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Technology MarketRe: My experience buying a used device, Always check properly and make no assumption by shugarush92(m): 4:58pm On Mar 22, 2017
oga arikson person go hustle get money....fellows go just dey just to scam them off such hard earned money...is it fair? God is watching us all angry angry
Technology MarketRe: Alert!! Best Mobile Marketing Strategy In Nigeria Today by shugarush92(op): 12:41pm On Mar 22, 2017
Don't be left out ....the trend is gathering pace smiley smiley
SportsRe: Boy Wins 43 Million Naira On Bet9ja In Benue With Just 100 Naira(sreenshots) by shugarush92(m): 12:39pm On Mar 22, 2017
unbelievable shocked shocked shocked ..... still trying to undertsand it.... hmmm...the guy will be needing police escort henceforth...congratulations to him sha...it has been written say em go hammer!! grin grin
CrimeRe: Breaking News: Body Suspected To Be Suicide Dr Allwell Orji Recovered (Pics) by shugarush92(m): 4:22pm On Mar 21, 2017
just hearing reports that the Lagos state commissioner of police has released a statement that the body of the jumper hasn't been recovered yet....what a tragedy!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed
Technology MarketAlert!! Best Mobile Marketing Strategy In Nigeria Today by shugarush92(op): 10:22am On Mar 21, 2017
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WebmastersRe: Why Ordering For Large Webhosting Space When You Only Need A Few Megabyte Space by shugarush92(op): 9:41am On Mar 21, 2017
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CelebritiesRe: See This Tee Shirt A Lagos Girl Rocked Proudly, Smiling. by shugarush92(m): 2:37pm On Mar 17, 2017
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EducationRe: Could This Be The Ugliest Guy On Facebook? See What Friends Are Saying About Him by shugarush92(m): 1:40pm On Mar 17, 2017
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PoliticsRe: FG Raises Panel To Probe Fanta, Sprite Content by shugarush92(m): 1:36pm On Mar 17, 2017
angry angry hmmm... its very crazy. i think that the relevant authorities should look closely into the issue and release the results for us all to see. The health, safety and well being of every Nigerian should be the top priority
WebmastersRe: 6 Amazing Joomla Templates You Should Try by shugarush92(op): 11:52am On Mar 16, 2017
Joomla is an open source content management system. meaning you can use it to develop any type of database driven site without having to code from scratch. Its fun and easy to use

Joomla is widely acceptable by several hosting companies. some even give you dedicated hosting panesl solely for hosting your joomla site (www.reliablehostng.com is such a host). With the useof template you can change the look and feel or your site. You can even include modules or components in Joomla (e.g bulk sms component) to change its functions entirely but for today we'll base on Templates.

Here are some great Joomla Templates;

1. Joomla Black - is a professional free Joomla template for businesses of all kinds ranging from wine or beer sellers to architects. It is aesthetically pleasing to the eye with black background colours all through, eye capturing HD images and quite easy to edit.

2. Diving - Is another great free template, has paid versions too. It is well documented, stock photos included. Easy to use CMS, blog. Galleries and contact form. Its is sports related, particularly for diving related sites or shops.

3. JU Diano - is a 1, 2, 3 column simple template. According to the description on its site it is a Joomla Template that supports flash header with multiple loading effects based on xml native database. Haven't tested it as at writing but the demos so far look good, if you want a simple joomla site.

4. AS templates 2035 - This is a responsive multi-use template. AS Templates 2035 is best suited for blogs, business or corporate websites. As far as I know the template is currently free to use.

5. JA minisite (premuim) - is the only premium paid for template in this group, costs as high as $59 (almost N20k). And is compatible with Joomla 1.5, 2.5, 3 and above. The template can be used for multiple purposes ranging from corporate sites to personal blogs. You would find it pretty flexible for your usage.It comes bundled with 5 complimentary extensions and is Powered by a robust T3 Framework 2.

6. Ju Cobles - is a simple to use Joomla template with Ju cobles template has flash header with square loading effect. tried it on some sites we worked on and was good. Unlike certain Joomla templates out there, it is Mozilla/Firefox/IE/Safari/Opera Friendly. Current/premium versions are mobile responsive and have flash header features.

