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I want to know how people battling with social anxiety like me actually cope.
Social anxiety had been a norm right from childhood. I used to think that as people get older they naturally begin to resist social anxiety, but in reality that's not really the case. As a student in the university, parents, siblings and relatives expect you to be socially active, and to be able to represent yourself independently in social events. Most times I avoid going out with my parents or siblings so that they don't notice my flaws. I think breaking out from social anxiety is more than just by reading books ( which I do) but also involves biological factors ( genetic) which most people don't like to talk about.

As for 2019, these are some of the goals I achieved

SAVINGS- I actually started my savings this year, to be precise the last quarter of the year and I was able to smashed past my expectation. Saving just became addictive.

SOCIAL ANXIETY-Well, for this one it has a long history. I think I made progress against it although I can't be too sure because I almost never socialise.


ADDICTION-The addiction I so much wished I could stop was masturbation. Guess what I actually did it. Although most people see it as something spiritual I actually stoped it consciously.

actually I think the owner of the lion is trying to offer himself protection by scaring neighbors with the presence of the lion

but I also think the guy went too far