Abeg boss ....bless me make me sef chop better
🙌

Jewessgratitud3:
I managed to drag myself to our local market and went to a goat meat seller to help me cut 5k worth of assorted meat and see what he gave me., very small but I couldn't haggle much with him because I was so weak..

Below is the end result. My gas finished in the process of trying to let the shaki done very well and I had to call the gas man to come fill my 6kg ..omor 7800 for 6kg. God go help us o.

Things are getting worse everyday.

Please join me. It tasted nice though.

I'm sorry to hear about this.... How have you been coping with it?
Medically?
I know it wouldn't be easy
I wish you strength

GreatVocalist:
Money is the only thing stopping me from doing this. My football dream was dashed by the demon called coronary artery disease.

Good evening everyone.... Is there somewhere I could get a laptop and pay in installments?

Please can you tell me about an online skill I can learn to start earning from that doesn't require the use of a laptop

solmusdesigns:
Please dear women, work hard, learn, earn an income

From a brother

I sent you a message

lordfemzy:
Hello friends,

I am please asking for all the genuine help i can get right now to deal with an issue that has tormented me all the days of my life. I am open to criticism if it comes my way.

Situation: my mum (biological mother) is extremely lazy, lacks discipline, difficult to advice and very manipulative. However the laziness aspect is my main issue.

A brief history of myself, i am currently in my late 30s, firstborn and only male, with 2 sisters also in their 30s. I have been managing her case for the past 30 years since our father passed. I should mention that her mental health isn't that perfect and she suffers breakdown at least once a year whenever she misses her drugs. The nature of her breakdown is that she will keep on talking about most events from the past and view them in a negative way, she gets violent at times and uses foul words while cursing anyone who she thinks has wronged her. I pray non of us reading this will experience this in their families.

The chaos we experience whenever there is a breakdown is something i don't wish for my enemy at all, the effect is draining financially, emotionally and in various other ways you can think of. Infact looking back i owe God a lot of gratitude for the strength and courage he has given me and by extension my sisters in managing her very tricky situation. The shame, embarrassment, wasted time and efforts, lost opportunities that have come with her condition can only be imagined. I have had to sleep over at the hospitals various times whenever she's on admission running into weeks at times, i have had to represent the family at functions she was suppose to attend but due to ill health. I was lucky i didn't fail any of my last papers in Uni cos she was on admission, i missed a second class upper courtesy of my mums condition, the only 2 courses i ever failed in my 4 years at the Uni can be linked to her condition. I had to practically plan and organise a wedding for our last born cos she was on hospital bed. Some of her breakdowns happen whenever an occasion or celebration within the family is about to happen... my 21st birthday, final exams leading to graduation in uni, weeks to my wedding, weeks to her second born wedding, a whole month to our last born wedding, funeral of her mother in law, funerals of our grandparents, her own 60th birthday... the list is so long and at times i almost consider it spiritual but i am better informed.

In the last 2 years or thereabout i have been able to connect a few dots and patterns based on what i have experienced and seen. When my mum and her siblings (five) were being raised, the kind of family setup was such that cousins, distant cousins and relatives lived with them. This was because her late dad was a University lecturer, probably the 1st in his Hometown and granny was a primary school teacher, you know how it was in those days. I was able to understand that my mom and most of her siblings except one practically lived a life free of stress cos they had other relatives who were willing and at disposal to do major chores and take up responsibilities at home, they sort of lived a carefree life. I have stayed and lived a couple of times with these other siblings of my mum due to various reasons like holidays from boarding school, moving to another location for job opportunities etc.

I can practically tell from what i have seen with this people. All her life, things were being done for her and she's just free to do anything she wants apart from chores. Even her building project though her own money and sweat was an initiative of her late parents. They were practically her project manager and support system throughout their lifetime. Its a good thing to do but not setting limits and not being hard has it own detriments eventually, cos till date she's entirely reliant on anyone available to do even the simplest of chores. Let me quickly breakdown some of her acts and attitude which is very injurious to her own health.

