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kenchop:
BY HS STRIPES YOU ARE HEALED IN JESUS NAME...AMEN

Aleem26:
O boy see tactics oooooo

PropertyQuestNG:
Have a great weekend, and remember: Smart property owners verify EVERYTHING! 💯

LagosG:
In this economy ke?? Dey play

Also, humans are herbivores. Just look at our teeth. That's all you need to know. Before you talk about incisors, those are not for tearing meat. They're for breaking hard fruits like apples and Co.

I love meat with every fibre of muscle in my body but the truth must be said. The human diet should consist of 80% greens and 20% proteins. If you check all the carnivores on this planet, none of them chew the meat. They swallow whole

ALMUSTAQIM:
Assalaam Alaekum Wa Rrahmatullah Wa Barakatuh

*AT OUR STAFF MEETING RECENTLY, I ASKED EVERYONE TO SHARE "A DAY THEY WILL NEVER FORGET AND THE LESSONS THEY LEARNT FROM THAT EXPERIENCE"*

Little did I know that question would open a conversation that would change something in me forever… and it might change something in you too.

So, read carefully ❗️

One after the other, everyone shared their stories... some funny, some inspiring. Then it got to one of our new staff who joined us just a few weeks ago.

She started quietly *“It was the day I lost my right eye.”*

I was like, “Which eye❓️”

She’s always on transparent glasses, so I never noticed anything unusual...

Then she said “My dad beat me out of anger when I was younger. *His hand mistakenly hit my eye. After so many treatments, I eventually lost it.”*

At that moment, I went silent ❗️

Because, I had planned to beat my son tonight for something he did earlier. However, after hearing her story, I changed my mind immediately.

As if that wasn’t enough...

Another staff shared that his Dad can barely hear properly today because his grandfather once slapped him out of anger, and that single slap damaged his ear for life❗️

They have to shout and her Dad read lips to understand their messages..

Those stories broke me! And they taught me something I will never forget...

✅️Never discipline a child in anger.... Never❗️

Because one minute of uncontrolled anger can create a lifetime of pain and regret❗️

Sometimes what we call correction becomes destruction❗️

So, please, if you are a parent reading this, let’s learn to control our emotions. Correct with love, discipline with sense, but never in anger ❗

May GOD help us to raise our children with patience.

Its another examination season.... Your child's academic speed does not guarantee his speed in destiny. Don’t mistreat or hit your child because your neighbour's child scored more that him/her. He may be a slow learner in arithmetic but an excellent artist, he may not answer comprehension passages correctly but be a great computer programmer. Look beyond literal knowledge but critical thinking.

May God protect US from actions we will regret forever.

We Pray Allah to Continue to Guard and Guide us Aright Protect us Have Mercy on us. Increase us in Knowledge Sustenance and Piety and Enable us become Better Muslims Better Nigerians.

Happy Jumaat, Happy Weekend.

nnamdi640:
It is online class using zoom

SIMEONSAIDI:
HM CHARIOTS BROILER FARMS ( Owners of the Brand[b] Naija Broiler Market[/b]) - Connecting Broiler Chicken Buyers & Sellers across Lagos — One WhatsApp Group at a Time

In the heart of Nigeria’s commercial capital, Lagos, the demand for quality poultry products—especially broiler chickens—is growing at an unprecedented pace. Yet, many buyers and sellers still struggle with fragmented communication, unreliable supply chains, and inefficient market access.

We’re bridging that gap with a simple, powerful solution: a dedicated WhatsApp platform designed to bring broiler chicken buyers and sellers together in real-time.

Our Mission
To simplify and streamline the broiler chicken trade in Lagos by creating a trusted, efficient, and responsive marketplace—right where everyone already communicates: WhatsApp.

How It Works
Verified Group Access: Farmers, wholesalers, retailers, distributors, and food vendors are added to a curated WhatsApp group based on volume, location, and needs.

Daily Listings & Offers: Sellers post availability, prices, and delivery timelines each morning. Buyers respond directly within the group or via private message.

Real-Time Negotiations: No need for intermediaries—connect, chat, and close deals instantly.

Market Updates: Receive regular insights on price trends, logistics options, demand hotspots, and poultry health tips.

Why It Matters
For Sellers: Reach multiple verified buyers daily without leaving the farm or shop.

