₦airaland Forum

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]i honestly disagree with you, unless you wantto play god you never know if God is waiting to bless you the moment you marry and also i think before you marry find a partner who can add and not only one who is only a house wife /house husband. in our great grand fathers time all couples chip in one way or another. sum up your partner not minus, happy passion Sunday to all naira landers

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

If everyone is from where is born, I believe there will be a sense of belonging to every Nigerian, for example anyone born in sokoto is from sokoto, anyone born in Ogun is from Ogun state then our country will forget about state of origin. we are one as long as we are Naija. It's sad for us to be visiting naija, and feel at home in another country, many well to do Nigerians feel more comfortable having there children outside the country just because they are full citizens there but in their country they are born in a state but actually belong to the state of their parents, state of origin. fellow naira landers do the needful, contributing your quota. long live federal republic of Nigeria! ! !