Family › Re: Family Please Don't Let Me Waste Away. I'm Passing Through A Lot. by Silentgroper(m): 10:15pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Would you live with a man ??
Did you have another stroke..
Why did your left arm go numb??
Besides there's nothing you can do for me in my house ..
I'd be sympathetic to your condition and would feel awful letting you work under that condition...
Why not working with your phone??
Since you teach.. teach online... |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 10:08pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Samantha125: Is it because I said Vendas and Tsongas are predominantly dark in complexion? something like that.. I think someone called you a racist cause of it .. TBC, I don't know .. I've got headache 😨😨 |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 10:02pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 10:01pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Samantha125: Then you better remember because I don't remember ever talking down any SA tribe. Okay .. you didn't.. Are we good nw?? 😋😋 I really can't remember and I'm so lazy and tired to go find out the comment... |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:58pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Samantha125: You're missing the fact that there's no tribe called Tswane. How do you say it .. Is it tshwana, you called that guy that married the Nigerian lady something similar to that . |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:56pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Samantha125: How do I have a stint of tribalism?🤔🤔 I think you talked down on a particular tribe sometimes ago .. can really tell the exact words .. it's been far back .. |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:52pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
zhike: That is true, Xhosa are different from all South African tribes. Most of the SA girls that date foreigners are xhosas I've noticed that .. You lots are actually fun to learn about Pedis Xhosa Tswane Zulu .. What am I missing .. Y'all seem diverse way more than us.. |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:38pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Samantha125: Even if he was raised by his mother's people, he'd have had a Nigerian name... The guy looks South African to me, so I don't know what you're talking about.
I think we need to just accept that some SA men are now looking into Nigerian ladies, I know that it's hard to accept, but it's now happening... They're finally leaving us for other African ladies...😭😭😭😭... We just need to sit down, drink some wine, and accept the bitter truth...😭😭😭
And once you're done with your research, please come back and open a thread about it... ... His full names are Amon Kau Moeketsi...😃😃😃 😁😁😁😁 Don't worry, they won't last with the Nigerian lady's.. they'd come crawling back into ya'll arms... |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:35pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Lionessza6: I see you nolonger had important things to attend to after I left the thread for a few hours  Oh you spend he whole of the day here whilst just taking a few hours break .. Now tell me you're jobless without telling me you're jobless... 🤭🤭🤭🤭 Well I'm not surprised... If your men waking up in the morning goes to grab a beer first, what more should I expect from the females... |
Romance › Re: What Would Make A Woman Do Something Like This? [picture Included] by Silentgroper(m): 4:12pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Na break up mssg dey there... |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Silentgroper(m): 3:02pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Roland17: For me..1st Level
Dumfries..
Gvardiol (probably a tie or the closest), there is also Hakimi.
2nd Level
TAA/ Tavares/ Frimpong/ Theo/ Pavard
3rd Level
Bastoni/ Phonzie (Bayern) is washed/ James is a remote player Attacking fullback and you just matched Trent with Tavarez and frimpong .. in what aspect of attack is Dumfries better than Trent.. |
Romance › Re: These gays no dey fear at all by Silentgroper(m): 2:47pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 2:37pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
World poorest men, yet the richest African man comes from the same country the poorest men lives .. very ironic ..
Since s.a men don't spend on their females or their wife's family and all that what exactly do they used their money to do ... I guess drink beers all day and loot other African nationals little kiosk to make away with things they should be easily able to afford..
Dangote is probably feeding, clothing, sheltering all his wives and their family yet happens to be the richest in Africa but one cuntface is telling us that the country is filled with poor men that can easily feed a football team of family for millennials.. hahaha stop playing ..
Worst part is she said South African has the highest count of black dollar apart from the actual black Americans...
Hahahahah .. very ironic...
Cuntface you might want to go and make those research again and get current ..
Even Samantha125 wouldn't settle with a man she'd be feeding, clothing et all... |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 2:26pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Lionessza6: 😂😂
You failed woefully in countering my post,instead you danced around the issues I raised...let's recap;
1. Majority of SA women have never and would never date Nigerian men...we are conditioned differently. So all the lies about us *rushing * you disgust us ...but I get why you have to lie to yourselves😂😂. If you're looking for SA women who *love * you...visit downtown clubs and taverns....you'll find plenty of them ..looking for you to *flex * for them 😂😂.
2. Women in South Africa have always worked for their own food. Before colonialism; we went to the fields to farm and took care of our kids ,whilst the men did their own part. Things changed when colonialists came to disturb and change things up...making us idle and dependent on men for survival. Post democracy...we went back to our natural roles of being partners in our homes not subjects who sit idle for a men to feed us and use us to boost his fragile ego* I take care of you...I feed you ...I buy your clothes....so be Obidient and do as you're told*😂. You can miss us with that rubbish .
