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Romance › Just A Random Thought by singleman45(op): 9:34am On Jan 29, 2018
One rainy evening, I was at our balcony pondering about things.

Then a random thought came by. What if I get married?...

That thought came as a flash in my mind. I was hit by the fact that I’ve been

single for 5 years already... yes, just like other men, I need that special someone whom

I can be with for the rest of my life. I want to be in a relationship where love is evident and

happiness can be seen in our eyes.

This thought led to the question: Where to find a single woman to date for marriage?

So I decided to surf the internet. While I was busy searching for sources, online dating

came out. But knowing the negative sides of online dating, I decided not to delve into those.

Then a certain website came out again.

The website features matchmaking much more than online dating.

The site consists of services which advocates in helping single men find true love like

singles tour or romance tour. They also have thousands of foreign women listed.

These women are so gorgeous. I continued by browsing through their profiles.

This site left me to the thinking if I should use it or not. I wonder what opportunities would it

give me if I join the flock of men enjoying its service. What do you think guys?

Is it worth trying? What kind of services should I keep an eye-on for its legitimacy?
Romance › Long Distance Relationship... How Do I Make It Work? by singleman45(op): 10:02am On Jan 16, 2018
My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for a good 7 months now.

It’s been going well but the ups and downs are also present.

There are moments when it’s unbearable, since we sometimes miss each other and the physical needs are always a problem.

I can definitely say that our relationship is worth fighting for... but on times when we fight,

it’s hard to make up with each other due to the distance.

I really need some moral support or advice on how we can make things work between us.

I met Gina through a singles tour held in Cebu, Philippines by A Foreign Affair.

It was love at first sight. Things went well between us and the chemistry is great.

I’ve decided to stay for a couple of months to get to know her better (her family and friends included.)

It was a huge jump from the ordinary but I’m glad I did it.

The fact that I need to come back to the U.S. because of my business that we are stuck with long distance at the moment.

We haven’t talked about marriage since I think it’s still too soon to consider it…

so, long distance will be our biggest obstacle for the meantime.

I’d really appreciate it if you guys can give me advice or suggestion on how I can keep our relationship stay,

if not smoothly, well. I’d also like to ask for advice on how to keep the spark between us to stay alive in this distance.

Please, give me advice.

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