There are many other joomla templates available online in joomla forums, blog and template sites like themesforest.net or template monster. Both free and paid for.

Let Google be your friend, meanwhile try out these templates out here. What are some other great Joomla template you have come across? Reply below.

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WebmastersRe: Why Ordering For Large Webhosting Space When You Only Need A Few Megabyte Space by shugarush92(op): 5:29pm On Mar 15, 2017
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BusinessRe: Sell Your Itunes Gift Cards At Good Rates by shugarush92(m): 4:55pm On Mar 15, 2017
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CrimeRe: Ritual Killers Release Lady Five Days After Kidnap (photo) by shugarush92(m): 4:52pm On Mar 15, 2017
Thank God she was returned safely without any harm. We are really living in very strange times.










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WebmastersRe: Why Ordering For Large Webhosting Space When You Only Need A Few Megabyte Space by shugarush92(op): 2:44pm On Mar 11, 2017
Am back Guys..Nairaland spambot banned me but am back....Thank you @internetpo for answering their questions.
Webmasters6 Amazing Joomla Templates You Should Try by shugarush92(op):
Joomla is an open source content management system. meaning you can use it to develop any type of database driven site without having to code from scratch. Its fun and easy to use

Joomla is widely acceptable by several hosting companies. some even give you dedicated hosting panesl solely for hosting your joomla site (www.reliablehostng.com is such a host). With the useof template you can change the look and feel or your site. You can even include modules or components in Joomla (e.g bulk sms component) to change its functions entirely but for today we'll base on Templates.

Here are some great Joomla Templates;

1. Joomla Black - is a professional free Joomla template for businesses of all kinds ranging from wine or beer sellers to architects. It is aesthetically pleasing to the eye with black background colours all through, eye capturing HD images and quite easy to edit.

2. Diving - Is another great free template, has paid versions too. It is well documented, stock photos included. Easy to use CMS, blog. Galleries and contact form. Its is sports related, particularly for diving related sites or shops.

3. JU Diano - is a 1, 2, 3 column simple template. According to the description on its site it is a Joomla Template that supports flash header with multiple loading effects based on xml native database. Haven't tested it as at writing but the demos so far look good, if you want a simple joomla site.

4. AS templates 2035 - This is a responsive multi-use template. AS Templates 2035 is best suited for blogs, business or corporate websites. As far as I know the template is currently free to use.

5. JA minisite (premuim) - is the only premium paid for template in this group, costs as high as $59 (almost N20k). And is compatible with Joomla 1.5, 2.5, 3 and above. The template can be used for multiple purposes ranging from corporate sites to personal blogs. You would find it pretty flexible for your usage.It comes bundled with 5 complimentary extensions and is Powered by a robust T3 Framework 2.

6. Ju Cobles - is a simple to use Joomla template with Ju cobles template has flash header with square loading effect. tried it on some sites we worked on and was good. Unlike certain Joomla templates out there, it is Mozilla/Firefox/IE/Safari/Opera Friendly. Current/premium versions are mobile responsive and have flash header features.

There are many other joomla templates available online in joomla forums, blog and template sites like themesforest.net or template monster. Both free and paid for.

Let Google be your friend, meanwhile try out these templates out here. What are some other great Joomla template you have come across? Reply below.
FamilyRe: How My Husband Killed My Only Son by shugarush92(op): 1:19pm On Mar 11, 2017
alexialin:
Which type of husband leaves home for a trip without dropping money Down in case of emergencies?
Madam for so many years. U couldn't run your home well.

And that husband of yours? Should I call him. Pure evil or pure foolisshh.
you want to know the type of husband that goes on a trip without leaving money behind ba..marry one and you will know
FamilyRe: How My Husband Killed My Only Son by shugarush92(op): 1:15pm On Mar 11, 2017
ifyalways:
Fake story.

How much is a pint of blood?

No mother would fold her hands ad watch her child die when there are Electronics, gadgets, her clothing and jewellery for house. No friends and family either?

Try again later, Mr blogger.
U WON KNOW HOW MUCH FOR PAINT OF BLOOD BA!...U NO KNW WHERE OSHODI MARKET DEY?
FamilyRe: How My Husband Killed My Only Son by shugarush92(op): 1:11pm On Mar 11, 2017
ifyalways:
Fake story.