For Buyers: Find reliable, high-quality suppliers quickly and compare prices in one place.

For Both: Save time, cut costs, and build lasting partnerships in a trusted community.

Who Can Join?
 Poultry Farmers

 Chicken Processors

 Cold Room Operators

 Market Traders

 Restaurant & Food Vendors

 Caterers & Bulk Buyers

Our Vision
To become Lagos’s largest and most trusted digital marketplace for broiler chickens, empowering stakeholders through transparency, access, and technology.

Interested in Joining?
Contact us today via whatsapp – 08185403844 for verification and to be added to the group that fits your needs.
📞 [Your Whatsapp Number]
📧 [Your Email Address]
📍 Operating in all major poultry hubs across Lagos.

At HMChariots Broilers Farms , Let’s grow the poultry industry—together, one connection at a time.

HM CHARIOTS FARMS ( 08185403844)........Creating a Seamless Platform for BROILER BUSINESS ( Sellers and Buyers )
Our Farm Location
Nigerian Army Resettlement Center
Command -Ipaja
Lagos State

EvergreenDiarie:
Are your a good cinematographer, we need you for our up coming video shoot for this month. We need good one at a reasonable price. Please send us message on streetssmarte@gmail.com

nnamdi640:
I'm a private school teacher and I can say that I earn more than some people in others fields, my colleague earn up to 1.5million and she is a private school teacher. Just make sure you are good in what you're doing and don't think all teachers are thesame. Beside, you don't know who God Has planned for you to marry, again don't think that all those with big occupations are earning well or will make it big

Bendeco02:
They should flog her well.

Why would a reasonable person video/record herself while having sex?

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A man and a woman are not the same and were never the same. If you allow a guy to take a video while having sex with you, you will be the one to cry and regret it later.

Sex tape can't destroy a man's life but woman. Do anyone care about the guy he had sex with? NO. People only concentrate on the woman involved

jeromestarks:
You didn't finish the work. Or, wait, you didn't do it well.
You would have told the guy WHAT she is and asked the guy to pretend as if he knew nothing. Then, the two of you will keep fvcking her and using her.
You will collaborate with the guy to use her until she comes useless then both of you will leave her.
You could even tell him to get her pregnant then reject it on bases that she was fvcking you.
Or after impregnating her, he, guy, will just reveal his true girlfriend to her and ask her to return to you.

Jewessgratitud3:
I managed to drag myself to our local market and went to a goat meat seller to help me cut 5k worth of assorted meat and see what he gave me., very small but I couldn't haggle much with him because I was so weak..

Below is the end result. My gas finished in the process of trying to let the shaki done very well and I had to call the gas man to come fill my 6kg ..omor 7800 for 6kg. God go help us o.

Things are getting worse everyday.

Please join me. It tasted nice though.

GreatVocalist:
Money is the only thing stopping me from doing this. My football dream was dashed by the demon called coronary artery disease.

solmusdesigns:
Please dear women, work hard, learn, earn an income

From a brother

lordfemzy:
Hello friends,

I am please asking for all the genuine help i can get right now to deal with an issue that has tormented me all the days of my life. I am open to criticism if it comes my way.

Situation: my mum (biological mother) is extremely lazy, lacks discipline, difficult to advice and very manipulative. However the laziness aspect is my main issue.

A brief history of myself, i am currently in my late 30s, firstborn and only male, with 2 sisters also in their 30s. I have been managing her case for the past 30 years since our father passed. I should mention that her mental health isn't that perfect and she suffers breakdown at least once a year whenever she misses her drugs. The nature of her breakdown is that she will keep on talking about most events from the past and view them in a negative way, she gets violent at times and uses foul words while cursing anyone who she thinks has wronged her. I pray non of us reading this will experience this in their families.