3. You say are women meant to work ?😂😂😂😂😂. Show me one country that's developed with a diverse economy that doesn't have women working and thriving in their own society?😂. Apart from the emirates who enslave foreigners from poor countries in the global South, where else can you find this ? . South Africa has a diverse economy and is an upper middle income country not a poor one because all members of society are expected to chip in. You cannot have a somewhat functional country without women playing a role in the decision making . Forget it. Look up your mates in Pakistan, Somalia etc . Women there have no say and are * taken care of*😂. I.can bet you no Nigerian woman wants to migrate there. But you'll find plenty of them in SA and other countries where women play a part in the development of their countries.
4. Lmao. You just shot yourself in the foot. So Nigerian women have to leave you in your Nigeria to be independent?😂..why can't they have those Careers where their * great * men lead ?😂😂. They thrive better under the leadership of other men than you ?😂. We are in SA leading Medicine,Science,politics ,Agriculture etc. We don't need to escape our country and men to get the opportunity Kemi Badenoch has ...we are afforded that privilege here . We are learners in what ? 😂😂.
5. I repeat .....men spend more on their families than women ...everywhere not just Nigeria. You are only making noise about this because you're the world's poorest men and what is normal to other men seems like a flex to you 😂😂.
6. You keep on talking about luxury and flexing....I'm confused ....is that supposed to impress me?😂.
Here is the reality; The wealthiest black people after Afro-Americanns are black SA.
SA is one of only 7 African countries that are classified as upper middle income countries.
This means that we aren't strangers to high standards of living ,luxury and good income. These aren't a *flex* for us...they are normal things unlike in Nigeria where these words send the fear of God down one's heart 😂.
7. You are the most hardworking black people?😂😂😂😂. Hardworking in what when you're the poorest and one of the most food insecure and underdeveloped countries in Africa?😂😂😂😂.
When you list the indices below, you won't find Nigeria in the top 15 even with the population and resources like oil😂😂😂.
* health care system * Education *Gdp per capita *widespread infrastructure * citizen's welfare * electricity access *water & sanitation Etc
So what exactly are you working hard on when you're at the bottom in everything that matters....fighting it out with the likes of Somalia?😂.
Please show me the results of your hardwork🙏. Hardwork no be by mouth. Hardworking men don't make noise....they work😂😂😂😂....and when you go to their countries you'll see the results.
8. Nigerian women don't see the need to have you around them once they reach the *saner* climes😂. Who wants an overlord when you can make your own money and decisions?😂. You are left with no choice but to recycle local skanks,junkies and grandmas as wives 😂😂😂😂😂😂
9. Wealthy men in other climes have their women minding the finances,image etc of the family. They don't make their wives sit idle while giving them stipends like teenage girls 😂....that's demeaning . They are involved in the business, one way or the other. No SA wealthy man will not teach his woman the business he is into ....if he dies...how will she take care of his kids when she can't do shyt except spending un-earned money ? Talk about shortsightedness😂😂. Women are partners in marriage not subjects and Obidient slaves 😂😂
And lastly, the average SA man and the average Nigerian man are not wealthy...so I don't see why you're making it seem like Nigeria is the home of wealthy mem . Let's rather discuss what is readily found in both countries  World poorest men that can comfortably feed Another adult(woman) clothes her , shelter her , give gifts extend it to her family , pay her fees and whatnots .. Wow, that's the most ironic thing I've ever heard in my life .. So the ones that have their females competing with them in money making, clothing and whatnots are the world richest man ... Very ironic ... Very very ironic... |
Romance › Re: These gays no dey fear at all by Silentgroper(m): 2:10pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
dkidd: Lol bro he doesn't even know me physically not to talk of meet cos I have no intentions of even meeting him. And besides he's the bottom gay type, the receiver asin those when dey collect like women. Truth is I just want to know why he's the way he is and how it started for him before I finally delete and block as I will still have to do the blocking thing cos there really is no use to keep entertaining him once I'm done he's the bottom gay type yet he's doing the asking out .. it's like saying either or James brown/bob risky going out there asking niggaz out .. Something is not adding up.. |
Romance › Re: Nothing Stops A Man's Progress Like Sucking Vagina. Rich Men Don't Do It. by Silentgroper(m): 2:06pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
purples25: The rude dismissal is uncalled for. Anyway, we’re adults and supposedly unknown on the internet. Therefore less regards are applied here. I don’t force conversations on people who don’t want them. Based on that, have a nice life. you must've read intent wrongly with my choice of words .. I was actually occupied with something when I made that comment .. Sorry if I came off rude . Geez, you should take a chill pill sometimes.. 🤭🤭🤭 |
Celebrities › Re: Peller And Jarvis Celebrate Valentine With A Kiss Inside Water In South Africa by Silentgroper(m): 11:30am On Feb 17, 2025 |
Medici777: Trust they are not having sex. then peller must be the dumbest fvck on earth.... |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 11:05am On Feb 17, 2025 |
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Family › Re: I Dressed This Way To Church , But My Crush Didn’t Come by Silentgroper(m): 10:02am On Feb 17, 2025 |
Nifemy4: So sad This is a different person from the one in your d.p |
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Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 9:56am On Feb 17, 2025 |
Can that cuntface get a grip ..
