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Romance › Re: Should I discard her¿¿ by Sirhush(m): 3:37am On Aug 01 |
No be everything them dey advise person on  |
Family › Re: Man Gives 5 Reasons He Doesn't Want Children by Sirhush(m): 10:53am On Jul 25 |
To him now, he know what he is doing  I just hope and pray he won't regret in future. Ko tie si  |
Family › Re: Gen Z Kids Will Think That This Is A Shrine (photo) by Sirhush(m): 10:39am On Jul 25 |
Growing up then was fun  |
Education › Re: Learning Time: What Do You Call These Things? by Sirhush(m): 10:25am On Jul 25 |
Toymax88: Hallway and gangway, are they the same? If not that we learn everyday, i for tell you leave oyinbo for who get am  |
Romance › Re: Drunk Man Promised Lady ₦500k At The Club, But Gave Her ₦20k In The Morning by Sirhush(m): 6:51pm On Jul 24 |
Na still win win for her, so make she take am like that  |
Romance › Re: Men Does Not Enjoy Sex Let Me Prove It by Sirhush(m): 5:30pm On Jul 24 |
If you no enjoy sex as a guy,  it mean na over used naija girl you dey carry  |
Romance › Re: Man Wears Pink Pant & Waist Beads To Welcome Oyinbo Lover At Lagos Airport by Sirhush(m): 9:44am On Jul 24 |
The guy Bleep up by dressing that way, he only want to make the front page just like this, anyway congratulations to both of them |
Romance › Re: Don’t Sleep With Widows, Their Late Husbands’ Spirits May Attack Your Income” by Sirhush(m): 9:50am On Jul 23 |
And you call this one man of God  |
Romance › Re: “A Poor Man Has No Place In My Heart,” Says Tiktoker Jima Emmanuel (Photos/Video by Sirhush(m): 9:45am On Jul 23 |
I pray make them no use this one last last  |
Romance › Re: Do You Trust Your Loyal GF To Decline A $500 One Night Stand Offer? by Sirhush(m): 9:39am On Jul 23 |
No be only girlfriend,  even some people mother's will say yes to this  Abi no be 750,000 k you dey talk about  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: South African Man Laments Businesses Dying After Foreigners Left (photos/video) by Sirhush(m): 11:30am On Jul 22 |
But dey believe dey can do it alone,  so let them continue  |
Family › Re: Nigerian Man Publicly Vows Never To Cheat Before Wife Brings Him To Canada(Video by Sirhush(m): 11:28am On Jul 22 |
Treasure17: This is really weird. A controlling woman right there and quite surprised the man accepted such. Na why as a man, try get money to avoid all this shit 😒 |
Romance › Re: Drama As Canada-based Wife Forces Husband To Publicly Swear On FB & Whatsapp Bef by Sirhush(m): 11:18am On Jul 22 |
Nothing married man eye no go see for Nigeria  |
Romance › Re: Before A Woman Leaves. by Sirhush(m): 10:40am On Jul 22 |
If she want to leave, it fine  but make she no come back oo  |
Romance › Re: Poor Men Should Be Regarded As Non-binary. by Sirhush(m): 10:35am On Jul 22 |
No be all talk person dey put mouth  |
Romance › Re: Lady Reveal How She Locked The Rich Men She Is Dating, Nobody Lock A Poor Man by Sirhush(m): 10:00am On Jul 20 |
Na woman go use her hand take spoil her life  |
Romance › Re: Geh Geh And Others Have Ruined So Many Relationships by Sirhush(m): 9:51pm On Jul 18 |
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Romance › Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Sirhush(m): 4:26pm On Jul 17 |
ThinkSmarter: Yes, especially at the initial stage of the marriage when she's still young. Only upgrade her when she has birthed up to two kids or more, and then be emotionally ready to face whatever that comes. Cuz, she may change. She may start disrespecting your authority and she may start diverting resources to her family. Except, she is an exceptional good wife, which you should be able to know from the few years you have lived together. Cuz, few good wives still exist regardless of the high number of bad ones. And while upgrading your wife, make sure the wealth control is 70:30. Cuz, anything close to 50:50 will make her to see you as her equal or less. But, if she's exceptional like I pinpointed. Cuz, some women are human builders and good in managing wealth. You can fully empower her and maker her the CEO of your family wealth. Cuz, deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management. deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management. Well said  |
Romance › Re: “I’m 41, Single & Searching” – Lady Offers ₦10M To Any Man Who Marries Her by Sirhush(m): 12:55pm On Jul 17 |
She maybe looking for husband but that not her real age  |
Romance › Re: Rhennie: I Slept With 3 Guys In A Day - Nigerian Lady (video) by Sirhush(m): 11:29am On Jul 17 |
Na woman go use her hand finish her pussy by her self  Some woman dont know how to say no  Meanwhile your pussy mile keep increasing  |
Romance › Re: 80s And 90s Romance And Dating by Sirhush(m): 6:14am On Jul 14 |
You can see how ladies dress then,  But now unko, dey believe until dey open there body before man will call them  Some even share there nudes online  Orishi rishi  |
Crime › Re: Lieutenant Felix Ademe Isaac Killed During Oyo Rescue Operation, Buried (photos) by Sirhush(m): 3:41pm On Jul 13 |
Rip gallant  |
Romance › Re: The UK Dating Trap: What Many Nigerians Don't See Coming by Sirhush(m): 2:55pm On Jul 13 |
lagonovo: @MrPresident1 cc: @Shikena So you stop fooling yourself by playing the ostrich.
