girl turning to a slay queen with nothing upstairs"

Hahaha... you guys keep bashing and insulting girls on Nairaland and encouraging men to "use" them but you forget they are your sisters, cousins, etc. Relax bro, she'll be a slay queen mother and an "alpha" male from Nairaland will take care of the situation.

Ok, that was for the women bashers. OP, she's 16. Expect a lot of misbehaviour. She'll try to explore new things, good and bad. Guide her, keep talking to her and most importantly, do that with love and not force. If you show her love, she'll feel bad doing things that would hurt you. If you go with force, she might become rebellious and that means, deliberating doing things that you asked her not to do just to prove a point.

Good luck.

thanks this is all i needed and it's enough

ArewaOduduwaBia:
Nonsense, na everything them go carry come here. Rubbish!

I understand but wen u don't know how to stop a problem b4 it occurs, i tink its beta asking for advice cos we get wisdom past ourselves

So i have been away from home (lagos) for 3 years and my lil sis who is now 16 is getting all grown, but my recent communication wit my family made me realize that she have a thing for fashion, which is making her demand more from my mum... My mom having realized this is cutting everything off, on the ground that if she doesn't get wat she wants she will go astray, even my other sister which is older than her says the same thing.
This made me spoke wit her and she told me she love fashion and all, that mom want her to b like her older sis who is focus to be independent
Now my problem is how to make her realize it not all important without making her feel everyone's against her, making her do what she wants when she get the chance and making her have this entitlement mentality like an average girl
turning to a slay queen with nothing upstairs.
"I am sure going to lagos this December by God grace"

kingreign:


Whenever you dream about such, wake up immediately and rebuke such because you have nothing in common with the dead. It's also demonic to eat in the dream not to even talk of eating meal from a dead person. You need prayers and deliverance urgently.

Do not listen to spiritually dead folks telling you nothing will happen or it's normal, because it's not normal.

Thank you, mum always say so

popsy2:
It is your mind playing tricks on you. Don't believe all the bullsh*t about dreams.

kingreign:

Maybe... Maybe not

Whenever you dream about such, wake up immediately and rebuke such because you have nothing in common with the dead. It's also demonic to eat in the dream not to even talk of eating meal from a dead person. You need prayers and deliverance urgently.

Do not listen to spiritually dead folks telling you nothing will happen or it's normal, because it's not normal.

Thank you

Firstly, i am the kind of person that thinks about death always i don't know if it the recent death of my friend that cause it or i am just paranoid, all i know is i have been thinking about it since my teenage years and it gives me sleepless nights until i was visited by an angel who explained it all to me (story for another day).
So this morning i woke up remembering the dream i had last night of my dad, who died since 2009. In this dream we were together with my siblings n mum at home, according to the dream he woke up from death after one year and everything seem normal, he was eating and i was asking him of how death was like, he explained to me that he felt he was in a very deep sleep that he can't wake up from and everything he experienced was like a dream, but what i am really puzzle about was during our discussion he gave me his food and i ate especially the meat which i don't understand what it means.
i know there are people here filled wit wisdom, i will like to know what you guys think.
Note: i am not my father's favorite and he made it known when he was alive

Gundel001:

he doesn't interact freely

I wan send you email but i hope you see dis
Try to watch the movie *like stars on earth* it about pipu like ur brother, u will understand and know wat to do
Holla if u got the message

I am asking for a friend dat want to invest in jumia
She wants to sell or become an agent which i have know idea about
Can some pls put me through

yomi007k:
Wow. I feel so humbled today to have a shout out from you. I don't even remember what I said.

If you ask me I think your life is just alright. People will always talk. I don't remember where being single is a disease or crime in the constitution.

Its good to know you have a problem with your temper. The main issue is not controlling it. control your anger, it will save you from debt and problems in the future. Nobody is perfect. You can do it.