How much is a pint of blood?

No mother would fold her hands ad watch her child die when there are Electronics, gadgets, her clothing and jewellery for house. No friends and family either?

Try again later, Mr blogger.
Hmm..wAIT UNTIL THE THING HAPPEN TO YOU..U GO KNOW WEDA NA FAKE OR TRUE..JUST SAYING..
FamilyRe: How My Husband Killed My Only Son by shugarush92(op): 1:10pm On Mar 11, 2017
LOLZ..
Beremx:
So this sounds like he used his son for rituals.

Ok o!
FamilyHow My Husband Killed My Only Son by shugarush92(op): 12:34pm On Mar 10, 2017
My name is Gloria Okere. I hail from Mbano. This is a story of my life. How my husband killed my only son. I met my husband Cletus Okere eighteen years ago at a dinner party and after a short courtship, we eventually.got married.

Unfortunately, luck was not on our side for we stayed over ten years without an issue. My husband's relatives started telling him to leave me and marry another wife. My mother in-law was not left out in the campaign. Infact, she was my nightmare. She always call me a witch. That I possessed her son, that was why he don't want to marry a second wife. Tears and sorrows became my food day and night. I couldn't sleep and I lost appetite in everything. Unbelievably, my husband still shows me love and care despite his mother and relatives yelling for a second wife.

Miraculously, on the eleventh year of our marriage, God blessed us with a bouncing baby boy and my enemies was silenced.
Five years later, I couldn't conceive again and we decided to train our only son. My husband is a contractor. He usually travel to Abuja for his contract business. But recently, he started traveling often and on and stays longer when he travel than before. I didn't mind because I trusted him so much.
To cut the story short, he traveled last month being February, promising to come back in a week time, could you believe that my husband stayed more than three weeks, no phone calls. I even tried to contact him on his own phone, the phone was switched off.

Suddenly, my son became sick and no money at home. I took him to our family doctor and was diagnosed of anemia of which he needed immediate blood transfusion. To be candid, the doctor said my son has only seven days to live. My blood does not match his blood and I don't have money to buy blood.
Surprisingly, on the sixth day my husband arrived at the hospital looking good and richer. I care less about his appearance for my son was at the verge of death. Now, it is time for my husband to donate blood, his blood was screened and I asked the doctor to start transfusion immediately to save my son who has only a day to live. But, to my greatest surprise, my husband and the doctor was not doing anything positive as to save the life of this poor boy. Nobody want to tell me what was going on.

To crown it all, on the morning of the seventh day, my husband bought blood for transfusion but before the doctor and nurses could finish preparing for the transfusion, my son gave up the ghost. I lost consciousness and was revived. I could not believe it. How can I lost my only source of joy? I hold the doctor responsible for my son's death, until he was able to tell me that my husband tested HIV positive and his blood could not be used. I was dumbfounded and don't know what to do.

Sincerely speaking, I was contented when my husband was not rich. Now, he is rich, a HIV positive and I lost my only son too. What can I do? How will I survive this? Should I continue living with this man? Please advice me.

for more..Go to http://www.familygists.com/2017/03/how-my-husband-killed-my-only-son.html
EducationDrug Abuse by shugarush92(op): 1:28pm On Mar 06, 2017
Drug Abuse has caused young people and adults to be wandering about, begging for food or money. As they talk to themselves or to others, it can be obvious that they are mentally imbalance. In the area where they live, those who know them usually trace their conditions back to excessive drinking of alcoholic beverage, smoking and or use of drugs such marijuana.

Unbelievably, inspite of the obvious evidence of the hazardous effects of drugs, healthy people still involve themselves in the consumption of such drugs. It has been a hard nut to crack for the governments all over the world to control the illegal trafficking of drugs. Those who are engaged in illegal trade in drugs finds it hard to stop due to huge profits they make despite the set-out penalty for anyone caught in the act.