The chaos we experience whenever there is a breakdown is something i don't wish for my enemy at all, the effect is draining financially, emotionally and in various other ways you can think of. Infact looking back i owe God a lot of gratitude for the strength and courage he has given me and by extension my sisters in managing her very tricky situation. The shame, embarrassment, wasted time and efforts, lost opportunities that have come with her condition can only be imagined. I have had to sleep over at the hospitals various times whenever she's on admission running into weeks at times, i have had to represent the family at functions she was suppose to attend but due to ill health. I was lucky i didn't fail any of my last papers in Uni cos she was on admission, i missed a second class upper courtesy of my mums condition, the only 2 courses i ever failed in my 4 years at the Uni can be linked to her condition. I had to practically plan and organise a wedding for our last born cos she was on hospital bed. Some of her breakdowns happen whenever an occasion or celebration within the family is about to happen... my 21st birthday, final exams leading to graduation in uni, weeks to my wedding, weeks to her second born wedding, a whole month to our last born wedding, funeral of her mother in law, funerals of our grandparents, her own 60th birthday... the list is so long and at times i almost consider it spiritual but i am better informed.

In the last 2 years or thereabout i have been able to connect a few dots and patterns based on what i have experienced and seen. When my mum and her siblings (five) were being raised, the kind of family setup was such that cousins, distant cousins and relatives lived with them. This was because her late dad was a University lecturer, probably the 1st in his Hometown and granny was a primary school teacher, you know how it was in those days. I was able to understand that my mom and most of her siblings except one practically lived a life free of stress cos they had other relatives who were willing and at disposal to do major chores and take up responsibilities at home, they sort of lived a carefree life. I have stayed and lived a couple of times with these other siblings of my mum due to various reasons like holidays from boarding school, moving to another location for job opportunities etc.

I can practically tell from what i have seen with this people. All her life, things were being done for her and she's just free to do anything she wants apart from chores. Even her building project though her own money and sweat was an initiative of her late parents. They were practically her project manager and support system throughout their lifetime. Its a good thing to do but not setting limits and not being hard has it own detriments eventually, cos till date she's entirely reliant on anyone available to do even the simplest of chores. Let me quickly breakdown some of her acts and attitude which is very injurious to her own health.

1. The first on the list and perhaps the most annoying one is her laziness and OMG it reeks to the heavens. She avoids responsibilities and doesn't do house chores and generally procrastinates. My mum will use the toilet in her room and even living room and not flush properly on a constant basis. She does this even when she travels elsewhere. My mum can eat but cannot wash her plates and utensils, she will leave her plates in the living room for days or just anywhere, pots will pile up in the kitchen and will not be cleaned until every other option is exhausted and a new meal must be made. She will not lay her bed or change sheets constantly. She doesn't dress smartly and lacks good wardrobe management. She doesn't sweep, her corridor may not be touched in weeks same with other rooms in her apartment. Shes doesn't bother if she's unkept. Whenever she eases herself, due to her carefree attitude she will leave stained urine on her clothe and she will wear this throughout the day causing mayhem wherever she goes. Just add anything you can thing of as examples, you will find it with my mum. The annoying thing here is that if you advice her or suggest a change, she will rebuke you and tell you your are insulting her.

2. She's carefree and lacks good financial management. She earns well over 100K per month as pension and if we calculate her expenses per month she should have over 30 to 35k as savings. You can never account for how she spends her money! 10 days into a new month, the money is gone. Most times her friends abroad send her free money from and she will just squander the money on frivolities. She has a small shop that she runs, but for her to even stock the place sef na issue, she doesnt have a separate account for business and no stock is taken end of month or at least a quarter. We actually warned her against the line of business as its very common and the profit isn't much. We have practically considered her carelessness, carefree attitude and inability to keep things safe and warned against the shop idea. In the last 3 years she has lost 2 phones of high value. As if she likes to brag, whenever shes having discussion about money that is in her favour, maybe salary or someone abroad sends her money, she will begin to speak at the top of her voice such that an average person passing round can almost get full details. We have severally warned her against this but no luck at all. The consequence is that she has been defrauded a couple of times, you can act as a fake customer care agent of any bank and ask my mum for sensitive details like card number, password and she will give you immediately without a second thought despite the fact that she has been warned repeatedly. As a matter of fact she doesn't listen to her children's counsel or advice, but anybody from outside will give her advice and she ll make us of that one. She once told me off that i am not in any position to advice her that shes older than me and it should be the other way round. But when all the shit happens yours truly will be the one managing d situation.

3. She's manipulative. My mum is a master in this game and i am ashamed of her actions. I can't even mention some of the things she has done to my wife and I on this platform. She lies, deny incidences and things she has said. About her drugs, there is just one rule, do not skip any of morning or evening doses. Whenever she does she will never own up to you and when the effect is now seen, she will still try to cover up by saying she can't remember.

