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They have been replaced in February this year and their replacements are being paid. imagine training 2000 young people between 18-35 in arms drill and sending them back into the streets with feelings of unjust treatment from the government. No Nigerian is more Nigerian than any Nigerian.

Onegai:
I take cheques, tenkyiu verra mush

OP, my cousin has only one child. He grew up in the village and swore that he was only having one child in his life. That child is now 33 years old. One of my exes was an only child, his father refused anymore. Heck, i met someone last year who is married and doesn't want any children at all. She has been married for 6 years now and is still confidently against having kids. All these people, they have money, not comfortable o, they have money. So lack of resources is not their issue. Don't let anyone tell you, you have a mental issue that needs help. Do you know if they are okay themselves

Thanks to cococandy and you. wheeeeeew! I'm not sick.

crackhaus:
So he's not okay with your decision not to have more kids then?

he thinks one more is better but we are waiting until 3-5 years from now before the next child.

5minsmadness:
@bolded, nice way to psychologically cushion us for the 'bad news', lol. If u believe all u have stated in the bold and yet don't want more kids then there is a serious underlying problem. It doesn't have anything to do with wether u are a bad person or not.

What happened in the time between when u wanted three kids to when u r satisfied with just this one? Something traumatic/deeply worrying happened, no matter how little, what was it?

You sound like u might be having anxiety issues.

what happened was that it was no more wishful thinking. I got pregnant and had a child and saw the difference between "theory and practical".

elektra:
Huh?

At OP, you are not a bad person at all. In fact, you are the best kind of parent. The kind that thinks and plans for the future before having a kid. If you feel you won't have the resources to raise another kid, then it is perfectly fine to have just one kid.
My dad wanted just two kids too.

That's part of it too.

crackhaus:
All you need is a good job with good income.

BTW, you failed to talk about your husband regarding this decision...what's his position in all of this, or are you married but living single?

he said it's a phase I'll get pass. I'm married, what do you mean by "living single?"

I am a mother to a 3 year old. I think children are cute, I love them and I enjoy teaching them. I've taught learners between 2 and 10 in various capacities even as a way of relaxing.

My son is my world, I love him beyond words and my life is all about him but I'm afraid to have more children. I feel being a mother is not my thing and I should focus more on building a career and give my son the best. I am afraid of pregnancy, taking care of a baby and training my own kids. I just feel I'll never be a good mom as I would like and I'll feel guilty for bringing them into the world.

All my life, I dreamt of having 3 kids. I almost broke up with my husband when we were dating because he said he wanted just 2. We talked about it and he agreed to 3. Now I am no longer interested in birthing. Am I a bad person?

My mother-in-law warned me never to try joint account with her son. I knew it right from the start to avoid becoming emergency storyteller.

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Hello everyone,

I am looking for a short term job between now and early September. I am a young, energetic and dynamic young woman in my mid 20's. I have work experience in an administrative position and as a teacher in one of the top international schools (British curriculum). I am resident in Abuja and I am ready to start tomorrow, Monday 18th July, 2016.

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