What is Drug Abuse?
Drug abuse means misuse of or over indulgence in drugs or substance abuse. It also means the excessive or persistent use of a drug without regard to accepted medical practice. Drug abuse should not be confused with drug misuse, as drug misuse is the use of drugs for a purpose of which it is not meant for or in improper dosage. The term substance abuse is the abuse of all substances be it drugs or not. That is consumption of substances in a way or manner that is harmful to the body. Substances which can be abused are sugar and soft drinks. Drug Addiction is a complicated disease that needs long-term treatment, just like other chronic diseases. People begin to wonder why some people with sound mind will decide to put themselves in danger by taking harmful substances that may result to mental disorder or death.

Causes of Drug Abuse
There are several factors that can cause drug abuse. It varies from one person to another. Below are some of the common causes of drug abuse:

Curiosity
The desire to find out how it feels to take drugs can cause the younger ones to start taking drugs. When they have satisfy their curiosity, there will be the urge for a repeat experiment. From repeated experiment they are turned into drug abusers.

Peer Group
Most young people like to copy what their peers are doing. They join them in taking alcohol, smoking or drugs just to fit in with the peer group. As a matter of fact, this can lead to drug or substance abuse. Tolerance leads to addiction.

Having a history of Trauma
Young women who have experience s*xual abuse in early life, sometimes resorts to taking alcohol, smoking, drugs and substances which in turn increases their chances of drug addiction.

for more on this..go to http://www.familygists.com/2017/03/drug-abuse.html
WebmastersWhy Ordering For Large Webhosting Space When You Only Need A Few Megabyte Space by shugarush92(op):
The usual norm now is for webhosting companies to offer their clients lots of webhosting megabytes spaces or gigabyte spaces for a low price, even when they only need a fraction of that space and may never get to use up all the megabyte or gigabyte resources that space has to offer.

If left to me I would say you ignore the space and price and look at other more important features. I am not saying this just because I have a domain and webhosting business. I am saying this because from the point of a customer and as a veteran in this business there are other things you should consider or rather do with the free extra space you are gieven or ought to get.

This is what I mean in case you dont' understand. There're some webhosts mostly foreign that allows you to use ur Cpanel server as a back up or cloud storage utility (See ihostgreen.com) while some host will not allow you to use your cpanel as a back up server.

The ideal thing would have been to use the extra space to host your extra files and be able to download or use the files on different other devices, but it isn't possible. This is one of the reasons why our own hosting is quite different. We offer you a 'few' megabytes of space and bandwidth (at least what you really need to host your site) and then offer you cloudback up services that you can upload your files (Music, documents, pictures,etc) in and have it synchronized with multiple other devices like your phone, tablet or office Desktop PC.

This means you can access your files while on the go with your phone, tablet or Desktop PC. Each webhosting or domain account ordered from ReliablehostNg.com comes with a free 2GB of free cloud storage/Back up space.


There are a few other things you should look out for also in webhosting companies like Prompt, efficient and knowledgeable support (and are they available 18 -24hrs daily?), Server Uptime and even Spam Count, esp. when You are hosting on a shared Server. So emails you send from your site don't get sent to spam because you are sharing a single hosting IP with one stupid yahoo yahoo boy somewhere.

Big or Massive hosting megabyte shouldnt be the only criteria for your ordering hosting. For more details go to www.reliablehostng.com
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife And Three Of My Children Left Me For Her Pastor by shugarush92(op): 5:16pm On Mar 02, 2017
azuson:
This is serious but let me advise you, go to Police and arrest both of them and charge the case to court. It will expose the Pastor and your wife but bear it,at least the court will grant you custody of your children
haha..u wicked oo
RomanceRe: Communication: The Bedrock Of Every Relationship Is Communication by shugarush92(op): 5:12pm On Mar 02, 2017
Emmytrill:
If i tell you the amount of airtime wey i dey burn everyday for bae just to communicate with her since she dey a bit far away embarassed cry cry no regret though grin grin grin
kwantinue..dont give up
EducationCultism 2 - Causes Of Cultism by shugarush92(op): 11:13am On Mar 02, 2017
Cultism can be joined by people for particular reasons. It might be that they join for a selfish desire of controlling the world or wealth.