1. The first on the list and perhaps the most annoying one is her laziness and OMG it reeks to the heavens. She avoids responsibilities and doesn't do house chores and generally procrastinates. My mum will use the toilet in her room and even living room and not flush properly on a constant basis. She does this even when she travels elsewhere. My mum can eat but cannot wash her plates and utensils, she will leave her plates in the living room for days or just anywhere, pots will pile up in the kitchen and will not be cleaned until every other option is exhausted and a new meal must be made. She will not lay her bed or change sheets constantly. She doesn't dress smartly and lacks good wardrobe management. She doesn't sweep, her corridor may not be touched in weeks same with other rooms in her apartment. Shes doesn't bother if she's unkept. Whenever she eases herself, due to her carefree attitude she will leave stained urine on her clothe and she will wear this throughout the day causing mayhem wherever she goes. Just add anything you can thing of as examples, you will find it with my mum. The annoying thing here is that if you advice her or suggest a change, she will rebuke you and tell you your are insulting her.

2. She's carefree and lacks good financial management. She earns well over 100K per month as pension and if we calculate her expenses per month she should have over 30 to 35k as savings. You can never account for how she spends her money! 10 days into a new month, the money is gone. Most times her friends abroad send her free money from and she will just squander the money on frivolities. She has a small shop that she runs, but for her to even stock the place sef na issue, she doesnt have a separate account for business and no stock is taken end of month or at least a quarter. We actually warned her against the line of business as its very common and the profit isn't much. We have practically considered her carelessness, carefree attitude and inability to keep things safe and warned against the shop idea. In the last 3 years she has lost 2 phones of high value. As if she likes to brag, whenever shes having discussion about money that is in her favour, maybe salary or someone abroad sends her money, she will begin to speak at the top of her voice such that an average person passing round can almost get full details. We have severally warned her against this but no luck at all. The consequence is that she has been defrauded a couple of times, you can act as a fake customer care agent of any bank and ask my mum for sensitive details like card number, password and she will give you immediately without a second thought despite the fact that she has been warned repeatedly. As a matter of fact she doesn't listen to her children's counsel or advice, but anybody from outside will give her advice and she ll make us of that one. She once told me off that i am not in any position to advice her that shes older than me and it should be the other way round. But when all the shit happens yours truly will be the one managing d situation.

3. She's manipulative. My mum is a master in this game and i am ashamed of her actions. I can't even mention some of the things she has done to my wife and I on this platform. She lies, deny incidences and things she has said. About her drugs, there is just one rule, do not skip any of morning or evening doses. Whenever she does she will never own up to you and when the effect is now seen, she will still try to cover up by saying she can't remember.

4. She's unforgiving. My mum is the last person you want to offend, even things that shouldn't be considered will be used against you when the time comes. For instance my mum may give someone raw food out of her own freewill or maybe the person asked for it, but months from that time the story can change that the person is the one stealing raw food or looting her house.

I apologise this is a long read and i can't even explain a quarter of what is going on at the moment, but the summary is that her laziness and lack of motivation is driving me nuts, i always have to bear and manage the consequences whenever shit happens. Its not easy for me cos i have my own family to manage and the responsibility is killing. Currently her househelp resigned 2 months back and the house has been a mess since then, she does practically nothing. I have been attending a workshop for the last one week and heard she's been feeding on puff puff and cornflakes every other day without making stew or soup and eating real food. This is a woman that money on her, even if you are lazy to cook, why not indulge yourself and patronise eateries till you have motivation to enter kitchen. Why not even make an arrangement for someone to come cook food for you everyday amd pay the person weekly or daily. We have to think for her and suggest things that require no initiative in most cases. I had to go and buy beef and made blended stew for her last weekend for example to motivate her amd assist like i always do. When i got back the following weekend, the stew wasn't even half used and there was mould on it indicating that she never cooked a serious meal, she was probably buying bread and removing the meat until it finished and lost interest in even heating the stew to warm.

Its more like if i don't do things for her, she will make herself fall into a state where she will enter deep sickness or starvation or depression such that people will see me as a bad person if anything sould happen to her. Already she has created that impression and she's living the lifestyle. Its been two weeks she's has remained indoors for no reason, no opening of shop, no cooking, no cleaning, no laundry, no strolling out and always expecting unknown help from anywhere it comes from. I have told her to pick herself up that help is something we must give ourselves. I have to go out to work daily not sitting down to baby sit my mum who is not an invalid. Her body is complete with no defects but i can't just help her laziness and attitude anylonger, its choking for me and i can't take ot anymore or do more than i have been doing. I have literally carried this woman for the most productive part of my life and done nothing wrong just loving my mother unconditionally. I have come to a point where i have to move on and break some unnecessary connections for my sanity and future of myself amd immediate family.

