stewpeed propaganda. fake news.

neoapocalypse:



Lol. If you have an aunt who has been happily married for at least a 2 decades , do me the favour of asking her what has kept the marriage lasting that long. If you read my post very well you'll notice I did not rule out love but it is not the most important quality to consider , physical attraction even comes lower in the rung. Let me share my pearls of wisdom with you.

Compatibility is one quality you have to consider when choosing a life partner , compatibility isn't the same as love I hope you know.

Goals - Are your goals in contrast with each other , do you share similar goals in life

Friendship - I consider this even more important than love , a relationship with a very good and close friend will last longer than one built on just purely love.

I can mention more things/qualities to consider when choosing a life partner , love alone will die if other qualities are lacking .

this is where you get it all wrong. all those things you listed out are all attributes of love. there can't be love without friendship and no friendship without love. You can't love someone that you don't respect their life goals. I do not where you are coming from, but your idea of love is quite not right.

illiterates.

BrownCookie:



Can you manage a flat chested & flat ass woman without cheating on her

Answer honestly.

Big dick doesn't not translate to good sex.

neoapocalypse:


lol , you be pikin , love doesn't even come in the first 3 qualities to consider when you want a prosperous relationship , agreed that some level of love has to be there before any romantic relationship can be established it is however not in the first 3 to consider.

then you are the kid. for real?

LookmanTalk:
she does not see him as weak and sex has not in any way been mentioned here. Only physical attraction is the problem, please take note!

she does not sleep around and is a devoted Christian..

what is physical attraction if not sex? abeg tell me. Physical attraction means that she doesn't find him appealing as a sex partner.

LookmanTalk:
Very true, I appreciate your comment. But we cannot ignore the importance of physical attraction. You know if you are attracted to someone, even if the world says that person is ugly, their opinion wont matter to you one single bit... Agree?

She does not keep a large circle of friends and is not that outgoing so the idea of wanting to show her man off like a trophy is clearly not the case here

Physcal attraction is key, no doubt, but some girls are really superficial in there definition of physical attraction. you need to decide whether you want a celebrity or a husband.

And to me, the main reason i think the girl has not being able to find the man physically attractive is either because he's being too nice or he's not rich enough. Believe me, Models marry very ugly men and are very proud to show him off.

faith551:



Did you hear me say beauty? I said physical attraction, and before you have that attraction a lot of things come to play
(1)your attitude and character must be in sync
(2) the understanding must be there
(3) beauty too(but I'd not a compulsory factor, remember beauty lies in the eyes of the behaviour)
So I know better than to follow beauty, and I never said beauty was a major factor, you are welcome to Recheck my post and see if I mentioned beauty.

good. now from the original post, you would understand that the girl and the man actually do have some kind of attraction. She says she loves his character, she says he understands her that is why they've being friends for long.

I think the ishh here is his physical appearance or his nicety. They girl sees him as weak and so is not physically attracted to him and does not feel he's someone she would have great sex with.

daraj:
I will give you my candid advice from experience don't marry someone you are not attracted to or is not physically attractive just because he is God fearing, I made the same mistake thinking I will Behind him up.. but it just didn't happen and i couldn't even introduce him to my friends or family and could not bring myself to love him I eventually had to leave him. So please think carefully before making any decision.

attraction mustn't be physical. Values and interests build stronger attraction than just physique. According to her, she says they have common interests and are very good friends. And since when has your husband turn to some trophy of sort?

rahymat:
handsome guys attract lot of females.u may get married to an handsome guy tomorw nd if a lady seduce ur husband nd get pregnant wat are u goin to do

i bet you that guy that is dying for her is handsome. She just needs a never-do-well that is ready to treat her like trash. Girls love being treated like trash.

bronzegoddess:
soooo..if they say "bad guys raise ur hands", this pikin wey still dey suck bobi go follow raise hand

Nwokem siddon dia.
Don't quote me again abeg.

it's glaring that you very immature and lame.

bronzegoddess:


U mean we girls affect ur life so much?! u mean we "crap" have that power over u? So much so that we "crap" made u decide to break bad? please, how many hearts have u broken? And no, I don't mean the hearts u THINK u have broken.

b.iatch let's not even go there. Yes, girls are crap. You used to mean something to us, but now you are only as valuable as the hole between your thighs. Once you flash your car keys and some cheap change, you would see a 'crap' that is ready to get down with you anyhow you want it.....and then start buggin you afterwards and calling you her love. I had to change me line several times. But i can assure you that those same 'craps' have guys that buy them air bills they use in begging you to love them. One you start seeing girls for what they are, i.e 'crap' you would start making yourself attractive to them...that is for those that care.