Although, the societal values has depreciated, the causes of cultism around the globe are part of the indiscipline and corruption that are eating deep in the society. Listed below are some of the causes;-

Poverty/Instability of Economy: For years now, Nigerians are faced with either increase in fuel pump price or increase in food stuff or the drastically falling of Naira in the international market. People are suffering with government lending their deaf ears. Some investors are leaving the country thereby causing loss of jobs for many and unemployment for the masses. Students find it hard to buy necessary books and handout. People are confused and desperate of what to do to make ends meet especially the poor ones in the society. With no other option left for them they decided to join cult to acquire wealth and make life easy or them.
Corruption/Indiscipline: In a developing country like Nigeria, where corruption and indiscipline are on high rate and government are not doing anything positive towards this direction, the hearts and minds of people are being toyed with thereby exposing them to join one cult group or another who can give them a listening ear.
Insecurity: There is insecurity in the country. A lot of negative social events are happening here and there. Lives and property of individuals are at stake here. We have terrorist attacks, Militant group, suicide bombers and what have you. People found out that the country is no more save, so they join cult for protection of their lives and property which the government failed to give them.
There are still other causes like influences of bad friends, taking of drugs/substances etc.

for more..go to http://www.familygists.com/2017/02/cultism-2-causes-of-cultism.html
EducationCultism 1 - Definition Of Cultism by shugarush92(op): 11:02am On Mar 02, 2017
Cultism is the system or practice of a group of people known as Cult with a religious, philosophical or cultural identity sometimes viewed as Sect, often existing on the margin of society or exploitative towards its members. The members of this group are usually described as Cultists. There activities are being carried out at odd hours of the day and are limited only to the knowledge of their members.

Cultism are being characterized by membership not open to the general public and members meet secretly. Also member have what is called "Sign language" either by the way they greet, their mode of dressing or what colour they put on. They have Grand Master who they worship and pay allegiance to all the time.
They swear an "oaths of secrecy" meaning that members should not disclose what they do to non-members. Most of their members are ignorant of the true intentions of their leaders. Age is never a barrier provided you are willing i.e young, middle-aged or old people belongs to different cult groups of their choice. Sometimes, members are initiated by force.

However, cultism is one the social issues and problems that demands immediate attention so as to protect the values and lives of people and our society in general.

for more information on this...go to http://www.familygists.com/2017/02/cultism-1-definition-of-cultism.html
Music/RadioThe Afrobeats Festival by shugarush92(op): 12:42pm On Feb 22, 2017
The Afrobeats Festival / AB FEST is an annual music festival held during the penultimate weekend in August.
The event usually takes place at Barking Park in East London and the said arena is also known to be the central hub of African culture, and most importantly the increasing growth of the sound of afrobeats music in a European country.
The Afrobeats Festival

The Afrobeats Festival / AB FEST is an annual music festival held during the penultimate weekend in August.
The event usually takes place at Barking Park in East London and the said arena is also known to be the central hub of African culture, and most importantly the increasing growth of the sound of afrobeats music in a European country.
Afrobeats festival girls

What Happens In The AfroBeats Festival?

The D-day usually consists of two stages, live entertainment from some notable African Afrobeat Musicians, and also not forgetting some incredible and entertaining performances from some African American / British Musicians. And.. oh.. Some really cool African Meals & Numerous activities for the little ones is also on the checklist. I could go on and on about how much fun it is to be at such an amazing festival.
So.. If you’ve never been to an Afrobeat Festival before. SONAR advices you don’t miss the next one you hear of..
Celebrate Africa! Celebrate West Africa! Celebrate Afrobeats Music And Celebrate our Afrobeat Instrumentals

for more..go to..https://freaksonar.com/afrobeats-festival/
FamilyDivorce: Four Things You Should Consider Before A Divorce by shugarush92(op): 12:27pm On Feb 22, 2017
Is divorce really the answer? Many troubled marriage these days rush into divorce. Is it actually a wise course? Most importantly, what can be done to save a troubled home. Are you now thinking your marriage may be heading towards this direction. Be rest assured that no marriage is immune to problems. Even the Bible mentioned it in the book of (1Cor. 7:28) that couples are likely to have pains and grief.

From what we can see in our society today, marriage is the most risky undertaking done by the highest number of people. Before you know it, a relationship that starts out with great joy, love and full of promises suddenly turns out sour, frustrating and painful on someone's lifetime.