Please help and advice me guys on what to do. When she not in good health mentally na wahala and serious commotion and when shes stable, i have to battle with laziness, constant manipulations, carefree lifestyle, lack of discipline and vision and lots more. I have endured these cycle for too long. Also note that my sisters are married and are not even available at all, one is overseas and the other in a faraway state. I may not have touched some areas cos the issue too plenty but if questions are asked i would digress into it and share details truthfully. God bless

Moderator Sir/Ma, i beg you to help me push this to front page. I am not feeling good at all. Thanks

how did you do, Please?
Getting all my basic one pupils to sound and read expressly.

All we did last session was word building throughout and it was such a huge struggle because what worked for one school didn't work for other schools also considering their age as they were too young then. So it was a huge challenge as I was always coming up with different methods and techniques for each school but in the end, they were able to grasp the art of sound blend on their own that by the time they got to pry one they could read expressly with ease.


I never thought I could achieve that considering their age. This year's set are so young...
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Please could you teach me?
I'm willing to learn
post=126769540]As at 2019,i had worked for 7 years without any evidence,woke up by 5am everyday to prepare for workby 7 till around 6pm when we closed and even had to work on some saturdays. Hoped on buses every single day to and from work. Everyday was painful, annoying even and always felt like there was no way out even when i was begging for one.

I thought of quitting but quickly shoved it off my mind when i realised how saturated the job market was. I also thought of switching to another field but that would require money and time and i didn't have any. I prayed for a way out every single day, to just be out of the misery i was facing at that time.

Fastfoward to 2020, things got worse with the pandemic, fortunately i was not laid off but we weren't paid since we weren't working, it was around that time i stumbled upon trading, a colleague had told me about it before but i didn't take it seriously until i realisee i had to earn in another way from a regular job. 

I paid a mentor about 50k to teach me everythingabout it, i had to plead for him to accept that since i didn't have much at that time and i also wasn't expecting any salary. After about a month of intensive training i started trading fully.

It wasn't easy for the first month, had some losses but after that i started getting my wins. Got about 4million in my first 8 months, and continued from there.

For about 3 years i have been able to make about 30 million and yes i lost many prop firm accounts and trades too especially for the unprofitable months but overall it has been rewarding.

My problem now is the amount of time i put in nowadays,  it's not been fun at all. Yes the reward is good, the work put in has really been hectic. In fact its almost harder than my former job. Most people think because i work from home , i don't stress very much which is a very big myth. There are some days i feel like calling it quit and doing something else thats as rewarding but not as tasking as trading. It's not as easy as most people picture it will be. Awake for almost the whole day backtesting, fowardtesting, teachind and also mentoring.

Please if you have something else that's as rewarding but not as tasking would love to know about it. Thanks[/quote]

Hannahtherzia67:
Adorable kittens for sale Lagos mainland .

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How much?

How is this possible and what's the procedure Please

DrDunamis:


It's a simple matter, the graves could be exhumed and transferred to graveyards or another place.

It could be mite infestation.. I've had that experience
quote author=Fanparker post=122578246]Abeg everyone help me please.. I don’t know what’s wrong with me since march . I felt pain first on my d!ck and itching after I had sex ( not once have I had sex with this girl, it never happened to me) but I thought it was normal but it gradually turned to this. I’ve also been itching every part of my body also every area of my d!ck with some turned to scar. I’ve gone to pharmacy to complain and I was given ciprotab first then neoviral drug with cream.. but the itching is still there especially at midnight. What can I do please, which drug can I buy.. I’ve really been sad seeing this everyday . Experts in the house, what drug do you recommend I should buy or cream I can use .. please I need help to get this thing away from my d!ck as soon as possible [/quote]

I'm in a relationship with a vetinary surgeon and omo I won't lie it's difficult

IyaebeTheGreat:
Nice one . God knows I don’t like doctors as a partner. Lailai I can’t.

How do I contact you...I need to discuss something important with you

Starz825:
I fear God bro...

That awesome BEING can pull you out of trouble effortlessly and the fact that everything he says to me comes to stay is terrifying.

In mid August this year....God told me in a revelation to resign from my work place at the end of the same month....I said ok...
Few days to the end of August..he came back and said ..you will resign from this job..and then you will get another one ...I said ok .
End of August..I resigned... people were asking me if i had another job ..I said No...