Linus4get:
I graduated from Uniben for 6years now with no job. I manage to get a good paying and mouth watering job through my sister's friend. The manager employed me in proxy of the CEO, in which the CEO will be back to the firm nextweek. My manager threatens to report negative feedback to the CEO because i refused to sleep with him. Whatever the manager tells the CEO, the CEO effects. I need this job i am fed up and tired of joblessness. I cant leave this job now. Please if you have experience this before advise me on what to do and how you came out of this tragedy.

Lying Liar. is your manager gay?

faith551:



You said(WHAT IF) and that's probability, I guess I can't do anything about that, but in this case I have an option

beauty fades man. character is gold. Stop being a kid.

bronzegoddess:
one of them idio.ts I feel ur pain.

honestly, you girls are the i.diots. You friendzone the good guys and take off with the bad guys. Then the bad guy breaks your heart, you then look for the same good guys for shoulders to cry on. But that is about to change because the good guys are becoming wiser. Once you jilt them once, they look for just any girl to marry. when you are done messing yourself up with the bad guys, you wouldn't find any good man to marry then you wait till you are 50 and complain that men are all bad. That, my girl is stupidity but we the bad guys cherish y'all stupidity.

Kim-Kardashian In ibadan

megley:
Tell ur friend this: if she's not feeling the guy the way u feel someone ur attracted to, intensely attracted to - she should 4get it cos if she takes the plunge she'd regret it.

Trust me, she doesn't want that.

i am pretty sure she must have being giving the head subtle green lights. If you don't feel the guy on the first date, tell him that asap.
Don't allow him to invest his time and emotions on you, then you come out one day to say he's just your 'friend'. that's bullshit.

LookmanTalk:
They are not dating. They have just been good friends and have been considering and speaking about being in a relationship/settling down for a while.

the guy has already done himself in. He's already a 'good friend' so there's no way out. They was was stewpid enough to get very nice. She would not respect him because girls do not respect men that are nice to them. She should go and find a man that beats her up....a man she can fear and respect.

Nnemuka:

Bad boys rock.... Now mix rat poison with water, drink it and die

i pity the man that you would finally beg to marry you after we the bad boys messing you up. I fvckin pity all naija good men.

Toks2008:


Those ladies with such habbit latter pray and fast for that same maga to come into their lives when they realize how myopic they have been.

Yes, almost all naija babes have the same atitude, case in point is the lady the op described. The other guy is ready to give her all she wants, treat her like a queen and he is a good man. But what does she want? A gangster that would treat her like trash but she's attracted to. No body wan dull again. Every guy in Naija should break bad and start treating these girls like the trash they are.

Gaborone:
Unless she's ready to show the world what a platonic marriage looks like, she shouldn't marry him.

don't worry, she would be ready to marry the devil when she turns 35. She should keep waiting o.

Toks2008:
My candid advice for the ladies

I simply laugh at the naivety of some ladies who claim they are in search of a man who will truly love them and appreciate them.

Why i laugh is because deep inside these ladies,they know if a man truly desires and appreciates them but what they are actually looking for is totally different from what they claim.

I have heard many ladies set standards as regards the type of man they want and there is absolutely nothing wrong in that except the fact that they cross the line by wanting to be with a man they have strong feelings for and even if they meet a man that truly desires them,as long as they don't have feelings for such man,its a NO.

I'm sorry to tell you this truth; many ladies will end up been an object of ridicule in their affairs until they learn the fact that all you need is a man that will truly love,appreciate and value you and every other thing is secondary.

Don't be carried away by his money,looks or razzmatazz but be sensitive to know if he sincerely wants you and cherish you. If you are fortunate to have a prince charming who also truly desires you,good for you but never make this a must.

Yes i agree that your feelings towards this person is important but your marital happiness does not lie in what you feel for him rather its the way he feels towards you.

Of what use will it be if you end up marrying a man you are crazy about but will make you cry all the time?,Of what use will it be if you end up with that man that has all you want except the fact that he turns you to a punching bag or makes you unhappy?

Some ladies are actually fortunate to end up with man of their dreams but to be on the safer side,be sensitive to know if that man truly desires you because not every man that comes for your hand in marriage truly loves and cherishes you because many guys these days marry for selfish reasons.

Trust me,its better to be with a man who truly wants,desires,appreciates you than to end up with a man you want but does not really want you.

As a lady,you are genetically structured to naturally love a man that treats you well and a cute guy will turn ugly to you when he treats you like poo while that guy you felt nothing for will look so cute and adorable to you after he treats you like a queen so the best part is that you will fall in love in a short while with any man who truly shows you he cares even if he is a short fat ugly man.(watch beauty and the beast) and you will agree with me that all a woman needs is a man that will love and cherish her all the days of her life.