How is your marriage doing? Is it patronizing the undermentioned traits?

a. Unfaithfulness
b. Resentment
c. Arguments
d. Sour or bitter words

Is your marriage at a juncture of collapsing? Maybe your spouse has betrayed the trust you have and this have taking away the joy of your marriage. You might be thinking, why did we got married in the first place? We were not meant for each other, we might as well get divorced.
Don't be in a hurry to quit your marriage. Divorce is not always the best option. It merely compound the problems most atimes. Marriage is known as a permanent bond. If partners could have a forgiving spirits than that of retaliating, many marriages that collapsed on trivial ground could have been saved. (Matt. 18:21,22).

Read More:-Can you Save your Marriage?

However, God only allows the termination of marriage on the ground of extra-marital affairs. If your spouse is unfaithful, you have every right to divorce and remarry. I am not here to impose my view or tell you what you should do. The onus lies with you. Whatever decision you made, the consequences lives with you. So think twice!

Before getting a divorce, we should consider the issues below:-

1. The Children:- I met a friend of mine after six years of loosing contact, and when I asked her about her husband she told me; "It is a long story". "My husband left me and my two kids for another woman and we divorced she said. The kids were embarrassed at their father's behaviour. They were adversely affected by the divorce. They did not know why I took them with me to my mother's house. My sister she said; this was a very devastating moment for us.
Children are always the casualties in every broken marriages. An adage says; "when two elephants are fighting, the grass will suffer". If a man and a woman are tied in an unhappy marriage, think about the children, they don't care whether dad sleeps in the sitting room and mom sleeps in bedroom, all they want is let the family be together.


2. The effect on you:- True love in case if don't know stays and lingers for a long time. My friend who divorced her husband cannot allow me to say bad things about her husband. She told me; can you belief I still love him inspite of his adulterous lifestyle. But I have endured enough, I couldn't continue with his betrayal. If para-venture I remarry, this type of a thing could happen again. Can I be able to love again, to me, all men are the same. This is always the emotional problems faced by the divorced person. That bond is still there. It lingers in your mind even after so many years. The funny thing there is that both the feeling of resentment and the feeling of affection will wrestling in your mind. So before you divorce, try to feel the reality.

for more..go to..http://www.familygists.com/2017/02/divorce-four-things-you-should-consider.html
FamilyHelp! My Wife And Three Of My Children Left Me For Her Pastor by shugarush92(op): 12:20pm On Feb 22, 2017
I am writing this from my hospital bed. It happened last three days ago as I came back from work, my wife and my three children were nowhere to be found, I asked my neighbour and he told me that a man came and my wife and children packed their luggage and went with him. After describing the man, I found out that he was the Pastor of a prayer ministry where my wife used to go.
I never quarreled with my wife, anything she wants, I gave her, why all of a sudden she decided to leave me. As a man I am not suppose to cry, but am shedding tears while writing this. I contacted the General Overseer of that ministry, hoping to get a favourable response, but to my greatest surprise he told me to go and take back the bride price I paid on my wife. The ministry is at Ajao Estate here in Lagos.
I love my wife so much that I don't know if I can be able to forget her. My neighbour said that he wanted to tell me that the said pastor use to come almost everyday whenever I went to work and my sister narrated how she caught them red-handed in our matrimonial bed, which I waved aside.. I don't care what she has done with the pastor, I only want her and my children back.
I miss them so much. I tried contacting my wife through her phone, immediately she heard my voice, she would switch off her phone. What can I do now? I am devastated and confused. I need solution and advice on this as for me not to die of heart break. Please, my fellow gentlemen I need your candid advice. Should I wait for her or leave her?

for more..go to http://www.familygists.com/2017/02/help-my-wife-and-three-of-my-children.html
RomanceCommunication: The Bedrock Of Every Relationship Is Communication by shugarush92(op): 12:41pm On Feb 21, 2017
Communication can be defined as a means of interaction or transmission of messages whether verbal or written between two or more people. It is an exchange of information between individuals with mutual understanding.

Communication is an effective tool in every marriage. Just as the body needs blood to flow in it, so does the marriage needs communication to transmit verbal or written information concerning the well being of the family. If blood ceases to flow in the body it dies away, likewise a marriage without a good conversation skills hits the rock sooner or later.