BWALA, WHERE DO YOU LIVE?! – A Scathing Open Letter to a Clueless Adviser Who Thinks ₦60k Is Living Large.
By RRH LANE
Mr. Daniel Bwala, with all due respect (which is currently hovering at exactly ₦0.00), which country are you living in? Because it certainly isn't the Nigeria the rest of us are desperately trying to survive in.
You sat comfortably—likely in an air-conditioned room with stable NEPA (sorry, grumbling generators) and a full fridge—and told Nigerians earning ₦60,000 that they are "better off" than those who "Japa" to the UK. You called care home workers "modern-day slaves."
Mr. Bwala, hypocrisy is not a policy communication strategy, and gaslighting a starving population is not a job description. Let's peel this onion until it burns your eyes, shall we?
1. ₦60,000? That's Not a Salary; That's a Death Sentence
Let's do basic mathematics—the kind they teach in Primary 3.
· A 50kg bag of rice today? ₦80,000 - ₦85,000. · A litre of petrol? Pushing ₦900 - ₦1,000. · Transport to work in Lagos for one month? At least ₦40,000 if you're lucky.
Mr. Bwala, if a Nigerian earns ₦60,000, they cannot afford just the bag of rice for the month, let alone transport, rent, school fees, or healthcare. They are not "better off"—they are one sickness away from the village cemetery. You are telling a man with a bleeding ulcer to reject a £2,600 monthly salary in the UK because he'll pay high rent? Meanwhile, in Nigeria, he can't even afford the paracetamol to stop the headache you're giving us with your foolish talk!
2. The Hypocrisy Hall of Fame: You Ran There First!
Here is the part that makes my blood boil: You are a UK resident!
You, Daniel Bwala, have tasted the comfort of the West. You know what it feels like to walk on paved roads without dodging okada riders. You know what it feels like to have 24/7 electricity. You know what it means to send your child to a school where they actually teach without being kidnapped.
And now that you've secured your spot in the cold, you want to turn around and lock the door behind you? You want to tell the young Nigerian doctor, the brilliant engineer, the desperate graduate that they should "stay" and suffer because you say so?
You cannot enjoy the chicken in the UK and tell the man in Nigeria to be happy with the bones. That is not advice; that is wickedness dressed in a suit.
3. "Modern-Day Slavery"? Insult to the Migrant, Insult to History
You had the audacity to call UK care work "modern-day slavery."
Mr. Bwala, do you know what modern-day slavery looks like? It looks like a Nigerian lecturer earning ₦60k after 10 years of service, forced to hawk sachet water after work to feed his kids. It looks like a nurse in a government hospital treating 50 patients with two pairs of gloves because there are no supplies.
Those migrants you mock are heroes. They work 12-hour shifts in care homes, scrub toilets, and carry the elderly—not because they love it, but because they are fighting for their families. They send those "scraps" you mock back home as remittances—over $22 billion annually—keeping the Nigerian economy afloat while your government mismanages oil money. Without them, Nigeria would have collapsed already. Show some respect!