That is the man you need,and not necessarily the man you are crazy about because if a woman marries a man who truly loves and cherishes her,she is complete but if she marries a man she is crazy about but does not truly love and cherish her,she is finished.

Hope this helps

www.nairaland.com/2440267/costly-mistake-many-ladies-make

girls of these days, if you treat them like a queen, they would friendzone you and term you maga.

Nnemuka:
If you dont find him sexually attractive or imagine being in a romantic relationship pls dont marry him.
I believe he is a doctor, those ones are never appealing to me.

i know your type. You and mostly other immature girls, gangster, hooligans and cultists are the kind of guys you find attractive. No wonder your lives are all messed up.

ArodewilliamsT:


Ok.

stop denying your identity man. we don tey for hia.

bronzegoddess:



Its called "having a good friend". We all need good friends

honestly, you girls are crap. the number one reason i have decided to break bad and break as many girls heart as possible. You girls do not deserve to be treated good cos you are all heartless.

ArodewilliamsT:




Kwehehehe! Both FFK and Afeniferi are cowards and yes they conquered your kwara and yorubaland and can rear their cattles there.
You and your chidozie can go to hell in 200 different bits and pieces.

dozzybaba calm down. You and your fellow lunatics can't do shiii.

Warning! This story contains a graphic photo some may find disturbing
By EVELYN USMAN of Vanguard Newspapers
Reports of Fulani herdsmen attacking members of their host communities with
AK 47 rifles and other dangerous weapons have often been treated as a fairy
tale by those saddled with the responsibility of protecting lives and property of
the citizenry.

Recently, Crime Alert published a story of 23-year-old Ogbonna Eze, a
commercial motorcyclist from Opi Community in Nsukka Local Government Area
of Enugu state, whose life was almost snuffed out by two Fulani herdsmen
whom he had conveyed from Opi Junction along Enugu -Makurdi Expressway ,
to their camp at Idodo Agu Ekwegbe, Igbo Etiti local government area on a
special drop.

But midway into the journey, Eze got the shock of his life following an order
from the men for him to stop, on reaching a market close to the camp. But
before he could fathom the reason for the order, he was attacked from behind
with matchet cuts all over his head and was abandoned in a bush part
apparently to die, while his motorbike was taken away by his assailants.
It would also be recalled that the Obi of Onicha-Ugbo in Delta State, Agbogidi,
Victor Chukwumalieze, had three months ago, raised alarm over atrocities of
Fulani herdsmen whom he alleged ravaged farm lands, raped women and
attacked farmers who dared to challenge them.
The Fulani herdsmen said to have fled their home town following activities of
Boko Haram sect in some Northern parts of the country have reportedly
diversified into armed robbery in their host communities with security agencies
accused of looking the other way.

At Ogume, in Ndokwa local government area of Delta state, about 27 persons
were reportedly killed in April after the herdsmen were confronted by Ogume
youths. There has also been reported clashes in between the herdsmen and
youths in Ibusa. Although vigilante groups have been formed in the various
communities around Delta state and other areas bedeviled by these attacks,
unfortunately, they seemed not to be able to match the fire power of these
herdsmen.

Worried by this development in Delta state, Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan
established a constitution responsible for the protection of lives of Deltans from
these criminal group that disguise as herdsmen. Even with this on ground, there
seemed to be no end to the attack of Fulani herdsmen.
A recent attack occurred July 21, 2013 when five armed Fulani herdsmen
wielding fully loaded AK 47 rifles, ambushed a 14 seater Hiace bus, travelling
from Onicha-Ugbo to Asaba, Delta state, dispossessing the occupants of their
belongings.

One of the occupants of the bus was Vanguard's Foreign Affairs Editor, Mr
Hugo Odiogor, who escaped death by the whiskers, following the merciless
beatings they received from the herdsmen.

Narrating his ordeal, he said: " It started like a dream as staccato of gun shots
shattered the early morning peace and silence penultimate Sunday. I had
attended the funeral of late Steve Osemeke, former Director of Public Affairs of
Independent National Electoral Commission,INEC who died on June 24, 2013 in
Abuja.The funeral rites began on July 18th and ended on 20th, after he was
committed to mother earth. Thereafter, the visiting parties began to depart. I
had planned to return to Abuja enroute Asaba International Airport.
From Onicha-Ugbo junction, I boarded a Delta coloured Hiace bus heading
towards Asaba/Onitsha at about 7.05am.The journey had lasted only twenty
minutes when five Fulani herdsmen carrying AK 47 rifles jumped out from the
bush at the Ubulu Okiti-Otulu end of the Asaba-Benin Expressway. They
shattered the peace of this dewy Sunday morning with staccato of gun shots
into the air to warn the driver and the occupants of the bus of their intention to
kill anybody that tries to offer resistance.