Stayed home for two months praying, believing and doing some free online courses

I went for an interview later in October...and I was a bit bothered that I won't be chosen....cos I didn't receive an invite for my second interview on time...and then I had a revelation again...and God was telling me...they will pick you there.. don't worry...and then eventually I got the job..
That's where I work now and it's better than the one I left in every ramification...

GOD is surreal...
I thank HIM for everything...

Just keep believing.... God is ever willing to help you out... infact your happiness is his everyday pleasure.

Good day all..
Please is there anyone who knows how to suppress this ulcer pain?

Johndevmark:
collected about 320k from different loan apps and aint paying shit even if i get free money.

them don call me tire

really?

Ekundayo7574:
Lol if you need a loan tell me I will tell u ways you can apply without them sending messagess to your contact

please how do it

How much is the alure test stripe and can I get it any pharmacy?
post=117590138]Sequel to this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7148350/could-indicate-hiv-symptoms, that I created some month ago about my recurrent HIV symptoms

Since up to 4 months now that i have Bleep some brothels hoe raw, condom burst

Since then i have been having oral thrush, random joint pain, back pain and I have been talking antifungal and some pain killer.

I Google hiv symptoms and the site even confirmed my illness as one and i already believed I'm hiv. I started google how to live with the virus, how i have destroyed my life, how I'm gona be hiding drug from my people.

Fella this is up to 4 months now and thankful to God I tried this alure test stripe and the result came negative. I have done several time still negative and now i have gave myself peace of mind.

And since 4 months now i never had any penetrative sex whatsoever.

Although i still battle with mild oral so I'm going to check for diabetes cos i consume sugar alot which flourish growth of the candida.

Don't bother to tell me to wait till 6month cos hiv is not a hide and seek virus.

Now i have hang my fornication boot and wait and keep myself till i marry than to live on taking arv drug till the rest of fuccckin life

It just a rare second chance!


Come rejoice with me[/quote]

[I'm sorry I'm just replying to this
She died last year
quote author=talktokayoo post=107271530]


Hello,

Please what is the current health status of your mom? I have this same issue too, was she able to do the colonoscopy? And what medical.assistance did she get, and how's her health now?[/quote]

Please blood donor needed
Blood type O-
Location:Ikorodu

GogetterMD:

You need to have her evaluated by a gastroenterologist first. Let the specialist decide if she'd need a colonoscopy or not

do you know any Sir? Cause she's in pains?

RedPhoenix:
Can you first have her go to the hospital and have an holistic test first?

could you please recommend where the holistic test could be done

Because....my Mum has been sick for sometime now.....she goes to the toilet frequently....there's blood in her stool sometimes mucus,she has acute abdominal pain.....she has been to the hospital....they gave her drugs but its still the same....so I checked online......i saw it was related to Ibs....irrational bowel sydrome....and colonoscopy was remmommended to detect if it wouldn't eventually lead to cancer

Pavore9:
Expected. Schools at all levels should be closed down immediately just as Kenya has done. As from today as directed by the Kenyan President last Sunday, only Kenyans and foreigners with resident permit will be allowed to fly into Kenya till further notice. Even religious leaders have cancelled and are cancelling Church and Mosque activities.

if they close down schools..... abeg how would people survive?this country ehn Nawa
I was seriously hoping they'd close down all schools including universities.....but then I realized my husband works in the university.... how we go take chop if them no pay salary bayi

MckenzieSkyBlog:


http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2020/03/postpone-nysc-camp-over-corona-virus.html?m=1

. they should close down schools, markets,churches, Mosque andUniversities too then.......abi aren't they public gatherings

EmagNig:
A lady has taken it upon herself to free a couple allegedly tied together with candle statues in Aba.

In the video we sighted on social media, the bound statues were reportedly washed to where the lady and her friends were and they decided to free the couple who could have been spelled with the statues.

SEE THE VIDEO
https://lailasnews.com/lady-frees-couple-tied-together-with-candle-statues

lalasticlala

and some people would say MFM are praying antichrist prayers........ Stop them.before they stop you o
God bless the lady.... But she shouldn't have posted it on social media,who knows whether the person or people responsible are wicked....they might face her....she should be careful and prayerful

emperorblog21:
List of school that have release post Utme form
Many schools in Nigeria have announced their Post-UTME Screening date registration details for the 2019/2020 Academic Session. This publication will make it easy for candidates to know if there design school have start registration and also know the details.