4. She's unforgiving. My mum is the last person you want to offend, even things that shouldn't be considered will be used against you when the time comes. For instance my mum may give someone raw food out of her own freewill or maybe the person asked for it, but months from that time the story can change that the person is the one stealing raw food or looting her house.

I apologise this is a long read and i can't even explain a quarter of what is going on at the moment, but the summary is that her laziness and lack of motivation is driving me nuts, i always have to bear and manage the consequences whenever shit happens. Its not easy for me cos i have my own family to manage and the responsibility is killing. Currently her househelp resigned 2 months back and the house has been a mess since then, she does practically nothing. I have been attending a workshop for the last one week and heard she's been feeding on puff puff and cornflakes every other day without making stew or soup and eating real food. This is a woman that money on her, even if you are lazy to cook, why not indulge yourself and patronise eateries till you have motivation to enter kitchen. Why not even make an arrangement for someone to come cook food for you everyday amd pay the person weekly or daily. We have to think for her and suggest things that require no initiative in most cases. I had to go and buy beef and made blended stew for her last weekend for example to motivate her amd assist like i always do. When i got back the following weekend, the stew wasn't even half used and there was mould on it indicating that she never cooked a serious meal, she was probably buying bread and removing the meat until it finished and lost interest in even heating the stew to warm.

Its more like if i don't do things for her, she will make herself fall into a state where she will enter deep sickness or starvation or depression such that people will see me as a bad person if anything sould happen to her. Already she has created that impression and she's living the lifestyle. Its been two weeks she's has remained indoors for no reason, no opening of shop, no cooking, no cleaning, no laundry, no strolling out and always expecting unknown help from anywhere it comes from. I have told her to pick herself up that help is something we must give ourselves. I have to go out to work daily not sitting down to baby sit my mum who is not an invalid. Her body is complete with no defects but i can't just help her laziness and attitude anylonger, its choking for me and i can't take ot anymore or do more than i have been doing. I have literally carried this woman for the most productive part of my life and done nothing wrong just loving my mother unconditionally. I have come to a point where i have to move on and break some unnecessary connections for my sanity and future of myself amd immediate family.

Please help and advice me guys on what to do. When she not in good health mentally na wahala and serious commotion and when shes stable, i have to battle with laziness, constant manipulations, carefree lifestyle, lack of discipline and vision and lots more. I have endured these cycle for too long. Also note that my sisters are married and are not even available at all, one is overseas and the other in a faraway state. I may not have touched some areas cos the issue too plenty but if questions are asked i would digress into it and share details truthfully. God bless

Moderator Sir/Ma, i beg you to help me push this to front page. I am not feeling good at all. Thanks

Hannahtherzia67:
Adorable kittens for sale Lagos mainland .

DrDunamis:
It's a simple matter, the graves could be exhumed and transferred to graveyards or another place.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Nice one . God knows I don’t like doctors as a partner. Lailai I can’t.

Starz825:
I fear God bro...

That awesome BEING can pull you out of trouble effortlessly and the fact that everything he says to me comes to stay is terrifying.

In mid August this year....God told me in a revelation to resign from my work place at the end of the same month....I said ok...
Few days to the end of August..he came back and said ..you will resign from this job..and then you will get another one ...I said ok .
End of August..I resigned... people were asking me if i had another job ..I said No...

Stayed home for two months praying, believing and doing some free online courses

I went for an interview later in October...and I was a bit bothered that I won't be chosen....cos I didn't receive an invite for my second interview on time...and then I had a revelation again...and God was telling me...they will pick you there.. don't worry...and then eventually I got the job..
That's where I work now and it's better than the one I left in every ramification...

GOD is surreal...
I thank HIM for everything...

Just keep believing.... God is ever willing to help you out... infact your happiness is his everyday pleasure.

Johndevmark:
collected about 320k from different loan apps and aint paying shit even if i get free money.

them don call me tire

Ekundayo7574:
Lol if you need a loan tell me I will tell u ways you can apply without them sending messagess to your contact

GogetterMD:
You need to have her evaluated by a gastroenterologist first. Let the specialist decide if she'd need a colonoscopy or not