The gun shots elicited a general shout of "blood of Jesus" from the terrified
occupants of the bus. Each round of shootings was accompanied by a
corresponding response of "blood of Jesus".
With their patched up English language they ordered everybody to "bring out ya
Money or i kill you". They had their faces covered with charcoal, while their
dresses and language obviously tells you that they are cattle rearers. They
carried with them their sticks and machetes.

*Eze attacked along Enugu-Makurdi Expressway recently
Without a whimper, we all handed over whatever money we had on us. I gave
them N45,000 which was to cover my flight ticket and other expenses. We were
ordered to spread ourselves on the express road, faced down to be searched.
They warned us pronto "if I search you and see any money, I kill you". This was
a command that nobody in his right mind would disobey. Promptly, we
undressed; men and women, with only boxers and panties on. As we did so, we
were lashed with the rod they used to shepherd their cattle. Each lash of the
whip was greeted with the shouts of "blood of Jesus".

As if the pains from the long stick was not scotching enough, a slap with the
blade side of the machete landed on my back, wham! One of the co- travellers
warned me: "Oga if you no shout them go shoot you O!'. That warning was well
taken as another blow from the machete landed on my back wham!, I screamed
as much as I could, to convince them that I was really feeling the pain.
As they ransacked our luggage and searched our pockets, they held us to the
ground faced down, with gun shots ringing out intermittently. We were half
dead. The thought in my heart then was either that they would open fire on us
or allow on-coming trailer to crush us all. Fortunately, their gun shots had
warned other vehicles to stay off from the scene of danger.
It was a 30 minutes ordeal which ended with a command from one of them who
said, "let's go".We waited for about three minutes to be sure our tormentors
were gone before we got up from the ground and scampered to find our clothes
from where they were flung.

Confused, scared and traumatized we picked ourselves together but our
telephones and cash were gone. My suitcase containing my mini lap top, tape
recorder, ATM cards, cheque books, shoes, clothes, documents and other
valuables, were gone. I was cashless in the real sense of the word that going
forward was as difficult as going back.

Drama of Police Report
The police arrived five minutes after the criminals had gone. Graciously, they
assisted some of the wounded passengers to Agbor while those of us going to
Asaba were asked to continue with the ill-fated vehicle.

Reporting the incident to the police became another tug of war. At first the
reaction of the victims was to get out of the scene of torment, even when the
police came, we were not interested in reporting our ordeal to them.
On reaching Asaba, my immediate reaction was to get across to my family but
this became a difficult task getting to recall telephone numbers in a confused
and traumatised state of mind. When I eventually got through to my family, my
next task was how to get access to funds to keep things going. It was not until
6 pm that Chief Akaeze Ibonye took me to the police station to make an official
report of the loss of my identity cards and other items which could be found on
the crime scene, as this could make me a suspect instead of a victim.
But at the station, I was warned not to say that the robbers were of Fulani
extraction, that there was a serious effort by security agencies to conceal the
fact that the perpetrators of the crime were from Northern part of the country.
But I objected to that. After much trouble, I was referred to Okpanam police
station because the scene of the incident was not within Asaba jurisdiction.
On Monday, July 22, 2013, I went to a police station at Okpanam which also
declined to enter my report. Instead, I was referred to Isele Uku. On stating my
case, a police officer asked me to lead him to the scene of the crime. This
sounded idiotic as it means that I could as well lead the police man to the
camp of the criminals. The Ozah of Onicha Ugbo Chief Azubukwu Mosindi, told
this reporter that several reports have been made concerning these Fulani boys
but nobody seemed to care.

This was further collaborated by Chief Patrick Onwochei who said the activities
of these herdsmen who terrorize the entire length and breath of Delta State with
impunity. From Isele Uku, I was further referred to Ogwashi Uku, where for the
second time, I was asked not to describe the robbers as Fulani herdsmen. Of
course, I refused, but made my report all the same", he said.
Residents of the area have therefore, called on the Federal and state
government, as well as the Inspector-General of Police to wade into the matter
with a view to checkmating activities of these Fulani herdsmen whom they
described as emerging terrorists.

http://g.radiobiafra.co/news/n-a-r-r-o-w-e-s-c-a-p-e-encounter-with-fulani-herdsmen-in-igboland-the-islamic-takeover-has-started

Fulani herdsmen have killed more SE and SW and MB indigenes yet we've not heard any of our elders come out to condemn them.

Here is a link to the video. watch and be enlightened.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=1&v=FEM3KD9L-1w

lalasticlala please do your work. Fp

cuppy should try and close her mouth sometimes

she striped herself in protest. The police was merely trying to force her to keep her clothes on.