4. The Real Delusion: Your Salary vs. Their Reality
Let's talk about your paycheck, Mr. Special Adviser. How much does the Federal Government pay you? Is it ₦60,000? No! Is it ₦600,000? Probably more!
You live in a bubble of SUVs, security details, and diplomatic passports. You have no idea what it means to wake up at 4 AM to queue for fuel, or to sit in traffic for 4 hours on the Lagos-Ibadan road, or to pay "levies" to touts just to sell pure water.
You lecture us about "family support cushions" while you sit in the Presidential Villa. Do you know that for the average Nigerian, "family support" means 10 unemployed relatives sleeping on your parlor floor, all depending on that ₦60k? That is not a cushion; that is a millstone around the neck!
5. The Challenge: Come and Survive on ₦60k for One Month
Here is my final word to you, Mr. Bwala.
If you truly believe that ₦60,000 is a "superior" life, resign your job immediately. Forfeit your UK visa. Cancel your children's UK schooling. Move to a face-me-I-face-you apartment in Mushin or Ajegunle. Live on exactly ₦60,000 for 30 days—no generator, no driver, no security, no family sending you foreign currency.
Try to feed, transport, and hydrate yourself for just one week.
If you survive, come back and talk. But we both know you wouldn't last 48 hours.
So please, Mr. Bwala, spare us the lectures. Japa is not the disease—it is the symptom of a government that fails to provide light, security, or hope. Until you fix the country, stop mocking the people who are smart enough to run away from the dumpster fire.
You are out of touch. You are out of order. And frankly, you are out of your mind.
#DanielBwala #Japa #JapaIsNotTheDisease #NigeriaEconomy #EndBadGovernance #60kIsPoverty #HypocrisyAtItsPeak #BwalaMustHear #NaijaYouth #BrainDrain #RemittancesKeepUsAlive #TinubuAdviser #GaslightingNigeria #ComeAndSurviveOn60k #OurMothersAreNotSlaves #JapaMovement #NigeriaWeHustle #EarnYourKeep #SpeakTruthToPower #PepperDem 💪🏿💚 |
Celebrities › Re: There Is Some Truth To ‘School na Scam’ – Jim Iyke by Sirhush(m): 11:29am On Jul 11 |
No knowledge is waste  |
Crime › Re: ‘We Work For Abuja Alhaji’ – Abubakar Usman (Bandit) Confesses by Sirhush(m): 1:01pm On Jul 09 |
Before killing him, dey should try get some information about that alihaji. Cos na them dey fund them |
Career › Re: Passing Out Parade, Nigerian Army Depot At Ebonyi State by Sirhush(m): 12:52pm On Jul 09 |
When you join the Nigeria army, you living long is 50/50 must expecially when you don't know oga at the top.  Anyway I wish them all the best  |
Romance › Re: Marrying A Man You Are Feeding Wont Work-nkechi Blessing by Sirhush(m): 11:47am On Jul 08 |
Nigerian guyz too are not ready to settle for less. You see woman coming from 🇺🇸 🇬🇧 and also 🌎 around the world to pick our men  So na there make you sit down with your money. You will know better when you ageing  |
Crime › Re: Police Arrest 11 LAUTECH Students Over Alleged Cultism In Ogbomoso(video) by Sirhush(m): 11:37am On Jul 08 |
Once you join Cultizm, just know you dont have rest of mind, for the rest of your life  |
Romance › Re: Don't Marry Someone Hoping You Will Change Them by Sirhush(m): 11:28am On Jul 08 |
MrSword: Anything you are seeing in relationship...once you enter marriage...it will be promax.
Those that cheat in relationships...will cheat more in marriage. Those that beat their partners...will do worst in marriage.
Marriage doesn't change anybody...it only reveal the true color of that person. You say my mind, just imagine you place your woman on monthly allowance. And yet she still cheat on you.  just like i use to say, woman don't know what dey want  Dey are very confusing human  |
Romance › Re: She Collected 4500 And Put my number In Blacklist by Sirhush(m): 11:21am On Jul 08 |
How i wish you give am the last 2k  to make the money 6500. She for show up on Sunday  So definitely na you Bleep up like that  |
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Ended The Relationship, But Still Wants Me To Cook For Him by Sirhush(m): 5:31am On Jul 07 |
Take this meat 🍖 you say na bone. Then trow it away, you still say small meat dey there  What you can't eat, pls don't smell it  |