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thank you all, seeing that yesterdays chat with his training mate really put me off, cos i was busy worrying about the (cash)customer he lost, while he was busy initiating conversations with a girl in his training class. i have talked to him about this several times b4 and i thought he had stopped and to my surprise he hasn't, he just started this training coarse some weeks back, and he already has new females bb pins.he locks his phone- while i don't even have time to check my phone when im at home with him and my child talk-less of his. honestly, what he did really put me off cause i am here making all the sacrifice in the world to assist him at home, i have cut off myself totally to help him in this time. i talked to him about this before he started this training, cause when he started a new job some time back, he was involved with a female colleague- texting and mailing each other . and another one when his company did advert with one female Kenyan artist- (this one was bad cos they where bbing each other even @ night and updating each other at any time of the day) our marriage will be 3years in a couple of months...and i feel we should still be in our honeymoon stage somehow. pls dont get me wrong, its okay for him to have female friends, which i know a few of his, but these other ones are new girls he meets when he goes to new places.

now that i know that this isn't normal at all and im not insecure.... i know exactly what to do.
did he read my post , he just sent me a text, anyway....i think my trust for him has dropped.

™Hello everyone, please ill like to know your opinion on this. My husbands says I'm insecure cause, I always feel bad and angry when I see him chatting with girls on his bb, exchanging text messages and chatting online. To me I feel a married man shouldn't be giving anyother girl his attention.... He always claim that there are no strings are attached. Anytime he goes smewhere new, he makes new friend (male n female). The females are always single.
We have been married for well over 2years and this has been a major issue. I'm a very jealous person, I don't like to share my man in anyway n he knows, and this character is so unattractive n repulsive to me. Honestly it can break our marriage and he is aware. Am I too jealous or insecure or overrecting? Ok let give you an example:
We got back from work yesterday and we were tired, he was busy on his bb while I was running around to make dinner for us n our child as usual. He gives me bad news about how he lost a customers deal and yet he was telling(bb) a girl he met in his training class, that he is bored, he was also telling her he was checking up on her and all that. Why, all this nonsence, n he says its nothing.
I feel so irritated and disrespected, when I was single I totally avoided married men- I didn't make any my friend. Pls mod, I don't want my topic on front page-thanks. Men in the house, is it OK for mr wifey to chat unnecessarily with other ladies?