Here on emperorblog we will be posting the List of school that have release post Utme form cut-off, eligibility, screening date and registration details of all University,polytechnic and college of education as soon as they are release

Once you see the name of the school you apply for in the list, click on it and you will be redirected to the application dashboard where you will see all the requirement and details.

Below is the list of schools that has so far announced their Post-UTME registration for 2019/2020 academic session.

Ospoly (osun state polytechnic)

Kwara state university (kwasu)

Mapoly (moshood abiola polytechnic)

Kwara state college of education

Afebabalola university (abuad)

Covenant university

College of education oyo

Igbinedon university okada

Nile university

Federal polytechnic nekede

Federal polytechnic ede

Auchi polytechnic

Delta state polytechnic ozoro

Unical

University of Nigeria Nsukka

Precious Cornerstone University (PCU) Ibadan

Lead city University ibadan

Moshood abiola polytechnic

University of benin (uniben)

Delsu

Achiever university owo

Lautech

University of port hacourt

Fuoye

Unimaid

Unizik

Unilorin

Federal university of technology akure (futa)

University of ibadan (Ui)

COOU Post-UTME/DE 2019: Cut-off mark, Eligibility and Registration Details

Spiritan University Nneochi (SUN) Post-UTME/DE 2019: Cu-Off, Courses, Eligibility, Application Details

KSU Post-UTME/DE 2019: Cut-off mark, Eligibility, Screening Dates and Registration Details

GSU Post-UTME 2019: Cut-off mark, Eligibility, Screening Date and Registration Details

FULOKOJA Post-UTME/DE 2019: Cut-off mark, Screening Date, Eligibility and Registration Details

Veritas University Post-UTME/DE 2019: Eligibility, Cut-Off, Price, Courses, Application Detiails

FUNAAB Post-UTME/DE 2019: Cut-off mark, Eligibility And Registration Details

IMT/UNN Degree Post-UTME 2019: Eligibility, Courses, Cut-Off, Dates, Deadline, Application Details

NWU Post-UTME 2019: Cut-off Mark, Eligibility, Screening date, Registration Details

Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida University, IBBU Lapai (IBBUL) Post-UTME/DE 2019: Eligibility, Cut-Off, Registration Details

KASU Post-UTME 2019: Cut-off marks, Eligibility and Registration Details

AAUA Post-UTME 2019: Cut-off mark, Eligibility And Registration Detaills


Source: https://www.emperorblog.com.ng/2019/07/22/list-of-school-that-have-release-post-utme-form/

you didn't include Tai Solarin University of Education

Debaiz:
Truly it was an insult for a masters holder to be contesting against someone who barely had school cert and who happens to be known only for his street dancing skills and yet a whole lot of people(graduates) voted for him and some are even still fighting for him.

whether he had school cert or not, whether he's a dancer...its none of our business.....did they tell you its only in school somebody will have sense....abeg he Adeleke won the Election free and fair....they just corrupted the whole system

seancombs617:
Aimoye blind date and sex on first date..na God dey protect we men o .nick winsh,neck ogbanje, but man still dey alive..one told me she was a water girl but delivered,i still nack am,chai

Bros...you need Jesus o

KidsNEXTdoor:


Olodo... Shut Up
You want to spin it

Go and pray for the devil to die... Let's see if it's possible... We all know the enemies they mean.. Certainly not principalities and powers that can't die

i pray you don't have problems........that's when you'll know that some spiritual powers exists....I'm an MFM member.....everyone is entitled to what he/she thinks.....the same bible said" In the days of John the baptist,the kingdom suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force"shebi because the daddy freeze or whatever is still enjoying..... people like him are just leading many astray

SoftP:
What do u expect from a land filled with cannibals.

They slice and kill their fellow human without remorse.


I really don't know why Angels refuse blowing trumpet

if them blow am....shey you go enter heaven sha

[quote author=TOPCRUISE post=80154246]The most painful thing is that all the suspected cultist caught with axes, guns and uniforms were released by the police. Exhibits and evidence were destroyed........definitely someone was behind the whole thing.... someone powerful

Kingosytex:
Abeg wen olamide marry?

i no no sey badoo don marry o!!

any way, congrats to them

I wanted to ask the same question too..... the op should have said baby mama....... I like him sha ...everything is always low key