It's a monday morning FFS!!! |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 7:40am On Feb 17, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 7:37am On Feb 17, 2025 |
zhike: Well said, I 100 percent agree with you you sound like you don't, but you just gotta support your own .. You seem the calmest of all male South African nairalanders on the forum .. Never have I seen you go crazy around here like the rest... |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Silentgroper(m): 7:34am On Feb 17, 2025 |
zhike: Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe. Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.
Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow of your pedis I knew it . She has stint of tribalism in her .. I wonder she never mentioned it.. Xhosa happens to be the most liberal tribe of all I guess |
Romance › Re: These gays no dey fear at all by Silentgroper(m): 7:30am On Feb 17, 2025 |
dkidd: You always sound dumb. Likewise you ... 🤭🤭🤭 |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Crying To South Africa For Help by Silentgroper(m): 11:05pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
Samantha125: If it's a first or a middle name, I'd understand because most of the time those names are just given randomly.
But a surname is something that's passed on from generations to generations, it's our ancestral name and I'd like to know how on earth did you get an English surname? Are you a descendant of your colonizers? You keep saying I have an English name and you don't even remember it .. how then are you so sure it's English... What if it's German 😌😌😌 Btw, some of us are actually like that .. we do have an English surname .. I had a classmate with surname COLE .. as In COLE palmer .. but his first name was native to his tribe .. . I think he mentioned something about his greatgrand mother having a child for some white Englishman back in the days so she adopted the man's name and pass it down ... We usually have fun calling him by his surname COLE and dude was really dark skinned, so we nicknamed him charCOLE as in charcoal.. Some of us do really have an ENGLISH surnmane and the guys situation some the reason why they have an English surnmane and I do not .. I know this is just aploy for you to know my name ... You could just ask if you're really itching to know... |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Crying To South Africa For Help by Silentgroper(m): 10:56pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
Samantha125: And there are South African pictures on the internet...🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️ I reversed Google image already ... It doesn't come out as one .. That's you .. I'm gonna have that framed ,😋😋😋😋 |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Crying To South Africa For Help by Silentgroper(m): 10:49pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
Samantha125: Children of nowadays can be very disrespectful...🤦🤦🤦
For the last time, SAMANTHA IS NOT MY NAME!!!!! All my names are in Sepedi.
Why on earth would an African have an English surname in the first place? Do you have an English ancestry? Yeah well .. this "children" "child" "baby" is allowed to be ... But it's your sister name .. Why does your sister have an English name?? Does she have English ancestry?? Let me. Just let you a lil secret .. that's just a typical Nigerian name .. It's surnmane - middlename - first name .. Most Nigerian middlenames are mostly of biblical descent or can be of english .. Something like Paul , Peter and so on .. But the igbo tribes usually have their name in full English names but not all .. The only tribe that doesn't have an English name attached to their names are the hausas .. Folks from the south south, south east(igbos) are known to have names in full English names .. Something like Patrick Stanley .. surname is Patrick, name is stanley ... But as for my tribe you get names like Adeosun Daniel oluwaseun ... It's a mix of biblical and English... Kaji ko? Comprende?? |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Crying To South Africa For Help by Silentgroper(m): 10:38pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
Samantha125: No, it's a picture from the internet...😏😏😏 Lies .. Those faces look very south African |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Crying To South Africa For Help by Silentgroper(m): 10:24pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
Samantha125: What's that name of yours again? Damn! It's way too long...😂😂😂... And why the hell do you have an English surname? Are you a descendant of the Queen of England or what?
And have you eaten this evening?🤭🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🤭 This you 🤭🤭🤭
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Romance › Re: South African Lady Crying To South Africa For Help by Silentgroper(m): 10:21pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
[sup][/sup] Samantha125: What's that name of yours again? Damn! It's way too long...😂😂😂... And why the hell do you have an English surname? Are you a descendant of the Queen of England or what?
And have you eaten this evening?🤭🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🤭 Nah i've not taken anything but I could have you for dinner instead , inshort that would be my preference at the moment .. Lol .. Don't you have an English name ... Is Samantha a Dutch name?? Whatever the asswipe posted had no affiliation to me ... You can call me baby tho.. 😌😌😌 |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Crying To South Africa For Help by Silentgroper(m): 10:05pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
Samantha125: But you are still a baby...🤣🤣🤣
Take this and go to bed...🍼 🍼 🍼 Right.. The ones your chest would make do .. Don't call me that ... You shouldnt even believe that .. you of all people... |