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Hey! quick question
my girl has very very small breasts even tho she s very beautiful and is full figured otherwise. i often tell her her small breast size doesnt matter and that she s more beautiful than at least 80% of women out there but she just cant help feeling inferior cos of her small boobies. she feels most guys dont find her attractive. in fact i m sure as soon as she can afford it, she ll go 4 a boob job.

what kind of bra can she use to emphasize her breasts and make them look a lil bigger, so she ll stop kiilling herself unnecesarily?

@laudate
well, mayb i deserve the bashing. but let s get somethings straight.

I cheated on Tola. Ok already! She s forgiven me! and i have also decided to move on. It s in the past, let s leave it there. Sh.t happens and let me stress that there s another angle to this story that i will not discuss on this forum.

I admit I sort of used tina to get over Tola but i told Tina no lies. Anyways like i said ive made up my mind on what to do.

@laudate
y so much beef??
it really amuses me when people put on airs and behave like they are above mistakes! Well i am not! and i am man enough to admit it! I made a mistake by cheating on Tolu and i was ready to face the consequences. By the way, their are parts of this story i am not willing to share because it infringes on the private life of another. Life is NEVER black and white, always try to remember that. i was the baddy in this story but that does not mean everybody else concerned was an angel.

I ve put my mistake in my past and because i slept with another woman does not mean im a womaniser or whatever! Throw the stone! ye who never hath sinneth before!
I only got involved with Tina when Tolu made it clear to me that she was not interested in a relationship with me anymore and in order to spite me she started dating her ex. i was so badly hurt that i realised getting her off my mind was the healthy thing to do. Tina gave me a shoulder to cry on but of course. she had other designs 4 me. I never wanted to start a relationship with her and i never tried to take advantage of her but she liked me so much she was sort of reckless. Im human, at that point i was not dating any1, the person i was in love with hated my guts and so i just sort of played along with her. besides i liked her, i could tell we could build a strong relationship if we tried since we had been friends 4 so long. however, i never counted on Tolu coming back, and that is the source of my present predicament. I ve sort of made up my mind, i ll tell Tolu to let us stick with our earlier decision to stay apart and try and build a relationship with Tina. She doesnt desrve to get hurt

thanks bussy,
laudate----

oga,  issues like this are definitely not your strong point
for your sake,  and because im in a very patient mood,  i ll translate to suit u:

Whats the eeasiest way to break up with a girl who loves you very much and does not desrve to be dumped!!!!

by the way do not bother with an answer,  youre obviously the type that willsay :get over me bitch!

still sidestepping the issue,

@bawomolo & co

look. im an adult. i know what it means to be in love. also, i consider myself a responsible adult. imade a mistake by cheating on tola and that is in the past. the point of this thread is how do i break up with tina without hurting her,  or is it advisable to just stay with her!

its amusing how many people turn their noses up on a moral issue like thyre Jesus Christ or something. im not proud of the situation i created 4 myself but suggesting that this is about infatuation/lust is a little condescending and insulting.

@ busta
well sort of. her (tola) ex had been bugging her to re start their relationship and he had been telling her nasty stories about me. so when she finally caught me red handed in the act, she got fed up and left me 4 him. i pleaded with her for some time but she refused to listen to me. after a while i guess she decided i was 4 real. she tells me she doesnt love her ex, but she trusts him cos she knows he loves her, unlike me., she says she finds it hard to trust me now.

i really have no doubt in my mind that i love tola. we were planning to get married b4 we broke up (mainly because she caught me sleeping with some female totally irrelevant to this story--oops my bad!). unfortunately sh.t happened and i started to get used to tina. i have feelings 4 tina and i m sure with time i ll get to love her as much as she loves me. but for now o, im still in love with tola.

i really dont wanna hurt tina, at the same time mayb i should just stay with her, cos i know she loves me very much.

hey guys, 
i have a little problem and i need some advice. I know its a bit long but please bear with me

I met this girl when we were still in school . i shall calll her tina. i really liked tina back then and she later told me she liked me too but i guess i was too slow in making my moves. Some other guy i knew was faster and she ended up dating him. We remained friends though. i met another girl (Tola) whom i fell in love with and dated. Years later Tina broke up with her boyfriend and remained my friend. I could tell that she had a crush on me but since i had a girlfriend i just sort of ignored her and we remained friends. however after about a  year, tola broke up with me and because i was broken hearted i turned to Tina for consolation. Somehow somehow while crying on  her shoulder we sort of hooked up and started dating.
Now after a few months of  being with Tina i assumed i was totally done with Tola since she had dumped me and all but suprisingly she came back! We had both contributed to the break up and so i cannot say its all her fault but she was all apologetic and willing to start the relationship afresh. she said she had needed time to be alone and think of the future. now that she has cleared her mind she s decided to  be with me for better or for worse.

Now i really love Tola, there s no doubt in my heart but as a guy man when she broke up with me (even though to a certain extent i had done stuff to deserve i t) after pleading with her a while i had decided to move on with my life and i was sort of happy with Tina. Tina knows Tola was my ex-girlfriend but what i telll her anytime she sees Tola calling or she asks me is that im totally over her. I like Tina, she s an angel,  she s even better looking than Tola and i know given time i ll get to love her,  but the truth is that i was with Tola for over two years and im not the sort of person who can just forget someone i love that easily.

the question is: How do i go back to Tola without breaking Tina s heart? because i know she loves me very mucch already,  and i don't want to  hurt her,  or should i stay with her?Pl,ease i need some advice Thanks

you are so dumb all u can say is good one

grrr