Through communication, you and your partner can express your beliefs, views, ideas and or solution on any issue concerning each other and both of you must have listening ears. It helps you both the discover some hidden goodness you have in each other. It does not mean shouting, yelling at each other or intimidating your spouse with your hot temper or threatening him/her. You should not do things to the detriment of your spouse.

In communication, there need to be a listening ear. Talking with no one listening to you does not make sense. So in marriage, you have to give your spouse every attention he/she needed during conversation. It may result to arguments and or conflicts when none is listening. Listening to your spouse shows signs of respect and care you have for him/her.

In human existence, communication is very important and God's desire for us is to communicate effectively with each other as to be able to solve problems and build our marital relationships. It is a foundational ability to get anything done. The Bible said; "This is the condemnation, that light is come into world, and men love darkness rather than light because their deeds are evil. (John 3:19). We usually try to shield ourselves from disapproval and cannot always show our selfish desires and negative feelings. This can develop to communication shutdown in the family. You should not hide anything from your spouse, be open and come to light, you are one so let him/her know you inside out.

Communication breakdown can cause cold war in the family which is rampant in many families today. Some couples live under the same roof, share the same bed, honour invitations, pay visits to friends and even eat meals together yet, the free expression of feelings and cordial relationship that brings laughter, peace and sharing of ideas is completely absence. In some cases, the couple's conversation becomes short, straight to the point and only when necessary, most atimes when there is monetary needs or other things that needed to be carried out in the family.

The children from these type of home suffer the consequences of communication breakdown and interaction by the parents coupled with tension in the home. They already seen and read the hand writing on the wall that all is not well. When one parent is out the children feel free to chat with the one around, but when both are at home they withdraw immediately to avoid being seem as an issue for another commotion. When these children get tired of the situation, the prefer to hangout with friends rather than stay at home and most atimes the end result might be disastrous. Hope you can guess what I mean?

Some Tips to Improve your Communication Skills are;_
Learn to accept your partner's bad habits. You married him/her because you loved him/her.
Set out time for family discussion and prayer. It is a good habit for families to pray together. A family that prays together stays together.
Throw questions to your spouse and or children on how to improve your communication and family relationship. You will be surprise at what you get from their response.
Give room for your spouse and children to be open and express their opinion about an issue(s) at hand.
Express both negative and positive feelings maturely
Stop forcing your spouse or family to conform to your own opinion. Sometimes allow their own decision to supersede yours and these will give them a sense of belonging.
Pray that God will forgive, all the wrong behaviour and abusive words level upon each other.
For a good family relationship, keep an effective communication. Communication is truly the bedrock of every marriage. Keep your marriage alive and kicking with good communication and this gives you credits as a Christian family.
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RomanceDating And Courtship: Know The Difference Between Dating And Courtship by shugarush92(op): 12:29pm On Feb 21, 2017
Dating is a relationship between a bachelor and a spinster which sometimes involves s*xual relationship and most atimes does not lead to marriage. It is a casual relationship between the opposite s*x which can end anytime without any cogent reason(s). While Courtship is a relationship between a matured man and a woman that has pass the stage of dating in which a certain commitment and seriousness are involved with marriage as end goal. They only need some period of time to know themselves better before getting married.

Dating and courtship confuses many people, if only we can get a little knowledge of the difference between the two words, we would automatically save ourselves from heartbreaks and disappointments that may be the outcome.

Here are few differences you need to know about Dating and Courtship:-
In dating, you don't need to the family of your date. You are there as a friend, trying to learn or know one or two things about each other; such as;- interest, hobbies, likes and dislike etc. There is no friend or family influence. But in case of Courtship, you are free to meet the family anytime both of you are convince that you can be happily married.
Dating makes both of acquaintances, friends and not yet lovers. You can be lovers when you are satisfied with each others lifestyles and accepting each others weaknesses and that is when to say you are courting with marriage plans on the way.
Dating and Courtship should not be labelled with s*xual intercourse. Most people are dating with the view of satisfying their s*xual urge. God created the Act of s*x and made it sacred only in the context of marriage. Any s*xual relationship outside marriage is a sin before God. The real success in dating and courtship comes when things are done in God's way. God is our Creator, both romantic attraction and marriage are precious gift from Him.
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