Hmmmmm! This is somewhat very difficult to swallow. Let me begin by saying sorry to you, my brother. You see, when you got married to your wife, i'm very convinced that you said these lines too 'for better, for worse' right? I feel this is the aspect you have to take as the 'worse'. This is the most suitable period for you to love and cherish her the most. Please, try not to allow negative thoughts about her attitude becloud your mind. She is passing through a very difficult moment and needs your maximum support, she may yell at you or refuse your making love to her, endure it. She may not even listen to you if you try bringing up the topic but understand with her. Please do not allow your erection determine your direction. She is your wife and you have her to yourself for keeps. Let the world not hear it now that she's refusing your accessing her body when no one heard when you two used to have great fun in bed and it even led to a precious seed now left for you guys to nurture. Please my brother, treat your wife like the best husband you've always wished to be to her and let it be that even if she's seeing someone else outside( which i am not so sure of), she'll always come back home to you knowing fully well that you're her BEST MAN. Finally, i'll advise you to startle her by getting her a suprise gift, kiss her on the forehead, embrace her and reaffirm your total committment, love, affection and care for her. Say sweet things to her and about her and how lucky you are to have gotten married to her. Keep repeating this instead of begging to sleep with her. Don't even bring up the sex issue here but be on the look out, she will willingly open up to you and you two will sort things out. She'll also respect and love you more than before.

Hmmmmm! Wonders shall END