Take your time. The right woman will come. " dem no dey catch late comer"

....Peace.
(Sorry for my typos , I'm at work)

oga boss u may not know it but u lifted my sprit dat day, cos i was only looking 4 one person to b on my side �, each time i look back i remember ur words n here we have anoda..... D right woman will com..... It only 2 tins i want to tell u, i pray God keeps u 4 me and nairaland no delete dis post
1: I go invite u com my wedding if i ever have one (whenever i find her)
2: when i become popular i will come here 2 say a shout out (when not if)

Blu03:

...insults are allowed... you delibrately giving nairalanders permission to curse you.

na der way na, as i come wrie am dem fit get sense

devilmaycry:
Don't u have female friends

Besides relationship aint a must if u aint ready for marriage....
I know of marriages now...that spouses are regretting over....and wish to b single


Lil advice...do whats in ur mind and what will keep ur mind and body at peace

#nothingDeyDisLife

i have a female friend n her advice was 2 get someone, in her words "olu how can u b working 2 jobs n still go home to cook, market, n laundry"

I don't know if I am depressed or just confused but if it depression then I Tink I need help coz I have felt dis Way for several years
I am 28yrs and single since God know when, normally I don't Tink it a big deal cos I am all about increasing my income which I did last year but loneliness is killing me, I was able to get over it cos I am an introvert but I'm starting to feel pressure 4rm friends like

A: olu how come u are d only one still single among all d transferred guys in abuja

B: guy wetin u come do 4 dis life sef...babe u no get and na u get moni pass all of us

C: wait make I arrange dat one wey dey our front for u. Me: abeg abeg free d girl
C: I Give u dis week

Dis one's from mum
Olumide just impregnate someone and give me d baby I take care of him or her u don't have any tin to worry about

I neva knew people will notice me, their words keep hurting me. I swear I don taya, honestly I like woman no doubt but since I made up my mind to reach a certain financial height at a tender age, I just don't see women.... Even if I have a crush on u, it will b crushed.
My last relationship made me realise I am hot temper whereas I tot I am cool headed story 4 another day
Shout out to yomi007k u advised me to keep up many years ago... Ur words keep motivating me, I hope u say something 2day
Wat do u fellas think
Insult is allowed no b today

Michael Jackson had a genetical disorder called Vitiligo which causes the skin to become lighter.
It occurs when skin pigment cells die or are unable to function. He talked about this in an interview with Oprah Winfrey.
Proof that he had it in his family and didn’t cause it to himself with bleaching creams, as some claim:
His grandfather had it too, you can see it on his cheek. MJ said it was in his family and he was telling the truth.
It started since he was a kid. It developed faster on his hand and that was why he started to use the Billie Jean glove!
Then as he grew, so did his vitiligo:
Definite proof he suffered from it:
His autopsy report confirms he had vitiligo
1 with his grandfather
2 as a child
3 as he grew older
4 autopsy report

my savings small 4 person eye...I am motivated thanks

my name is olumide, dis would b my first tread since I registered...I will make dis short.
I am addicted to savings, sounds funny but I reduce my expense to the barest minimum (5k per month) I earn 30k per month, I do these because I am scared of the future. no job security and my 2 younger ones are in high institutions, being d first son much is expected of me since my father is late.
I was having a conversation with a neighbor when she called me pastor because she hasn't seen a girl with me b4 and she wants me to buy cloth 4rm :er (damn who is interested in clothing) so the mata reach my mom hearing and she advice me to try buying cloth 4 my self even if it's 5k per month, and also tosh my room a bit, with plasma and sound system but if dem sack me wetin I go use clothes do moreover I have to keep maintaining my dressing and Dat means more expenses, i I don't care wat people say about my dressing but I dress as best as I can
I have no friend or gf to seek advice 4rm so no advice is too small

Infoseye:
This thread is very much alive.

Boss me wan buy psp 4 dis month end, but me no sabi anything about d game
1 make i no go buy china
2 dem tel me say if i buy memory card {32g} i go give person wey go help me convert am make d pep fit dey use
3 i no understand all dis psp 1000, psp 2000
4 at d begin of dis tread u said somtin about hacking psp 4 maximum use
pls drop ur nuba so we can talk on watapp cos i no sabi anytin 4 d game wey i wan buy